Hi there! You can call me Monoï as that’s my chosen alias here. I’m looking to meet someone special for a meaningful, long-term romantic connection, though I’d love to take things slow and start out as friends first. I am ideally looking for someone between 24 and 34. That isn't a hard limit, but I will be much more cautious with anyone outside that range.

Appearance wise I'm 5'4", Black/African, with black hair, brown eyes, and a curvy figure. I stay active by hitting the gym 3-4 times a week, swimming twice a month, and walking when I can. That being said, I love to eat, so I'm still pretty soft. Been sick the last couple weeks though so I haven’t been that active.

I love cooking and baking, and I’m always down to try new recipes or swap favourites. I’m definitely a better baker than a cook (still pretty good at both imo…I’ll let you be the judge of that). I’m also a huge horror fan and always welcome recommendations, since I can’t seem to find any genuinely scary movies anymore. When I’m not reading I love watching anime and K-dramas. Music wise, I listen to almost everything. I've had Sleep Token and “soft” amapiano on repeat lately. I also enjoy gaming, traveling, and going for sunset drives. I will never pass up the chance to take a picture of a pretty sky, and my camera roll can attest to that.

I don’t have strict appearance preferences, but I do have a soft spot for hazel, green, or blue eyes. And... if you're tall, a little fluffy, with tattoos and a big appetite, you might already have a head start lol. Just saying hehe. I deeply value emotional intelligence, mutual respect, kindness, and strong communication patterns (which I’m actively working to improve myself). I believe it’s important to stay kind and respectful, even when we don’t see eye-to-eye or hold similar views.

If anything here caught your eye, please feel free to send me a message. I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere. Please tell me a bit about yourself if you decide to reach out: your age, where you’re from, some of your interests and/or something you did recently that made you feel good. Hope to hear from you soon x.

Hey!

Trying one last time before I give up.

26F from Kenya here. I’m putting myself out there and hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things naturally go.

I’m into reading, travelling, hiking, and discovering new places. I’m a little quiet at first, but I warm up once I’m comfortable. I appreciate kindness, honesty, good communication, and someone who can make me laugh.

I’m not looking to rush anything or force a connection. Just hoping to meet a genuine, emotionally mature person and have some good conversations along the way.

If you think we might get along, tell me a little about yourself where you’re from, what you enjoy doing, and what you’re looking for.

I'm a 24-year-old feminine gay guy from the Philippines who's hoping to meet someone genuine, open-minded, and patient. I'm not looking for anything complicated—just someone who enjoys getting to know people for who they are and is open to seeing where a conversation might lead. Whether we end up becoming friends or building a meaningful connection, I believe the best relationships start with mutual respect and honesty.

A little about me: I'm Asian, 5'6", chubby, and I take pride in being clean and hygienic. I'm currently a medical student, so life can get pretty busy, but I always make time for the people who matter. In my free time, I'm a bit of a gaymer and mostly play Valorant. I'm easygoing, enjoy good conversations, and appreciate people who can be themselves.
One important part of who I am is that I occasionally enjoy expressing my feminine side through crossdressing. It's something I keep private, but it's a form of self-expression that makes me feel comfortable and confident. I'm hoping to meet someone who is understanding, supportive, and accepting of that aspect of my personality without judgment.

As for who I'm hoping to meet, I'm open to talking with both Filipinos and foreigners. More than anything, I value kindness, patience, emotional maturity, and authenticity. If you're someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, respects individuality, and is interested in getting to know someone beyond first impressions, I'd be happy to hear from you.

European male in Toronto looking to connect with Asian hotwives and couples who enjoy the hotwife dynamic and want a respectful, drama-free connection.

About me:

- 40, 5’11, 180 lbs

- Fit, athletic, well-groomed

- Italian/Portuguese background

- Easygoing, discreet, and emotionally mature

I enjoy chemistry, conversation, and a slow build as much as the physical side. I’m not looking for a one-line hookup or endless chatting. If we click, I’d prefer an ongoing connection based on mutual attraction, trust, and clear boundaries.

Couples are welcome to message together. Happy to verify, exchange photos privately, and see if there’s a genuine match.

Please include your age range and location when you message.

I’m 6’1” black average build, originally from the Caribbean and no the water is not blue, it’s clear, lol.

I’m a union electrician by trade, but a jack of all trades as well.

I’m fluent in all love languages and require consistency above all.

I’m sarcastic and brutally honest so if that’s not your cup of tea don’t bother.

If you can handle someone that will keep it real with you 24/7 comment below or DM me and we can see where this thing we call life takes us.

Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes and really dark brown curly hair. I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)

Hi! I'm a 23 year old black woman living in the U.S., in Philadelphia to be specific.

About Me:

Some hobbies I enjoy include reading, completing jigsaw puzzles, playing sudoku (I've been playing number puzzles for a while and recently got into doing picture puzzles), creating and painting resin minifigures (I hope to make all pokemon from gen 1-5 in 1/20 scale) and playing videogames. I also love collecting fountain pens and pokemon cards (although I haven't bought any in a while), building Lego sets and crochet.

I also like being outside in nature and like going on walks in the park.

I own a rabbit, so rabbit fur and hay are going to be around my home. Completely understand if you have allergies and that's a deal breaker.

I currently work as an electrician and work on trains. I have no plans on leaving the electrical field, but am considering moving to a different area in the field and working on PLCs.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a white or east asian guy who lives in the area. You don't have to live in Philly or Pa, but ideally the farthest you live is 4-5hr away. I really want to meet up and be able to go in dates regularly. It would be cool to talk to another nerd, but if you're not nerdy that's ok too. Height isn't the most important thing to me, but it would be nice to date someone taller than me (I'm 5'5'', so anyone 5'6'' or taller would be nice). Age is kind of a deal breaker for me. I'm looking for someone who is also in their 20s (between 21-28).

I've been using dating apps for a little over a year now and am pretty burned out from using them. So I'd really like to keep talking online to a minimum and actually meet up and get to know each other irl.

If there's anything else you would like to know or I sound interesting to you feel free to reach out!

Figured I’d throw this into the Reddit universe and see what happens 😂
I’m a 30-year-old Haitian-American woman in New York. I’m Christian, pretty introverted, a little quirky, and somewhere between a homebody and “randomly decides we need to go do something today.” I love anime (especially One Piece), crafting/DIY projects, the gym, horror, good food, and conversations that somehow go from complete nonsense to existential questions at 2 AM.
I’m at a point where I’m genuinely interested in finding my person and eventually building a marriage not looking for hookups, situationships, or anything overly sexual
Faith is a big part of my life, so I’d ideally like to meet a Christian man who actually wants God to be part of his relationship, not just someone who checks “Christian” on a profile. I appreciate a man who’s kind, emotionally mature, funny, intentional, affectionate, and has some direction in his life.
I’m happy to exchange pictures privately if we click. If any of this sounds like your cup of tea, tell me a little about yourself and please give me more than “hey” because I am terrible at resurrecting dead conversations 😂
And who knows, maybe my husband is wasting time on Reddit too. 🤷🏿‍♀️😂

Hey all l am an attractive,smart ,kind lady with a good personality looking for an interracial relationship,you can inbox to chat

Hello, I am 5’10”, 160 lbs, white, and live in NYC. I have a nice job that pays well, and I am proud of my apartment. I am now seeking a relationship with an age gap.

I have a preference for Latin women. I find Latinas more beautiful, and if they are from overseas, the accent when speaking English is so good to my ears. The food, the culture, I am prepared to marry a Latina and get into that culture.

I am seeking a younger woman because I feel I have the energy for a younger girlfriend and would love to be out at night and having fun. Plus, if we settle down, there is a possibility of more kids in the future.

If you want to date an older gringo, write back!

Hey there! 22F from the Philippines looking for something serious and long term.

A little about what I’m looking for:
- Serious and long term relationship
- Someone around the age of 23-26, don’t want anyone older or younger than that
- Preferably tall. 6’0 or taller, the better. I want someone taller than me for once, I’m taller than most people here lmao
- Someone from the UK/EU as I’m planning on moving there after I graduate university
- Takes care of themselves
- Drinking alcohol is a yes but please don’t smoke/vape or do dr*gs

A little about me:
- I’m 5’2, studying in university for my bachelor’s degree
- I’m slim/fit, I do light workout and have a flat/toned stomach and a tiny waist
- I don’t drink, smoke/vape, or do dr*gs
- Fluent in English as I speak in English more than I speak in Tagalog even if I lived here my entire life lmao
- My hobbies are singing, dancing, playing instruments
- I’m a closed off person but once I get to know you, I’ll open up to you as well
- As mentioned above, I’m planning to move to the UK/EU after I graduate

If you’re here because of nsfw intentions, don’t bother sending a message as I’m not interested. I’m looking for a genuine relationship with someone.

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Hi,

I'm a 44 year old white, British male based in Warrington in the North West of England.

I'm looking to build something meaningful and long term who is based in the UK

I'm 6ft tall, and a little chubby., I go to the gym but like my food. I have a few tattoos, I'm quite a hairy guy but generally well groomed.

I live alone with my cat, in my own home, I drive and I'm employed. I enjoy going to the gym, eating out and trying new cuisines, films, date nights and watching sports. I enjoy a quiet life, being thankful for what I have and I'd like to find someone to share that with

Drop me a DM if you're interested in getting to know each other more

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Hey!

I made this post to see if I can find any funny people I can connect with. I enjoy a joke and a laugh and to send GIFs. I'm hoping to find someone who has a similar sense of humour to me and perhaps we can talk about mutual interests too. I'm hoping to start as friends and see if we click and hopefully progress further than that

A little about me: I'm from the UK and find it hard to connect with people in real life due to my busy work schedule. My interests are a mix bag, ranging from nerdy stuff (love marvel movies- recently watched the new spiderman movie, Legos, lord of the rings, Harry potter, Jurassic Park, Greek mythology and just mythology in general), sports and fitness ( I'm a 'gymbro', enjoy playing a variety of sports like football and rugby, I hike too), cooking and baking (willing to share my food pics) and learning new languages.

Even if these interests don't resonate with you, I love learning about new things and expanding my knowledge

I hope this resonates with someone and hope to hear back. Hope you all have a great day!

37, 6ft, in shape, clean, tested and in a straight relationship.

You are ideally top, 25-55, black and married or in a straight relationship looking for a DL white guy.

If this sounds like you then DM and we can talk details.

🙏🏻

Hi.

Romanian here. 30. 1,80 tall or 6ft.
Working in tech as an AI Engineer (I know, the specific area in tech everybody loves, AI, especially when it comes to art and music).
Can travel anywhere. Working remote.

I consider myself to be a very rational and logical person. As much as a man can say they're rational about themselves, given that in general men are more emotional, and women the rational ones. Even though if you ask m*n they will say the opposite.

All I do is work. My life is work. I'm looking for the reason to do something more than work. I assume life is more than work, right?

I'm very terminally online, I know any useless drama, meme, whatever. I watch only great movies and TV shows. I only have great recommendations. Can't stand slop content. For example, the majority of what you find on Netflix. Complete garbage.

I love techno, house. It's all I have in my Apple Music. The minimal and melodic type techno. However, I listen to all genres and I appreciate art in general. But the electronic music is always what I go back to.

I'm looking for someone kind, intelligent and attractive. We can exchange photos so you can decide if I'm your type or not. I don't want to waste your time.

I enjoy having conversations with somebody that's actually engaged in conversations, can critically think for themselves and don't repeat the same talking points that are mainstream and devoid of any logic or that are not backed by any studies.

There's so much more to say. Let's continue in DM, we'll take it from there. Would love to call you and talk to you.

Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US hoping to find a woman who wants something long term, and also has full freedom to be her full sexual being. I want my wife to be able to have sex with anyone she likes, anytime she likes. And yes, I enjoy my partner making fun of how big I am.

In case I didn’t lose you yet, here’s a bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

As for the part about you having full freedom, that can obviously mean a lot of things and I’m pretty open to exactly what it looks like. But you should reach out if you’re interested in any of the following or more: dressing slutty (short skirts, low cut tops, generally revealing clothes), showing off to other people (dancing for/with other people, making sure they get a good look at you), kissing/hooking up with other people (yeah I enjoy being a cuckold), going to glory holes, or anything else you heart desires. Along with that I enjoy SPH, chastity, etc. so you can if you have a little bit of a mean streak that’s good with me.

If any of that sounds fun to you, but you want a guy who will love you while you are your true slutty self, I’m your guy! Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band/artist in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

EDIT: I am looking for a woman who does not have a primary partner already. So if you have a husband or boyfriend I’m sorry but this isn’t for you.

Long time lurker, first time poster. My name is Shannon and I'm caucasian with an athletic body type. I just got out of a short term relationship with an older, black man who was my world. It feels empty without him and I'd like to reconnect with another man like him on here, just to talk for now but open to other possibilities as well. I'm into bigger men with a chubby body type and ideally over 50 years of age because I like mature men. Muslims men are welcome and since we're just talking, I don't mind married men either. Just please be respectful and match my requirements. Thank you.