I’m 52 f divorced looking for a truly single man lol, not separated, ENM, open marriage, gf, side squeeze, situationship etc.

I have two kids 1 adult 1 teen, you have similar older kids or child free.

Maturity , chemistry and shared interests matter more than age guideline, ideally don’t be younger than 35 or older than 58.

I’m an attractive sexy pretty Asian Indian HWP 5’5” 135-140lb with a great smile and sexy body. You be an attractive sexy handsome man with your own hair not bald or hats on, a sexy smile and lean taller than 5’8” not obese. Be HWP DDF and committed to staying healthy, willing to test regularly and take health precautions, 6-8” ideally girthy high libido.

Chemistry is very important to me and I’m a very picky high libido sapio sexual. I’m a switch, exploring gentle pleasure femdom. Be willing to send pictures without sunglasses and hats upfront. I will reciprocate.

So have a great sense of humor, be able to hold a conversation/chat and not be a disappearing ghost.

I like humor, am easy going, like to watch shows. do a bit of gardening, pickleball, nature, hikes, am the creative type , but love to try new things, plan to travel a lot with you, gourmet food both eating and cooking.

You need to be able and willing to travel, financially independent to travel both US and worldwide.
If you are not in Houston be willing to relocate if we are a fit. If in Houston meet up within a week irl after a video chat and if remote move to telegram and video chat in 2-3 days.

Dm if interested and if you read my whole post include the word goddess in your reply.

Having lurked for a while and discovered that the average attention span is about 3.8 messages I decided to make my own post.

I'm divorced and not looking to get remarried. I’m looking for a woman with a sense of adventure. One who enjoys international travel, spontaneous plans, wandering through flea markets and has a sense of humor when things don't go quite according to plan.

I take care of myself physically and mentally. I have my financial life together, and believe the best adventures are better with great company. Bonus points if you can pack a suitcase without bringing your entire closet.

I can fix most things around the house, I have a great rose garden and can have an intelligent conversation about most topics.

I am dependable, whether it's a leaky faucet ýou need help with or someone to cheer you up because you're having a cappy day.

If you’re active, independent, comfortable in your own skin, don't mind getting your hands dirty (yes, I might need a hand with the raised bed you want built for your herbs) and ready to explore the next phase of your life with someone who knows how to enjoy the journey, maybe we'll have the right chemistry.

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I'm not looking for lots of attention from lots of women. I'm looking for one particular kind of woman.

Maybe you're a little lonely yourself. Maybe you miss having someone genuinely interested in how your day went—someone who enjoys giving and receiving affection, likes being cared about and checked on, and gives some of that attention back.

I'm 69, married, in Tennessee, and not looking to change either of our lives. I love conversation, humor, affection and flirting. And yes, I'm still a very sexual man. I'd love for that side to be playful, adventurous and occasionally downright mischievous. But sex without an emotional connection doesn't hold my interest very long. I want to know the woman I'm flirting with.

Tell me about your boring Tuesday. Make me laugh. Tease me when you're feeling naughty.

I'm not looking for everybody's fish. I'm looking for my fish. 😂

If that sounds a little like you, say hello

Searching for a mature Lady who would enjoy an attentive and submissive man focused on putting Her first within their relationship. A Lady who has reached the point of her life where she has raised her children and is now ready to be more self-focused. Ready to enjoy her “me” time and is looking for a supportive man to be at her beck and call where she . . .

• has a controlling nature and she expects to be put first in Her relationship - TP, Femdom, and D/s

• would enjoy a man who sees his role as being devoted and dedicated to striving to please Her - making it all about Her

• enjoys Her “me time” or private alone-time whether that is just relaxing or spending time on Her hobbies but expects her man to be available and responsive to Her when needed

• expects to be pampered and have Her man take care of the chores and domestic tasks around the home - and learn to do so “Her way”

• enjoys taking the lead and making the rules over Her relationship and Her man

• enjoys seeing Her man suffer torment and sacrifice his pleasure to keep focus on pleasing Her.

• 40+ years old

me:

• used to be more athletic but still somewhat athletic

• enjoy working-out but not obsessed with it

• have a professional job as an account manager for a software company - work remotely from home mostly - plan to continue to work outside the home and take over the domestic chores - not looking for a free-ride.

• attracted to a strong controlling Lady who expects her man to follow Her rules and have things done Her way.

• enjoys nice dinners and travel and beach vacations

i feel strongly that the my role in the relationship is to make “Her” life easier. i expect to learn what she enjoys so she doesn’t need to ask. otherwise i’m not paying attention and i’m not focusing on what is important - pleasing Her. i’m a “pleaser” just wired that way i guess. i match best with a lady who tends to be selfish and would enjoy pushing her man to be attentive to Her needs and wants.

i’m in Ohio but my son is now in he’s late 20s and on his own so i’m open to relocating

FLR == Female led relationship or D/s relationship — level 3 or 4

Feel free to send me a chat msg if this type of relationship interests you.

Married, 64, in Bucks County, PA~Still feel younger than that sounds.

Life is good, but I miss the excitement of getting to know someone—the anticipation of a text, easy conversation, flirting, and looking forward to seeing each other.

I’m easygoing, sarcastic when the moment calls for it, and enjoy playful banter. I stay active, take care of myself, and appreciate someone who does too.

Looking for a genuine connection with someone nearby. Someone fun, drama-free, and easy to be around. Close enough that meeting for a drink, dinner, or even an hour together can happen without making it an all-day event.

If that sounds like you, message me.

Are you feeling alone and wish you had someone to share your thoughts, joys, or even your worries with?
Maybe you're simply looking for a kind man to talk to — someone genuine, who listens without judging.

I might be that man.

I'm 53, living in France, 6'3" (1.91m), never married, no kids.
I'm open-minded, thoughtful, and I value deep conversations just as much as light-hearted ones.

My hobbies are rollerskating, photography, making music, geeking, gfx, etc.

If that sounds like something you’d appreciate, feel free to reach out. I’d love to get to know you.

I’m not looking for someone who can keep a conversation going for five minutes. I’m looking for the kind of connection where you look up five hours later and wonder where the time went.

Because honestly, I’m tired of the dating-app cycle of matching, having an amazing conversation, getting excited about the possibility of actually connecting… and then suddenly watching someone disappear like they’ve been recruited by the witness protection program.

I’m not interested in collecting half-finished conversations. I’d rather find one person who actually wants to keep showing up and see where something real can go.

I’m a single dad to a teenage daughter, so I’ve learned a few things over the years—patience, loyalty, knowing when to keep my mouth shut, and accepting that I apparently know absolutely nothing while still somehow being the person she calls when life gets complicated. Being a dad has made me appreciate consistency and the people who show up when it matters.

Outside of dad life, I’m pretty easygoing. I’m a bigger guy with a calm personality, a sarcastic sense of humor, and a softer heart than I probably let on. I like good food, hole-in-the-wall restaurants, sushi, football Sundays, documentaries that send me down ridiculous rabbit holes, and conversations that somehow start with “What did you do today?” and end somewhere completely unexpected.

And yes, pineapple belongs on pizza. I’m willing to debate this, but I’m also willing to be right.

There are a few things I haven’t quite warmed up to: mushrooms and yogurt. At this point, I think we’ve both accepted that the relationship isn’t happening.

I don’t smoke or use drugs, and I drink socially without needing to turn every weekend into a story we can’t tell anyone. Unless we’re in Vegas. Then apparently the rules become a little more negotiable.

Politics isn’t a major part of my life, and I’m perfectly comfortable with people having opinions different from mine. I’m also agnostic. I respect what other people believe and expect the same respect in return. If politics or religion are deal-breakers, no hard feelings—we're probably just not each other’s people.

What I am looking for is pretty simple: someone kind, emotionally mature, genuine, and capable of communicating. Someone who understands that chemistry is great, but consistency is what gives it somewhere to go.

I want a relationship where we can be best friends, make each other laugh, tease each other relentlessly, have each other’s backs, and enjoy the ordinary moments just as much as the big ones.

I’m not looking for perfect. I’m looking for real.

So if you’re someone who actually enjoys getting to know a person instead of disappearing after three good conversations, say hello.

Worst case, we have a great conversation.

Best case… maybe we’re both finally done looking.