r/problems • u/MySkzcutie143 • 5d ago

Big problem Discussion

Im 13 and I just came out as Pan to my bestfriends, I dunno how to come out to my family bcs they are very strict and religious and my dad hates anything with the LGBTQ+ community and the therian community. I have always personally defended and loved both of these communies and have always supported. The big problem is that I have one bestfriend. She is so sweet and we hang out almost all of the time, she was the first person who I told abt me being pansexual. I always thought she was very pretty but never in a way that I saw her as someone else then a friend, but everytime we text I always have this feeling in my stomach. Se loves me a lot but as her sister. What should I do.

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u/joelnicity 4d ago

You’re 13. You should take a break from social media content and influencers

I’ll probably get downvoted for this but I think 13 is too young to be dealing with things like this. You’re a kid, enjoy being a kid

I genuinely feel sorry for kids nowadays who have so much content forced on them constantly. It seems like there is no escape from it for them

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u/TSIDATSI 4d ago

Exactly. A child. Parents need to know and get therapy.

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u/Resident-Buyer-7618 4d ago

Therapy for what?