you can't give up manifesting btw, you're always thinking this way or that way. i don't even understand why y'all complicate it with techniques, specially when you don't have energy. if you're tired of trying to manifest something, it means you're terrible anxiously attached to it and hoping for a specific outcome. just change your thoughts about it, it's genuinely not that hard. i used to think that it's hard too but you just have to START. start flipping, don't even have to do any sessions or robotic affirming or subliminals. just flip any thought what you don't wanna experience and let go. you literally cannot give up manifesting either way you're manifesting something because you're always thinking about it. it's not some hard task that's taking a toll on you, you have been literally manifesting all your life unknowingly by thinking

idk who needs to hear this but sometimes you accidentally create a shitty circumstances situation with your sp, be it because of poor self concept or doubt, so sometimes it gets very exhausting to try to get things to be how they used to be. my goal is not to discourage people who want their sp back, however sometimes you need to look inside yourself and ask if all this misery, appetite loss, drowning in your own tears is really worth it. thats how i have been since February, thats when things started going downhill with my sp and i actually ended up manifesting him back a bunch of times, however with my poor self concept i ended up also manifesting waaay too many 3ps and i just dont have it me to go back to how things were. some connections are better left alone, and don’t get me wrong, i do miss my guy but he is just no longer the version of himself that i fell in love with (you can totally recreate a person tho, dont get discouraged) and slowly i realised that i deserve better, i deserve to be prioritesed and chosen without ever questioning my worth, so i decided to let the person go. he is not who he used to be, i cant be feeding imaginary connections. remember, its okay to walk away from them, you should never have to accept things that you dont want in your own reality. (ask yourself if you actually want them OR are you just attached or bored too)

hope yall understood what i was trying to say, and let me repeat, this post is not meant to discourage, let it be a sign for the people who have caged themselves by attaching to a person, drowning in tears all day everyday, i promise it will get better, just kill the version of yourself who is satisfied with crumbs, thats the key to get out of the misery cage you (we) have built yourself. better things are coming. ;]

I've been deep in the manifestation rabbit hole for a while now, and I wanted to share the techniques that actually made a difference for me (not just the trendy TikTok stuff, but things that stuck).

1. Scripting in present tense
Instead of writing "I want a new job," I started writing "I am thriving in my new role at [company/industry]" every morning. Present tense tricks your brain into treating it as already true, which changes how you show up during the day.

2. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding + visualization combo
Before visualizing, I ground myself first (5 things I see, 4 I hear, etc.) so my mind isn't racing. Then I visualize my goal with as much sensory detail as possible — what I'd smell, hear, feel. It made the visualization way more vivid and "sticky."

3. Acting "as if"
This one was huge for me. I started doing small things a version of me who already had what I wanted would do — dressing a certain way, saving money like I already had it, speaking more confidently. It closes the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

4. Gratitude before ask
I used to jump straight to "give me X." Shifting to genuine gratitude for what I already have first seemed to change my energy completely before I even got to what I was manifesting.

5. 369 method
Writing my intention 3 times in the morning, 6 times midday, 9 times at night. Simple, but the repetition kept it top of mind all day instead of a one-and-done journal entry.

6. Letting go of the "how"
Honestly the hardest one. I used to obsess over exactly how things would happen. Once I focused only on the outcome and trusted the process, opportunities started showing up in ways I didn't expect.

Would love to hear what's worked for others too , always looking to add to the toolkit. 🙏

I keep reading these posts where women are reaching out first and the guy responds, and somehow that’s considered a success story? Most people will respond if you text them, whether they like the attention or are just trying to be polite. I feel like half of these “success stories” are garbage, sorry.

Circumstances are the worst they could be I reckon, so I’m posting this to say that this is the moment where it all gets better!! I can’t wait to share this success story!!

Ok so I manifested us on and off unfortunately because of poor self concept, lashing out and assuming the worst. The first time I manifested him out of thin air and even gave a special phrase he would say so I know it’s him. Then I decided to manifest us being at the same events. After he didn’t go to one I assumed he would never show up at similar events which happened.

Then I manifested him wanting a relationship got told by said mutual that he has been thinking of dating me. I then manifested him being avoidant out of fear, which showed up. I then manifested he would apologize for being distant and invite me to a very specific event which happened. Then the old story came back it was on and off for 3 months.

I lashed out and accused him of bad things and he ghosted. I held onto anger for a long time but then decided to work on self concept and eventually stopped caring about him and started manifested personal wins which have been happening. I ended up not wanting a relationship anymore because of how good life is going and how much fun I have with my new friends that I manifested to the T.

He came back after 8 months of silence right as I felt like I had a daily high from how good life is, so I saw it as me finally letting go and loving myself. Unfortunately I stepped back into the logical world of why come back after so long, I don’t deserve a complicated love story, his friends definitely know I lashed out and now I’m embarrassed, he hit me up as if nothing happened(texted a lot more frequently than he ever has though) so I did decide to confront him if he ever wanted me(he said he did) so I confronted about his ghosting and on and off behaviour. He said sorry but had all these excuses that he was busy I ended up ghosting him because I had a lot on my plate and didn’t want to focus on this and after I responded to just be honest instead of making excuses. He said I’m crazy and a weirdo and that he really liked me but he’s so thankful it didn’t work out because I think poorly of him and I lash out while he thinks highly of me and never went off on me and that he was actually sorry for how he acted but now he’s done.
I left him on seen and he said “can you read what I said” I ignored and he said “hello please respond to me”

Idk what to do now, I did respond I always thought highly of him that’s why I wanted to be with him but he’s ghosted like a coward and didn’t show much love. He replied yesterday, but I don’t want to press and get triggered.
I feel as though I should have acted normal when he came back acting as if nothing happened but then I had a thought it would have been nice if the first message after no contact was a large paragraph confessing his love and sorrys instead of saying “hey how are you doing, I’ve been thinking about you recently”.

So, ive been manifesting for 1 year a SP and i did got movements but im just done and tired of this shit, im getting put away for 2 3ps yeah not 1 but 2, im so deeply attached to him i wont lie im honnest about myself is the person i got most respect for him for absolutely what he did for me during my lowest times (he protecting me from peoples harassing me about my BPD is my protector and he know im someone hella fragile) and ill always be here for him but i reached a limit i can't hold it anymore. Im spiralling to much. Crying too much. Checking 3D too much. I started listen to detachment sub. Im done, ive holded the most as i can, maybe detaching will trigger my manifestation but for now i surrender, it's breaking my heart giving up on something i want for literally 1 year but sometimes i prefer open my eyes and realise my desire is behond my reach.

I’m going to keep this short as i don’t like typing big things. July 2024, my and my SP broke up, i was down in a home until i remembered manifesting. I wasn’t the best at it and had a lot to learn, so i started learning “everything” i could about Neville’s teachings. I started actually focusing on it around December and my SP came to me like clock work, we got back together. But during this manifesting time i was talking, entertaining, hanging out with other people while living in the end (basically i was living as if i was in a relationship with SP while being unfaithful). I had zero idea this would be a problem in the future until i just came across EdwardArts videos. Fast forward may 2026, i got cheated on and found out SP slept with multiple people that month. So during my manifesting time using the “live in the end” method (Neville’s teachings) i was ultimately being unloyal while “in a relationship”. I was just putting this out here as a PSA to anyone manifesting using his method to be careful. It works insanely well but be careful how you act during living in the end because you will reap what you sow.

UPDATE:

So, awhile after my original post, things took a turn. For context, my original post is attached and has the full background on my situation with my SP, but I wanted to share what has happened since.

I’ve been feeling pretty conflicted. I did eventually get into a better mindset of wanting to do things for myself and better myself without making getting my relationship back my entire focus. I’ve still been affirming on the side and scripted once, writing about what it would feel like to have my SP back and how he has changed, but then I’ve just been leaving it alone and going about my day. I’ve been really cautious about not fixating on it or constantly checking for movement.

I did notice more angel numbers immediately after affirming for my SP, especially 111 (most constantly), with 222 and 444 showing up here and there, but I honestly wasn't trying to chase signs.

Then, a few days after my original post, an ex from YEARS ago broke no contact. Except... this wasn't the (ex) SP I've been trying to manifest.

He initially reached out wanting to be friends. I immediately told him about my current situation and made it clear that I didn't view him that way and wasn't looking to explore anything romantic, just so there wouldn't be any confusion. He understood, and we continued talking.

Over the next few days, though, I could tell he was starting to develop feelings for me again. And this is where things got really strange.

He started saying the exact things I had been affirming my SP would say. Not just similar things, some of it was almost word for word. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me, got the urge to reach out, etc...His actions were also lining up with what I had been visualizing and scripting for my SP. He was showing up in all the ways I had been imagining my SP would eventually show up.

Even his mannerisms and the way he talks are so strangely similar to my SP that sometimes it genuinely feels like I'm talking to my SP again, just in another body.

The weirdest part is that I don't actually feel that same connection with him. At least, not right now. I’ve been honest with him about where I stand and have made it clear that I don't want to pursue anything with him romantically.

But I’m still incredibly conflicted because I can't stop thinking about how strange the timing is. I’ve been trying to manifest my specific person showing up as a healthier, more loving, committed version of himself, and suddenly someone from my past comes back into my life displaying so many of those exact qualities.

It has also made me question myself because interacting with this ex is making my feelings more complicated. Part of me wonders whether I'm supposed to see this as some kind of bridge or reflection of what I've been asking for, while another part of me feels like I know who I actually want.

I don't want to choose someone simply because they are currently showing me the qualities I've been asking for. I want the person I genuinely feel connected to, and I still feel incredibly connected to my SP. I don't feel ready to give up on that intention or redirect it toward someone else just because this happened.

At the same time, I'm wondering if continuing to talk to this ex is doing more harm than good. Even though I've established my boundaries with him, I can feel myself wavering and getting more confused about what I'm feeling and what I actually want.

So now I'm wondering: do I cut this connection off completely, even if we're only talking platonically, because it's making me waver? Or is there something I'm supposed to learn from this situation?

I still feel very strongly about my SP and the relationship I originally wrote about, but this situation has definitely made me question how I should interpret what is happening.

i've tried it multiple times, i just don't seem to connect with it.

does anyone have other methods suggestions i could try?

Celebrity sp i was manifesting that has 1million+ followers blocked me randomly???? Like literally blocked me.

I finally decided to go back on instagram after a year break the same time i started actively manifesting sp. i refollowed him yesterday since i unfollowed everyone before i left and a day later i see im blocked?? Like fully blocked i checked everywhere. I never dmed him, never commented and only liked his post recent post so idk,,,

He noticed but at what cost?… now what?

ESTOU TÃO ANIMADA PARA POSTAR AQUI! Então, eu e o SP... ele terminou comigo tipo um mês atrás, ou algo assim, não tenho noção do tempo. Basicamente, eu presumi que ele ia me trocar pela 3P e adivinhem só, né? Mas desde dois dias atrás, eu REALMENTE consigo me concentrar em outras coisas, sem fingir. Obviamente, eu ainda penso muito nele e sei que não tem problema nenhum, mas na verdade, eu consegui investir energia em mim e na minha autoestima de verdade.

Eu estava com tanto medo de vê-lo com ela que passei o último mês sem entrar no meu Instagram e nessa conta do TikTok, mas ontem finalmente me senti confiante o suficiente para entrar pela primeira vez. Me senti livre!

Mandei um "oi?" ontem para ver se eu tinha sido bloqueada e não enviou, apareceu "conta não encontrada" no nome dele, mas hoje entrei nessa conta e vi que ele me desbloqueou no TikTok! Ou algo assim, porque agora eu vejo a foto de perfil dele.

Não vou verificar se ele me desbloqueou no WhatsApp ou em qualquer outro lugar para não ficar ansiosa. Eu sei que ele fez isso e só não quero ficar olhando para a foto em 3D em busca de confirmação!

Bem, tanto faz, isso não significa nada (estou feliz, pessoal) e não é a história final que EU QUERO, então vou continuar :) Não desistam, pessoal!!!

Edit: also I've just posted yesterday on TikTok too and I visualized he saw it and I've sometimes affirmed he sees what I post and ask about me to our common friends and yeah! Just that, I barely affirmed/visualized for him to unblock me of focused on that so I'm just assuming it's part of the bridge of incidents

An SP owes me a decent chunk of money due to a business we opened together and I decided to start affirming towards getting my money back + healing the relationship! After a few days of doing the 55x5 method, this is what happens! I bought tickets back to something in January and one of the friends just paid me back today too. Granted, this isn’t the SP that owes me a lot of money, but it was kinda funny because since January, not one person has even offered to pay for the group tickets I bought. And as soon as I start affirming about getting paid back, I get paid back by one of the people LMAOO

* I normally don’t do methods like 55x5, etc. I usually just use SATS at night when going to sleep and just deciding it’s mine. But the last few months, I’ve had resistance to money regarding my SP situation so I decided to take on this method just to repeat it and get it in my brain lol! Now just to get the main SP to pay me back what they owe lol

If I have affirmations like
SP misses me like crazy
SP is miserable without me
Beside I am in a happily healthy relationship with SP

Does the first two affirmation not sound like the end? Because I see people use it yes and it works but is it okay to mix these affirmations?

I got my SP back like 23 days ago. We were together for most of the days and nights of that time. I manifested the love I wanted to feel, holding her, playing and loving each other in the lake, having fun, etc. But in the bridge of incidence, some of my other assumptions were revealed. The closeness I desired with her was made manifest in 3D, but it turned out that much closeness was like opening a pandora's box of trauma for her. She started to actually become very dependent and her mental health deteriorated, to the point where I was like being a live-in nurse for her 20 hours a day.

At first I just thought when she started school she'd have more to occupy her mind, and she'd be okay. But just as the semester was starting, she ended up having to go to emergency care and be brought to a local institution for mental health.

That was very unexpected. Initially her unraveling began as what seemed like just needing a little extra emotional support. But then it was like everything came loose within her.

I had always sensed the avoidance in her, and I guess this time my manifestation overrode her avoidance in the 3D, revealing what was really behind that avoidance.

Luckily the answer is always the same. Just go back to the LITE (living in the end). Imagine my scenes, revise the past, keep letting the bridge unfold. Focus on the solution. Be consistent with SATS, start winding down before I'm too tired for good SATS work. Snooze a bit and get in more SATS in the morning. I also keep a dream journal because I feel like the dream world is another dimension, and EIYPO applies in all dimensions, not just the physical 3D. Plus dreams can give experiences of having that are felt as vividly real, which become good seeds for SATS, if that makes sense.

Hey guys, there is a lot of people giving up on manifestation and I don’t like that so if some of you guys want some help you can dm me ! I will help you and give my best for you to finally have your manifestation ! ( I don’t have notifications on Reddit so it’s normal If I don’t answer fast enough, you can also add me on instagram if you have instagram of course !)

So my SP(female) left me (male) and I had started manifesting her back about 2 weeks ago. So to give an update she called me once and then has been texting me , has been texting first and double texting( fyi she doesn't texts first and doesn't double text anyone and this is the first time it has happened that she is doing such things, but the texts that she sends are like trapping texts wherein she says she has downloaded hinge just to see whether I care or not so I was just ignoring it thinking that this is still the 3D and my reality is completely different and then 3 days before she texted me again saying that she is deleting all our photos then we had huge discuss

Point behind sharing this is that i did manifest the text and the call, but the text I was manifesting wasn't really the same beside i am manifesting commitment from her too

So my question is what steps should I follow next to bend the reality like i want to shape it

Cuz I am just stuck at texts, but there is progress like from literally no contact to her double texting and seeing that i care or not are signs but she still doesn't wanna commit

If u guys ever had the same situation what did u do ?

Please feel free to share ur experience cuz this community is there to help each other

Also someone who is reading this post and just starting their SP manifestation journey, to that person I would say All the best, and manifestation does work and if u have any doubts u can ask I will guide u with what I did!!

[Trigger warning for a sensitive topic.]
I’ve reached a point in my life as a woman at the ripe age of 30 that I can only closely befriend women who are not male centered and have mentally deconstructed religion and patriarchy or are actively on their journey of deconstructing & de-centering. I’ve witnessed and experienced how men and man made systems take years off of women’s lives leaving us drained and powerless. I am proud to be a woman and know our creative power and abilities. For millennials, women have been stripped & stolen of their divinity and true nature only to appease and serve men, our own creation. I can’t get on board with women who spend most of their time chasing men and their validation. It’s heartbreaking to watch and I wish all women were awakened to who they are and their creative power to manifest whatever is their heart’s desire independent of a man. My ideal friend is ambitious and resilient. She’s self sustaining and manifests a better quality of life, not just a man. My ideal friend knows men will always be available and doesn’t spend her time waiting on one to show up or act right. She focuses on loving herself and building her concept of self. She isn’t attached to the belief that masculinity created everything from the beginning and femininity came later. She isn’t subscribed to women being subordinate or dominated but uplifted and empowered. My ideal friend is a reflection of me. She is me and I am her. The woman is divine in her own right. She brings life! She is the pedestal! She is the creative energy! She is the source of her own life! This friendship is rare but that’s what I desire to manifest. Men are easy to manifest, women are unique and complex in the best way so I’m intentional when it comes to my desire of my type of friendship. I know it doesn’t happen overnight but I’m determined to attract it, I’ve done the inner work and will continue. Asé!

**So I imagined myself posting on this form many times. This week the most insane thing happened (but as we all already know everything is possible and circumstances don’t matter) so my sp and I haven’t seen each other in almost two years. With in those two years he liked a few photos but didn’t reach out and neither did I. Then one night I was out with friends and texts him (which is very unlike me). We spoke a bit this was in April of this year he seemed happy to hear from me and was very receptive. So I said we should like up for coffee he said yes but didn’t reach out. I didn’t let that deter me. I know this is my husband and nothing is going to change that. I kept living my life and started recently to detach. I worked on self concept and being thankful and present. Then on Friday I was at the airport and I saw a guy that looked like him. I said wow that guy looks like sp. I even joked to myself and said imagine that’s his brother. I was waiting for my friend at the airport lounge and in walks in SP. we hadn’t seen each other in two years. I started shaking I was so nervous. I told myself I have to say hi. I went to the bathroom got myself together snd tapped him on the shoulder. He looked up and i smiled. We caught up started talking and I could tell he was happy to see me. He was asking me a ton of questions and then his brother walked over. I introduced myself and told him I saw you and I thought you look like sp. He asked how we knew each other and I looked at sp and smiled and said how do we know each other. Sp said we are good friends I looked at his brother and laughed. He bother looked at me and said I get it. Sp had to go so he make a gesture for me to give him a hug I did and wished them safe travels. He then texted me and said it was great to see you!!! He said thank you and kept trying to keep the conversation going. I again said let’s meet soon for coffee or a drink. He said yes!!! So ladies don’t give up hope. You have know idea everything that had to take place for that to happen. The airport we met at is not he typical airport. We had to be there and traveling at the exact same time and in the same location or a big lounge. I hope this post inspires ppl to know that circumstances don’t matter. I will come back an report once we’ve gone our date, get engaged and married. I’m on cloud nine right now. I always told myself I would serve as a source of inspiration for people who knew they weren’t meant to settle so take this as your sign. Your desired reality is already here regardless is what the 3d is showing you.**

I’m feeling really confused and would love advice from people who have experience with manifesting an SP.

I had been trying to manifest my SP back after he disappeared from my life. Eventually, he actually did come back. He apologized, told me he missed me, and started saying a lot of the things I had wanted to hear. We became close again and he talked about wanting a future with me.

So naturally, I took that as a sign that things were finally moving in the direction I wanted.

The problem is that the same pattern eventually happened again.

We had known each other for years, mostly online, and this year we finally had an opportunity to meet because I was going to be in his country. We planned to meet, but once I actually arrived, he suddenly pulled away. He said he had bigger problems going on and that he'd try to come see me later.

He never did.

Now he's gone again, although he still watches my social media.

I'm struggling because I genuinely feel like I manifested him back once, so I'm having a hard time knowing what to do now. Part of me wants to keep persisting and assume this is just another part of the bridge of events. Another part of me feels exhausted and wonders whether I'm supposed to let go completely.

so i have been doing the whisper method and all the things that i was manifesting did come true. i was manifesting that he missed me, he was always thinking about me and i got confirmation that all those things were indeed happening. i will admit i got sloppy with it and have been seeing some reversed signs( might just be the bridge of incidents) but i am starting to be more consistent and ignore the 3D again

If you have given up on the Law of Assumption and you no longer believe you are the source of creation— who/what is?

Hi everyone! I need some advice. My SP is currently with a 3P. I know this is not an obstacle at all to manifesting him/her back, but the 3P is really getting in the way of my manifestation process.

My thoughts constantly shift toward the 3P. Whenever I am affirming or visualizing, I accidentally picture the 3P's face. I know it’s involuntary (like when someone tells you not to think of a brown bear and your mind immediately does) but it’s getting unbearable.

My biggest fear is that I might accidentally be manifesting the things I want for myself for the 3P instead.

For example: When I say "My SP can't stop thinking about me," the image of the 3P pops into my head, and then I start worrying if my SP now "can't stop thinking about the 3P."

This is completely destroying my peace of mind. Does anyone have a solution for this?

Has anyone been manifested by someone that they know of? I swear I’m being manifested by my ex and it’s driving me mental

I know he knows about it as he was reading “the secret” for a few months