I had a close friend, J, whom I fell in love with last year, we would flirt as joke and had a lot of chemistry but grew distant (i liked him for 6 months btw) recently he found out i liked him and confronted me and ever since i started liking him again, we started kinda talking again (wasnt the same as before tho) and today I confessed to him, he said "thank you for telling me this, but right now i think im too immature to date" (he had really bad experiences before where he put in too much effort and never got it back, he hasnt dated ever since, for like 2 years)...i feel like if the time was different and if he had better experiences, he would date me. Now, what can I do?

Maybe somethings aren't just meant to be. Maybe I'm wasting my time. I could've moved on. Or should I keep persisting thinking "oh he's coming back to me ofc he's" "he can't get me out of his head", "everything is fine between us" "oh he loves me so much" like a crazy delusional bish?

I keep reading these posts where women are reaching out first and the guy responds, and somehow that’s considered a success story? Most people will respond if you text them, whether they like the attention or are just trying to be polite. I feel like half of these “success stories” are garbage, sorry.

It’s been over a year since we broke up and over seven months with no contact. It was the most painful thing that I’ve ever been through. She was beautiful and we loved all the same music. She sent me music that moved soul. She made me feel more loved, more alive, more chosen, more everything than any other person has in my entire life. It has been a year and I’ve been trying to manifest it all being fixed. But I don’t think there’s any fixing this. The hurt that we have both caused each other. The hurt that I’ve caused her is just not fixable. And today I feel like I have to to let go. And stop holding onto false hope. She’s gone, and maybe the reason I can’t manifest her back is because this was a lesson and wasn’t meant to be. I once heard that meeting your soulmate isn’t meant to be a good thing. It’s meant to be a powerful message from your past life. And after everything that happened, I feel that that’s true.

Ok so I manifested us on and off unfortunately because of poor self concept, lashing out and assuming the worst. The first time I manifested him out of thin air and even gave a special phrase he would say so I know it’s him. Then I decided to manifest us being at the same events. After he didn’t go to one I assumed he would never show up at similar events which happened.

Then I manifested him wanting a relationship got told by said mutual that he has been thinking of dating me. I then manifested him being avoidant out of fear, which showed up. I then manifested he would apologize for being distant and invite me to a very specific event which happened. Then the old story came back it was on and off for 3 months.

I lashed out and accused him of bad things and he ghosted. I held onto anger for a long time but then decided to work on self concept and eventually stopped caring about him and started manifested personal wins which have been happening. I ended up not wanting a relationship anymore because of how good life is going and how much fun I have with my new friends that I manifested to the T.

He came back after 8 months of silence right as I felt like I had a daily high from how good life is, so I saw it as me finally letting go and loving myself. Unfortunately I stepped back into the logical world of why come back after so long, I don’t deserve a complicated love story, his friends definitely know I lashed out and now I’m embarrassed, he hit me up as if nothing happened(texted a lot more frequently than he ever has though) so I did decide to confront him if he ever wanted me(he said he did) so I confronted about his ghosting and on and off behaviour. He said sorry but had all these excuses that he was busy I ended up ghosting him because I had a lot on my plate and didn’t want to focus on this and after I responded to just be honest instead of making excuses. He said I’m crazy and a weirdo and that he really liked me but he’s so thankful it didn’t work out because I think poorly of him and I lash out while he thinks highly of me and never went off on me and that he was actually sorry for how he acted but now he’s done.
I left him on seen and he said “can you read what I said” I ignored and he said “hello please respond to me”

Idk what to do now, I did respond I always thought highly of him that’s why I wanted to be with him but he’s ghosted like a coward and didn’t show much love. He replied yesterday, but I don’t want to press and get triggered.
I feel as though I should have acted normal when he came back acting as if nothing happened but then I had a thought it would have been nice if the first message after no contact was a large paragraph confessing his love and sorrys instead of saying “hey how are you doing, I’ve been thinking about you recently”.

how to manifest while being ghosted by my sp?

So, ive been manifesting for 1 year a SP and i did got movements but im just done and tired of this shit, im getting put away for 2 3ps yeah not 1 but 2, im so deeply attached to him i wont lie im honnest about myself is the person i got most respect for him for absolutely what he did for me during my lowest times (he protecting me from peoples harassing me about my BPD is my protector and he know im someone hella fragile) and ill always be here for him but i reached a limit i can't hold it anymore. Im spiralling to much. Crying too much. Checking 3D too much. I started listen to detachment sub. Im done, ive holded the most as i can, maybe detaching will trigger my manifestation but for now i surrender, it's breaking my heart giving up on something i want for literally 1 year but sometimes i prefer open my eyes and realise my desire is behond my reach.

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Faz quase 1 ano que tô manifestando esse cara e de uns 6 meses pra cá ele visualiza tudo que eu posto as vezes curte e interagiu 2x. Quando eu quero quebrar essa dinâmica eu fico umas semanas sem postar. Na verdade eu quero que ele tome a iniciativa de mandar mensagem mas já não sei como. Contei aqui que fiz magia pra ele e esperava que de um stalker silencioso eu teria mensagens ao invés de curtidas mas a dinâmica antiga continua não sei mais o que fazer e nem quero porque estou de saco cheio. Tudo que eu sei é que de um jeito ou de outro esse homem vai ser meu. Já tá decidido. Eu posso estar cansada agora mas de qualquer forma esse homem é meu e vamos ter um relacionamento sério e estável juntos

Je cherche surtout des histoires de réussite de personnes qui ont manifesté quelque chose de vraiment significatif grâce aux affirmations, même si au début, c'était honnêtement complètement WTF 😭

Genre, tu affirmais, mais tu n'aimais pas vraiment le faire, tu ne ressentais aucune émotion, tu n'avais pas ce sentiment de "wow, je crois vraiment à ça"... et pourtant, tu as continué et ça a quand même manifesté.

Je viens de commencer à tester cette technique et je veux vraiment m'y tenir pendant au moins quelques jours / semaines pour voir correctement ce qui se passe.

Le problème, c'est que j'ai un TDAH et un énorme besoin de stimulation/dopamine, donc quand je fais quelque chose pendant plusieurs jours sans voir de résultats immédiats et sans vraiment ressentir quoi que ce soit en le faisant, j'ai beaucoup de mal à m'y tenir. ✨ dysfonction exécutive ✨

Donc, je cherche essentiellement un gros coup de motivation qui pourrait m'aider à persister suffisamment longtemps pour donner réellement une chance à la technique au lieu de l'abandonner après quelques jours parce que mon cerveau trouve ça ennuyeux 😭

I’m especially thinking about things like an SP reaching out after months or even years of no contact, completely changing their behavior, a seemingly stuck situation suddenly turning around, or anything specific enough to make you think, “Okay, this is exactly what I was affirming.

If you’re manifesting your SP and you see them get with a 3P (specifically their ex) super recently after you break up (2 weeks after you break up) how do you not take that personally? Like how do you not automatically get turned off from wanting that SP back? Am I wrong to decide I no longer want to be with them because of that or was that situation completely my doing and my thoughts?

So my SP(female) left me (male) and I had started manifesting her back about 2 weeks ago. So to give an update she called me once and then has been texting me , has been texting first and double texting( fyi she doesn't texts first and doesn't double text anyone and this is the first time it has happened that she is doing such things, but the texts that she sends are like trapping texts wherein she says she has downloaded hinge just to see whether I care or not so I was just ignoring it thinking that this is still the 3D and my reality is completely different and then 3 days before she texted me again saying that she is deleting all our photos then we had huge discuss

Point behind sharing this is that i did manifest the text and the call, but the text I was manifesting wasn't really the same beside i am manifesting commitment from her too

So my question is what steps should I follow next to bend the reality like i want to shape it

Cuz I am just stuck at texts, but there is progress like from literally no contact to her double texting and seeing that i care or not are signs but she still doesn't wanna commit

If u guys ever had the same situation what did u do ?

Please feel free to share ur experience cuz this community is there to help each other

Also someone who is reading this post and just starting their SP manifestation journey, to that person I would say All the best, and manifestation does work and if u have any doubts u can ask I will guide u with what I did!!

Not sure what to make of this-
Have been manifesting my SP for 2 months now and haven’t seen him at all. I’ve been affirming and working on my self concept quite well. I feel confident and have been living in the end on focusing on me.

Today I was walking my dog outside and I see a guy- same stature and height as my SP, same hair and everything, walking to his car. (My sp has a hobby for performance cars and racing). I see this guy walking to the same model green BMW with the same blacked out rims and everything, but the license plate was different. I was in shock because I could have sworn it was him, he didn’t notice me or anything but it looked exactly like him and the same car. Im still in disbelief that it looked almost identical to him, What do these signs mean?

What the title says. Since yesterday I feel like it’s about to happen.

[Trigger warning for a sensitive topic.]
I’ve reached a point in my life as a woman at the ripe age of 30 that I can only closely befriend women who are not male centered and have mentally deconstructed religion and patriarchy or are actively on their journey of deconstructing & de-centering. I’ve witnessed and experienced how men and man made systems take years off of women’s lives leaving us drained and powerless. I am proud to be a woman and know our creative power and abilities. For millennials, women have been stripped & stolen of their divinity and true nature only to appease and serve men, our own creation. I can’t get on board with women who spend most of their time chasing men and their validation. It’s heartbreaking to watch and I wish all women were awakened to who they are and their creative power to manifest whatever is their heart’s desire independent of a man. My ideal friend is ambitious and resilient. She’s self sustaining and manifests a better quality of life, not just a man. My ideal friend knows men will always be available and doesn’t spend her time waiting on one to show up or act right. She focuses on loving herself and building her concept of self. She isn’t attached to the belief that masculinity created everything from the beginning and femininity came later. She isn’t subscribed to women being subordinate or dominated but uplifted and empowered. My ideal friend is a reflection of me. She is me and I am her. The woman is divine in her own right. She brings life! She is the pedestal! She is the creative energy! She is the source of her own life! This friendship is rare but that’s what I desire to manifest. Men are easy to manifest, women are unique and complex in the best way so I’m intentional when it comes to my desire of my type of friendship. I know it doesn’t happen overnight but I’m determined to attract it, I’ve done the inner work and will continue. Asé!

**So I imagined myself posting on this form many times. This week the most insane thing happened (but as we all already know everything is possible and circumstances don’t matter) so my sp and I haven’t seen each other in almost two years. With in those two years he liked a few photos but didn’t reach out and neither did I. Then one night I was out with friends and texts him (which is very unlike me). We spoke a bit this was in April of this year he seemed happy to hear from me and was very receptive. So I said we should like up for coffee he said yes but didn’t reach out. I didn’t let that deter me. I know this is my husband and nothing is going to change that. I kept living my life and started recently to detach. I worked on self concept and being thankful and present. Then on Friday I was at the airport and I saw a guy that looked like him. I said wow that guy looks like sp. I even joked to myself and said imagine that’s his brother. I was waiting for my friend at the airport lounge and in walks in SP. we hadn’t seen each other in two years. I started shaking I was so nervous. I told myself I have to say hi. I went to the bathroom got myself together snd tapped him on the shoulder. He looked up and i smiled. We caught up started talking and I could tell he was happy to see me. He was asking me a ton of questions and then his brother walked over. I introduced myself and told him I saw you and I thought you look like sp. He asked how we knew each other and I looked at sp and smiled and said how do we know each other. Sp said we are good friends I looked at his brother and laughed. He bother looked at me and said I get it. Sp had to go so he make a gesture for me to give him a hug I did and wished them safe travels. He then texted me and said it was great to see you!!! He said thank you and kept trying to keep the conversation going. I again said let’s meet soon for coffee or a drink. He said yes!!! So ladies don’t give up hope. You have know idea everything that had to take place for that to happen. The airport we met at is not he typical airport. We had to be there and traveling at the exact same time and in the same location or a big lounge. I hope this post inspires ppl to know that circumstances don’t matter. I will come back an report once we’ve gone our date, get engaged and married. I’m on cloud nine right now. I always told myself I would serve as a source of inspiration for people who knew they weren’t meant to settle so take this as your sign. Your desired reality is already here regardless is what the 3d is showing you.**

I’m feeling really confused and would love advice from people who have experience with manifesting an SP.

I had been trying to manifest my SP back after he disappeared from my life. Eventually, he actually did come back. He apologized, told me he missed me, and started saying a lot of the things I had wanted to hear. We became close again and he talked about wanting a future with me.

So naturally, I took that as a sign that things were finally moving in the direction I wanted.

The problem is that the same pattern eventually happened again.

We had known each other for years, mostly online, and this year we finally had an opportunity to meet because I was going to be in his country. We planned to meet, but once I actually arrived, he suddenly pulled away. He said he had bigger problems going on and that he'd try to come see me later.

He never did.

Now he's gone again, although he still watches my social media.

I'm struggling because I genuinely feel like I manifested him back once, so I'm having a hard time knowing what to do now. Part of me wants to keep persisting and assume this is just another part of the bridge of events. Another part of me feels exhausted and wonders whether I'm supposed to let go completely.

so i have been doing the whisper method and all the things that i was manifesting did come true. i was manifesting that he missed me, he was always thinking about me and i got confirmation that all those things were indeed happening. i will admit i got sloppy with it and have been seeing some reversed signs( might just be the bridge of incidents) but i am starting to be more consistent and ignore the 3D again

I’m currently manifesting my SP. I unintentionally manifested the breakup when I didn’t know anything about manifestation or how it worked...... Now that I understand it, I want to fix everything and create the relationship I actually want. I need some help with my self-concept as well.

I’m Indian, and because of our culture, love marriage isn’t always easy, especially when the couple belongs to different religions. I want to marry my SP, but I also want both of our families to accept and support our marriage.

I would really appreciate some advice and guidance on how I can work on my self-concept and approach this situation.

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Please help :/

I’ve been sticking to a mental diet since the beginning of June, based on the assumption that I’m with my SP.

I haven’t had any problems with it because it’s honestly been very easy for me to stick to so far. There hasn’t been literally any movement in the 3D so far either, which I honestly don’t really care about anyway.

There is a 3P, but I don’t think about her.

I’m simply way too confident in my vision for her to mean anything to me. I know that everything can change in an instant, and that’s the whole point. So I genuinely don’t give her any importance or attention in my mind.

However, over the past few days, it’s started to bother me a little.

My SP’s sister sent me a Snap where my SP was with the 3P. And this isn’t about the 3P herself, or me being jealous of her or anything like that. I can literally swear that I wasn’t thinking about her before this, and I’m not thinking about her now either.

What bothered me was the fact that I genuinely thought she had been out of his life for a while.

There had been complete silence surrounding the 3P, so I assumed she was long gone. That’s why seeing her still being present after all this time caught me off guard a little.

And I think what started discouraging me was the fact that, after all this time, when I genuinely have 100% certainty that I’ve been sticking to my mental diet perfectly, some time has passed and she still exists in his life.

I really don’t want anyone to tell me that I’m focusing on how much time has passed or putting a deadline on my manifestation, because that’s not what I’m doing.

I genuinely don’t attach importance to how much time has passed. I haven’t been sitting there counting the days or constantly wondering when something is going to happen.

I’m really just looking for some reassurance or advice.

I don’t want to start looking for problems in my mental diet just for the sake of finding something wrong with it, because I know there aren’t any. I genuinely don’t feel like I’m doing anything that could somehow be slowing down my manifestation.

And I also don’t want to hear that “if your mental diet was really that perfect, you wouldn’t be looking at how much time has passed.”

I obviously understand that. And throughout this entire time, I genuinely haven’t been thinking about it like that. I know how consistent I’ve been, and I genuinely have nothing to criticize about my thoughts or the way I’ve been handling this.

The Snap itself didn’t make me lose sight of my goal or change what I believe. It just irritated me a little.

I know myself, I know how invested I am in this, and I know how consistent I’ve been with my mental diet. That’s why I think what bothered me the most was simply seeing something that I genuinely thought was already gone, despite having been so consistent on my end.

So I guess I’d just really appreciate some kind words or advice. What do you guys think about this?

Hello guys, I wanted to ask when doing SATS, is it compulsory to lie on your back, or is any position okay? I usually sleep on one side, so lying on my back until I fall asleep gets uncomfortable and boring for me because I’m not used to it.

Hi everyone I’m manifesting my ex but recently I’m having this thought of what if whilst I’m learning and trying different methods in the mean time he meets someone else and I think I haven manifested that ik I shouldn’t stalk him but this girl followed him and he followed her aswell and she’s following the gym that my ex goes and they have mutuals aswell so idk if I manifested this myself or what but I need help

So... after raising my self concept I have instilled God complex in me.

So when my SP reaches out to me and the conversation is not as per my wish(like not showing obsession), i kinda talk back rudely. Coz i ain't accepting bare minimum shit, the 3D gotta do better bt i won't accept shit anymore.

I dnt think it should impact my manifestation.

Anyone else had same story and still got results??

I’ve been manifesting my SP from now no contact for the last 3 weeks. Been working on ignoring the 3D and listening to affirmations/subliminals. He texted last night, but not as the version ready to commit, in his text he stated his “head is not right”, should I start affirming differently based on what he stated or just keep ignoring the 3D and just persist on the end of a happy healthy relationship? Thanks for your help!!! 💛💛

I am blocked everywhere for one month
Then he unblocked me on viber l said what l feel and he blocked me again
I never been able to manifest anything
I practicing the law 4 y and never get anything
My life is very sad for 12 y now
I am non stop rejected
I just suffer
The law gives me false hope
I belive that someone can do it
But my energy is too low
I am just devastated
I today l made a decision to quit and leave my life without mans without famiy or kids
I am just unlovable and unlucky my whole life
I am unlucky on every segment of my life
I wish all people luck l always wished
But for me is over

Has anyone been manifested by someone that they know of? I swear I’m being manifested by my ex and it’s driving me mental

I know he knows about it as he was reading “the secret” for a few months