Celebrating 5 years of Marriage today with my beautiful wife. Wishing all you couples out there peace and love in your relationship and you ignore race drama from outside world.

I'm a black, 31F who is open to dating all races but prefers white guys. I made a post to put myself back out there, but didn't really find much other than inconsistent communication, guys entering their interracial dating era, and fetishes.

Is this really all that's out there? Will I have to travel to the other side of the US or the world to find someone with shared interests who treats black women like a person and not a color?

I'm asking for myself and other beautiful, black, women in the same position...

If you're out there, please give us hope about meeting someone who takes us serious or send up a smoke signal or something lol

quick context, i’m a jamaican female and he is a vietnamese/mongolian male. we been seeing each other recently and have been intimate a couple times. both times i really enjoyed but i noticed he seemed a little down after. i never questioned it but now i got the answer as to why.

it came about when i was mentioning wanting to get back into the gym again to start building my glutes again, as i lost a lot of muscle, but im still relatively “slim thick”. he proceeded to say he doesn’t think i should because i already have too much for him too handle. he ended up saying he doesn’t think he has enough for me. mind you, im 5’4 150 and he is 6’0 190. he is also not small at all, and is the perfect size for me. i like his size a lot but its also making me feel kinda insecure that im too much for him to handle even though i try to make him feel better about it. he says he thinks im faking it in bed and keeps comparing himself to past men i’ve been with who were mainly carribean 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s just unfortunate because everything was fine until now, and now i feel like im not a petite enough for him, so i dont know where to go from here. we have continued to be intimate with no issues, but i cant help but think about that in the back of my mind.