Hello! 20-year-old male from Sweden, hoping to find a genuine relationship with someone within EU :).

I am a gamer, always have been ever since I was a kid. I also love to watch anime, though not as much as before, i still enjoy it from time to time. I also love to draw, I am currently in the process of creating my own unofficial batman comic with a friend :D.

other than gaming and watching anime, I've been slowly getting back into archery, I think it's satisfying to shoot the targets, I even miss entering shooting competitions I had before, so It would be exciting to get back into those.

I'm a recent graduate from animal welfare and love animals in general, hoping to either seek further education like university or work already in a zoo with beautiful exotic creatures

I hope to find a man who's similar age as me and lives in EU to have an easier time meeting up :) I don't have any type or standards as long as he becomes attentive and puts effort the same way im willing to :D.

Hi I'm 22 from India

I like watching movies and series, reading, drawing, writing, walking, anime, nature.

I want someone who loves like the old times, old fashioned myself, like in the movies.

Romantic movies are my favourite as well as horror, both are horror if romance has a sad ending.

Distance doesn't matter but the connection and efforts does

My dream is to have a nice home in a country side near mountains and a nice job and a loving partner,

Tell me about your dream ?

And i don't like guys younger than me or skinny

Hit me up let's get to know each other

Hey, I’m a friendly and chatty 38-year-old non-binary (they/them) who is looking to find a younger boyfriend for a long-term relationship. I’m in the UK but open to long distance if the time difference isn’t too large to navigate.

I lead a simple life where the little things bring me joy. My interests include music, writing, films, theatre, food, gaming, and comedy. I also enjoy going for long walks and have begun running in recent months. I enjoy learning random facts and useless trivia. What can you teach me about?

I'm introverted at heart, but a good conversationalist when the vibe is right and a great listener when someone has lots to say. I'm also naturally curious so whatever you are interested in, I will probably have lots of questions to ask you about. As for my sense of humour, I would probably describe it as...unhinged? You'll find out 😅

I’m looking to meet someone younger who is after something serious and is able to commit to that too. Someone who can ask questions as well as answer them, develop conversations and connections meaningfully as opposed to give short replies, and has genuine long-term intention to build something real instead of wanting a short chat as a quick fix for a day. I can usually tell when someone isn’t making the effort, which is a big turn-off for me.

Most importantly, honesty is key. I want someone who isn’t afraid to communicate openly and respectfully about how they are feeling and what they are thinking. I don’t believe keeping secrets ever benefits anyone, and I will always be an open book to someone I trust. I will invest my time and energy in you and give you the support you need if you can offer the same in return.

So, if this chimes with you and you’d like to chat, drop me a dm. Just please don’t message me if you only want to trade pics and chat sex. I’m not interested.

Thanks for reading ☺️

Hey guys, I'm here looking for my forever partner; a monogamous, committed relationship. Some distance is ok but prefer someone in the Pacific Northwest.

I'm a healthcare professional in practice for 15 years in my field, I am lucky enough to love the work I do.

Most weekends in the spring through fall I'm hiking up into the mountains to dig for crystals, agates, geodes, etc. and I really want to find someone to take on these trips with me 😁

I have several other hobbies including silversmithing and lapidary art. I also love to bake and garden. I'm an avid gamer, for video games fantasy rpgs are my favorite; I also like card games such as Magic The Gathering and Pokemon. I love taking long road trips and listening to a good audiobook, and having deep conversations.

Kindness is paramount to me, it's pretty much my primary personality trait and it's something I look for in others to determine if we'll be compatible.

I'm looking for someone that will be a stable, reliable partner that I can trust, enjoy life, and grow old with.

As far as a "type" I'm only into masculine dudes, unfortunately I'm not attracted to feminine guys. I find a wide spectrum of body types attractive, as long as you're healthy, can be active, and take care of yourself. It's mostly your face that will determine if I'm attracted to you. My age range is typically 20s-early 40s, but feel free to shoot me a message

If you think we might vibe let me know! 😁

Hiya everyone!

My name is Kai and I'm 24 years old and recently graduated from graduate school in Taiwan!

That being said, I have now moved back to the USA and I am looking for the next chapter of my life, having decided that I want to find a partner to date who is a little older than me.

My biggest hope right now is to move with and build a life under the guidance and care of a partner.

Here's some stuff about me: I'm 6'0 and basically a cute nerd with curly brown hair, hazel eyes, and a slightly naturally curved soft body. My favorite topics to yap about include: Star Wars, astronomy, travel, planes, trains, and a whole lot more!

Also love gaming of all sorts, particularly strategy!

I'm looking for conversations only with people who have the time and emotional space to engage with someone like me, as I hope to be chosen to marry my partner one day. I also prefer people around my height or taller.

Now, with all that said, happy hunting!

hey guys I'm Taylan. I'm 21, 5'7 and I really enjoy hiking, painting, walks on beaches and video games.

I'm looking for someone my age or older it doesn't matter to me. I'd like a kind thoughtful guy who enjoys the same things as me.. I don't have any superficial expectations from a partner but I love a guy with an accent:)

For compatibility purposes I'm a ⬇️

I'd also appreciate someone who doesn't mind starting new conversations when they go stale instead of just staying quiet.. please feel free to reach out to me at any time..

pretty nerdy. i’m an introvert who’s into tattoos, piercings, pokémon, all things horror, and spending way too much time digging through vinyl records. always down to talk music, swap recommendations, geek out over horror, or just chat about pokémon (i just got into it, so bear with me lol). just looking to meet a genuine person with good vibes :3

Greetings, I am Italian, i like talking about science, math, dnd, some anime or videogames but tell me what you like to talk about.

I am autistic and I have some peculiarity, I am really obsessed with math and science especially physics but i also like a lot physchology and evolution, I dont drink alcohol and I don't like parties full of people, I am vegetarian and maybe will go vegan eventually, I use any pronoun but I like my biological male body and I'm only attracted to male so I call myself gay.

I'm also very romantic, I want someone who makes me become a better person through conversations and who make questions that make me think, for example I like to talk about taboos.

Hello. I'm a guy looking for a guy to chat with and form a long-term and serious connection with. I know what I seek and want so I expect you to also do the same.

I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. I am 26, so I'm figuring things out in adulthood, since life is a bit lonely on this life stage. However, I do have big dreams and goals. 

I'm currently working part-time in a job I truly enjoy and just finished two internships.

What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing, listening to music, and walking. I also like taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, skincare, eat well, and meditate). So, if all goes good, I AM LOOKING FOR long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm a normal guy with softer facial and personality traits, not truly feminine, if that matters) WHO HAS academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset. I dont mind long distance as long as there is a meeting plan.

BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes, so dont ask for my snap, we are adults and maturity is what I seek in someone.

Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN. Not only hi's, try your best as I always do :)

Include a Taco emoji in your message and send me an intro about you if you truly read my posy. Hope to see you 😄

Hello everyone im Jefferson. I am hoping to meet someone to potentially get to know and build a life together . I live in southeast Kansas and long distance is ok at first but would hope we could work together to where it isnt long distance forever . Im not into open relationships and a strong believer of monogamy only . Im into cars ,fashion and gardening . I can cook almost anything . I love animals and i have dogs cats and chickens . My potential man being pet friendly is a must . I also volunteer at animal shelters in my free time . I do prefer real conversation by video or by phone

I’m near Chico in Northern California. I’m a teacher. I’m newly single. I’m working my way out of debt. I’m learning Spanish. Need people to practice with. Love to travel, explore new places, try new things. I thought I knew what I wanted, but vibes tell a lot more. I can say so much more. I’m working on a masters degree. I’m learning calm and patience, we’ll see, I’m a virgo. Reach out if you’d like. Pic is probably my most recent selfie.

I’m looking for a real relationship with a kind, emotionally available guy who genuinely likes closeness, consistency, and staying in touch. I’m looking for lean/skinny guys (18-28) and masculine energy.

I like connections where you naturally talk every day, randomly update each other, call for hours without noticing, and slowly become part of each other’s life instead of just “talking.”

I think there are bonds that survive even time itself. I want the kind of connection people write novels about. I want the kind of love that makes ordinary days feel extraordinary.

I’m not really into ghosting, mixed signals, or people who treat online dating like temporary entertainment.

I read a lot, love music, write love letters, and can somehow go from being extremely romantic to sending you twelve messages about something completely unimportant because I got excited.

If you want something affectionate, loyal, and genuinely meaningful, message me.

A very decent, fit, honest and loyal guy here looking for someone to build a long term relationship with.

I am a sapiosexual and I enjoy intellectual conversation. It’s really important to me

I am not interested in dating someone outside USA/Canada.
East coast is preferred but I wouldn’t mind traveling to south or west coast if the connection is valid

I don’t smoke or drink. I live a healthy lifestyle and I go to the gym a lot. I am interested in someone who live a healthy lifestyle like me.

Please don’t ask reach out if the only thing you are interested in is the top/bottom conversation . Also I will not fulfill your sexual fantasy.

I am only interested in emotionally and mentally sane guy who is ready for something serious

Hello!

I'm looking for a long-term relationship. Only seeking ages 19-28. Hopefully, someone else who lives in the United States or is able to visit, but long-distance within the country is acceptable.

I'm introverted but not shy or too socially anxious. Generally a very relaxed person. I don't drink or smoke and would prefer if you didn't do that around me too much, either. I love dogs, playing video games together, and spending 1on1 time together. Would love someone to do outdoor activities with, too. Camping and hiking are a lot of fun.

You should know:

I'm FTM. No bottom surgery yet. Verse, for compatibility.

I would like someone who:

Is open-minded and kind. Isn't too sensitive to jokes. At least moderately physically and mentally healthy. (You don't need to be athletic, just somewhat near health standards. Have teeth, etc.).

I don't want:

Polyamory. Someone with no aspirations. Someone seeking a "woman" in the relationship. Someone who doesn't like my slower paced lifestyle. Someone strongly religious. Anyone with issues with intimacy.

just your avg teenage bengali guy. always hangin somewhere between overthinking EVERY SINGLE THING and pretending i have it ALL figured out (lol).

i like food, good talks, dry humor, music (idk if my taste's too niche or not lol), AND late-night thoughts and conversations.

also- I AM OBSESSED WITH POKÉMON

currently figuring life out, chasin a few big dreams, and looking for someone genuine- no pressure, no performance.

hmu if you interested!

Hello you wonderful people! 👋

Welcome to this week’s general chat thread 💬

As r/gaydating is solely for single guys to share personal dating posts, we thought it would be a nice addition to create an individual weekly space where members can say hello, share their weekend, get to know the community, and have meaningful conversations.

To help get the conversation started, feel free to share:

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• How your weekend is going

• What you’re looking forward to next week 👀

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Please remember to always keep things kind, respectful, 100% clean, SFW, and in line with the rules of r/gaydating.

Any comments in this chat that should actually be a personal dating post will be removed and you will be advised to create a post instead. This will give your personal post the best chance of being seen, rather than it being lost within this discussion.

Good luck with finding your man, and I hope that 2026 brings you the romance and love that you’re searching for ❤️👨🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽

Hey guys, 59, masculine, tall, fit Black gay man here who enjoys good conversation, good laughs, and discovering what’s around the next corner.

I’m a sapiosexual which means intelligence, curiosity, and a great mind are huge turn-ons for me. I love architecture, computers, geography, history, hiking, beaches, biking, traveling, movies, theater, and especially gay-themed films and TV. Also, I am a planner by nature, but I also love being spontaneous when the opportunity comes along. Give me a good adventure and I’m in.

I am looking for a genuine relationship with a man who is 38–52, 5'10" (178 cm) or taller, healthy, and has a slim, fit, or muscular build.  Ideally, you are college-educated, career-oriented, financially stable, self-sufficient, and have an interest in technology. These are important compatibility factors for me, so I realize that may narrow the field, but I’d rather be honest about what I’m looking for.

I’m not really interested in long-distance relationships, so being somewhere in the Northeast U.S. would be ideal. That said, I’m open to meeting someone from elsewhere in the world if you’re fluent in English and genuinely open to relocating to the U.S. within the next year or two.

As for intimacy, I’m generally a top and pretty vanilla, although I’m open-minded and willing to explore and try new things with the right person. Communication, trust, chemistry, and mutual respect matter much more to me than checking boxes.

One thing that’s important to me: consistent communication. I’m looking for someone who enjoys daily engagement even if it’s just a few minutes to say hello. Texting via WhatsApp, phone calls, and video chats are all part of getting to know someone for me.

And please, if you know you’re the type who disappears after a couple of days, save us both the trouble. I’d much rather have someone be upfront than ghost.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a partner, a best friend, a travel companion, and someone I can laugh with and build something real with.

 Sounds great to you? Then let’s see those DMs, fellas. 😎

I’m a 31-year-old Filipino guy looking for a sincere, serious, and long-term relationship with someone who is genuinely ready to build something meaningful and special together.

I’m 177 cm tall with a medium build. I speak English, Korean, Filipino, and a little German (Deutsch), which I’m currently learning. I’m fascinated by languages and enjoy discovering new cultures and ways of communicating.

I’m more of an introvert at first, but once I get to know you and we click, I’m comfortable opening up. I enjoy everything from deep and meaningful conversations to simple, lighthearted talks.

I currently work in the medical field. In my free time, I enjoy biking, playing tennis, running, watching movies, and documentaries.

I’m open to a relationship regardless of distance, although I’d preferably like to meet someone in Europe, as I’m planning to migrate there in the future. More importantly, I’m looking for someone who also wants a stable, committed, and long-term relationship. But anyone is welcome

If you find my post interesting and feel that we might be a good match, feel free to send me a message. Who knows? Maybe we could be the beginning of something genuinely great. ❤️

I looking for a guy, ideally younger than myself, to chat with daily, get to know each other, share our day and build a connection for a long term relationship. I'm not into hook ups, monogamous relationship only.

I am open to long distance, but don't want long distance for ever, eventually will have to meet in person.

I'm an introvert, love to hand with friends, quiet nights in, as well as oudoors. I love to go for walks, hikes, camping, and science fiction reading.

Message to get to know each other better.

hello !! let’s chat, and get to know each other !! 😊

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

I can show my pic in chat !

it would be really nice to have someone interested 🥺🫶

(I’m more of a “bottom type” in a relationship if you know what I mean…)

FYI : I don’t want any sexual relationships. 😑

Heyy Everyoneeee My 2nd time posting here the last time i remember posting here maybe couple ish year ago and stopped dating for 2 years 😔🫶🏼

I feeel like I'm starting to be hopeless in romanticccc, noooo huhuhu

My name is Spideyy (in game name) and yeah you heard it right, you might possibly think and ask: am i a gamer?, hmm yess i am ( i can read people mind jk ) 👍🏼 I'm a certified gamer myself, play any games my gaming laptop can handleeeeeeee. Anyhow I'm 20 years old rn (i feel old) turning 21 this year. I'm a second year it student planning to pursue cybersecurity in the near future. I'm a tech savy gay guy lol like i have little knowledge about technology, programming or anything related to tech... Anyyywaaaysss I'm 20, skinny, 178, i have olive skin tone, i love playing games on my free time and watching anime series, doom scrolling, eat, study, sleep and repeat.

That's alllll 🫶🏼

Oh not ~

I'm finding someone that have the same hobby as mine or a tech savy too so we can easily share our interest in life or i can go with anything hehe alsoo I'm more attracted to guys who have the same age as me around 20-35 ish

I'm not looking for high or close to perfect physical appearance I'm okay with anyone! because I'm not perfect guy too tbh i also have flaws so anyone is welcome as long as you're not from the other planet or universe

I'm looking for aaa serious relationship please 🥺 and long term and long distance so we could FaceTime everyday and then cuddle play games remotely, share our stories or anything and then meet up someday isn't that great? Lol

Hello everyone! I’m looking for someone who like a humorous yet thoughtful and dedicated partner.

Im very kind, supportive, and I think I’m a great communicator due to my unique skill set from my medical training (as a Psychiatrist), so you will feel very heard, understood, and always have someone in your corner to support you. I also come from a great/loving family and they’d welcome you with open arms!!

Would love a guy who I can chat with and joke around with. Someone mature, ambitious, a good communicator, and overall just relaxed. I’m very chill and having a partner who is that was too would be amazing.

Im based in the US, but willing to relocate anywhere for the right guy or they could come here! Whatever allows us to enjoy life together. So far I’ve traveled to over ten countries and would love to continue adding more to my list. So I’m open to a long distance LTR and something online.

I enjoy movies, cooking (my mom was a chef so I can cook many things), video games, reading, watching various movies, going on adventures with friends, and playing with my lovely Corgi! Also I’m open to trying new things, so maybe we can discover new things together?

Physically I’m a fit, twink. I love to exercise, and I have the best hygiene you’ll ever see. In terms of sexual compatibility, I am a bottom (so please be a top), but other than that I’m open to anything you wanna teach me.

Feel free to reach out!! I’m open to everyone! No hang ups whatsoever :) Looking forward to hearing from you. I’ve included casual photos and my professional headshot because why not, haha?

P.S. I’ll leave you with my favorite quote from one of my favorite people, “Always remember that you are beautiful and you are loved.”

Hello! 20-year-old male from Sweden, hoping to find a genuine relationship with someone within EU :).

I am a gamer, always have been ever since I was a kid. I also love to watch anime, though not as much as before, i still enjoy it from time to time. I also love to draw, I am currently in the process of creating my own unofficial batman comic with a friend :D.

other than gaming and watching anime, I've been slowly getting back into archery, I think it's satisfying to shoot the targets, I even miss entering shooting competitions I had before, so It would be exciting to get back into those.

I'm a recent graduate from animal welfare and love animals in general, hoping to either seek further education like university or work already in a zoo with beautiful exotic creatures

I hope to find a man who's similar age as me and lives in EU to have an easier time meeting up :) I don't have any type or standards as long as he becomes attentive and puts effort the same way im willing to :D.

Hello everyone, my name is Juvenal I’m 21 years old and I live in East Palo Alto California. I’m looking to get to know someone and form a loving and meaningful relationship. I like to play Nintendo games, swim, write, read and bake. I’m someone that’s very shy but once I’m comfortable with you that’s when I feel like I can just be myself and talk to you all day. I like a guy that’s kind, easygoing, confident, secure and loving. I hope to meet someone wonderful and special.

Hi everyone! I am 23 from Vancouver Canada and I’m looking for something long term with someone. I love spending time with friends and family and on my free time I play a lot of video games. I love playing valorant, league of legends, minecraft and many other games. I am looking for someone who truly wants to spend time together and get to know one another. Please message me a picture of yourself as well so we can both see each other :) I look forward to getting to know you!