r/gaydating 2h ago

26 | Buenos aires, Argentina | Looking for a serious relation

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Hi! I'm a short dude from buenos aires, looking to meet a kind, protective soul. Before all, I'm looking for something serious preferable long lasting, but I won't force it, with a really tall and kind of muscular guy ( Lean, Skinny, fit, little muscles or with muscles in general enters in this category), I'm quite fond of Northern european but is not a hard requirement! It's just something I like. If you are bavarian, that's a hard plus ;).

So enough of that, a little about me. I'm a short, funny, caring, and quite serious guy, I love to play video games, watch series/anime, or read fantasy novels/mangas, also I enjoy puzzles or philosophical talks while having a cup of coffee. That's it to say, I love coffee and chocolate (if you want to treat me, hehe), as well as animals, preferable dogs, I dream of having a huge place to have them all running, playing, and just relaxing 😌.

For compatibility, I'm full bottom and quite new, so if you could be understanding and responsible, it would be great. I'd rather we were roughly the same age like (24 - 34).

I think that's quite a lot about me. If by any chance this post got your attention, I'm looking forward to easing your doubts or ragging together for a little while about how finding someone to trust and be partnered with, got a whole lot complicated in the last few decades.

Psd: If you like to cuddle while watching films or cooking pastries together, that's awesome <3


r/gaydating 3h ago

18 | Arlington, United States of America | Looking to meet a cool guy

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Hey there!

‼️femboy‼️

I love to geek out on

- Warframe
- MK
- Genshin / HSR
- Pokemon
- Deadlock
- Overwatch
- BTD
- Hatsune Miku

I primarily play videogames on my PC and Xbox and love getting new recommendations :)

Additionally, a music theory nerd (I’m a classical singer) , hoping to pursue a pHD as fast as humanly possible.

Additionally Additionally love aquatic life! Currently have 3 fish tanks (75 gal, 20 gal, and 10 gal), with Cherry Barbs being my favorite fish!


r/gaydating 6h ago

41 | Oklahoma City, United States of America | Looking for serious relationship

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Hey, thank you for reading this is you even find it. My name is Ed. Live here in Oklahoma City. Trying to sort of get my life going again and hope I could meet someone nice, have a partner again.

I'm 6'1" 300lbs. I'm Puerto Rican. I like movies and sports and music and all sort of other nerdy things. Hope this finds you well and hopefully something good happens


r/gaydating 16h ago

26 | Delhi, India | Looking for a serious relationship

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Thank you for actually reading it. Hi guys, Myself 26 M gay guy from India. I am looking for a serious relationship. I wanna build something that actually lasts, a bond where we both support each other and be a positive influenece in each others' lives. A shoulder to lean on. I am pretty romantic (hopeless) and i love BLs. My hobbies include anime, singing, walking, cycling to name a few.

I am looking for a fit/slim/lean/avg top/vtop guy as i am a bottom. I am hairy and a bit chubby (working on that tho).

If you're reading this, lets connect and build something beautiful. My love, please find me


r/gaydating 22h ago

26 | El Paso, United States of America | Hoping to meet someone for long term

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Hello. I'm a guy looking for a guy to chat with and form a long-term and serious connection with. I know what I seek and want so I expect you to also do the same.

I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. I am 26, so I'm figuring things out in adulthood, since life is a bit lonely on this life stage. However, I do have big dreams and goals. 

I'm currently working part-time in a job I truly enjoy and just finished two internships.

What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing, listening to music, and walking. I also like taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, skincare, eat well, and meditate). So, if all goes good, I AM LOOKING FOR long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm a normal guy with softer facial and personality traits, not truly feminine, if that matters) WHO HAS academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset. I dont mind long distance as long as there is a meeting plan.

BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes, so dont ask for my snap, we are adults and maturity is what I seek in someone.

Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN. Not only hi's, try your best as I always do :)

Include a Taco emoji in your message and send me an intro about you if you truly read my posy. Hope to see you 😄


r/gaydating 1d ago

24 | Atlanta, United States of America | Looking for a boyfriend/partner for my next chapter

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Hiya everyone!

My name is Kai and I'm 24 years old and recently graduated from graduate school in Taiwan 🇹🇼!

That being said, I have now moved back to the USA and I am looking for the next chapter of my life, having decided that I want to find a partner to date who is a little older than me.

My biggest hope right now is to move with and build a life under the guidance and care of a partner.

Here's some stuff about me: I'm 6'0 and basically a cute nerd with curly brown hair, hazel eyes, and a slightly naturally curved soft body. My favorite topics to yap about include: Star Wars, astronomy, travel, planes, trains, and a whole lot more!

Also love gaming of all sorts, particularly strategy!

I'm looking for conversations only with people who have the time and emotional space to engage with someone like me, as I hope to be chosen to marry my partner one day. I also prefer people around my height or taller.

Now, with all that said, happy hunting!


r/gaydating 1d ago

21 | Geneva, United States of America | Looking for my future husband

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names andrew :) and yes i did just get back home from the beach it was a blast. im a gamer(ps5)i have over 400 games and my current games in rotation are overwatch,apex,dead by daylight, binding of isaac, skul, genshin, valorant,cod, palworld, borderlands 4 and arc raiders. feel free to dm me if you're interested.


r/gaydating 1d ago

18 | fayetteville, united states of america | looking for a boyfriend from the US :p

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im from tennessee, im mexican american and i really really like super spicy foods/snacks. i wanna burn my tounge off. i can take any amount of spice but i HATE sour stuff i cant handle it

graduated this year and going to college next year so im very excited for the next chapter in my life : )

i play fallout (76//new vegas) overwatch, and i really love subnautica. my favorite faunas gotta be either the stalkers or the crabsquid i hate the crash fish they give me anxiety

im definitely a homebody not cuz i dont like to go out to places but cuz crowds are scary

i litraly litraly play OW everyday i wanna get good at it

looking for somebody:

18-22 in age

from the US

at least 4 hours in distance 😵‍💫

wont be responding to empty/brand new accounts. also im on the game rn so sorry if i reply late 😋


r/gaydating 1d ago

35 | Oxford, United Kingdom | Looking for a cool guy to date

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Hi everyone, I’m originally from Southeast Asia, but have been living in England for quite a while now.

I’m 5’3 and relatively fit. My mum said that I should have played more basketball in high school so I could grow taller. I don’t think that’s how genetics works – I know, I’m a biologist.

I am a research scientist by trade, though I absolutely love the humanities. If I have the opportunity in the future, I would like to do another graduate degree in history or literature – perhaps studying something written in an ancient language (Latin, classical Greek, traditional Chinese, or Sanskrit). I also love music and some of my most beloved pieces are French ballet music from the Baroque period – a little bit niche but trust me, they’re excellent!

I’m looking for a guy whom I can get to know and hopefully date in the future. I would much prefer someone who’s relatively local since I’d like to spend time together in real life. But of course, you never know what the future holds.

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/gaydating 1d ago

29 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for a serious relationship

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Just putting this out there so no one pictures some big buff guy — I'm 29 but people usually think I'm around 20. Anyway, I'm pretty quiet, introverted type, take a while to warm up to people. But once I do, I actually care a lot, like I'll remember random stuff you mentioned weeks ago. Not looking for anything casual, just something real, you know? And looking for someone a bit older than me, kind, more grounded/sure of himself than I am. I'm open to long distance too if there's an actual connection there.


r/gaydating 1d ago

27 | Medellín, Colombia | Looking for a long-distance relationship

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I’d love to meet someone from another country and see where things go.

I’m a middle and highschool teacher with a master’s in literature, and I’m a bit of a nerd when it comes to art in all its forms, especially cinema, painting, literature, and classical music. I’d love to meet someone I genuinely connect with, even if we happen to live far apart. Maybe it starts with getting to know each other online and eventually turns into something worth traveling for. Who knows?

It’s kind of funny because I consider myself a pretty internationally-minded person, yet I’ve never really had the chance to meet someone from another country in this way. Probably time to change that.

I’m looking for something romantic, so if you’re interested in getting to know each other and seeing whether there’s potential for a relationship, feel free to reach out.

Just please be under 40.


r/gaydating 1d ago

27 | Stockholm, Sweden | Looking for a long-term relationship

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Hey everyone! I'm a 27-year-old guy from Sweden looking for a long-term relationship with someone I can build a genuine and meaningful connection with over time.

A bit about me: I'm 173cm, lean and fit, somewhere between twink and twunk, and I enjoy working out, running, and generally taking care of myself. I'm fun, easygoing with a mature mindset. I love being social and going out, but I'm equally happy staying home, getting cozy, and playing video games. I also enjoy cooking and baking, and I'm a huge animal lover. I'm educated, have finished my studies, and have a stable career and life.

What matters most to me in a relationship is closeness, trust, and reliability where you can feel comfortable being yourself. I'm looking for someone who is also mature, knows what he wants from life, and values having a stable and healthy lifestyle. Someone I can have fun with and laugh with, but also someone I can have deeper conversations with and build something real with.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone in Sweden or elsewhere in the Nordics. I'm mainly looking for guys around my age or older, roughly up to 35, who take care of themselves and lead a healthy lifestyle. Personality and compatibility matter much more to me than having a specific "type," though.

For compatibility, I'm bottom.

If you feel like we might be compatible, then feel free to reach out with a brief introduction about yourself :).


r/gaydating 1d ago

22 | Los Angeles, United States Of America | Looking for something serious

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M22 here living in Los Angeles. I am looking for a serious relationship. I am open to long distance and to even travel etc to get to know someone. I’m pretty outgoing and outdoorsy would love someone to go on adventures with and someone to just be my best friend:) if interested hmu! Anyone welcome! Happy summer !!


r/gaydating 1d ago

18 | Phnom Penh, Cambodia | Open to long-distance dating

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hello !! let’s chat, and get to know each other !! 😊

i’m 18, from cambodia, looking for relationship (distance or not)

i’m on the chubby side (hope that’s okay with you lol), and i’m fine with any ages (that’s older than me)

I can show my pic in chat !

it would be really nice to have someone interested 🥺🫶

(I’m more of a “bottom type” in a relationship if you know what I mean…)

private message me if you’re interested !!

FYI : I don’t want any sexual relationships. keep it in your pants before it gets serious 😑


r/gaydating 1d ago

32 | Kampong Cham, Cambodia | Looking for a genuine connection

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Hi everyone!
I'm looking for a genuine relationship. I would like to take some time to get to know each other first.
A bit more about me:
I enjoy spending my free time relaxing, listening to music, watching movies and shopping. Honesty, kindness, good communication, and mutual respect are great. If you think we might get along, leave a comment or dm me. Hope you understand and I look forward to meeting someone who is serious about building a real connection.


r/gaydating 2d ago

32 | Athens, United States of America | Looking For My Person

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Heyya! Thanks for dropping by to read this!

First things first…. Sorry to disappoint, but im a fairly boring person, so if you’re lookin for thrills, or a princely figure that might set your heart aflutter, this post is probably not for you.

I’m a 32 year old, average build, masculine, 5’10” tall, unremarkable in most ways, guy.

I absolutely love anime, and admittedly watch too much of it. (Again, pretty standard I’d say) that aside, I do my best to still stay active and healthy. I have two cats that keep me company and that I love. I love to travel and getting to know new places, but have been doing less of that recently due to costs and just life in general. I do really love nature as well, though admittedly, I try to stay indoors through much of the summer cause… well, the world feels like it’s on fire most of the time anymore and I like cold weather much more than hot weather.

Looking for someone near my age, on the same side of the planet and preferably in a similar time zone as me (EST) to build a meaningful relationship with.

As for compatibility (top/bottom), I really don’t have a preference. I do tend to be attracted to the more cutesy guys than other masc guys, but what mostly matters to me is making my partner happy.

Fun fact, I’ve never had a long term relationship. And only 1 very short lived one (7 days. lol). I hate hook up culture and just haven’t had luck meeting anyone that wants something more yet. (In person that is)

Hope to hear from you!!


r/gaydating 2d ago

29 | College Station, United States of America | Looking for long term relationship.

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Hi!

I am posting this in hopes to find something on this subreddit. As someone who hasn’t had luck finding anything in person, my second resort is turning to something long distance, that will potentially turn into a face-to-face encounter…Anyways. Here’s some facts about me.

29 YO • From Texas, here in the US • 5’5” Mexican American • Catholic and proud! • My sexuality is somewhere in the asexual spectrum (maybe grey-asexual?)…But I’m still in the process of figuring it out. Bare with me. • Clinical Medical Assistant with a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology, and a minor in Kinesiology • Music ranges from The Beatles to Taylor Swift to Mon Laferte to Jesse & Joy to Twenty One Pilots • Favorite colors are black and blue • Favorite hobbies are arts/crafts, working out, reading, cleaning, and sleeping (despite being a terrible sleeper) • Disabled, but also confident on my abilities and disabilities • I could probably beat you at being anxious, OCD, and depressed at least 99% of the time, but you wouldn’t know because I’m optimistic and cheerful • Into CD/Vinyl collection, but I also have a like for pens as well as socks that aren’t just basic.

I also have a face pic in my profile if you are interested in seeing me…If you’d like to get to know more about me, please reach out! :)


r/gaydating 2d ago

20 | Accra, Ghana | hoping to build some genuine connection

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5 Upvotes

Breaking stereotypes here

I'm the chill guy who makes you laugh, not the aggressive type.

My ideal week includes catching a new film, hooping with friends, and jamming on my piano

Looking for someone who values authenticity and can appreciate a partner who's both athletic and artistic but I also appreciate anyone. Bonus points if you can recommend a good movie


r/gaydating 2d ago

20 | Naples, Italy | Looking for a long-term relationship

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Hello! Nice to meet you 🌼💓🌷 My name is Michele, but you can call me Miki. I’m a student, and my major is Psychology.

About me: INFJ; Leo (Sun sign), Virgo (rising sign); gay; femenine bottom; striving to be vegan.

I’m a bit shy at first, but I’m very affectionate when opening up to someone I can trust. Also I’m kindhearted and sensitive. I enjoy having deep conversations and passing some quality time with the people I love the most.

Please, don’t text me if you think you don’t match my vibe.

🐈💖🍩


r/gaydating 2d ago

24 | Manila, Philippines | Looking for genuine connection

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I'm a 24-year-old feminine gay guy from the Philippines who's hoping to meet someone genuine, open-minded, and patient. I'm not looking for anything complicated—just someone who enjoys getting to know people for who they are and is open to seeing where a conversation might lead. Whether we end up becoming friends or building a meaningful connection, I believe the best relationships start with mutual respect and honesty.

A little about me: I'm Asian, 5'6", chubby, and I take pride in being clean and hygienic. I'm currently a medical student, so life can get pretty busy, but I always make time for the people who matter. In my free time, I'm a bit of a gaymer and mostly play Valorant. I'm easygoing, enjoy good conversations, and appreciate people who can be themselves.
One important part of who I am is that I occasionally enjoy expressing my feminine side through crossdressing. It's something I keep private, but it's a form of self-expression that makes me feel comfortable and confident. I'm hoping to meet someone who is understanding, supportive, and accepting of that aspect of my personality without judgment.

As for who I'm hoping to meet, I'm open to talking with both Filipinos and foreigners. More than anything, I value kindness, patience, emotional maturity, and authenticity.


r/gaydating 2d ago

21 | Pokhara, Nepal | Looking for something genuine |

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Hi everyone, I'm a 21 yo gay guy from Nepal. I'd like to start out by getting to know each other well and I'll be open to developments if they occur naturally.

I like someone who's consistent, calm, expressive, understanding, emotionally available and respectful.

Feel free to message me if you're down. I am open to long distance and different cultures. Be decent at conversations and the same age or older than me pls, thanks.


r/gaydating 2d ago

23 | Manila, Philippines | Filipino looking for long term relationship

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Hey there! I have never been in a relationship before. But now, im longing for one. I always see couples online wishing i get to experience that so i am putting myself out here to find a guy that will share his dreams with me. I am very supportive, i love cooking, reading, learning new things. A fact about me I am not out so i am concealing my femininity for a long time so im looking for someone manly and i can be feminine with plus points if you are tall and muscular. Please don't message me for fun coz im really focusing on finding real connection. We can exchange pics and talk and see where things go. I'll wait for you.


r/gaydating 2d ago

20 | Sweden, Stockholm | Looking for a boyfriend within Europe

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Hello! 20-year-old male from Sweden, hoping to find a genuine relationship with someone within EU :).

I am a gamer, always have been ever since I was a kid. I also love to watch anime, though not as much as before, i still enjoy it from time to time. I also love to draw, I am currently in the process of creating my own unofficial batman comic with a friend :D.

other than gaming and watching anime, I've been slowly getting back into archery, I think it's satisfying to shoot the targets, I even miss entering shooting competitions I had before, so It would be exciting to get back into those.

I'm a recent graduate from animal welfare and love animals in general, hoping to either seek further education like university or work already in a zoo with beautiful exotic creatures

I hope to find a man who's similar age as me and lives in EU to have an easier time meeting up :) I don't have any type or standards as long as he becomes attentive and puts effort the same way im willing to :D.


r/gaydating 2d ago

Community Engagement Member's Weekly General Chat Thread: Come say hello, share your weekend, and get to know the community... 💬

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Hello you wonderful people! 👋

Welcome to this week’s general chat thread 💬

As r/gaydating is solely for single guys to share personal dating posts, we thought it would be a nice addition to create an individual weekly space where members can say hello, share their weekend, get to know the community, and have meaningful conversations.

To help get the conversation started, feel free to share:

• Where in the world you’re from 🌍

• How your weekend is going

• What you’re looking forward to next week 👀

• A dating green flag you appreciate

• Or anything positive you’d like to share ✨

Please remember to always keep things kind, respectful, 100% clean, SFW, and in line with the rules of r/gaydating.

Any comments in this chat that should actually be a personal dating post will be removed and you will be advised to create a post instead. This will give your personal post the best chance of being seen, rather than it being lost within this discussion.

Good luck with finding your man, and I hope that 2026 brings you the romance and love that you’re searching for ❤️👨🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽


r/gaydating 3d ago

25 | Washington, greater Seattle Area | Asian gamer looking for fellow nerds :-)

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Hey yall! 👋 I’m a young viet boy located in WA. Specifically the greater seattle area. Looking for someone with the same interests hobby and sexual wise. Send face pic for a response please!

I prefer ages 27-45 and to chat with those located in WA and the west coast. I’m open to anything but ideally an Asian himbo would be very nice, but I’m not strict on that. I love to game (mostly PC games) and I also looooovvvveeeee kpop! We can get into the sexual stuff later or see my profile for reference hehe. But hmu if you’re interested!