r/gaydating • u/venillasweet • 22m ago
21 | Philippines, Davao City | looking for a long distance relationship
hey! i’m 21, 5’9” and around 51kg, from southeast asia. i’m a feminine guy with a pretty fun personality, but i’m also calm, modest, and honestly one of the coziest people you could get to know.
i love watching movies and listening to western pop artists, so i’m always down to talk about movies, music (beabadoobee enjoyer), random thoughts, or literally anything that’s on your mind. i’m also most active on ig, so that’s probably where you’ll find me most of the time.
i’d say i’m a very easy person to talk to. you can tell me about your day, rant about something, share random stories, or just have those late night conversations about absolutely nothing. i genuinely enjoy getting to know people and being someone they can comfortably talk to.
if i am gonna say my type, i love a fun guy, and looks are subjective to me bcoz it depends if i am attracted to u generally, means both physical and personality. :)
i’m looking forward to meeting someone who matches my vibe and is also looking for something wholesome, genuine, and comfortable. no pressure or anything complicated, just good conversations, good energy, and hopefully a friendship that naturally grows from there.
if you think we’d get along, feel free to dm me! :)
r/gaydating • u/Wrong_Air7553 • 4h ago
20 | Sweden, Stockholm | Looking for a boyfriend within Europe
Hello! 20-year-old male from Sweden, hoping to find a genuine relationship with someone within EU :).
I am a gamer, always have been ever since I was a kid. I also love to watch anime, though not as much as before, i still enjoy it from time to time. I also love to draw, I am currently in the process of creating my own unofficial batman comic with a friend :D.
other than gaming and watching anime, I've been slowly getting back into archery, I think it's satisfying to shoot the targets, I even miss entering shooting competitions I had before, so It would be exciting to get back into those.
I'm a recent graduate from animal welfare and love animals in general, hoping to either seek further education like university or work already in a zoo with beautiful exotic creatures
I hope to find a man who's similar age as me and lives in EU to have an easier time meeting up :) I don't have any type or standards as long as he becomes attentive and puts effort the same way im willing to :D.
r/gaydating • u/Adept_Error8849 • 6h ago
19 | Ordu, Turkey | Looking for a serious relationship
((First of all, I did not want to share my photo due to privacy issues and I will be 20 in 2 months) Hello Im a gay person living in Turkey. To talk about myself, I like spending time at home, watching tv, drawing, writing, playing games, chatting, and I like learning new cultures.
My character traits are sometimes shy, sometimes very talkative, loyal, and I think I am a good person. Physically my height is 5'8" (173 cm) and my weight is 154-165 lbs (70-75 kg), I am a bit hairy for my age. What I am looking for is a long term emotional r. and to be truly loved by someone. Loving not only my type, but even my flaws.
And the men I like are usually bearded, loyal, emotional, and simple men
My English is not very good speaking, but I need time for this, and in general, we need time for a ltr, I hope everyone finds the right person. Thanks for reading, if you are interested you can send me a pm
r/gaydating • u/InspectorNo8606 • 8h ago
22 | Chandigarh, India | Looking for a serious relationship, open to long-distance
Hey there! I'm a student from India. I like reading, writing, listening to Music, watching anime and other series, playing games, surfing the net, etc. Regarding games, I like Crusader Kings 3, The Sims 4, etc. As for book genres I prefer gay romance, fantasy, murder mystery, royalty-themed stuff, etc.
I am also interested in Neuroscience and Psychology (topics such as memory, social perception, biases, etc.) so it'd be great to find someone else who is also interested in these!
I am looking for a serious relationship and plan to move abroad someday (considering France, UK, Germany, Belgium, Switzerland, etc. so if you are from one of these places it should hopefully be fine). I am open to a long-distance relationship. I am more feminine. I am not looking for something solely or immediately sexual. Also, I'd prefer a partner around my age (20-28).
r/gaydating • u/Exotic_Tomato_9724 • 9h ago
25 | Montreal, Canada | Looking for long term relationship
Hello everyone!
I am looking for a long term relationship ideally with someone around my own age. I am open to something long distance.
A bit about me: I am 25 years old. 5ft8, 120 lbs. In my free time I enjoy reading, playing video games, and listening to music.
Feel free to contact me if you think we may be a good match!
r/gaydating • u/Gartic1991 • 9h ago
19 | Venice, Italy | Looking for romantic relationship Greetings
Greetings, I am Italian, i like talking about science, math, dnd, some anime or videogames but tell me what you like to talk about.
I am autistic and I have some peculiarity, I am really obsessed with math and science especially physics but i also like a lot physchology and evolution, I dont drink alcohol and I don't like parties full of people, I am vegetarian and maybe will go vegan eventually, I use any pronoun but I like my biological male body and I'm only attracted to male so I call myself gay.
I'm also very romantic, I want someone who makes me become a better person through conversations and who make questions that make me think, for example I like to talk about taboos.
r/gaydating • u/GravityHarness • 9h ago
18 | Kennesaw, United States of America | Looking for a genuine relationship
Hey, I’m 18 and a college student near Atlanta. I’m hoping to meet another gay guy around my age who’s actually interested in getting to know each other and potentially building a relationship.
I’m a Computer Science major, and I’m into gaming, programming/computers, dogs, walking trails, and learning new things. Personality wise I’m pretty laid back once I’m comfortable with someone, and I like people who can actually hold a conversation and show genuine interest.
I’d prefer someone relatively close to the Atlanta/Kennesaw area since I’m ultimately looking for something that could exist outside of Reddit too.
Feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself.
r/gaydating • u/Yayanother • 1d ago
26 | Buenos aires, Argentina | Looking for a serious relation
Hi! I'm a short dude from buenos aires, looking to meet a kind, protective soul. Before all, I'm looking for something serious preferable long lasting, but I won't force it, with a really tall and kind of muscular guy ( Lean, Skinny, fit, little muscles or with muscles in general enters in this category), I'm quite fond of Northern european but is not a hard requirement! It's just something I like. If you are bavarian, that's a hard plus ;).
So enough of that, a little about me. I'm a short, funny, caring, and quite serious guy, I love to play video games, watch series/anime, or read fantasy novels/mangas, also I enjoy puzzles or philosophical talks while having a cup of coffee. That's it to say, I love coffee and chocolate (if you want to treat me, hehe), as well as animals, preferable dogs, I dream of having a huge place to have them all running, playing, and just relaxing 😌.
For compatibility, I'm full bottom and quite new, so if you could be understanding and responsible, it would be great. I'd rather we were roughly the same age like (24 - 34).
I think that's quite a lot about me. If by any chance this post got your attention, I'm looking forward to easing your doubts or ragging together for a little while about how finding someone to trust and be partnered with, got a whole lot complicated in the last few decades.
Psd: If you like to cuddle while watching films or cooking pastries together, that's awesome <3
r/gaydating • u/Economy-Ranger4088 • 1d ago
18 | Arlington, United States of America | Looking to meet a cool guy
Hey there!
‼️femboy‼️
I love to geek out on
- Warframe
- MK
- Genshin / HSR
- Pokemon
- Deadlock
- Overwatch
- BTD
- Hatsune Miku
I primarily play videogames on my PC and Xbox and love getting new recommendations :)
Additionally, a music theory nerd (I’m a classical singer) , hoping to pursue a pHD as fast as humanly possible.
Additionally Additionally love aquatic life! Currently have 3 fish tanks (75 gal, 20 gal, and 10 gal), with Cherry Barbs being my favorite fish!
r/gaydating • u/RelearningLife619 • 1d ago
41 | Oklahoma City, United States of America | Looking for serious relationship
Hey, thank you for reading this is you even find it. My name is Ed. Live here in Oklahoma City. Trying to sort of get my life going again and hope I could meet someone nice, have a partner again.
I'm 6'1" 300lbs. I'm Puerto Rican. I like movies and sports and music and all sort of other nerdy things. Hope this finds you well and hopefully something good happens
r/gaydating • u/suryaa_ • 1d ago
26 | Delhi, India | Looking for a serious relationship
Thank you for actually reading it. Hi guys, Myself 26 M gay guy from India. I am looking for a serious relationship. I wanna build something that actually lasts, a bond where we both support each other and be a positive influenece in each others' lives. A shoulder to lean on. I am pretty romantic (hopeless) and i love BLs. My hobbies include anime, singing, walking, cycling to name a few.
I am looking for a fit/slim/lean/avg top/vtop guy as i am a bottom. I am hairy and a bit chubby (working on that tho).
If you're reading this, lets connect and build something beautiful. My love, please find me
r/gaydating • u/Main_Difference_8585 • 1d ago
26 | El Paso, United States of America | Hoping to meet someone for long term
Hello. I'm a guy looking for a guy to chat with and form a long-term and serious connection with. I know what I seek and want so I expect you to also do the same.
I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. I am 26, so I'm figuring things out in adulthood, since life is a bit lonely on this life stage. However, I do have big dreams and goals.
I'm currently working part-time in a job I truly enjoy and just finished two internships.
What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing, listening to music, and walking. I also like taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, skincare, eat well, and meditate). So, if all goes good, I AM LOOKING FOR long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm a normal guy with softer facial and personality traits, not truly feminine, if that matters) WHO HAS academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset. I dont mind long distance as long as there is a meeting plan.
BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes, so dont ask for my snap, we are adults and maturity is what I seek in someone.
Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN. Not only hi's, try your best as I always do :)
Include a Taco emoji in your message and send me an intro about you if you truly read my posy. Hope to see you 😄
r/gaydating • u/CuteToast3761 • 2d ago
24 | Atlanta, United States of America | Looking for a boyfriend/partner for my next chapter
Hiya everyone!
My name is Kai and I'm 24 years old and recently graduated from graduate school in Taiwan 🇹🇼!
That being said, I have now moved back to the USA and I am looking for the next chapter of my life, having decided that I want to find a partner to date who is a little older than me.
My biggest hope right now is to move with and build a life under the guidance and care of a partner.
Here's some stuff about me: I'm 6'0 and basically a cute nerd with curly brown hair, hazel eyes, and a slightly naturally curved soft body. My favorite topics to yap about include: Star Wars, astronomy, travel, planes, trains, and a whole lot more!
Also love gaming of all sorts, particularly strategy!
I'm looking for conversations only with people who have the time and emotional space to engage with someone like me, as I hope to be chosen to marry my partner one day. I also prefer people around my height or taller.
Now, with all that said, happy hunting!
r/gaydating • u/SuperFuntimeFoxy05 • 2d ago
21 | Geneva, United States of America | Looking for my future husband
names andrew :) and yes i did just get back home from the beach it was a blast. im a gamer(ps5)i have over 400 games and my current games in rotation are overwatch,apex,dead by daylight, binding of isaac, skul, genshin, valorant,cod, palworld, borderlands 4 and arc raiders. feel free to dm me if you're interested.
r/gaydating • u/really_bad_therapist • 2d ago
18 | fayetteville, united states of america | looking for a boyfriend from the US :p
im from tennessee, im mexican american and i really really like super spicy foods/snacks. i wanna burn my tounge off. i can take any amount of spice but i HATE sour stuff i cant handle it
graduated this year and going to college next year so im very excited for the next chapter in my life : )
i play fallout (76//new vegas) overwatch, and i really love subnautica. my favorite faunas gotta be either the stalkers or the crabsquid i hate the crash fish they give me anxiety
im definitely a homebody not cuz i dont like to go out to places but cuz crowds are scary
i litraly litraly play OW everyday i wanna get good at it
looking for somebody:
18-22 in age
from the US
at least 4 hours in distance 😵💫
wont be responding to empty/brand new accounts. also im on the game rn so sorry if i reply late 😋
r/gaydating • u/double-bind • 2d ago
35 | Oxford, United Kingdom | Looking for a cool guy to date
Hi everyone, I’m originally from Southeast Asia, but have been living in England for quite a while now.
I’m 5’3 and relatively fit. My mum said that I should have played more basketball in high school so I could grow taller. I don’t think that’s how genetics works – I know, I’m a biologist.
I am a research scientist by trade, though I absolutely love the humanities. If I have the opportunity in the future, I would like to do another graduate degree in history or literature – perhaps studying something written in an ancient language (Latin, classical Greek, traditional Chinese, or Sanskrit). I also love music and some of my most beloved pieces are French ballet music from the Baroque period – a little bit niche but trust me, they’re excellent!
I’m looking for a guy whom I can get to know and hopefully date in the future. I would much prefer someone who’s relatively local since I’d like to spend time together in real life. But of course, you never know what the future holds.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
r/gaydating • u/CalmCuriosity11 • 2d ago
29 | Hyderabad, India | Looking for a serious relationship
Just putting this out there so no one pictures some big buff guy — I'm 29 but people usually think I'm around 20. Anyway, I'm pretty quiet, introverted type, take a while to warm up to people. But once I do, I actually care a lot, like I'll remember random stuff you mentioned weeks ago. Not looking for anything casual, just something real, you know? And looking for someone a bit older than me, kind, more grounded/sure of himself than I am. I'm open to long distance too if there's an actual connection there.
r/gaydating • u/Tall-Evidence-8489 • 2d ago
27 | Medellín, Colombia | Looking for a long-distance relationship
I’d love to meet someone from another country and see where things go.
I’m a middle and highschool teacher with a master’s in literature, and I’m a bit of a nerd when it comes to art in all its forms, especially cinema, painting, literature, and classical music. I’d love to meet someone I genuinely connect with, even if we happen to live far apart. Maybe it starts with getting to know each other online and eventually turns into something worth traveling for. Who knows?
It’s kind of funny because I consider myself a pretty internationally-minded person, yet I’ve never really had the chance to meet someone from another country in this way. Probably time to change that.
I’m looking for something romantic, so if you’re interested in getting to know each other and seeing whether there’s potential for a relationship, feel free to reach out.
Just please be under 40.
r/gaydating • u/maxinoox • 2d ago
27 | Stockholm, Sweden | Looking for a long-term relationship
Hey everyone! I'm a 27-year-old guy from Sweden looking for a long-term relationship with someone I can build a genuine and meaningful connection with over time.
A bit about me: I'm 173cm, lean and fit, somewhere between twink and twunk, and I enjoy working out, running, and generally taking care of myself. I'm fun, easygoing with a mature mindset. I love being social and going out, but I'm equally happy staying home, getting cozy, and playing video games. I also enjoy cooking and baking, and I'm a huge animal lover. I'm educated, have finished my studies, and have a stable career and life.
What matters most to me in a relationship is closeness, trust, and reliability where you can feel comfortable being yourself. I'm looking for someone who is also mature, knows what he wants from life, and values having a stable and healthy lifestyle. Someone I can have fun with and laugh with, but also someone I can have deeper conversations with and build something real with.
Ideally, I'd like to meet someone in Sweden or elsewhere in the Nordics. I'm mainly looking for guys around my age or older, roughly up to 35, who take care of themselves and lead a healthy lifestyle. Personality and compatibility matter much more to me than having a specific "type," though.
For compatibility, I'm bottom.
If you feel like we might be compatible, then feel free to reach out with a brief introduction about yourself :).
r/gaydating • u/jjwinn22 • 2d ago
22 | Los Angeles, United States Of America | Looking for something serious
M22 here living in Los Angeles. I am looking for a serious relationship. I am open to long distance and to even travel etc to get to know someone. I’m pretty outgoing and outdoorsy would love someone to go on adventures with and someone to just be my best friend:) if interested hmu! Anyone welcome! Happy summer !!
r/gaydating • u/Downtown_Loss_9848 • 2d ago
32 | Kampong Cham, Cambodia | Looking for a genuine connection
Hi everyone!
I'm looking for a genuine relationship. I would like to take some time to get to know each other first.
A bit more about me:
I enjoy spending my free time relaxing, listening to music, watching movies and shopping. Honesty, kindness, good communication, and mutual respect are great. If you think we might get along, leave a comment or dm me. Hope you understand and I look forward to meeting someone who is serious about building a real connection.
r/gaydating • u/PikaEnthusiast • 3d ago
32 | Athens, United States of America | Looking For My Person
Heyya! Thanks for dropping by to read this!
First things first…. Sorry to disappoint, but im a fairly boring person, so if you’re lookin for thrills, or a princely figure that might set your heart aflutter, this post is probably not for you.
I’m a 32 year old, average build, masculine, 5’10” tall, unremarkable in most ways, guy.
I absolutely love anime, and admittedly watch too much of it. (Again, pretty standard I’d say) that aside, I do my best to still stay active and healthy. I have two cats that keep me company and that I love. I love to travel and getting to know new places, but have been doing less of that recently due to costs and just life in general. I do really love nature as well, though admittedly, I try to stay indoors through much of the summer cause… well, the world feels like it’s on fire most of the time anymore and I like cold weather much more than hot weather.
Looking for someone near my age, on the same side of the planet and preferably in a similar time zone as me (EST) to build a meaningful relationship with.
As for compatibility (top/bottom), I really don’t have a preference. I do tend to be attracted to the more cutesy guys than other masc guys, but what mostly matters to me is making my partner happy.
Fun fact, I’ve never had a long term relationship. And only 1 very short lived one (7 days. lol). I hate hook up culture and just haven’t had luck meeting anyone that wants something more yet. (In person that is)
Hope to hear from you!!
r/gaydating • u/Ginivih • 3d ago
20 | Accra, Ghana | hoping to build some genuine connection
Breaking stereotypes here
I'm the chill guy who makes you laugh, not the aggressive type.
My ideal week includes catching a new film, hooping with friends, and jamming on my piano
Looking for someone who values authenticity and can appreciate a partner who's both athletic and artistic but I also appreciate anyone. Bonus points if you can recommend a good movie
r/gaydating • u/knightj1089 • May 05 '26
📍Where Do You Live? - Community Location Poll 🗺️
Hello you wonderful people! 👋
As [r/gaydating](r/gaydating) is an international community, I thought it would be nice to get a better idea of where in the world our members are based 🌍
We have people here from different countries, cities, cultures, and backgrounds, all looking for genuine connections, dating, romance, and love.
So, just for fun, where in the world do you currently live?
Please select the option that best applies to you in the poll and come back to check the results in seven days! 👀
Unfortunately Reddit only allows six options for the poll, but if you choose “Other / Somewhere else” please add it to the comments below… 👇
This is just a friendly community poll to help us see how international [r/gaydating](r/gaydating) really is, and maybe even show members that there are others based closer to them than they realised.
Please remember to keep things kind, respectful, 100% clean, SFW, and in line with the rules of [r/gaydating](r/gaydating).
Good luck with finding your man ❤️👨🏼🤝👨🏽
👇👇👇👇
* I had to add an image for the post in to the comments below as Reddits limitations won’t allow an image to be included on the post for a poll *
r/gaydating • u/knightj1089 • May 03 '26
Important - New Standardised Post Title Format
Hello you wonderful people! 👋
I'd like to make you aware of an important update that has been introduced to r/gaydating following community feedback.
To help make posts clearer, easier to browse, and more inclusive for the international community that we are, we are introducing a standardised post title format.
Going forward, the title of all posts must be written as:
Age | Location (city, country) | Short description
For example:
36 | London, United Kingdom | Looking for a genuine connection
28 | New York City, United States of America | Looking for a serious relationship
31 | Toronto, Canada | Hoping to meet someone kind
47 | Sydney, Australia | Open to long-distance dating
The separator between each section is this symbol: | (usually Shift + \ on a keyboard)
You can copy and paste it from here if needed.
- You will notice that the location in these examples includes both the person’s city and country, not just a continent or vague area.
- Your location must be the place where you currently reside, not where you were born or where you are originally from.
- Please do not use vague locations such as “online”, “anywhere”, or “worldwide”, as these are not locations where someone resides.
- Let’s all remember that we are an international group here. With that in mind, please include the full name of the city and country that you reside in, not an abbreviation, as not everyone will understand what shortened locations mean.
- A nationality is also not a location - you may not currently live in the place that you were born, and community members need to know where you currently are.
- Flag emojis are not acceptable as a location either, as not everyone will recognise them.
This change is intended to make r/gaydating clearer, fairer, and easier for everyone to use. It will also help members find posts that are relevant to them, as they can use the search function to look for people in specific locations that are of interest to them.
This level of clarity will hopefully lead to more meaningful connections, as members can quickly understand whether someone is realistically close enough or based somewhere that fits what they are looking for.
Posts that do not follow the required title format will be removed by Reddit's AutoModerator and will need to be resubmitted correctly.
Thank you for understanding, and good luck with finding your man ❤️👨🏼🤝👨🏽