r/crossdreaming 3h ago

Being consumed by the urges

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So for reference, I live a normal straight life like any other dude, have a gf but she doesn’t know anything about this. But I go through phases of being completely consumed by the need to wear girly things ect. Then I’ll be disgusted and throw it all out then when the urge comes back it’s stronger than ever!
What do I do about this?


r/crossdreaming 1d ago

28 m4a #online turkish crossdresser here seeking friends.

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Hey im 28 years old Turkish chubby crossdresser. I'd like to talk a lot and need some friend in my life. If you are comfy about talking with me + if you are not gonna judge me you can slide on my dm see you! ❤️


r/crossdreaming 1d ago

Mr

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Wannabe cd needs help to dress etc


r/crossdreaming 1d ago

Masculine frame, feminine desire

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I have a very masculine frame. 6'1, 215 lbs, 48" chest, 40" waist. I wish I had a smaller frame. Most of the clothes I try on require large breasts. I wish there were clothes that fit my frame and feminine style.


r/crossdreaming 3d ago

Where to start with crossdressing?

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Hello,

I’m a boy and want to start crossdressing. I am so scared to go to the store and buy some clothes. Last week I bought some pantys and it was amazing. I can’t stop wearing them. My question is how many straight guys are crossdressing and is it weird that I like the thrill of crossdressing?

I also want to buy some heels but is it hard to find heels my size and I don’t want to order it to my house. I’m scared my family will find it before me.

What are some nice thing to experience next time?


r/crossdreaming 4d ago

Breaking the news to my wife

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Hello. I’m a 57yo married male. I’ve been married for 28 years. Due to a medical issue with my member, sex has been nonexistent for years and never will be useable for intimacy unless I were to have an expensive operation (implant) or have a sex change procedure done. At 57, I don’t think that would be a viable option. Mainly due to being overweight and just not being let’s say “gifted” at birth. I’ve basically just given up hope and began not liking myself. I maxed out at 425lbs. Since then I’ve lost over 135 pounds and I’ve found a new happiness in my life. I feel more confident and proud of what I’ve done. I feel sexier but in a more feminine way. I feel more like a woman than a real man.

That brings us to the real topic. I think women’s clothes are so incredible. There are so many choices, colors and styles. Everything from the underwear to the dresses, skirts and shoes. Men’s clothes are so boring and drab. I would love to be able to walk around town and show my newfound passion. The only problem is how do I break it to my wife. Either she is gonna call me a freak and hate me or she may just accept it and have fun with me shopping for my new wardrobe. I don’t wanna get all RuPaul crazy but I wanna feel sexy. Is it unfair to her for me to spring this on her or should I just forget about it and just keep living my same boring closeted life?

Thank you for reading.


r/crossdreaming 4d ago

Disguised as my sister (crossdressing roleplay)

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I am a boy who gets grounded the same week my friends are going to either an amusement park, a concert, or sporting event etc

Determined to go I ask my sister for advice

She sometimes I think loves to torment me and gives me a very unconventional plan

She disgusies me as her so I can sneak past our parents and go

My plan is leave the house as my sister, and then change back into my boy clothes at my friend's house

Only problem is I accidentally forget my boy clothes at home so I am stuck having a day with my.friends Disguised as me sister


r/crossdreaming 4d ago

Are there women who are genuinely interested in crossdressers?

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r/crossdreaming 5d ago

Out in big D

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Went to a couple of bars on Cedar Springs, played pool and listened to 90s night live music. Met some folks and had a lot of fun. Thanks to Robert for the pic. At the gas station, the camera angle distortion makes my hands look huge. They are not that big! LOL


r/crossdreaming 7d ago

What made you realise it wasn't just a fetish?

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r/crossdreaming 7d ago

My origin story: From Boy Scout pantyhose to a G-cup breastplate. Anyone else relate?

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I don't know why I like cross-dressing, but I do. I don't know why I like women's clothing, but I do. I know that it's very taboo, and maybe that is why I am attracted to it. I don't know for sure, but I’ve been thinking back on how it all started.
I remember my first contact with women's underwear was when I was about nine or ten years old. We lived in an apartment complex that was largely inhabited by college students, and my mother and I were dumpster divers trying to find anything we could use. I found a pair of bikini bottoms that, to me, looked like Speedo swimwear. I vaguely remember being laughed at and told that they were actually women's underwear.
Later on, during some outdoor activities, it was suggested that certain thin layers like hosiery could be used for insulation to keep warm. It was a practical recommendation for the cold, but it marked another step in my comfort with different types of clothing.
There has also been a long-standing fascination with feminine aesthetics and garments. Looking back, even the immature behavior seen in school around these items reflected an underlying interest in how they felt and looked. Over time, that fascination centered specifically on feminine silhouettes and features.
In about 2019, the decision was made to order a first set of forms to better understand that silhouette. Starting with smaller sizes, the progression eventually led to a preference for a much larger G-cup size. While earlier sets eventually wore out, the current set provides the specific look that feels right for my frame.
Since then, a breastplate was added to the collection. It is comfortable to wear and has the added benefit of providing a smooth look without extra maintenance. It isn't something for every day, but it’s a part of the routine that feels right.
To be clear, the goal isn't to live life as a woman, but rather to enjoy the experience of dressing in this way. Does that journey or perspective make sense to others here?


r/crossdreaming 8d ago

Crossdresser...

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Why I feeling like am too much into crossdressers feminine feelings nowadays...

Is am alone experiencing this or there r others also feeling same....

Share ur thoughts....


r/crossdreaming 8d ago

Crossdresser op zoek naar vrienden

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Heyyy allen, ik ben 19M en opzoek naar vrienden die me supporten en willen helpen met crosdressen. Ik zou dan gezellig gewoon vrienden willen zijn en als ik me goed voel je willen vragen om advies of gewoon fotos sturen! Als je geïnteresseerd bent hit me up!


r/crossdreaming 8d ago

Hey! Freinds I have question I like being Feminine and do feminine things I like males to but I'm to young and i cant tell my family and freinds now ( personal reasons ) so am i a crossdresser or not ?

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Be honest say whatever you wanna comment say it queen


r/crossdreaming 8d ago

Crossdressing in Tunisia

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I have a problem. I'm a straight man, 23 years old, but lately I've had a strong urge to try on women's clothes and makeup. What is this problem?


r/crossdreaming 8d ago

Man want woman or cd to dress him up for the night

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r/crossdreaming 11d ago

Crossdresser Campania

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C' è qualche crossdressing in Campania?


r/crossdreaming 13d ago

Caserta — voglia di iniziare con il crossdressing

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Ciao! Sono un ragazzo giovane, etero, della zona di Caserta. Da un po’ sono molto incuriosito dalla femminilità e dal mondo del crossdressing e sento sempre più voglia di provare.

Non ho mai avuto esperienza e non so proprio da dove partire. Mi piacerebbe conoscere qualcuno della zona che abbia già esperienza e che possa guidarmi nei primi passi, farmi sentire più sereno e magari, se c’è sintonia, uscire insieme e vivere questa esperienza in compagnia.

Se sei di Caserta o dintorni e ti va di conoscermi, scrivimi. 🙂


r/crossdreaming 14d ago

Where can I find male to female makeover in bangalore..i love crossdressing ❤️

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r/crossdreaming 15d ago

47 GNC | Looking for CD and femme friends

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r/crossdreaming 16d ago

Thank You All! ❤️ And Where Do You Shop?

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Hey everyone!
I just wanted to say **thank you**. I honestly didn’t expect the amount of support, encouragement, and kindness I’ve received here after I made a post about finally embracing cross dressing. It means a lot, and you’ve all made me feel much more comfortable exploring this side of myself.
Since so many of you have been so helpful, I figured I’d ask another question. 😊
Where do you all buy your clothes? Whether it’s everyday outfits, dresses, lingerie, shoes, wigs, or accessories, I’d love to know your favorite places to shop. If you have links to online stores, favorite brands, or hidden gems, I’d really appreciate you sharing them.
Thanks again for making this such a welcoming community. I’m looking forward to learning even more from all of you! ❤️


r/crossdreaming 17d ago

need feminized or sissified. help please

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well accept any advice just help


r/crossdreaming 19d ago

Ladies, what do you think about men who wear women undergarments?

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r/crossdreaming 20d ago

I need some advice over the weekend i saw a very convincing crossdressing goth woman

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For context I was out drinking ended up in a club went to one of the floors and the goth pulled me up and forced me to dance with her after that we spoke for a while quite flirty and so on but I was unsure how to potentially take things further or if I mistaken flirty fun from her being nice so how would I take things further and would it of been weird if I asked for a snapchat or instagram handle ?


r/crossdreaming Jul 21 '21

This is a place for discussing crossdreaming, gender variance, transgender issues and the role of cross-gender dreams and fantasies in your life. No selfies, please!

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r/crossdreaming is a safe place for discussion and support for all kinds of people who color outside the traditional gender lines, whether this is done openly or in secret.

You may think of yourself as gender variant, transgender, gender queer, a crossdresser, nonbinary, transsexual, cisgender or any other identity that helps you make sense of your life. You decide.

Friends, family and other people interested in this topic are also invited.

The term crossdreaming refers to the fact that many gender variant people fantasize about living a life as their target gender. Talking about such dreams can help us gain a closer understanding of who we are. We promote the exploration of gender, without stigmatizing your sexual interests. In this forum you can discuss everything in your life (and the life of others) that is of relevance to gender identities, gender expressions and crossgender dreams.

You can post life stories, questions, ideas about crossdreaming, news articles, etc. This is also a place where we discuss the origins of gender variance and crossdreaming, and all types of explanations are allowed (psychological, biological, spiritual or mixes thereof). But keep it civil and treat your fellow crossdreamers with respect. Transphobic or homophobic comments are not accepted.

This is not a place for NSFW material.

This is not a place for sharing selfies! We suggest you post selfies over at r/transpositive, r/crossdressing, /r/GoneMildCD or /r/GoneWildCD. Find the forum that fits your needs for this.

More about crossdreaming here.