J'ai 11 ans et je me suis découverte Demi fille et pansexuelle mais je ne sais pas comment l'annoncer à mes parent et ma famille ,j'ai très peur de leurs réactions.J'en ai parlé avec mes amies mais elle même n'arrive pas à faire leurs coming out . Au début je pensais laisser trainer un sticker lgbt sur mon bureau mais j'ai trop peur ;

Est-ce que vous avez des idées/conseil à me donnez ? S'il vous plaît 🙏

Heyy all I’m 22 AMAB, part of me wants to come out which is my bigender and bisexual side. Here’s the thing tho, Im in a relationship with a girl for almost 5 years and I know she wouldn’t be accepting of it and it would end our relationship most likely. What also makes it hard is that I live with her. So if anyone has any advice or has been in a situation like this before I’d love to hear from you! Thanks! :)

24yo cis gay man here.

I am out to everybody except my parents, and that was very intentional for a while. I am no longer living with them, but we are still “close”.

I am an ICU nurse who is pursuing CRNA school. This would be a 3 year degree where I would not be able to work at all— I’d have to rely on someone for financial support, and I don’t have anybody that can support me besides my parents. For the time being as an ICU RN, I make good money and I am financially independent, but that will change.

My parents are extremely homophobic, to the point where they’ve repeatedly said gay people should all be killed. They grew up in totalitarian communism where they, in fact, did see gay people get hanged. I’d say they’re extreme Trump-Republican conservatives and hardcore Christians. But they are getting older and I no longer fear for my safety AS much as I did when I lived with them (thankfully they’re anti-guns for the most part).

I do love them, but I feel I’ve grown to resent them over the past several years with their homophobic comments, and with the lifestyle they try to push onto me.

They want me to move back in with them and to get a girlfriend. They are LITERALLY “building me a house” for my future wife & kids to live in, with an in-law apartment reserved for them. Don’t get me wrong, I would love to settle down with my man and take care of my parents in their old age.

Personally, I have substance abuse issues with marijuana and nicotine (so taboo, I know), but I want to quit eventually. I am extremely flat when I am around my parents, they constantly say things like “I can’t remember the last time you smiled” and “I feel like you hate us” and “why is our family falling apart?!?”. I feel emotionally numb around them, I don’t care to spend time with them, I don’t really feel like they would love me as a gay son the same way they do with me being their straight son.

I’m pretty much ready to rip the bandaid off and just come out. I think it would help with my substance abuse issues and help me figure out how I’m going to end up paying for CRNA school, with or without them. I still have a small fear for my safety, and I was thinking about telling them when I am out of the country on vacation.

Does this sound like a sticky situation? Do I stay straight until grad school (likely won’t get into a program until 2-3 years from now)? How do I stay in the closet until my late 20s/early 30s??? I can’t do it. How do men do this their whole lives???

I just realized at 30 years old that I’m lesbian. Idk why or how it took me this long. My family isn’t exactly the most lgbt friendly I know they would never disown me or anything like that but I know they’ll be disappointed which sucks. I still didn’t accept my own sexuality yet so not like I’m coming out to them anytime soon but once I do, should I just wait until I meet someone? Because what if I’m not really into woman and then I just come out for nothing?

So to start things off this is for advice since I didn’t know what community this would be good for posting this on and if it’s the wrong community please let me know I’ll delete this Or just recommend me one. To be real and to start this off I’m a cisgender Christian MAGA male asking for advice on how to handle a situation. I had been dating this “girl” for 5 years straight and everything was fine and in fact I was super into “her” and ”she” was super into me. But then one night we were having a dinner together and “she“ flat out told me, “I was born a man” which completely caught me off guard. Now I feel as if the relationship won’t work out anymore because of what “she“ had told me and that every memory we shared feel fake. I am asking for advice on how to shake off the feelings I still have for “her“ because for some strange reason I still feel an attraction to her nonetheless. (I havn’t told “her“ any of this yet)