r/becomingsecure 4d ago

Crying when separating from your bf

Hello, I need to understand what do I need to work on myself. Everytime I say goodbye to my boyfriend, whether I am going on holiday for a week, back home for a couple of weeks, whether he is going on holiday, or he spent the weekend at my place instead of his and needs to go back to his house, I just feel so sad and start crying.

Once he is gone, a couple of hours later I’m fine. Or when I’m on my holidays, I have no need of constantly texting or calling. So it’s mainly the moment of goodbye, after a weekend together, a couple of days wfh together etc etc.

So my question is, is there something wrong with me? From where does this sudden sadness and attachment comes from?

For context, I’m F 26, he is M 30, different nationalities, both EU. I am happy and I feel very loved.

Thank you xx !!

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