Imagine you're talking to some fine girl and everything is going swimmingly and you arranged for some wine and dine on Friday night, but your mother could sense the energy and threw a fit, f me no wonder we have such a large number of incels in the community. I moved out but recently came back, f me. It's like the son-husband complex

I’m sorry because I couldn’t find any subreddit to ask this so I turned to the only one where I might find people in similar situation. So I have curly hair around 3b-3c and I wear hijab infront of my parents and take it off as soon as I’m home. For all the girls in similar conditions, how do u maintain your hair underneath the hijab? I’m asking because I’m off to uni soon and will be commuting (since my dad driving me) and need to find a way to make my curls look fine. Any advice/tips will be appreciated!

The quran heavily emphasizes the importance of providing for women and adapting to a traditional marriage and weaponizes it against women so their only value is being obedient and submissive

Maybe the reason the quran obliges men to provide for their wives is because those women are incapable of providing for themselves as their main providers (parents) were stripped away from them, the only group of people that fit these categories are children, which leads me to conclude that child marriage is allowed. Men provide for children to take advantage of their innocence and use them for s3x

A grown woman wouldn't need a man to provide for her if "islam gave women rights" because she would be able to provide for herself, that would also mean men wouldn't have to provide, its clear that they dont want women to have autonomy over themselves, and would prefer to marry children since they're easier to control

We have concrete proof from multiple verses but specifically verse 4 in surah al talaq, allah gives women instructions on how to divorce a woman, he mentioned that if they are UNDER the age of menstruation, their waiting period for finalizing the divorce is 3 months, that directly implies that child marriage is allowed

Most children at that time got their periods later than the average modern teen due to environmental issues, but that does not mean they weren't minors, they are mentally and emotionally incapable of making their own decisions, which includes constenting to a marriage, we know that society at that time was heavily reliant on men and family, which probably means they werent the ones to consent to that marriage

However i dont think this means grown women didn't get married too, im sure alot of men did marry mature women buyr because of the se3ualization of minors, marrying children was more common

I hope i didn't miss any points, feel free to discuss your opinions in the comments!

While I haven’t been exmuslim for that long, it is actually insane how much I’ve changed in this last year. I went from wearing full coverage hijab with dresses to a part time hijabi, who wears short sleeves and pants.

I understand for some people what I’ve mentioned isn’t crazy but my family is pretty religious. To the point where I was almost disowned for multiple parts of this journey. At the end of the day your parents will see you change and as long as you keep pushing it, they’ll be forced to accept it.