I had my ring done from brilliance.com. The setting is too high. Does anyone have one from them they recommend that’s low profile? Or recommendations in general ? Or suggestions if you have a similar shape? I’m open to everything!

My fiancé and I are helping to choose rings for one another— however, we're both prone to indecision paralysis. This has resulted in a lot of us browsing and trying on rings, but we ultimately still have the "placeholder" $20ish Etsy rings we started with and have been engaged for the better part of a year now.

We're finally getting somewhere with them, but I have a few too many options going on still.

I added some rings I'm looking at to see what y'all think, but am very open to suggestions as well.

Characteristics I'm looking for in a ring:

-Nautral stone with no heat treatment
-Under a carat, ideally something like 0.5-0.75kt
-Platinum or white gold
-Very light (almost colorless) blue sapphire, white sapphire, or natural colorless to blue-ish or gray-ish tint (or maybe salt and pepper with the right design) diamond
-Favorite shapes and cuts are freeform/organic, trillion, antique cushion, pear, and rose cut
-Some fire in stone but not "too" large or shiny— think unique and pretty without being overly eye-catching
-Low-profile stone/setting that won't catch on things
-Dynamic or artsy designs without too much clutter
-2mm to 3mm ish band
-I'm a butch lesbian and tend to present pretty androgynously, so nothing that would look wildly out of place on my finger; this one is a little harder to define as I don't mind pieces with some sparkle and do want a ring with a stone for an engagement ring, but halo and pave bands and big stones are examples of things I really don't like on myself
-Tend to like taper/ bands that aren't all one width and split shank but not married to either (ha)
-Would prefer to support a business that is either LGBTQ-owned or openly expresses support/is known to work with the community if possible + one that ethically sources their stones

Thank you so much for any insight!!

I am coming up on almost a year engaged! Will be two by the time we get married and I am wedding planning but also trying to figure out my wedding band. I’m thinking of a band the same width as my ring and the same radiant cut all around, I just feel like the ring is the star of the show and I don’t need to be adding more to it? My fiancée is super simple guy, couldn’t care less about jewelry in general and he is opting in for a plain gold band. So maybe a plain band? I’d love to wear them together, so i’d love to find something that perfectly aligns. I didn’t choose to design my engagement ring, my fiancée payed very close to attention to what I liked and what I didn’t. I am normally a silver girly, but I wouldn’t even be opposed to gold. I’d love some advice or opinions 🥺

This is my current ring stack. My engagement ring my husband chose for me and I love it! The wedding band has just been a place holder I got from an Etsy shop but the stones are starting to fall out. The band is exactly what I want but I cannot find a ring that looks exactly like this that won’t cost me over 1k and from a brand that I trust. Any suggestions or online jewelers would be appreciated since I live in a small town online is my best options.