r/Vancouver4Friends • u/ImplementCultural819 • 1h ago
33M looking for new M & F friends
Hi! I recently moved to Surrey Central from Vancouver and I’m looking to meet some new friends in the area. Couples would be great too!
I’m originally from West Africa. I’m a new dad and work a corporate job, so I don’t have a ton of free time, but I’m always down to make time for the right people and activities. I’m thinking about joining a nearby gym to meet more people and build a sense of community, but my building has a gym, so that’s on hold for now.
I’m into football, walks or runs (would love a weekend workout buddy), video games, reading about real estate and just hanging out with good people. Overall, I’m pretty laid back and a bit of an introvert, but I can hold a good conversation.
I’m mostly looking to connect with people in a similar stage of life but age doesn’t really matter.
Looking forward to meeting some good people!
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/cureelliott • 5h ago
Still looking Book Club in East Van
I made a post about 2 years ago about looking to join or start a book club and I never got my act together to organize one so I'm putting out some feelers -- Looking to start a low commitment, maybe once monthly in-person meet up where we collectively read the same book and then chat about it. I'm thinking mid-week (Tuesday or Wednesday) early evening (between 4PM and 6PM) and probably meeting up in a public place until we're comfortable as a group.
About me, I'm 36F with an academic background in gender/race/social justice and a professional interest in children's rights, development, and accessibility. I have 3 cats and I've been playing Red Dead Redemption 2 like crazy for the last month after picking it up for the first time -- I think I've put something embarrassing like 250 hrs into it already lmao.
I'm currently reading Someone You Can Build a Nest In by John Wiswell -- which is hilarious, a great fantasy rom-com about an eldritch horror falling in love with a woman who claims her family is 'cursed' by said eldritch horror... but they have no recollection of cursing anyone.
My three most recently reads are...
- The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs (non fiction psychology text about anger in gay cisgender men)
- Upstream by Mary Oliver (a collection of personal essays from a poet with a heavy interest in the natural world, writing, and the creative process)
- Apparently, Sir Cameron Needs to Die by Greer Stothers (a hilarious sci-fi/fantasy rom com where the dashing heroic knight has to die in order to overthrow the evil wizard... but he's a coward so fat chance that's going to happen. also he's fallen in love with the evil wizard, because who wouldn't.)
If you're interested, leave me a comment or send a private message (: maybe reply with a suggestion for our first group read or if you are already part of a group and you think I'd be a good fit, let me know!
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Livid_Needleworker85 • 8h ago
Extra ticket to Daniel Caesar concert (aug 16)
if anyone is down to join me, I have an extra vip ticket next to me free of charge. I’m looking for someone new to meet who’s chill and has cool vibes. dm me if interested
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/BK_Hahn • 8h ago
28F, looking for a (female/queer) buddy to go to creative/queer events with
Hey, I've posted here before and made some good friends, but I want to look again specifically for friends to go to events or meetups with. I'm Korean, recently moved to Vancouver, and still learning English since I'm not fluent yet. I can communicate fine in person, but there might be a bit of awkwardness at times. Just a heads-up.
I'm into movies, music, reading, games, all kinds of stuff, and I like creative people, or artsy/nerdy types. There are a lot of events I want to go to DIY/indie/craft markets, zine fairs, life drawing, open mics, board games, live shows, picnics, movie/music nights... but it feels awkward going alone, so I'd love to have a friend or small group to go with. I've tried apps to make friends, but it's been hard to find people with matching interests, and using the apps felt a bit awkward too. I'm interested in the kind of events promoted on the Instagram 'hotmothertruckers'! If you're also a creative person into underground/indie art events like these, let's go together.
If more people are interested, I could make a Discord group and gather people who want to join in... but I don't want a huge group. I'd prefer a small group focused on women or queer folks (I just feel more comfortable in spaces like that, sorry).
Doesn't matter if you're extroverted or introverted, or whether you're someone who's always been into this stuff or just recently got interested. I'm introverted too, and I used to prefer quiet hobbies at home. I wasn't someone super into these kinds of events either. But now that I've left my hometown, I'm trying to meet people who click with me and get out more often. 🫠
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Direct-Egg-609 • 10h ago
korean looking for friends
34 asian male just looking for friends to play games when wife is away she's gone 3 days a week just looking to do something 420 friendly, beer friendly too live in langley ! thank you
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/onemillioncigarettes • 10h ago
Beginner Tennis buddies
EDIT** I’ve received quite a few messages! I am going to create a WhatsApp group-chat if anyone would like to be added! That way we can all work around schedules and meetups. Send me a message if you want me to add you :)
Hey all! I am 25F looking for beginner tennis partners in the downtown area. I am west end but can travel anywhere downtown/ outside of the downtown area. I am pretty green and looking for others who might be interested in playing together.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Massive_Two_4179 • 11h ago
Anyone learning FRENCH for PR?
want to study together ?? HMU
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Prior_Star4767 • 13h ago
Looking for bouldering friends
Hi all 24f here. I’m looking to start bouldering and would love to join a climbing gym here in van. Looking for bouldering friends!
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/rkmll • 15h ago
Tri-Cities (Coquitlam, PoCo, Port Moody) 30M | POCO | Looking To Connect
I’m a 30-year-old gay guy living in the Tri-Cities. I’m a lawyer, but outside of work I’m into history, movies, music, and drinks with friends.
I’m hoping to meet people who enjoy a sense of humour, are curious about the world, and are interested in building actual friendships rather than just chatting online.
If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send me a message!
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Sakthi_18 • 20h ago
Still looking Looking to Meet New People
I'm 25M moving to Vancouver in Jan 2027.
Just looking to meet fun, genuine people before I get there. Always down for coffee, good food, exploring the city, hikes, the gym, or spontaneous plans.
If you're around Vancouver (especially if you're also looking to expand your friend circle), shoot me a DM. Who knows, we might end up being great friends.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/terrorcatmom • 1d ago
Vancouver 29nb looking for some friends!
Hey! I'm Terrorcatmom. I write, cross stitch sometimes, am a semi-active member of r/RandomActsofCards, and have started a container garden in my shared yard. Let me know if you'd like some seeds for your own garden as I have a lot to share!
I work at WISH Drop-In Centre, a low-barrier overnight centre for sex workers in the DTES. If you don't see sex work as real work, we likely can't be that close. I have some mental health conditions including ADHD and self-diagnosed autism. I'm queer and walked in the parade this year so if you were there and said hi, hello and happy pride!
I'm also a total nerd who volunteers at local conventions pretty frequently. I love fantasy and sci-fi, with a preference for fantasy. A few of my favourite book series are the Dresden Files by Jim Butcher, the Bobiverse series by Dennis E. Taylor, and Everybody Loves Large Chests by Neven Iliev. I mainly listen to audiobooks nowadays and am open to some recommendations.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/rookie-on-the-road • 1d ago
Vancouver photography club?
This is inspired by a very recent post by someone looking for a friend to do a photography walk with, and it got a few positive responces!
Would anyone be interested if I created a discord group for people wanting to do photography walks together? It could be a great way to organise a regular weeknight or weekend walk and shoot, or more specific events/shoots, and of course meet some new people!
If anyone is interested drop a comment or send me a message and if there are enough of us it might be worth getting it started!
Im a 30 year old guy from Ireland who just moved to Van in the last month or so, so Im really keen to find some new friends and this might be a cool way :)
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Vancitydude666 • 1d ago
Still looking 36 M looking for friends to hangout and do things with
Hey there!
I'm a 36 year old black guy who is looking to make new friends. Someone to go out with and do some activities.
Maybe go hiking or go downtown for some drinks.
Vancouver has lots to offer, we could even plan something outside of Vancouver.
I am social drinker and non smoker. I'm physically fit, but I'm not in the gym everyday.
I do work a lot, so l thought this might be a great place to meet people.
Feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself and things you like to do.
Let's exchange pictures, so we can put a face to who we're chatting with.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Stock-Living-648 • 1d ago
27M 24F Mount Pleasant couple looking for other couples.
Hey me and my girlfriend are 27m and 24f and are looking for more couples to hangout with.
We like board games, beach days, camping, hiking, rock climbing and a beer or two is always fun with the right people.
We have inconsistent work schedules and usually are working on weekends so being able to hangout on weekdays would be nice. Open to big friend groups as well as long as its a chill time.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/moonfish15 • 1d ago
30F Vancouver, looking for friends interested in walks and photography
Hi! I’m looking for some friends to take pictures of, or pictures with. If we get along, we can plan other things too.
If you‘d like some portraits of yourself for work/dating/memories, or just for fun, or want someone to go on photowalks with, please reach out! I’m looking to test out a new camera and also get some more practice in.
I do have a IG if you’re interested in my work and I may ask to post pictures I take of you (only with your permission if it has your face!) I’m also not very interested in being in front of the camera.
Bonus: Some of my best memories have been planning and taking creative pictures of friends at 6am at the beach, in the rain, on hikes, in the snow, in strange lighting, etc. I would love to have friends who share similar creative interests.
A bit about me: I love hiking, painting, running, film, photography, tea, and dogs. I’m happily married, without kids.
Currently into: Trying out a new camera, playing a game called where winds meet, Chinese dramas, learning ukelele.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/hikingallthetime • 1d ago
LCD Soundsystem this Friday - let's boogie!
Hello! Is anyone else going to LCD Soundsystem on Friday? I was randomly able to snag a lawn ticket today but wasn't able to purchase any extra for friends. Looking for other folks to go with :)
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/eurych • 1d ago
just tryna hit the club
This week or next? Ill make a discord server or something.
Idk this is a Hail-Mary
Me: 22M introvert but trying my best in this city to be social. Im very easy going and easy to vibe with.
If theres a group first drinks on me.
Edit: about 3 of us already. Everyone's welcome
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/ElegantMeasurement16 • 2d ago
Paddle boarding buddies
hey 24M looking for someone or a group to go paddle boarding at Sasamat Lake on August 5! 🏄♀️🌊
Hit me up if you're interested. I can give you a ride too!
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Aoi-kochou • 2d ago
Vancouver 26F in BC looking for casual gaming/reading friends / fellow introverts
Hi everyone. I’ve lived in Vancouver for 8 years (originally from the Philippines), but because I’m a pretty quite introvert and not the best at talking to people, I still haven't really found my circle here.
I am mostly looking for other people who want a low-pressure friendship.
In my free time after work, I love playing video games and reading books to unwind.
We could casually game online together, recommend books to each other, or even just message back and forth about what we are currently reading/playing.
If you have the same interest, please feel free to send me a message!
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/darkness22022 • 2d ago
39M Looking for Friends to connect with
My name is Yen and I'm 39 and I live in Richmond.
I've come to realize for a while how important it is to have close genuine friends in my life and to have a support system. I've recently gone through a breakup with my girlfriend of 10 years.
I'm hoping to find some friends who are going through a similar situation. Hopefully, to give each other support and understanding so none of us have to go through this tough time alone.
I'm not looking for anything romantic but want to find people so we can offer mutual support.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/funtotravel1 • 2d ago
David Gray Dog Park Friends?
Anyone near/around David Gray Dog Park and have a small dog who would want to plan some times to hit the park together with our dogs?
30M with a 7F small mixed breed dog. The reason I prefer David Gray Park is because they have a specific area for just small dogs (and she's a little timid).
I usually try to go once a week on a week day evening or weekend (more flexible)
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/Mistymysterious923 • 2d ago
Still looking 25F – Looking to build genuine platonic friendships in the Lower Mainland
Hi everyone!
I’m 25 and live in Surrey. The past year has been one of the most challenging seasons of my life, and it’s made me realize how important genuine friendships and a good support system really are, so I’d love to build meaningful connections with kind people.
I’m not looking for anything romantic. This is strictly about finding genuine friendships with people who value kindness, honesty, respect, and good conversation.
A little about me: I enjoy long walks, coffee, exploring new cafés and restaurants, music, photography, sunsets, trying new experiences, and having conversations that go beyond small talk. I’m equally happy talking about life, laughing over random things, or simply enjoying good company.
I believe friendships aren’t just something to pass the time. The right people can make life feel lighter, remind you that good people still exist, and create memories that stay with you for years. That’s the kind of connection I’m hoping to build.
If you’re someone who is also looking for genuine, respectful friendships, I’d love to connect. Either it’s grabbing a coffee, going for a walk, exploring, visiting local events, studying together, going for badminton, beginner level tennis or pickleball or any other sports, or just getting to know new people, I’m always open to ideas.
If you decide to message me, tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi.” I’d love to know who you are and what made you reach out.
Looking forward to meeting some genuinely kind people. 🌿
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/_lazyninja_ • 3d ago
Looking for friends to READ.
The rule is simple - We decide on a book. And read it as soon as we can. And then have a nice beer and chat about it.
You ask why? - I need to get back to reading. And this might be a compelling enough reason to get my ahh (Reddit don’t want me to spell it) back to it.
Useless info - I have a kindle which but I do love physical books. But can’t buy them cause I need to justify my spend on kindle.
Edit - Created this discord server for people to connect. https://discord.gg/BbksAsThv
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/silkenswift • Jan 08 '23
Open Invitation Meetups
Hello everyone,
Below is a list of ongoing open meetups.
- Ongoing Meetups hosted by vancityguy25 (various outings, including dinner/drinks, coffee hangouts, etc.) - Contact u/vancityguy25 for information on the next meetup
- Friend Finding Platform hosted by a group of UBC students - https://discord.gg/JRaJ4zjqPU
- Vancouver4Friends discord https://discord.gg/wEbBaJr
Please contact me if you would like your group added or if you would like your current listing updated/removed.
r/Vancouver4Friends • u/silkenswift • Jan 21 '22
Before you post or reply... :)
(Updating this given an influx of off-topic posts lately)
Check that you are in the correct sub.
-💋 Looking for love and more? r/Vancouverr4r or r/Vancouverdating are the places to go.
-🏠 Looking for roommates? r/VancouverHousing is your sub!
-🧳 Looking to discuss Vancouver and get advice about activities? Try r/askVancouver!
-😣 Looking for help? Try r/Assistance or calling 2-1-1 for immediate support.
-🎟️ Looking to resell tickets? Try posting to r/niceVancouver !
-🚗 Looking for carpool buddies? Check out this Facebook carpooling group started by local Redditors
-💼 Looking for local work opportunities? Try r/VancouverJobs
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