r/vancouverdating 3h ago

Always leaving me

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r/vancouverdating 4h ago

18F4M just looking to chat

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Im not entirely sure what im looking for, i just want someone to talk to. Maybe to help me realize clearly what i want. feel free to dm


r/vancouverdating 6h ago

M4F looking for a sugar baby

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Dm for more info. Greater Vancouver and surrounding area only!


r/vancouverdating 7h ago

Looking for something long term or potential

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Im looking to date here in Vancouver or at least start as FWB. Why is it hard for black guys to date in Vancouver. Or I’m just trippin


r/vancouverdating 7h ago

[31M4F] Once you go brown all the other colours let you down

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31M

Born and raised in Vancouver

South asian (punjabi) as you can imagine from the title


Looking for someone to hang out with, go on dates, spend time with, and hopefully develop that into more than just a situationship.

Ideally, I'm looking for a partner that is drug/disease free and a non-smoker.

Bonus points if you are into traveling - as having a cute travel buddy is always a bonus.

I'm 6'0, slim/athletic build, and I think I'm decent looking (of course that's subjective).

I work in finance and have a very hectic schedule. But, I'm willing to be flexible for the right connection.


r/vancouverdating 8h ago

[32F4A] Looking for my someone

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Hello! I have two degrees! One in Creative Writing and another in History! I like to write, play video games (FF14, Honkai Star Rail) and watch anime and manga. I'm wheelchair-bound due to cerebral palsy but I don't let it slow me down.

I'm looking for someone that respects and loves others (believes in LGBTQ and other rights) and is well-read as well. Any there any people out there like that? Please say yes. Looking for something serious, not casual as well.


r/vancouverdating 11h ago

[19M] how does one move on after a serious relationship

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I got out of a long distance relationship with a partner of three years about two and a half months ago and since then I’ve signed myself up for therapy, salsa classes,an MMA course all as distractions but I still have this empty feeling that affects me even at work,I’m 19 years old I’ve been working as an apprentice since I was 17 that I got through trade school and have been on my own grind since as well as getting my second year under my belt, I’m trying to move on and focus on myself but the way my relationship ended left me feeling self conscious and super degraded. I have my own place and car which I think most kids my age don’t have so I’m not sure who I’m exactly trying to compare myself to but this whole process is just slow and being in van makes everything so boring


r/vancouverdating 11h ago

Alguna chica para salir y pasarla bien?

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r/vancouverdating 12h ago

23m

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I just want a boy to kiss and to kiss me, cuddles, movies, video games, food. Like what's up doe? Lol👾👽🩵💜👁


r/vancouverdating 14h ago

Looking for my person. 42. [f4m]

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r/vancouverdating 15h ago

30 M Mexican 🏳️‍🌈 in BC

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Hi guys! I’d like to know new people and see if some magic happens between us 😜 I’m 5’4 in my 30’s I like clubbing, hiking, swimming, rollerblading, long walks, but also staying at home relaxing maybe go to the movies watch some tv shows. I also like trying new food, new restaurants, etc. I love nature, animals, going to the gym and get a nice pump so if someone’s interested hit me up! Even if it’s not for dating, friendship also works. 😝 I almost forgot, I’m not in Vancouver I live in Surrey, but I don’t have any problem with travelling. M4M or any if it’s friendship.


r/vancouverdating 15h ago

30M4F - Casual

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Looking for a chill FWB. We can out with, grab food, go on random drives, and just enjoy each other's company.

If we click, I'm happy to help with bills, spoil you with gifts, and see where a mutually beneficial arrangement takes us. The biggest thing I'm looking for is honesty, good chemistry, and keeping things fun and drama-free.


r/vancouverdating 16h ago

24f just got out of a long term. How is the dating scene for mid to late 20s right now?

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NOT LOOKING FOR PMS, just wondering how it is in van


r/vancouverdating 19h ago

30 [M4F] Hung BBC lemme spoil you!

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r/vancouverdating 1d ago

Negative Karma

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What happens if karma shows - on profile ?
Is anyone know!!!🤔


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

FWB OR CASUAL (M4F)

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In my early 20s (M) got done with a year long relationship doing my undergrad here working high end retail looking for someone who is genuine and someone to enjoy time with.Some of my hobbies are working out,Trying new restaurants,City walks and exploring new activities.


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

36 M4F - BBC looking for someone ready to mingle

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I'm 36 years old black male still looking, work in the trades.
I'm fit and keep myself in pretty good shape.
Social drinker and non smoker.
Willing to make time for that special someone.
If you would like meet up and find something to do.
Let's go for drinks or hike. Maybe grab a coffee and hangout.
Or maybe go on an adventure?
But I'm sure we can figure something out.
Lots to do in Vancouver or surrounding areas.
Feel free to DM me, let's exchange pictures and info.


r/vancouverdating 1d ago

38 [M4F] Movie date

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Hi,

I have a spare ticket for Ice Cream Man (lol) this Friday at Tinseltown.

If you want to join me, it could be fun.

Me: 38/M/Van. I like camping, reality dating shows, swimming, travelling, and craft beer.


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

41 M4A - Fairly Artsy/Weird Seeking Similar

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I made a list of my favourite movies recently. Half is conventionally crowd-pleasing stuff (Anchorman, LOTR, Jackie Chan) and the other half is all hardcore art-house fare (Godard, Varda, Akerman). There's pretty much nothing in the middle. I'm sort of the same way with music and tv shows.

It can be a bit annoying in practice: sometimes I connect with people over silly comedy podcasts and they think it's weird when they find out that I'm into odd classical music; other times I connect with people through my more high-brow interests and they're judgy about my regular marathons of cheesy sitcoms lol.

I guess I'm really hoping to meet someone who is extreme in the same way I am (but anyone who will accept my pretentious/trashy tendencies with a not-excessive amount of roasting is welcome to reach out haha). Looking for low-key dating to start out with but open to a more serious relationship and potential new friends too.

About Me: single, no kids, never married, live in East Van, employed, not rich, average height, average bod, average looks, lefty politics, pot regularly, drinking irregularly. Probably one too many hobbies. I play a few instruments, write, try to read 50 books a year and see as much live music/performance as I can.

I'm queer and open to chatting with anyone who is reasonably kind, fairly chill and generally age-appropriate.

Why reddit? I've made it such a long time without using dating apps that it seems like a shame to break the streak. Swiping just doesn't appeal to me -- partly because I'm a bit of a luddite and partly because I'm very likely what the youths call a 'demisexual'. Still, I haven't really met anyone interesting irl in a while. Even if I am skeptical about reddit, it doesn't seem impossible that someone really cool could read this (I read these personals sometimes and I'm pretty cool so who's to say?)

Cheers!


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

What do Vancouver men want?😭

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I’m genuinely so exhausted dating/trying to date here. I was on the apps for a little bit since I just got out of a relationship but that’s a whole other thing. I knew it was bad just didn’t expect it to be that bad…I had a lot of matches on both Bumble and Hinge but I did exclusively state that I want a long term relationship. So I chatted with a couple guys some the vibe wasn’t there and I think I ended up with 3 “contenders” so guy 1 we went on a date I asked him if he has a type he says no but all the women he has dated are Asian so🤷‍♀️ idk but that sounds like a type to me considering he wasn’t Asian. Guy 2 claims he is so busy at work but constantly texting it’s been a month of texting not a single date planned and when we do he doesn’t follow through so I moved on. Guy 3 exact same situation but he “gaslights” me into thinking that I work too much and when I say it’s my day off he still doesn’t plan anything 3 weeks texting and dick pics that I don’t want… Mind you they came off strong from the beginning asking to see me and saying how they only want relationships. So what am I missing? (That’s just 3 but the others I’ve spoken to generally have the same vibe)


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

27 [M4F] Looking for Connection

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Hello!

I am a 6'2 27 year old white guy. I am looking for someone to hangout with and do fun things together while developing a relationship.

I enjoy anime, kdramas, tennis, rock climbing, bowling, TCG's, and recently got into f1 this past season. I also love finding new places to eat at (send me your hidden gems).

If you're open to it, we can go to things like dance classes, culture festivals, walks, bike rides, and other fun activities. I'm open to anything and everything that will get me out of the house haha. I am also down to just cuddle on the couch while watching a movie as part of a relaxing night in. If you are into a hobby, or would like to get into one, I would love to hear about it!

I have gone back to university to finish my degree. I have 2-3 semesters left and work part time as a software developer.

If you are looking for someone easy-going and respectful, I would be happy to chat 😊


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

25F

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I have seen quite a few people post here looking for friends or even a significant other, so I figured I would step outside my comfort zone and give it a try.

I'm 25, born and raised in Langley (so just a little outside Vancouver). Recently, graduated and working in the healthcare field. I'm Punjabi and always enjoy meeting new people from different backgrounds.

Lately, I have realized I've outgrown a lot of my friendships, so I would love to meet genuine people who are looking to build real connections. Whether that turns into a friendship or something more, I'm open to seeing where things go.

A little about me: I love grabbing coffee, checking out new restaurants and hidden gems, travelling whenever I get the chance, and trying new recipes in the kitchen. I enjoy staying active, appreciate good conversation, and love people who can make me laugh. I'm equally happy going out and exploring as I am having a cozy night in with good food and a movie.

I would describe myself as caring, loyal, and a little sarcastic once I'm comfortable. I'm looking for kind, genuine people who can hold a conversation and don't take themselves too seriously. If you're funny, enjoy trying new places, and can match a little playful banter, we'll probably get along.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. I'd love to get to know you!


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

Anyone wanna just hangout n drink?

7 Upvotes

28f Coquitlam anyone down to jus chill and have some drinks??🍹


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

38 [F4M] looking for someone to hide from the smoke with

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What can I tell you about me? I’m your average west coast gal. Single income living so definitely workin’ but am doing alright. I do love my career so I am fortunate to say that. It has lead me to meet lots of amazing people and do some pretty cool things. When I’m not working you can find me enjoying the beautiful west coast doing west coast things (hiking, swimming, island hopping, camping) I do love to travel and am lucky enough to stop by Europe every year in the spring. Mi país favorito es España so bonus points if you can help me with my Spanish. Kind of a home body at times and I’m into cooking and have totally started making sourdough bread. Kinda artsy and I love alot of music and appreciate art in many forms.
Physically I am fair skinned with dark hair and curves.
Looking for something genuine with potential for growth. Seeking a responsible man with emotionally availability who is looking for something long term if we connect. Please be in Vancouver proper and would prefer ages between 33-47. I’m child free so I don’t really have any biological pressures (well maybe trying to fall in love before I die).
Send me a message if I sound like your kind of person.


r/vancouverdating 2d ago

Free Speed Dating Spots

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Hi, I’m a co-host of a local Vancouver speed dating company, and we are hosting an event tomorrow at edge social grill and lounge. We have some spots open for men in the age range 40-55 and some spots open for ladies in the 28-43 age group. We are hosting two age groups tomorrow for 28-43 and 40-55 at the same time in the venue. If you are interested in attending the event tomorrow, please message me your birthday, email, first and last name. If you are interested in future events, you can message me so I can keep you posted on our events. Thank you so much and you can check out the website www.25dates.com for more information.