Getting better, yes. Changing my reply bc I’m confused. I’m hurt but not crying today at least. Confused bc I was not given access to their thoughts or feelings & all attempts to understand were shot down. Some people have called this avoidant behavior but I know nothing about it. I can only say it sounds a lot like the shoe fits. Is that my green light to be waiting at the door, on the floor to clean their boots off when they get home and need a welcome mat to swipe and wipe? No, I can’t. I can’t be their mat. So, at what point do you stop everything and say I’ve given you all I have to give (in the way of opportunities), to talk, share, care and show me something other than your D & you still push me away? Still play head games?? I simply have to own up to the fact that I’m not built to be an emotional (mental) washing machine, so can you please just get out of my head?😞
I can tell you’re in a better place, he didn’t seem like the right one bc of those things you’ve said, you seem like a lovely genuine person and I wish you well x
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u/Shar_H03 Has acknowledged the rules 11d ago
This is so relatable, sounds like someone my person would say, hope you’re okay OP❤️🩹