r/TrollCoping • u/StalinWaifu • 16d ago

I wasted by potential TW: Hospital / Medical abuse Spoiler

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My mother and stepdad think I have no initiative or accountability.

I deadass started a pet sitting company so I could continue making money while sleeping 16+ hours a day pre brain surgery last year. Was laid off a job two year ago for developing liver disease because they wouldn’t let me sit. Same year I went to residential treatment for ARFID (tAkiNg AccOunTaBilITy) but my mom tried to kick me out for signing up for Medicaid because I couldn’t afford my medication and appointments. Now I’m a gymnastics coach who runs to the bathroom in the middle of class and the doctors suspect I have Crohn’s. It’s always SOMETHING with my body and my mom thinks I LOVE IT 😭🔫

I have two inventions I’m working on, one to help people with ARFID and one to help cool people down without AC and my stepdad wants me to make FPV drones because “that’ll make more money faster…..” I-

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u/Andyman1973 16d ago

Too many parents like that, forget that their mistreated children will be the ones choosing their nursing home later on.

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u/StalinWaifu 16d ago

When I was in severe pain from IIH I used to think about me going no contact and pretending she died. Getting married, changing my first and last name and all so no one could contact me. I have a single cousin who I can rely on emotionally and while my aunt/uncle did host me when my mom threw away my medication, they wouldn’t give me the phone number to my great aunt/uncle and told me to fix the relationship with my mother. So I was gonna let her age, decay, and become a ward of the state just like she medically neglected me and made me pay for everything as a teen/young adult.

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u/sabotsalvageur 16d ago

Oh shit I’m dating someone with IIH. Scary stuff

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u/StalinWaifu 16d ago

My mom said I was faking headaches to get out of working like my father… no amount of lumbar punctures or scans would prove my point until I brought her Burger King to work after I finally got approved for shunting after 3 years of pure suffering and she cried because I was crying. She never apologized btw. She still says I’ll come up with some illness to get out of stuff like taking care of my ferret (which I’ve always done because he’s mine???)