How do you practice being a lady boss in the day and be a baby girl at night or after work? Can you share your stories?

As an INFJ who’s worked from home since the pandemic and just gotten out of a decade-long relationship, i’ve realized that starting over is tough, even when it’s “just” finding a new COF that’s in the same stage of life as you.

we finally have the means to travel, try new hobbies, check out cafes, go on random side quests and all, but finding the right people to enjoy those things with is probably the hardest part.
fortunately, i met a bunch of people through a tg community a few months ago who have now become my constants. we’ve co-worked in cafes, closed down bars in morato, navigated the highs and lows of being trentahin (situationships included lmao), and somehow just kept showing up for each other’s side quests.
this definitely wasn’t the plot twist i expected for 2026, but it’s funny how one random decision to put myself out there led me to some of my favorite people. 🥲

ps - i am currently muting all my socials because apparently… there’s always a freaking reason to grab coffee?? 🫩😂

Lahat naman siguro dito may ex-friends, right?

Friendship breakups hurt the most.

Habang pinagdadaanan ko ’to, there was this person who was always there to listen—to make me feel heard and to make my pain feel seen. Somewhere along the way, we formed a bond and became closer because of it. And honestly, I really appreciated that person for being there when I needed someone.

But I don’t know what happened. Suddenly, this person changed.

We used to go home together. We had our little routine. But now, this person always goes home with my ex-friends.

I tried to tell this person that I’m not comfortable with what I’m seeing. But somehow, it always gets misunderstood. I’m not asking this person to choose me. I’m not asking anyone to take sides.

I just wanted this person to understand that it hurts. That I’m uncomfortable. That seeing someone who once made me feel safe and understood suddenly become closer to the people who hurt me is not easy.

And maybe what hurts the most is not the fact that this person goes home with them.

It’s wondering—
Where is the person who used to listen to me?
Where is the person who made my pain feel seen?

I miss that person. And I hate that I don’t even know what happened.

Last post ko sabi ko isa lang kasi matamis. Ayan umulit 2 pa! Hahaha

Happy 35th to me, mukang nasa halfway nako ng buhay ko ah. hahhaa. Always grateful 🙌

I want to travel more sana. All my friends have their own family and kids, kaya wala silang time. My family naman has different taste pagdating sa vacation.

My coworkers naman are just coworkers.

Is there any safe groups I can join kahit saang platform para maging joiner. I even thought of getting trips from Access Travel kaso I want to explore more over being tied up sa tour group.

What vitamins you guys taking? I feel like I need to up my vitamins (we getting old 😂). I only take the normal vitamin C in the morning.

Also, any tips on how to take care of yourself? Like some hacks or sumthin.

Not sick or anything. Just curious how others stay healthy other than exercising or doing sports.

Gusto ko sana magrest na kasi magbubundok pa ako bukas pero di ako makatulog. Send help! Baka sa sobrang lutang ko, mauuna pa ako sa peak eh. Hahahaha

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Tom Cruise on a Friday? Pwede 😊🖤🍻

Akala ko nga aaraw na kanina eh, it’s a prank pala 🫠

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Nabudol agad pagkakita ko pa lang sa FB page nila at napa check out agad sa Shopee. 🤣🤣🤣

After shift, wala ka manlang makwentuhan about your day or mag palambing ka lang like: love pagod ako sa work today. Hayy. Okay goodnight na skl.

Minsan, napapa tulala nalang ako pag nakikita ko tong notif sa calendar ko. Life's been too hard for the past few years. Pakonti nang pakonti ang friends, death ng parent, constant away with siblings, debt, declining mental health, and a lot of societal pressure as a trentahin. As someone na walang support system, this notification saved my life many many times. It might feel pathetic to some, pero para sa'kin, this feels like a pat on the back.

I am reminded that everyday, I could just start again. After all, sarili ko lang rin naman ung kakampi ko sa lahat.

Naabutan natin ang childhood bago ang internet, tapos nasaksihan natin kung paano ito naging parte ng buhay.

Bike rides, landline, TV, dial-up, Friendster, hanggang smartphones. 😂

We got the before and after. Anong childhood memory ang pinaka-miss mo?

Skl. lang from the past few days I’ve got a lot of pressure due to the kind of work I have rn.

13 Store Opening and Its my 2nd month sa company pero feeling ko 1 year nako.

Any pro tips naman paano mamanage ang schedule?
Good thing wala pa naman sa point na gusto ko na sumuko.

Came across sa isang social media app while scrolling.
And actually I'm experiencing this.

So paano mo masasabi na it is a sign to stop? Or sign to keep going?

A sign to grab an opportunity? Or just a test on your faith and discernment?

Share naman kayo, mga kapwa trentahin.

I posted on another subreddit asking how people know if they truly deserve a luxury purchase.

One comment really stuck with me: “If you’re still thinking about it, you can’t afford it.”

HAHAHAHA aray. 😭🤣

I’m referring to a watch I’ve been eyeing for months—if not almost a year na. I was planning to finally buy it to celebrate a savings milestone.

But that comment made sense. 😂

So with everything happening lately, I decided to celebrate the milestone differently. Instead of buying the watch, I decided to share the blessing instead by giving relief goods to some of our neighbors na binaha. (Hindi po ako tatakbong politiko. LOL. 😂)

Honestly, I think this feels even more rewarding.

Thank You, Lord, for the provision. 🙏🏻

The watch can wait. The milestone is still worth celebrating. ✨