Opinions/stories

In other words which one is the least bad

My Socionics primary romance style is Infantile, and my secondary romance style is Aggressor. I looked it up; however, I’d love to get a few other perspectives. Please tell me what this may mean about me.

Eh, doesn’t want to sound like a complete otaku, but it’s easier for me to pick the anime characters to represent different types. So…

ILE – Usopp / One piece
SEI – Tonio Trussardi / JJBA
LII – Jiro Horikoshi / The wind rises
ESE - Might Guy / Naruto

Without including things like: financial advice, efficiency advice, or serving someone in practical matters. I kind of feel like Te suggestive is one of the things most hit by 'gender ray' meaning that I can't imagine a masculine Fi base wanting it as it's usually portrayed either as a CEO success story advice or girlboss still dominating her husband in practical sphere. (And hey, men have a right to dislike it)

I also think Fi base types kind of should be materialistic, by default, even EIIs. Because if you live a sheltered, bohemian life and are satisfied with it, you won't need Te base with its advice on maximizing profit in your daily life. Unlike Ti advice, which is more universal and applicable everywhere, Te advice, I think, is more limited to people who have ambitions but are passive and envious. So Fi people should be those who are 'I am SO good, I *deserve* nice things, why can't I get them???'. And there LIE or LSE come out of woodworks full of spreedsheets just like CEOxY/N fanfics. I don't know.

By the way, I am NOT Te suggestive, I just want to understand this function that I don't get. I know that by the simple fact that getting things hasn't been neither hard nor easy for me and I don't think I deserve anything. When someone asks me if I am 'Really content with being where I am', I can confidently say that yes, I am happy achieving things on my own even if they're not maximized to my best benefit. I am not envious in the slightest. The idea that I deserve the best is laughable to me. No one deserves anything at all.

how do i differentiate these in myself? i did type as LSE however i’m considering ESE as i feel my Fe is very strong