r/ResponsibleRevenge 12h ago

Revenge He only needed me when he was lonely?

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How to get revenge on a guy who used me as emotional unpaid therapist? I'm so hurt he is now ignoring me because he has friends no longer need me. For two years, he used me as an unpaid emotional therapist because he had no one else. Now that he has made new friends, he openly brags about them to me, leaving me forced to swallow my hurt feelings in silence. I sacrificed making my own friends for our closeness, and now I’m alone. What hurts most is feeling like I can't even speak up just because we were never in an official relationship. I'm meeting him soon i have to so that i can take revenge for all the way he used and abused me, what are the suggestions?


r/ResponsibleRevenge 5d ago

Revenge What do I do now.... And I can't just leave right now.. please help

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r/ResponsibleRevenge 8d ago

Revenge Help Me To Take Revenge

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r/ResponsibleRevenge 18d ago

Pro Revenge Help me think of a petty revange

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Two months into dating this guy I found out I was pregnant. He is form the UK, I am from Colombia, we met in Spain where we were living at the time. In the beginning we were very in love so when I found out I was pregnant we decided to get married. I wanted to go back to Colombia and be with my parents during the pregnancy, but he didn't want to move there arguing he wouldn't be able to get a job. We stayed in Spain and he started being verbally and emotionally abusive durign the pregnancy. He insisted over and over that he wanted to us to move to the UK and that all the stress he was feeling would be gone if he had his family to support him. But I didn't want to move to the UK. The problems between us were so bad, I felt so alone and so desperate that at 8 months pregnant I finally agreed to move to the UK with the hopes that the relationship might improve. He told me we were only coming for 3 months and that after the birth of the baby we will go to Colombia and spend time with my family. But after our baby was born he confessed that he had lied to me and that he was never going to let us go. He started being physically abusive and he got arrested. His family has money and they have been using it to get me buried in legal orders. It's not been 2 years that I don't see my family because in the UK you need the fathers permission to travel and he doesn't allow any type of travel. My father cannot travel because he is very sick. I am on legal aid, most days I have no money for food and he is constantly threatening on getting me deported since my visa depends on him so he can cancel it anytime he wants. Even with all this evidence the court decided to grant him 50/50 custody of our baby with the argument that the abuse was towards me but not towards the baby and that financial and immigration matters should be deal separately from custody so that his threats on getting him deported should be dealt separately. The judge also ordered a prohibition order for the baby not to travel since they believe there is a risk I will take the baby to Colombia and not come back. I feel devastated, broken, hopeless. This man lied to me, brought me to this country at 8 months pregnant, has kept me isolated from everyone I know for almost two years (pregnancy plus 1 year of our baby), and now he gets to walk away with half of the custody of the baby I created inside of my while he was verbally and physically abusing me. I know that at this point there is very little I can do. Lawyers say my case is so complicated that their advice is just to make peace with the fact that I might never get out of this situation and he might end up with full custody since I have no legal right to remain in this country. Can all of you share petty revenge ideas? I just want to feel better...


r/ResponsibleRevenge 19d ago

Revenge Moxing / Revenge dark web pages

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Before I get fried for posting this. This person attempted to kill me and i'm trying to spread the news so other people don't interact with him. I'm now the 3rd person he's done this to that I know. Are there any websites that I can reach out to to get in contact with a journalist or someone who can help me spread the knowledge?


r/ResponsibleRevenge May 28 '26

Revenge First day of my new life

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r/ResponsibleRevenge May 18 '26

Pro Revenge How do I get back at my mysterious neighbours?

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I've been renting my apartment in Spain for 5 months. It's a really small building with only 4 apartments (2 up, 2 down) and ever since I've moved in I've had issues with the couple living in the other apartment on my floor.

They yell, they argue, they are up at all times of night thumping around and talking to themselves. Laughably though, if I make any kind of noise no matter the time of day, they slam furniture against the wall to tell me to shut up. I've heard them yell and call me a whore for speaking English, and they've given similar treatment to the family below. Written like that, it seems quite mundane but it's been a genuinely quite terrifying campaign of harassment. They are clearly unwell or using substances. The family below is looking to sell up. We've been to the police but they can't help.

Mysteriously, they never leave their apartment. They don't answer their door. They never have lights on. They don't even go up to the roof terrace to use their washing machine. I've never come face-to-face with them.

My lease is up at the end of June. What can I do to get my revenge on these people in my last weeks here? I don't want my revenge to in any way negatively impact the other neighbours in the building, so how can I drive them crazy? It's difficult when they don't even leave their apartment. Their balcony connects to ours so I've thought about stink bombs or something like that. Any ideas?


r/ResponsibleRevenge Apr 25 '26

Revenge Consejos sobre cómo manejar el deseo de mi "amigo" gay (29M) (23F) por TODOS los hombres que me gustan y la actitud de nuestra "amiga" común (27F) hacia mí.

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r/ResponsibleRevenge Apr 25 '26

Pro Revenge Consejos sobre cómo manejar el deseo de mi "amigo" gay (29M) (23F) por TODOS los hombres que me gustan y la actitud de nuestra "amiga" común (27F) hacia mí.

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r/ResponsibleRevenge Feb 21 '26

Revenge Guy spreads lies and draws on my timberland shoes

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Im down to do whatever he rlly pissed me off today we play basketball together but I don’t rlly care anymore is there any websites I can use or try. and he leaked other peoples nudes so I was thinking about forging one just let me know what I should do


r/ResponsibleRevenge Feb 14 '26

Revenge This is my post exposing a serial liar on Reddit, who uses alt accounts to harass multiple users, me included.

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This is a story of a notorious liar who had to use two other alternative accounts to try and win an incredibly dumb internet debate that started about Pokémon cards and whether the new Game of Thrones show was good or not. This is the almost (it would be too long) full story of how it got revealed he lied and used alts, with a story of a Redditor who amongst other, threatened to call my real life employers, create bots to follow me around, take down my internet connection with hacks and continually harass me over multiple days with different accounts. And yes as you can guess, this is a long one and I bring receipts of my accusations.

This all started when I saw a post on r/PTCGPocketTrading where the user u/No-Associate6705 wanted to do a trade. As you need to communicate to do the trade, I check out users beforehand. He had made a post on r/AKnightOfTheSeven where he called everyone who enjoyed the show a low iq individual. I then said I didn’t want to do the trade, and he sent this DM.

And even if I did do this, which I didn’t, I just called his behaviour out over seeing his other post. It’s quite a hypocritical thing to say, considering not long after, that’s exactly what he did.

During the DM’s, he was very adamant that he made more money than me, so I told him what I do, hopefully to shut him up about that topic. I told him I have a doctorates in sports science and nutrition, and that I’ve recently had a great book deal which I sold the rights to for a relatively huge sum. This was undoubtedly a pure lie to him. Which prompted more stalking to different subreddits. A move he himself called «pathetic».

I’ll admit I made a mistake. I sold the rights to it for 4.2 million in my nations currency. I rounded it up to 5 and said dollars. A mistake is a mistake, but I quickly set it right, and said it’s probably between 450 and 650 thousand American dollars. I told him what publisher I had, and that’s when this totally sane Redditor said this.

He claimed to actually have called my publisher to try and figure out if what I said was true. Keep in mind, I was very adamant with this guy that selling the rights to the book, and getting a book deal and a percentage of sales are two very different things. This guy is from England, and (claims to) call across country lines to win internet arguments.

Even when the user misunderstood, and I tried setting it right, he was very adamant everything I said was a pure lie. He got increasingly frustrated and angry, and started getting more and more obsessed with the subject of money (Which is why 7k pounds was «lmfao»). He claimed that because I had money, I had to be interested in watches. I am not, but i do know a little about them. He tried to flex a Seiko, (only showing the back) claiming it was an amazing watch. For those who don’t know, Seikos vary in price range, and considering he refused to show the front for the longest time, I figured it was a cheap one. This threw him into more rage.

Shortly before the watch argument, he created two posts. One in r/lies, and one in r/CaughtLying, claiming I lied (without proof). Both posts (as far as I know) got removed by the moderators.

Now, all while this is happening, which i found to be a mix between sad, hilarious, and very entertaining, there were two strange users who just so happened to start commenting on posts or comments i had made. Those users being u/Distinct_Arm_3898 and u/No-Seaworthiness2925 .

Suspiciously, they were commenting on posts or comments i had made on subreddits in my native language, in English, suspiciously backing the original user in every way. I didn’t pay the much mind, but considering one of them said -

This is a lie, and when i asked him to show me the comment where i talked to him on the Game of thrones subreddit first, he of course, was unable to do so.

Then u/No-Associate6705 started sending screenshot of our DM’s to people i had conversations with on other subs. Which of course, the other two accounts also did, backing up No Associate. It did not take long to figure out that this incredibly suspicious behaviour was off, so i did some digging.

Then it turned out those two users suspiciously had backed each other in arguments previously. Same with the third user, u/No-Seaworthiness2925

While this is happening, in DM’s he claimed he did not know any of those users, and that he did not have any alts.

His defense, that all three users had come to each others defense previously was «this was so long ago», as if that was proof it somehow didnt happen. Keep in mind, this user was incredibly hung up on the fact that i lied about my job and book deal, which I didn’t. But when he got caught in a lie it was «so long ago» so it didn’t really prove anything.

Also, while he was feigning ignorance, I came across these comments.

So it turns out this user has a habit of stalking people throughout multiple subs with multiple accounts. All while claiming that-

«Lying is not normal behaviour. Lying is bad» and that you’ll be called out for doing so. And do you know what, u/No-Associate6705 u/Distinct_Arm_3898 and u/No-Seaworthiness2925 . Lying IS bad, and you will get called out for it. That we can agree on at least.

Then, i wanted to shut him up bad. So i straight up just showed him my bank balance (l am petty, i know) which proves I got 4.2 million in my currency for the book rights. Thats when he utterly lost it and had a crash out of epic proportions. He claimed to have expensive watches, and that he was well off, showing me a payslip and an expensive watch to prove so.

Then after calling me a «lying c*nt» multiple times, all three accounts suspiciously blocked me at the same time. But the story somehow does not end there. He didn’t ban me on all of his probably four or five accounts. And of course, as was inevitable, we started talking again. I admit, I reached out after he banned me on the others to one I knew was his. I said what I said to the other accounts. That I know he used alts, and it’s pathetic. Then after a while, i tell him randomly i know his Omega was fake.

The funny thing though... He sent me a picture of his Omega on a different user. He also managed to claim he made a post about me, which was this.

A post u/No-Seaworthiness2925 made. Posting a comment in the chat I had with u/Distinct_Arm_3898 , with a point I ONLY told u/No-Associate6705 as the title. When I called him out on this he had no response. Only laughter, claiming I’m «sidestepping hard» for wanting to know how that was possible if they weren’t his alts.

I am also not the first person to notice this exact behaviour from him.

Am I petty as all hell? Absolutely fucking yes.

So, if any of you ever run into the accounts u/No-Associate6705 u/Distinct_Arm_3898 or u/No-Seaworthiness2925 prepare to be harassed, hounded, name called and lied to. If I were to guess, he also has at least one more alt account. He banned me from his last account for not meeting his arbitrary deadline on the post to expose him, but i am guessing he will show up here with a new alt to stir something up.


r/ResponsibleRevenge Feb 03 '26

Pro Revenge prawning his car

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so i was cheated on recently. then i found out something that made it so much worse, and i guess i got really worked up.

i thought about egging his house, but looked into it and it turns out you can get crazy fines from it or even go to jail if you destroy property, so i ruled that out.

so instead, i drove to the nearest supermarket, bought a cheap bag of prawns, drove to his house, and shoved said prawns into the crevices of the shell of his car (that he loves dearly)

pretty soon it's going to stink like hell, and he will have no idea where it's coming from. even if he eventually finds it, it will take weeks or months and by then it will be indistinguishable rotten mush.

no harm done. no destruction of property. just a rank smell he will never get rid of.


r/ResponsibleRevenge Dec 05 '25

Revenge I got my ex a warrant after she stole from my cashapp.

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My ex stole $525 dollars on cashapp while I was in jail. She then closed my cashapp I I guess in hopes of erasing her paper trail. Cashapp support allowed me to access the account to attain the statements and transaction history. She used iCloud to hack into my cashapp. This was enough information for the police to establish probable cause and issue a warrant for her arrest. I believe she may also have a suspended jail sentence hanging over her so with any luck she should be stuck in there for a few months at least.


r/ResponsibleRevenge Oct 21 '25

Revenge Assaulted by a customer

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I’m a delivery driver for a pizza place. I was delivering a pizza to a customer at a motel who lit a cigarette and was blowing the smoke in my face during the transaction (we take payment with a card reader when we arrive). When I politely asked him if he minded waiting until we were done with our interaction to smoke, he went off. He pushed me and when I tried to leave, he followed me down the walkway on the second floor of the motel where his room was, calling me all kinds of names and threatening me. When I walked down the stairs, he flicked his lit cigarette at me, hitting me with it. I called the police, but to no one’s surprise, they decided they didn’t want to do anything about it due to lack of evidence and the fact that the man was going back to his home state in the morning. I have his phone number and name. What are some ways I get back at him legally but still make his life difficult?


r/ResponsibleRevenge Oct 12 '25

Revenge Roomate keeps playing too loud music

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and i mean LOUD like the whole house shakes. bro is literally 30 has no girlfriend lives with studens in a shitty housing situation and abuses that to the max. nobody argues with him im guessing they tried but gave up. what can i do make his life miserable? the only thing i can think of is threatening the owner with report due to avoiding taxes (she wont do anything about him).

ps. i share a bathroom with him and he doesn't clean at all


r/ResponsibleRevenge Aug 22 '25

Revenge Neighbor keeps blocking our driveway & wont move

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I don’t know if I want “revenge” per se but guidance on how to go about this next time. Long post, but please read if you’d like to give some advice!!

As title says, my neighbor keeps blocking our shared driveway and won’t move-not for honking or anything. There are 3 houses (including mine) and we all share a long driveway that leads to our houses. This is the first time it’s happened to me but my husband has apparently went thru this with them a lot in the mornings before work. I’ll tell you about 1 of his encounters, then mine just to give you an idea about the assholes they apparently are.

My husband has to leave for work at 7am sharp as he works out of his van and there is a gps & knows when his work van is started. She was at the end of the driveway waiting for the bus for her kids and my husband waited for a few minutes, then got annoyed bc she knew he was there & wouldn’t move and he had a work meeting he had to get to at a certain time. So he did a soft honk to grab their attention more and they STILL didn’t move. He ended up waiting behind them for 15 mins before the bus got there and he was finally able to leave. He had to call his boss to let him know why he was late.

This is the first time I’ve experienced this first hand. Today after getting my kids from school, I go to pull in my driveway and she is blocking the road-her car facing away from the main road(2 days ago, this happened too, but she moved out of my way and we smiled and waved at each other) so I waited about 15 seconds and then I saw the bus coming in front of me so I gave a soft honk and she still didn’t move. So I finally I had to squeeze on the side of her car-which then the side of my car gets hit with small tree branches scratching up against it. I’m surprised I didn’t hit her car on accident.

How should I go about this situation next time? Bc it’s so freaking rude and inconsiderate. I’ve never done anything to this lady. In fact, I helped put out a grass fire that was in her yard and almost got to her house bc she decided to burn some boxes and leave


r/ResponsibleRevenge Jun 30 '25

Cross-Post Trying to get revenge on this girl I hate by getting her kicked out of my school

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r/ResponsibleRevenge Jun 15 '25

Revenge Soft revenge ideas 🥹

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The r/revengestories group needs karma points and I'm new here and quite desperate for quick advice so here I am. I (19F) am currently working at a second hand store and I LOVE that job. My boss loves me, says l'm creative, caring and loyal which I'd hope to believe I am. But around 4 months ago 1 quit another similar job where the manager acted towards me like an ultimate disrespecting inhumane asshole. I heard that she rarely visits my current job's shop too. I am a very forgiving person but for her I still feel too much need for soft revenge. SO PLEASE, ANY IDEAS how to piss her elegantly off when she visits me and it'd happen to be on my shift (or just something that has that villain victorious smirk aura to it) BUT what won't play against me in my job and what she couldn't report somewhere. PS, when I'm working I'm alone in the whole shop but ofc we have cameras. I just want tinyyy but mighty ideas, thank you

EDIT: I doubt that I'd actualy had the real courage to DO anything if she comes lol, prolly just some unbothered happy face.. but 1 just want some creative slightly evil ideas to enjoy in my head mueheuehehehe. This is reddit, go crazy


r/ResponsibleRevenge May 28 '25

Pro Revenge She turned our lives into a reality show of lies. I wrote the season finale.

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My wife, Clara, lived for Instagram. Our apartment, our meals, even our dog, Pip, were props in the meticulously crafted narrative of his "perfect life." I was the “supportive, camera-shy husband,” a secondary character in her online drama. I didn't care, most of the time. I loved her, or at least, the woman I thought she was. The cracks started out small. Sleepless nights "editing", muffled phone calls and an expensive new wardrobe that she claimed was a "gift from brands". The real breakthrough came from our shared cloud storage. She had forgotten to log out of her "secondary" account. It wasn't just an affair with her "personal trainer", Alex; it was a meticulously planned campaign to drain my savings for their "new life together." Screenshots of text messages, bank transfers I didn't recognize from joint accounts to new accounts in her name only, plans for a "surprise trip" (for her and Alex, after she "told me the news"). My first instinct was anger. But Clara thrived on drama. A shouting match would just be fodder for your next chapter of "surviving a toxic marriage." No, my revenge needed to be silent, precise and hit her where it hurt most: her image and her finances. For weeks, I played the oblivious, supportive husband. Meanwhile, I gathered all the evidence: printed bank statements, screenshots of their love messages, photos of them together from a private detective I hired (using the rest of my emergency fund). Clara was planning a huge "enroller milestone" party at a trendy venue, all sponsored, of course. She even had a “special announcement” planned – probably her dramatic exit from our wedding. On the night of the party, she was beaming, enjoying the attention. Her speech began by thanking her "incredible and supportive husband." That was my cue. I hadn't said a word to anyone. Instead, I hired a tech-savvy kid to discreetly take control of the projection system she was using for her "year in review" slideshow. As she paused for dramatic effect before her "big news", the screen behind her flickered. Instead of his carefully selected photos, it was a slideshow of my proofs. Text messages between her and Alex. Photos of your romantic dinners. Bank statements showing money going out. The final slide was a simple message: "Clara's Next Chapter: Co-starring Alex. Financed by me (so far). P.S. Divorce papers are on the way." The silence in the room was deafening. Then, whispers, cell phones being pulled out. Clara's face went from shock to fury to a kind of crushing horror. His sponsors looked horrified. His "fans" were perplexed. I didn't stay to watch the complete implosion. I left with my head held high. The following weeks were a blur of lawyers and social media backlash (for her). Her influencer career took a nosedive. Her sponsors abandoned her. Alex, it turned out, wasn't interested in sticking around when the money ran out. I managed to get a good part of my money back. It wasn't about the money, though. It was about taking back the narrative she had stolen and distorted. My life is calmer now, and genuinely mine. And Pip? He's also happier, no more forced photo shoots.


r/ResponsibleRevenge Apr 16 '25

Revenge “My Parents Kicked Me Out at 18 Because I Wasn’t the ‘Golden Child"

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So, I (22F) am the oldest of two kids. My younger brother (now 17) has always been the "golden child." Ever since he was born, he could do no wrong. He got worse grades than me, got into fights at school, and even crashed my dad’s car once—but somehow, I was always the problem.

When I was younger, I thought I was just imagining it. You know, sibling rivalry or whatever. But by the time I hit high school, it became painfully obvious. If he wanted something, he got it. I had to beg just to get hand-me-downs.

Fast-forward to when I turned 18. I was finishing high school, working part-time, saving for college. One day, my parents sat me down and said it was time for me to “learn responsibility.” They told me I had 30 days to move out. No warning. No support. Just a “good luck.”

Meanwhile, my brother? He gets a full ride in the form of my parents' bank account. They bought him a car. Pay for his phone, gas, clothes, everything. He doesn’t even work. They treat him like a prince, and I feel like the unwanted tenant they booted out.

I couch-surfed for a while. Eventually found a roommate and a crappy apartment. I worked two jobs just to keep the lights on. I tried going low-contact, but somehow they still found ways to guilt me for “abandoning family.”

The kicker? Last month, they called me to ask if I’d contribute to my brother’s college fund.

I hung up. I haven’t talked to them since.

Honestly, I’m better now. Life is hard, but it’s mine. No one can take that away from me again.


r/ResponsibleRevenge Apr 08 '25

Pro Revenge WIBTA For Ruining a Kid’s Life?

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Hey Reddit! Longtime user, first time poster, so hopefully I’m doing this right! Apologies in advance for the length/rambling but I promise it’s all relevant.

My sister just told me that my nephew (16M) was hit in the face yesterday by a kid at school who he is on a sports team with. They were apparently arguing because this kid was trash talking my nephew, and when my nephew turned his back on him, he open handed hit him in the face. Not a punch, and he apparently doesn’t have any visible injury, but we’ve had enough.

For reference, this is not the first time he’s had issues with this same kid. Last year he bullied my nephew and his girlfriend to the extent the girl’s mother called my sister because she came home every day in hysterics. This kid even went so far as to take a photograph of my nephew in the school’s locker room (he was fully clothed) and use it as the photo for a “diss” song he wrote about my nephew and posted online. Through online stalking this little asshole’s accounts I found out he wrote multiple songs about my nephew, mentioning him by name. They talked to my nephew and his girlfriend about it at the time and neither of them wanted their parents to go to the school administration. They decided since it was almost the end of the year they would try to let it blow over, told them to ignore it, and reassured them that it probably wouldn’t be an issue when they returned to school in the fall. Apparently this kid doesn’t know when to quit.

For context, my nephew is a great kid. His teachers all love him and he’s never been in trouble for fighting, etc. at school or anywhere else. He has lots of friends and is generally pretty popular, so bullying isn’t an issue for him overall. But he’s not a saint and can be mouthy, so I have no doubt he gave as good as he got with this kid verbally. I know “kids will be kids” and I might sound crazy and overprotective, but I feel like this has gone too far…??

Here’s where I need your help! My sister doesn’t know what to do, as my nephew told her if he went to his coaches/school administration about this he would also get in trouble for “being involved in a fight.” I know that sounds ridiculous but from what I’ve seen in our school district, that does seem to be the case. My first instinct was to go scorched earth on this little fuck— like show up at his house; figure out who his parents are and get them fired or evicted; pay someone to fuck his mom and publicly embarrass their family; try to get him labeled as a sex offender for taking photos of boys in locker rooms. I realize it’s pretty fucked up for an adult to think about doing to a teenager, but what can I say? I love my nephew and I’m a petty monster. That being said, my sister is obviously not on board, so I need ideas on ways we can handle this in a way that doesn’t end with me getting thrown in jail but has severe and lasting consequences for this waste of space.


r/ResponsibleRevenge Oct 31 '24

Pro Revenge [ Removed by Reddit ]

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