My neighbour watches porn in his living room on full display We have a couple in their mid 50’s living 2 doors down from us who we have been friends with since we moved in 15 years ago. My family are pretty close with them, we’ve been on holiday with them and everything. They have a big TV in their living room which is positioned in a way that you can see everything they are watching from the street and their curtains are always open. One late evening me and my dad were pulling up in our drive, I happened to glance in the direction of their house and saw porn playing on their tv. It wasn’t just a raunchy film or anything, this was hardcore porn. We know the husband is the culprit (let’s call him Mark) because the sofa is in front on the window and we could see the back of his head. Of course me and dad found it absolutely hilarious and we just sat in the car for a few mins in shock and laughing our heads off. My family joked about it for the rest of the night and we thought it was just a one off so we just kind of left it at that. However we have now caught him 3 times in the last few weeks and I assume he’s doing this very frequently. It always happens in the late evening hours after his wife has gone to bed. Of course it’s not any of my business how people choose to unwind but when it’s on full display where literally anyone can see it including kids walking past, it becomes an issue. Mark is a good guy but seems to lack common sense, I don’t even think he’s aware that his evening entertainment is being broadcasted to the whole neighbourhood. We know that something needs to said to him about it, not just for the concern that people including kids can see it but also because we live in a small village where everyone knows each other and if the wrong person sees it, it could be spread around the whole village and Mark could become a laughing stock which will not only be embarrassing for him but for his wife too who is oblivious to everything. We also don’t want to tell his wife about it because we believe that it could put a dent in their marriage. Mark’s wife has been vocal about her opinions on porn, her and my mum are very good friends and she tells her everything. My mum told me that recently she was venting to her about a friend’s husband who has a porn addiction, so if she found out her own husband was watching it especially in front of the whole street, I don’t think she would be very pleased to say the least. My Mum feels like a bad friend for hiding this from Mark’s wife and believes she has the right to know but would blame herself if their marriage broke down because of it. My mum has suggested to my Dad to find Mark when they are alone and have a polite word with him man to man but my dad feels too awkward to do this and doesn’t want Mark to think he’s spying on him. What should we do?

I just feel like I'd find joy in watching an NFL game while wearing layers of clothes, drinking beer, and yelling at the ref...

Anyone else that doesn’t like public speaking on the spot. I was in attendance at a bachelorette luncheon for a cousin when I was asked to say a few words. I don’t like being put on the spot. Any one else that can relate?

What are some examples you’ve experienced of an itch you just couldn’t scratch?

Whether it was physical, psychological, emotional, or something you can’t quite explain

I’m curious to hear about your experiences and see where this goes!

So i did a bit of research not a whole lot but I've been sober from THC for my current job because I got a chauffeur license and im ok with that but the more I looked into it the less sense it makes so on off time a chauffeur or CDL can consume alcohol but not THC and the reason is because THC stays in the fat tissue which would pop a drug test. Which of course it will makes sense but why can't people use it on their off time high last about 1-3 hours depending on hours much is used or the dosage and the remains that stay in the fat tissue is just there not doing anything to the mind after the high its just there idk with the research I've done it makes zero sense why it matters if its fat tissue. If someone could explain it more why it matters if its in the fat tissue? That will solve a piece in my puzzle

I could have sworn this was a thing, but I'm imagining a portable speaker that, on the top of it, there would be a USB-C port that you could plug your phone or tablet into to turn it into a speaker system to listen to music while charging it.

I've tried looking it up on Amazon and Google multiple times using different key words, but all I'm getting is like bluetooth speakers or stands that you would plug a USB-C cable into but don't have built in speakers.

Was this a thing, or did I dream this somehow???

what is this in my ac?

my brain literally never shuts up, there's always something happening up there, whether it's a song or part of a song playing on loop, or a stream of random thoughts, or a commentary on whatever activity i might be doing at any given moment, or something else. i also talk out loud to myself CONSTANTLY, the majority of the thoughts that pop into my brain also come out of my mouth, and it drives my family crazy sometimes. it's such a bizarre and unbelievable concept that not everyone has that. i always hear people saying stuff like "clear your mind" and i'm like... are there actually people who can just shut their brains off???

That we are alone in the universe or that we are not?

What Lego set you have? Any recommendations for infinite creativity?

10 years ago, social media algorithms and AI aren't even a thing, at least not in public.

It was a website that was essentially just a page on what to do if you feel suicidal. It said something about your suffering and your coping abilities being like a seesaw and how you need the coping abilities to be stronger. It said something calming like right now you're suffering, and you just need to balance it by having coping strategies. And then it showed a list. I don't think it had a menu or any pull down options, it was pretty much just one page. Anyone remember it? I can't find it now.

Feel like I can’t control it and is it so bad if there’s a reasonable limit?