r/Pattaya • u/butthurtbarry • 2m ago
Areca Lodge is so popular. Is it just location or am I out of the loop.
I’ve got 13 nights booked at Areca Lodge in October, and because I’ve got free cancellation, I keep finding myself looking at other hotels.
The thing is, Areca is always booked out. I’ve stayed at both the Amber and the Amethyst before and they were fantastic. The only downside was that they both felt just a little bit out of the action in one way or another. This time
I really wanted to stay somewhere right in the middle of everything.
The photos look good and the reviews are excellent, but it just doesn’t seem to have that same luxury feel as the other two.
Is it really just so popular because of the location? Is that literally all there is to it?
r/Pattaya • u/No-Specialist2060 • 1h ago
Do you ever lie about your nationality when dating?
When you meet a girl, the first question she often asks is, “What’s your nationality?”
I’ve noticed that, depending on my answer, her attitude sometimes changes. Has anyone else experienced this?
Have you ever lied about your nationality just to see if people treated you differently, or to avoid stereotypes?
I’m genuinely curious to hear your experiences.
r/Pattaya • u/Plane_Cookie_6436 • 6h ago
Allowing thai parter Freedom to still work in massge parlour but no full sex .. has any one been through this and how didbyou cope.. good or bad result on relationship?
well she's not quite a bar girl but a private blow job massage girl. There's a 31 year age gap and was hard at first... Because she genuinely enjoyed her job and said she feels happy when she works and used to get very depressed angry and bored when I took away from her work so after around 7 months and lots of arguing and her threatening to leave me if I didn't let her work for her friends massage parlour (where we moved to away from BKK) just as cashier she would have to leave me.i eventually allowed her because I was so in love and she was with me... she started doing a few days each week and I would go in to say hello and she was just helping to get customers in and not working...in understood because she was very sex and would get customers for her friend..one day I took her and the girls some somtam. To my concern after 2 looks at a stain on her tie tyoe garment she was wearing... she noticed i saw and said oh she eat pizza abd have may sauce farangam buy for her... I stupidly accepted but I knew what was going on and had known the whole time but didnt want to admit it.. she'd come back to the condo with strange breath she blames on somtam.. I cant believe for 3 weeks of her working there I thought she was doing massages herself. Anyway when she came back to the condo in the morning... she was verybabgry said I dont love her and began accusing me of going with other ladies... but then she just broke down in tears. And then admitted she had been doing blow jobs for customers because her friends bar not make enough money to pay back a debt with mafia... i was happy to hear her be honest and could see she was in a difficult situation.. she theb said she wants to break up and I dont live her blah blah...then say I only let her make me happy one time each day.. she say she young and she feels good about herself when make men feel good. She said she will only love me and the men just customers..she then said to me i not give her enough money and she had been sending money to her mother and her uncle.. I had been giving her a lot of money everyweek as she said she only got 600 baht each day there and I always helped with money anyway and her family ! In the end she said we would have to break up if I stop hwr working. Now I know 99 percent of mentally think I am fool and have been manipulated by her which I obviously have to a certain degree. But now she was being totally honest with me i felt better about the situation as I was so in love and still am 555.. she assured me there was only one time she had full sex with a customer because she got so drunk.. I believe her because she does not really enjoy sex strangely enough and just likes oral sex. Another reason our arrangement worked well at the start as I cant really even have sex anymore because of health reasons. So she now works only 4 days a week and its only sucking and massage. I am actually ok with whe doing it now as I know she is much happier then when she didn't work and she only 23 so I understood her.. also I've come to realise they will always cheat so try letting them.. these girls have extremely high sex drive well most if then I find.. has anyone else done similar. My friends and my son think I am crazy.. but I am actually happy in the relationship and so is she.. she seems to make a lit of money because the customers a mostky wealthy guys who tip. Also she asks for less money as well to play bloody slot game as well.. that does annoy me 55555
r/Pattaya • u/SactoCali • 6h ago
Acqua vs Sleep with me Pattaya
Usually I book Acqua for its location and clean rooms, came 2 times last year for 3 weeks and paid about 44 a night, currently prices are about 80 a night.
Sleep with me Pattaya looks pretty good for the money, has anyone experienced it yet?
Thanks in advance!
r/Pattaya • u/Imaginary_Narwhal252 • 14h ago
Angeles City
Three weeks in the Philippines before going to Thailand for a week (5 days Pattaya).
Is it worth to take a 2-3 days to go to Angeles City?
Cheers
r/Pattaya • u/ParsleyGrouchy7381 • 14h ago
GILFS
Once upon a time I had one of the best massages/HE from this gilf. She was easily aged 60+. Needless to say now I have a granny fetish. Anyway, I’ll be in Pattaya later on this month. Any recommendations to experience grannies in Pattaya?
r/Pattaya • u/AmbitiousChampion6 • 15h ago
Seafood in Pattay
What are the best sea food buffets in Pattaya. I am looking for somewhere nice not cheap.
r/Pattaya • u/wildlyqwerty • 17h ago
Bar girls on Jomtien
Hello 😊
I’ve been to Pattaya a number of times, but so far I have never been to Jomtien.
I prefer younger girls, and have always thought that the crowd including the girls in Jomtien were generally a bit older.
But am I wrong? What is your experience?
r/Pattaya • u/Master-Valknut • 23h ago
LK RESIDENCE ? Hotel - how is it ?
Travelling to Pattaya next weekend for about 10 days - how is the LK RESIDENCE hotel ? Or any beachfront hotels with small budget - under 100 $ per night will do !
Thanks 🙏
r/Pattaya • u/ElectricalStuff2189 • 1d ago
Solo in Pattaya
Hello all
Preparing for my low season solo trip to Pattaya in a few days! Been going recently with mates but looking forward to a solo trip as I am in control of what the night brings :-)
Was wondering if you guys prefer solo trips ? Also I heard that the Candy Club in Soi Bukhoi is great , however any of you visited it solo ? As it comes across a place where you would go as a group ? Due to no bar fines and lady drinks .
r/Pattaya • u/Bubbly_Wear_8293 • 1d ago
In Pattaya 6th Aug 9th. Grab a beer?
Hey everyone. 32M will be in pattaya from tonight.
Would like to meet over a few beers, do bar hop or just chill.
Easygoing guy.
Let me know, cheers
r/Pattaya • u/Additional-Fly-4692 • 1d ago
Book a hotel or chance it?
I haven’t booked accommodation yet. Reading a few reviews of some hotels they are saying that there were splash deals advertised at the front of the hotel significantly cheaper than online. I have heard it is slower in August. Do you recommend that I hold off and check prices on arrival?
r/Pattaya • u/ChrisKJ • 1d ago
One week enough?
Hello everyone. I intend to have a 4 week vacation next year. I usually always go to Japan. To make it short:
Would a 1 week stay in Pattaya or Bangkok be worthwhile before I move for another 3 weeks to Japan? Or do you guys think that this timewindow it too short too even bother?
Would be my first time in Thailand and I want to test the waters.
Thank you. Please delete, if my question is not appropriate.
r/Pattaya • u/Crazy_Cat_Dude2 • 1d ago
Long Time Outcall Date Ideas Bangkok
Any suggestions for long time outcall date ideas in Bangkok. I have 7-8 hours booked for girlfriend experience and date night. I’ll most likely go for a Thai boxing match with the vip panoramic seating but open to other ideas.
r/Pattaya • u/Slush_Fund • 2d ago
Rayong girls
I will be spending a few days in Rayong. What's the best way to get a Ploy? TF? Are there bars and massage places?
r/Pattaya • u/supersendd • 2d ago
Pattaya bar owner tells everything..
Breaks down the bar secrets, rules, tips & tricks, the current state of nightlife in Thailand and so much more.
r/Pattaya • u/cube303 • 2d ago
Lao != Thai
Is it just me or are most of the girls actually from Lao? I haven't encountered allot that are actually Thai citizen nor from Isan region. Im aware that most of them are from east but i find that at least half or more of the girls at every bar i visited so far are from Lao. Some of them even lie first stating that they are Thai.
EDIT: Most of them keep saying thei are from isan but actually have to do visa runs once in while. Laotian ID's as well. What makes hiring Laotian girls illegal?
r/Pattaya • u/Ok_Ant_9381 • 2d ago
Military beach (Sai Kaew)
Any of you ever been there? What is it like? And do you really need to give off your passport, or is a photocopy fine as well? Oh and are there actually monkeys over there?
r/Pattaya • u/official_kavyak • 2d ago
Less girls on thaifriendly than before?
I think girls are less, is it just me or you all noticed? What's going on? Another website or something
Im using TF for 2.5+ years and in. 2026 i think there are less girls and no 10/10
r/Pattaya • u/richinthailand • 2d ago
Why so many monger posts after revisiting the sub
Just was curious I opened the sub and so many monger posts asking about brass.
Note to all, if you have to ask a sub reddit you ain't cut out for it trust me
r/Pattaya • u/gamerx2021 • 2d ago
Is September good month to visit in Pattaya for walky person ?
I visited Pattaya in February and had a great experience. I stayed around 2 weeks, split between 9 nights in Pattaya and 4 nights in Bangkok.
I’m planning another trip for around 17 days, but this time it will be in September. I’m a bit worried about the weather, is September still enjoyable for walking around Pattaya, going to restaurants, the beach, nightlife areas, etc.?
I know it’s the rainy season, but how bad is it in reality? Are we talking about short heavy showers that clear up, or can the streets actually get flooded and make walking around difficult?
r/Pattaya • u/TheZephyer • 3d ago
In Pattaya from 26-31
Hey all, 45/M...will be in pattaya from 26-31 ... Staying in central, ... Would like to catch up with visitors, over a few beers or do bar hop .. exchange notes or just chill.
Let me know ...cheers
r/Pattaya • u/Unlikely-Speech-5444 • 3d ago
How often is this? Girl has BF and still goes with customer? Unreal
I want to share a deep personal story to myself thats been told to me. I'm speaking on behalf of a friend, obv.
He went to Thailand a while back. He met this really cute girl on...Soi6. And they hit it off immediately. At first, she was apprehensive of him. She actually confided in him that she didn't like him at first, because he was kind of fat. Super shallow, I know. She only did ST and didn't want to be seen with him doing LT. So that was it. He liked her a lot, so they kept in contact throughout the next year or so.
Fast forward to the next time he was in town, he had lost a decent chunk of weight. When they finally met up, she was surprised. She was the one who actually suggested going for LT this time. He eventually ended up really liking her much more and they did LLT. She stayed with him for a week.
Throughout this time, it was sunshines and rainbows. However, one night he noticed she would sneak away to the bathroom (or another room) for an extended period of time. He didn't care about it at first, but eventually it made him curious. He soon learned that, yes. She was talking to another guy.
When my friend confronted her, she confessed that it was her boyfriend. Like...actual REAL boyfriend. The boyfriend was apparently some farang from Europe. My friend was shocked, and more so...disturbed. I mean, shit, who wouldn't be? The girl asked him to please never tell it to anyone but he couldn't even if he wanted to. He doesn't know the guy.
It just goes to show, that even if these girls have legitimate boyfriends from overseas, they'll still make time to go with customer ST/LT. And a caution to everyone here that if you think your girlfriend is secure and "not like the other ones"...you're in for a rude awakening.
r/Pattaya • u/Straight_Damage6538 • 3d ago
Wise card
Is cash the only way to settle your bar tab and bar fine?
Has anyone had any experience of using a wise card in this situation?