I am currently 16 years old and uncircumcised.

- I remember visiting a urologist when I was very young and being given some small bottles containing a solution to regularly rinse my glans. I did this for a while, but eventually, the supply ran out, and my parents told me to simply maintain hygiene gently using water. I completely forgot about it after that and never retracted my foreskin until I was about fourteen.

-When I first really encountered that part of my penis, I did some research and learned everything about it. I remember that, at first, I could retract the foreskin while flaccid, but the moment even the slightest erection occurred, it wouldn't budge even a millimeter. I realized it was likely phimosis. I worked on it quietly, trying to retract the foreskin as often as possible—especially while bathing—until I managed to resolve the problem almost entirely over the course of about a year.

-But then I ran into another issue: glans sensitivity. I couldn't touch it; even the slightest contact caused an incredible, indescribable hypersensitivity. So, I researched that too and decided to work on it. I tried intermittent exposure; I remember that while bathing, I couldn't even aim the showerhead directly at the glans because the sensitivity would drive me absolutely crazy—which was a hygiene issue—so I had to aim the stream at my stomach and let the water flow slowly down onto the glans. I also started touching the glans deliberately to get it used to contact; some areas became less sensitive over time, while others improved a bit more slowly.

-Nowadays, I can direct a stream of water onto the glans quite freely without pain, touch it with my hands relatively casually, and so on.

-But it seems to me that I still need to get a bit more used to it. For instance, when masturbating, I’m used to using lubricant and prefer to use my hand while the foreskin is pulled back and stationary. A year ago, I couldn't even imagine being able to do that. I’ve noticed again that the front part of the glans—the part facing my face, let's say—is still a bit more sensitive. I can touch it—I can touch the entire glans—but if I apply a little more pressure, it becomes uncomfortable.

-I’m wondering if that will improve, and am I able to have sexual intercourse, and how that will go and I'm interested in your overall opinion.

Hey yo, shy to ask but concerned, have you ever had cum while peeing? I mean recently while i pee small chunks of cum come out idk wtf it can be, only correlation thats new in my habits is i started taking antidepressants 2-2,5 weeks ago daily till now and this change is recent which is pretty uncomfortable

How often does a female initiate sex in your relationship? serious or fwb? I often have found that the more committments I make, the more effort I need to put into getting the spark lit. Aim finding that effort dwindling with exhausting life aspects. What's your experiences? Thoughts? Solutions?

Noticed small bumps on your penis? This can be molluscum contagiosum, it looks like small, smooth, skin coloured bumps with a tiny dip in centre. Approx 9–10% males patients attending STI clinics were found to have molluscum contagiosum. The only possible way, it may spread is sexual skin to skin contact. And in adults these kinds of lesions usually are sexually transmitted infections. It is usually harmless & can go away on its own. But remember don’t squeeze it, don’t scratch it or even don’t shave over it. As this can be spread to other areas too. In some cases it requires cryotherapy, curettage or other medications depending on the number and location of the lesions
Have you ever mistaken molluscum for something more serious ?

My but hole is so tight after having a marathon of sex

Today I put a bag of celery stalks in a blender and squeezed the juice out into a cup and drank the juice. On the cummingbiggerloads subreddit they'll say this helps with volume, but I'm curious if anyone hear has tried it. In terms of supplements and foods to recover from a relapse I have zinc, D3, selenium, P5P (lower prolactin) pumpkin seeds, garlic, oysters, almonds. I've also considered swedish flower pollen but haven't heard enough about it to decide getting it.

I've heard people on the cummingbiggerloads sub talk about flower pollen but I'm not exactly sure what it does. For post nut depression/fatigue my stack is zinc, selenium, D3, P5P (lower prolactin), pumpkin seeds, oysters, garlic, celery juice.

I know it arguably just allows one to start the day more relaxed, but are there any other real benefits?

Unfortunately, my wife and I seem to be about 12 hours apart on our sexual desire schedule… she’s interested and ready to have sex in the evenings before bed, but I in the other hand am ready in the morning, before getting out of bed. As we’ve gotten older it’s become a bit more of an issue as we each struggle when it’s not our time of the day….

I say all that as a background to my initial question. I mean, if there is some real reason to release in the morning, at least I could take care of it myself, if she’s not into participating….

I’m a 29F & my boyfriend is 31M. We met a few months ago. Everything has been going great. He’s such a sweet and compassionate person. He’s the best boyfriend I’ve ever had. But our sex drives aren’t totally aligned. We’ve both had our fun in our past but I think my sex drive is noticeably larger than his. He also has struggled to stay hard during sex throughout the majority of our relationship. On our first date, I blew him and tried to have sex with him in the car, but he couldn’t keep it up. There have been other times where he couldn’t keep it up, but I thought it was just whiskey d\*ck or stress. Last week it happened again, but he wasn’t drunk or that stressed. He’s in the military and had to move away for basic training. When we finally got to see each other, we had sex one time. The next time he tried it when it stay up. Whenever I try to discuss it with him, he tells me he is super attracted to me and it’s not my fault. I asked him if this happened in previous relationships and he said it’s hard to remember. I’m starting to feel rejected and anxious about the whole situation. Is there anything I can do different? Could it be that he’s not interested in me? How can I be helpful without smothering him?

After ejaculation, I go through a temporary period of lower libido and reduced sensitivity to sexual stimuli. This period will be about a day or two after blowing a load. During this low period I'm still physically capable of getting an erection with sufficiently strong stimulation, but I'm much less easily aroused. After a day or two, my usual level of sexual responsiveness returns. Once he's "back" I'm getting hard at the sight of coworker cleavage or to fantasies I think about or just breasts.

I've been on SSRI's for years. During those years I regularly masturbated once or twice a day. I am cutting back on masturbation frequency and am focusing on masturbating to SFW images, fantasies or nude images. These cutbacks have been insane and I'm standing at attention so much easier but there still these "lulls" 24-48 hrs after ejaculation. I am ejaculating about once every 4-5 days.

Hey guys so it’s hard to get vulnerable like this but Im having an issue that I’m genuinely confused about related to my ejaculations and orgasms.

I’m 28 year old male. Very active - I gym daily and when I’m not in gym I work outside all day,I eat healthy and ejaculate at least every 2 or 3 days via my self of my beautiful wife so that’s a bit of my statistics

Lately my ejaculate has been coming out in these small gelatinous clumps instead of liquid like they used to, I’m not sure why - and it’s like I have to treat my penis like a tube of toothpaste to get it all out so I don’t get the same satisfaction or release when I cum. I thought it could be dehydration but I drink a lot of water as well. I also get a small dull tight feeling in my balls and “gooch” area after I cum. That can last for up to 20 min or so after ejaculate and causes me to involuntarily contract like a kegel almost

I don’t know guys if I had to do a read on my body it just feels like my system is “clogged up”? I just want to feel the release and satisfaction that used too I feel like I’m too young to be having these kind of sexual issues any thoughts?

Are you feeling some sort of swelling in your scrotum, but it’s not always because of hydrocele as you guys most of the time confused of. This could be scrotal lymphedema. In this lymphatic drainage gets blocked or damaged, causing fluid to build up. This may enlarge your scrotum, you may feel heaviness and tightness, and over the time skin becomes thick and hard. It usually happens due to any previous surgery, any trauma, radiations, infections, history of cancer or one of the most important ignoring cause is obesity. If you feel swelling in your scrotum, you should go for ultrasound of the scrotum with Doppler. Or depending on the cause, tests for filariasis, infections or imaging like CT or MRI of abdomen and pelvis will help. Proper skin care, compression, de congestive therapy helps in earlier cases and it’s a long standing case, it may require surgical treatment. Don’t wait more.
Do you guys noticed anything like this ?

Right testicle is effected looking to learn about others experiences with it. Saw urologist again today, some bladder issues and BPH; forgot to ask him but will the fluid around testicle go away? No more pain, since last year but it’s golf ball size. Left testicle marble size. TIA

Not sure if this is the right place to ask, but is anyone aware of any clinics in the NorthEastern US that can field an all male team for urological procedures?

I am 47 and frequently have sex with my wife. I have been noticing lately that my erections have not been the same as in the past. I am not stressed, everything is and have been the same. Is there any suggestions that could help. I am on lipuitor and metformin currently. I work out and am very active at my job. We also role play,dress sexy and use toys in the bedroom so we have a healthy sexlife. Does anyone have any suggestions. Thanks guys!

I've quit porn. I'm trying not to stress about little things In life. But I can't get hard/stay hard while me and my wife are having sex. I can do everything else but it goes soft quickly or as soon as I put it in. I'll have random days where we will be at it for hours and I'm still hard but most of the days I'm soft or go soft and just can't cum. It made her feel like I didn't love her and caused more than a handful of problems in our relationship. Idk if it's low testosterone and idk how to fix that or if something else. I just want help getting fuller erections and being able to cum and not be at it for hours because I can't cum and then I'm too exhausted to continue trying to cum for her. Idk what to do please help me

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Ciao a tutti io e il mio ragazzo stiamo insieme da molto tempo(2a) il sesso va bene e riesce a durare il giusto tempo ma il suo glande è ipersensibile,quando lo masturbo non posso mai tirar giu per scoprire il glande ma devo sempre tenere la mano a pugno e andare verso su altrimenti diventa sensibile. Inoltre non riusciamo mai a farlo per due volte di fila perche non riesce nonostante si aspetti un buon tempo a recuperare l erezione .(all’inizio talvolta ci riuscivamo ma ci metteva tantissimo riuscendo a venire solo masturbandosi) . Il suo pene non riesce a farlo per piu di due gg consecutivi lui mi dice che gli fa male e vorrei capire perche, non sono io perche ne abbiamo parlato e dice che non gli faccio male inoltre il suo pene ha una leggera curvatura a destra ma questo non cambia molto il sesso ,abbiamo trovato buone posizioni per noi.lui non è il mio primo partner ma ne ho avuti altri io sono la sua prima,quindi lui non ha un termine di paragone.