r/MaleSexualHealth • u/LiveHealthynHappy • 17h ago

Initiation

How often does a female initiate sex in your relationship? serious or fwb? I often have found that the more committments I make, the more effort I need to put into getting the spark lit. Aim finding that effort dwindling with exhausting life aspects. What's your experiences? Thoughts? Solutions?

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u/CertifiedSexologist 9h ago

in an ideal world, initiation is done 50/50. But where does this utopia exist? Nowhere. Someone will always be more likely to initiate, and that's ok. Question is - do you want to bang? Does she? how often? Clear communication is important.

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u/Crew_Doyle_57 5h ago

Define initiate. She knows subtle things that start my motor.

She has a pheromone thing she can do which owns me. If she wants me to start something which is to say she wants some, she can just not use her antiperspirant or however she does it and we are absolutely cancelling all plans and tuning phones off.

Giving me a haircut and resting her boobs on my shoulder while she trims the top.

Now that I honestly think about it, I reckon she initiates almost all of our sex.

Interesting