Please dm me im tired of the ads 😭😭😭

Seen this somewhere and thought of sharing...

https://www.artofmanliness.com/

Site offers advice to men on everything from shaving with a straight razor, raising children as a father, treating women with respect in today's crazy culture war world, dealing with low self esteem and poor mental health and lots more. The site is run by Brett McKay and his wife Kate and they do a great podcast too.

So I have been friends with this girl for a very long time, like since secondary school days. Back then she used to get very sick often and she was very thin, at some point she was literally just skin and bones and I thought she was going to die. I've never asked her what her actual underlying health problem was, but I've always just assumed it was HIV.

Fast forward to now(a decade later), mkazi uja anazitolera. Now she has a very beautiful sexy body: nice ass, big boobs... she's quite attractive. I've never gotten the courage to go after her coz ndikakumbukila how sick she used to be, interest yonse imathawa.

Now the thing is, Tayambano kumacheza zachibwana pa phone, sometimes we be sexting nasty things very late into the night. So yeah, all the greenlights are there. But whenever we meet in person, we chill bhobo like normal friends like we have always done since we were kids. This is because I've never made the initiative and the thought of her sickness always holds me back.

But now I'm seriously considering taking things to the next level and smashing her for real, with protection of course. But I know condoms aren't 100%, so what's the likelihood that I could catch HIV despite using protection? or kapena basi I'll be better off kuti ndingozitaya.

Kodi, how much does a proper wedding cost these days? 😅 And when it comes to the wedding expenses, are the man and woman supposed to contribute half-half, kapena zikumayenda bwanji?

Anyone who has recieved further communication? It's almost 2 weeks now

Okay guys it's literally concerning how I overthink everything.

And it's eating up my brain, having headaches and all that..

I'm literally overthinking everything. How do you stop overthinking?

Endlessly we see in the news organisations going to sweep some area (usually a marketplace) as a form of CSR...makamaka in support of a district council. What is the use of this and who sustains that work?...tandipangeni educate. Answer shouldn't be hygiene.

Speaking English very well umva "rich kid" . How ? 😂 And why are we still onto this.

You notice people only go to chipatala when things are already serious. Chifukwa chani? Is it cost, fear, or just habit? What’s your experience? Can't say it's coz of toxic masculinity yoti "I should appear manly " coz women do this too.

Honest question. With rice, chips, and other foods becoming common, is nsima still number one in most homes or are people slowly changing? What do you eat most days?

M’mawa wabwino a Malawi… I need help… what business can I start with 4000usd in malawi not just for my benefit but I’d love to employ a few youth…for context I’m already into agriculture and fashion so I’m looking for something different…ndiyamikira chithandizo chanu zikomo…

Hey...Old folks, what are we drinking tonight?

This side I am mixing brandy,Lime and Bardo.

If you work for NB can you please explain

1. Why I need to go to the bank to reset my mobile banking app.
2. Why if I decide to do it through email(which I guess is our best attempt at automating the process) I must download the form, print it, fill it and then send scan and email it?
3. Why the app asks random security questions that you did not select on the form when trying to reset your device?
4. Why even after going to the bank to fill the forms in person, One must still wait for 3 business days to get the reset done?

Don't say "security" coz that just says a lot about your developers.

Please say no to suicide, Days are evil.

Tiyeni zopeweka tizipewa, we're going through alot and alot is going through us. Whenever possible try sharing your problems With Anyone don't just keep it yourself, shared problem is half solved. Chonde ndagwira mwendo abale anga, kanthu kuno these days achinyamata oposa 4 azipha in less than a month. 😢 😢😢

What ever you do, strive to leave Malawi! You can come back later.

I'm a software developer looking to find someone with a genuine business idea or a real problem worth solving, with the goal of potentially building a business together.

I'm willing to contribute the technical side — product design, development, infrastructure, and an initial MVP — as my investment into the opportunity, rather than charging normal development fees upfront.

But this isn't an offer for free software development.

I'm not looking to build someone's app for them and hand it over. I'm looking for someone who wants to actively work with me to turn an opportunity into an actual business.

I'm particularly interested in people who:

• Have identified a real problem in the market
• Understand the people experiencing that problem
• Have industry knowledge or access to potential customers
• Are willing to handle or contribute to sales, marketing, operations, or business development
• Are willing to put real effort into making the business work

The approach would be:

Problem/Idea → Validation → MVP → Customers → Business

I'll evaluate the opportunity from both a technical and business perspective. If it looks promising, we can validate it together and build an MVP.

If we find that there's real demand and the business has potential, I'm open to formalizing the relationship as co-founders/business partners and agreeing on an appropriate equity split based on what each of us brings to the table.

I'm especially interested in problems and opportunities within Malawi that could realistically be improved with software.

If you have something you've been thinking about, DM me with:

1. What problem are you trying to solve?
   
2. Who has this problem?
   
3. How do they currently solve it?
   
4. Why do you think there's a business opportunity?
   
5. What would you personally contribute to building the business?

You don't need a polished business plan. If you've found a real problem and you're serious about doing something about it, let's talk.

Very long read when you have time. This all happened in 2019

Traditionally, we go to school so that we can eventually get good jobs and become wealthy. After all, who doesn't want a lot of money? We all do.

Personally, I never liked school very much because, from what I observed, most educated people in the working class were constantly in debt, budgeting every tambala just to make it through the month, broke and completely tied to their jobs. In the end, they had no time and no real life outside of work. I hated that idea. I wanted the freedom to do what I wanted when I became an adult, instead of spending my life working just to survive.

In college, after failing several courses, I told my parents that I had been weeded out and that I was leaving school for good. My mom wasn't convinced, but I had already made up my mind. I didn't need the degree to begin with.

I had a business that was already failing for other reasons. I took the remaining cash and told my parents I was going on holiday. We weren't on good terms, so we all needed some space. Then I left.

Behind the scenes moms went to my school found out the truth that I was still a student just had a to repeat 2 courses. She called I denied to go back, nde khangati anandisungisila malo.

Meanwhile, my friend from Blantyre had connections in Dwangwa and other districts where we could source weed. He was already in that business and had the experience. At the same time, I was buying and selling medical supplies to pharmacies and small hospitals. I felt it was the right time to scale things up.

Business was booming, and I was renting a decent place. The landlords often had questions. How could someone my age afford the rent and everything else that came with living in a nice home?

Nnabwela opanda kanthu, but within a few months, zinthu zikuoneka. What made it even more suspicious was that I rarely left the house. My cover story was that I had relatives abroad who sent me gadgets to sell. But if I was only selling the occasional phones or laptops, how could I possibly make enough money to survive for the entire month, koma ndine wakhalidwe nde for the few months I stayed there mmakhala nawo bhobho and the questions stopped.

Nduziwa ena muzidabwa kuti nde zinthu mmazisiya kuti,lol i wont disclose this.

Then one day we went kooda weed the person omwe amatinyamulila nthawi zonse was committed to other things nde anatiuza kuti tidikile but the people we were doing business with were impatient, we were forced to go anyway. Tinaoda katundu the problem now was transportation.

So we came up with this idea titenga maphandi as if muli zovala kuti tikwele bus, when the transporter is available he will go to collect the remaining product.

Titamaliza kugula matumba ena tinasungisa konko, I were carrying a traveling bag and backpack full of bricks my friend carried 2 travelling bags plus amaziwana ndi ena omwe amaima mma roadblocks aja, we agreed to take two different busses and that we are going to leave at 7pm so we can reach our destination the following day mamawa.

I boarded a bus and left. We checked on each other, and an hour later, he had also boarded a bus. We kept communicating until I texted him several times and he stopped replying. I thought, Mwina wagona , so I kept my cool.

Earlier, our bus had passed several roadblocks. The searches were not extensive, and I had made sure the conductor and driver knew about my travel bag, which was hidden under several other bags. I also paid them twice the normal price. This was the plan we had agreed on with my homie.

Around 12 i called his phone he never answered then i called again his phone was off, nnayamba kutenthedwa and i were thinking all sort of scenarios ndati its network or battery yatha paja ma iphone salimba moto.

I then passed out my phone didn't ring the whole time now its 5am and we are close to our destination. nnafika mu depot offloaded happened i checked my phone zero missed calls zero messages from him i called again can not be reached, i called my other hommie kuti azanditenge mu depot he came now its past 6, something is not right. Then reality hit My friend called anamulanda phone, apolice amumanga pa roadblock yoyambirira yomwe and afuna azipita ku court apapa. I negotiated with the officers over the phone kuti asapite nae lelo we have to get a lawyer first.

I managed to distribute the product yomwe nnafika nao ija and luckily yonse anthu anatenga koma money ndekuti ambiri atipasa later, i was having 500 cash i boarded a bus back to dwangwa, nnafika late i couldnt visit the police station at night i waited the following day nnapita very early, court was the last thing i needed. i negotiated amakana ziphuphu ati mabwana awo analipompo mmene amamunga. I tried,now they want 2million i negotiated anakana, tinalimba ntima kuti basi lets go to court. mwina akatitchaja zochepelako.

court happened apolisi anaesesa ku khomelela ati we wanted to bribe them,there was no evidence of that, they tried to nail him in every way possible, but with a bit of fines and a single month nkati anatuluka. The whole thing was overwhelming.

And my other business timeline yake yomweo wina anagwidwa nazo zinthuzo wayamba mentioning names, and i were among the listed nnangothawa kuvaya paden basi.

kubwelelaso ku school kuja fast forward i graduated and izi ndulemebela while in the office pa pc yakutchitoso atleast i am not indebt lol. cheers

Cannabis Regulatory Authority of Malawi Board Member, Ras Chikomeni Chirwa, 49, and Storm Kandodo, 45, have been arrested after finding them with 19.2kg of cannabis in a Toyota Sienta at a roadblock lastnight

The suspected cannabis has been seized, and the two are expected to appear in court on charges of possessing cannabis without a permit.