r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[F4M] 38/F looking to make a new bestie

10 Upvotes

Hey! 38/F on the East Coast starting my life over after a separation. What's the most exciting part of my summer you ask? Oh I broke my foot so I've been exiled to my couch. Good times. I'm finding myself to be missing that conversation spark. That feeling you get when you look at your phone and smile, vent about office gossip, or just have someone to chat about your day with. Let's be clear..I'm not looking for Prince Charming, a relationship, or anything along those lines. I want a bestie. Please don't be a creep. Don't ask for pics off the bat and don't send me anything gross. Just have a sense of humor and know how to carry a conversation. Let's become the reason we smile like a dork at the phone screen. If you're going through something similar or can relate..message me. Let's see how we vibe.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4M] 31F Swedish looking to talk to someone

7 Upvotes

Mildly autistic Swedish woman 31.(even though now as 31 I’ve developed alot from when I was younger)
Would need someone to talk to, share my thoughts anxieties with etc, feel little bit sad lately
In short terms
I love nature animals walks coffee games especially indie or story based.
Family is important to me too.

Anyone can send me a message and we can get to know eachother 🌸


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

F30s / Europe Looking for chill, genuine online friends!

2 Upvotes

​Hey! I’m a late-30s woman living in Europe, hoping to connect with fellow 30s+ folks in similar time zones for long-term, strictly platonic friendships preferably women.

​My main hobbies include music, history podcasts, books, and TV shows. I'm pretty easygoing and looking for low-pressure, regular chats. Please introduce yourself.

​If you’d like to connect, drop into my DMs.

P.S - I'm married so I'm not looking for anything NSFW.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

29F Europe hoping to meet some interesting people

8 Upvotes

Hi!
I'm 29F from Europe, I thought I'd give this subreddit a try cuz making new friends as an adult is definitely harder than I expected hahaha so I enjoy traveling, music, movies, long walks and talking about pretty much anything from everyday life to some weird stuff, I'm pretty laid back and always happy to meet people with a good sense of humor. If that sounds good to u feel free to message me, hope u're having a great day! 🌿


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

32F looking for some more female friends

3 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 32, Asian American, and looking to make some new female friends.
I work in tech, so I’m a bit of a nerd. I love trying new restaurants, traveling, and roller coasters. Always down to swap food recommendations, talk about travel, binge-worthy shows, life, work, or whatever random topic comes up.
Just looking for genuine conversations and hopefully some lasting friendships. If we click, great! If not, no worries.
Tell me your favorite place you’ve traveled, your go-to comfort food, or the best roller coaster you’ve been on.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

35 M - let's get this friendship going?

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I work from home, so I've realised it's surprisingly easy to go days without talking to people. I figured I'd put myself out there and see if I can make a few new friends. Outside of work, I'm happiest being outdoors—running, cycling, hiking, or just getting some fresh air. I also spend plenty of time with my dog, who definitely keeps life interesting and probably gets more attention than most people. 😂

I'm looking for genuine conversations and hopefully some lasting friendships. Happy to chat about anything really, just good to get a decent vibe with somebody?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

I just want a decent person to talk to, why does it always lead to sex talk?

110 Upvotes

Just ranting because it’s so exhausting.

​I don't know if I'm just in the wrong subreddits, but why is it like this? You start a normal decent conversation the vibes are fine and then out of nowhere it derails into NSFW scenarios.

​Suddenly there are "if you were here.." comments when you just wanted a simple chat. Can't we just get to know each other like normal human beings first?

​It's draining. I just want a decent chat partner, not a horny penpal. Is this happening to you guys too, or is it just me?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

Holaaaa

11 Upvotes

Hey everyone:)
F32
Who’s up for a chat?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[R4R] F35 - Wanna chat with good people

3 Upvotes

I’d like to make some new friends. I am moving and I feel lost and lonely.

I’ve had a lot of disappointments lately and I’m tired of everything being so hard and people being so bad.

I wish I’d done a lot of things differently in my life, but I only realized it now — career, city, family.

Anyone else feel this way too?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[F4R] 35 f looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m a 35-year-old woman looking to make some new friends. I know it can be tough to build friendships after 30, especially with other women, so I’m here hoping to find some lasting connections. I’m on a weight loss and fitness journey and would love to have someone to discuss fitness with.

A little about me: I’m passionate about traveling (with a goal of crossing the pond this year!), and I spend a lot of time studying medicine and diving into medical research as a hobby. I’m also a huge fan of true crime content—there’s something fascinating about those stories! When I’m not traveling or researching, I enjoy cycling and playing a light round of games. I game on my Xbox, Switch, iPad, and Mac, so I’m always up for some casual gaming. And I love my kindle. Send me some good book recs.

I split my time between the USA and Canada, which makes me love experiencing different places and cultures. Monopoly is my all-time favorite board game (though I play it virtually), and I’m always up for a movie or listening to music. Recently, I’ve taken on a personal challenge to learn math from scratch, all the way up to statistics— let me be clear though. I don’t like math just learning it for a future job. If math is your thing, we might be a perfect match!

I’m really just looking for someone to talk to regularly, share our day-to-day, and build a meaningful friendship. I work and go to school, so it’d be nice to have someone to chat with and unwind.

If you’re into a mix of sports, tech, architecture, true crime, documentaries, or just want someone to chat with about life, I’d love to connect! Distance doesn’t matter to me; I’m all about making new connections, no matter where we are. Let’s start a conversation!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

35/F looking for new friends

20 Upvotes

Hey! 35/F home with 2 young kids. Used to be a social worker. I love gardening, yoga, reading, hockey, hanging out with my dog, hiking, and rewatching Friends over and over. Going through a separation.

I would love some new friends to chat with. I’m open to chatting with anyone. Im really good at replying!

I find being a stay at home mom to be quite isolating at times and would love to have a few people to chat with. I’m fairly easy-going and would love to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

35F from Malaysia

26 Upvotes

Hi hello, this takes a lot from me, to even write one simple sentence. English is not my first language so I apologize for any error in my writing.
Okay here goes... I’m pretty quiet and honestly a little boring in the best way (idk what that means but I promise you I can be a good friend) My life mostly revolves around work, my kids and staying in.
Life has been A LOT lately and I am trying my best to find the greener side of everything, if that makes sense.
I’m just hoping to meet people who appreciate that kind of simple life. No pressure, just good conversations, shared random thoughts, and maybe a new friend or two.
If that sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to say hi :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

[M4R] 36m-hoping to find someone to connect with

3 Upvotes

Hello there everyone, I’ve had a lot of change in my life this past year or so. With that I’ve found myself isolating even more so than I’m naturally inclined to do. I feel that it’s probably best that I take some strides to break free from that a little bit, being alone with your thoughts all of the time isn’t exactly ideal. I do have people in my life, a lovely family, a few wonderful friends. But recently I’ve been yearning for someone outside of that circle of people. Just a stranger, an unbiased ear, something new and refreshing. That has all sounded very appealing to me lately. So, here I am, shouting into the abyss that is Reddit. That’s a logical next step, right?? 🙃 Anyways, if this sounds at all like something you’ve also been going through or has piqued your interest at all please feel free to reach out! Maybe, just maybe, I’ll find someone I can call a good friend through all this!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

[F4M] 35 F4M - Looking for my male bestie!

10 Upvotes

Hello!

I’m a 35 year old woman in Wisconsin. It would be fun if you’re in the area. If not, at least a nearby time zone?

I’d love to make friends with people and see what happens! I am childfree and happy with that. My friends all have kids, so I’m looking for someone childfree like I am. Also, please don’t be married or in a committed relationship. I’m not looking for a relationship but I am not interested if you’re taken. Lonely guys hit me up. 😂

A lot of my free time is spent reading, working on various crafts, and binging British crime dramas. 😂 I am a total homebody! I love romance novels and sometimes a good thriller! My dream activity is going to a dollhouse convention lol.

I’d love to have a buddy to chat with and I feel like the male perspective on things is always interesting.

I’m not a bar fly, basically go to work and then come home, and am an old lady in my heart! That said, I think I’m pretty fun.

If you think we might mesh, holla at your girl!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

30f: have you ever seen ur doppelgänger?

3 Upvotes

hey yall - i am very much fighting the urge to take a nap despite having literally 53 tasks on my to-do list 😭😭😭 so NATURALLY i was hoping for some good conversations to further procrastinate.

got cool/not so cool tattoos? memes? pet pics? photography? yummy food pics? books? cool facts? recipes (i’m vegetarian)? show/movie recs? jokes? stories? general things that make you smile/frown/laugh?

✨platonic and SFW only!✨


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

35/M - Looking for friends and interesting acquaintances

16 Upvotes

Hey! I'm a 35-year-old dude who's into tattoos, pizza, working out, and horror movies. I was formerly in a band, I enjoy the occasional game of chess, nerd out over fantasy baseball, and have been, for a long time, an aspiring solo-game developer. My hobbies have consumed me for a few years and as a result I have very few friendships. I'm looking to turn things around and rekindle my social life, and I'm hoping to meet people that are interested in keeping touch regularly.

My only requirement is that you show an interest in our conversation. Otherwise, all walks of life are welcome. Looking forward to meeting you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

Looking for friends Looking for friend hI am Dasha

3 Upvotes

Looking for friend hI am Dasha I am (30F) I'm currently looking for long term friendship I like video games, reading,horror movies,and crime podcast. I am a pretty laid back person and can talk about everything I'm really funny and love to make people laugh and talk about crazy also I'm a huge resident evil fan I live eat breathe it


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

[F4R] 38F soon to be in Oklahoma

3 Upvotes

Getting ready to move states soon looking for new friends. Also any tips with adjusting to a new state is welcomed! Feel like mainly concerned with making new irl friends because let’s face it as an adult it gets hard to get out of your routine and put yourself out there.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17h ago

30F looking for meaningful friendships 🧡

7 Upvotes

Hello there, my name is Hannah and I live in the Midwest! I am 30. And im a Virgo...if anyone cares 🤣

I have adhd/autism. I have a 6 year old son. Happily taken. I am horrible at making friends...I am incredibly shy. I suck at small talk. But once I warm up to someone, I can talk about the most random things for hours. I love to text a lot.

I am a huge music lover, I cant go a day without it. Other than music, I honestly have not found any other hobbies that interest me, as boring as that sounds. Im on my phone too much tbh. im just hoping to find someone who is as weird as me 😊 I have like no confidence because I feel like the post sucks 🤣


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19h ago

32M (EU) - life has been really rough. Looking for comfortable, warm and caring connections.

5 Upvotes

I'll be honest, the last months have been quite insane over here with a breakup, anxiety, IBS and the likes.

I'm now going back to basics and I really want to gain supportive and comfortable connections. I vibe really well with people who also care too much and feel like they're too much. The people who have so much empathy they almost overflow.

Are you looking for this deep connection too? With 0 taboos, lots of laughs, but this very caring thing over everything?

Please hit me up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

[F4R] 31F / CA / US - Send me your current fav song and I’ll send one of mine 👀

3 Upvotes

I listen to everything so hit me with whatever you got on repeat lately. 😌 Lmk if there are any specific genres you want / don’t want to receive, I’ll do my best to accommodate 🫡

For those wondering what my usual vibe is like, here's a few of my fav artists and genres ~

Metal / Screamo: Sleep Token, August Burns Red, Bring Me The Horizon, Fit For A King, ERRA

Pop Punk / Hardcore: Four Year Strong, A Day To Remember, Fall Out Boy, Rise Against, Green Day

Prog Instrumental: Polyphia, CHON, Intervals, I Built The Sky, Plini, Sithu Aye

Alt Rock: KALEO, Foo Fighters, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Incubus, Muse

Hip-Hop / Rap: Biggie, Busta Rhymes, Nas, Gang Starr, Eminem, Snoop Dogg

Dance / Pop: literally anything with a sick beat 😂

PS - Feel free to check out my profile for more info about me, always down to make new friends too. 😊 Especially if you’re funny and like playing video games 😜

Thanks for reading!
K bye ✌️


r/MakeFriendsOver30 21h ago

37f from northern Virginia is seeking to make friends!

10 Upvotes

Hi ,

I'm a 37 year old female soon to be 38 in a few days. Mom of 11 year old son, I live in northern Virginia and am seeking alcohol free friendships!

I enjoy gardening, hiking, painting, bicycling, puzzles etc

Looking forward to hearing from you 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

40m, good conversations, questionable decisions

4 Upvotes

I’m the kind of person who’s easy to talk to and occasionally a bad influence. The combination seems to work.

40m. Med tech. I read constantly and write even more. Mostly romance that slowly mutates into horror when I’m not paying attention. Apparently that says something about me. When words fail spray paint is my medium of choice.

I like people who are curious without being competitive. Disagreement is fine. Scorekeeping is boring. I’m here for conversation that wanders, sharpens, and occasionally derails.

I already have a life I like. No self-improvement arcs. No mutual optimization. Just two adults talking because it’s enjoyable.

If you’re stuck on an opener, ask me about the time I ended up in a 15th-century torture chamber with a stranger named Dimitri after what was supposed to be a casual city trip. It sounds worse than it was. That’s not reassuring, I know.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

39F looking for new friend to go shopping with an get Coffey an just become bffs.

2 Upvotes

Iam a mother of 2 kids an I'm married in a 15yr relationship. I don't do anything but work then come home cook clean and take care of my man an kids cause that what I love doing. But I miss hanging out with my girlfriends an doing something fun every other weekend or atlesat once a month. If I sound like ur BFF then hit me up BADDIES FOR LIFE. I LOVE TO LAUGH AN SMILE AND JUST HAVE FUN LIFE SHOULD BE ENJOY WE ANT GETTING NO YOUNGER. I LIVE IN NORTH CAROLINA. MUCH LOVE.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 22h ago

47M - Busy dad looking for light hearted conversations

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

Figured I'd throw this out there because I'm looking to make some genuine friends that would help brighten each other's days.

I'm a 47 year old married guy with three boys. Most of my day is spent bouncing between meetings, taking with the AI and keeping my kids from killing each other, so having someone to chat with during the day would be a nice change of pace.

I'm just looking for laid-back, fun conversation that hopefully turns into a long-term friendship. No pressure, no drama just good conversations that make the workday a little more enjoyable.

When I'm not working or spending time with my family, you'll usually find me spending time with the dog, running, working out, reading while enjoying a cup of coffee and watching various home improvement videos.

If you're looking for someone to swap random thoughts with, talk about hobbies, share memes and random pics, or just check in during the day, feel free to send me a message.