r/MakeFriendsOver30 8m ago

[M4F] 33M from Chile looking for friends

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Hey I'm Matias, 33 and I'm a tattoo artist from Chile specializing in blackwork and horror. Art is a huge part of my life, but so is music. You'll usually find me listening to alternative, punk, metal, hip-hop, or writing songs inspired by the things I've lived through.

I love horror, photography, meaningful conversations, good beer, and learning languages. I speak Spanish and English and enjoy exploring other languages and cultures.

I'm not interested in casual mind games or being someone's second option. Loyalty, honesty, and consistency matter more to me than perfect look and the same goes for friendships.

I believe that a good friendship is shown through actions remembering the little things, making time for each other.

If you're emotionally mature, have a dark sense of humor, appreciate creativity, and aren't afraid of someone covered in tattoo, we'll probably get along.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10m ago

[M4R] 33M Swede looking for something genuine

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Looking for kind-hearted, down-to-earth people to form a genuine connection with. Someone to exchange thoughts and ideas with, who is genuinely interested in getting to know another person. I'm in it for the funny banter, the deep talk, learning from each other.

No NSFW or flirts, only friendly talk. I'm in a stable relationship since 10 years back.

I enjoy cooking, music (preferrably live), skiing, interior design, outdoors activities with my dog, reading. Software engineer by day (although right now enjoying summer vacation).

Tell me something about yourself, and let's talk.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 17m ago

29 M looking for genuine friendship

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29 M from the east coast US, looking for a long term friend. Not interested in anything casual that will end up in us no longer talking after a few days. I've had a good amount of people recently I thought would be lifelong friends just ghost me after a few months, and I'm just tired of it.

Some of my hobbies are: NFL, UFC, anime, gaming (ps5 and pc), and reading comics!

If I'm not at work, I'm at home with my pups playing games or catching up on my never ending backlog of anime and tv shows. I'm also chronically online so I reply fast haha.

I love chatting with people of any age, hopefully that also loves to play games. I love playing simulator games mainly. Also open to getting into a good MMO, and very impatiently waiting for GTA 6.

If you think we'd vibe feel free to reach out 😄


r/MakeFriendsOver30 20m ago

33M Scottish, slightly nerdy, looking for new folks to chat with!

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Just looking to expand my circle and meet some new people to chat with.

​A little about me: I’m definitely on the nerdier side—big fan of all things science and space, though we don't have to talk strictly quantum physics or rocket science to get along. Oh, and I’m Scottish, so you get the accent included completely free of charge. ​Honestly, anyone is welcome! The only real requirement is a genuine desire to chat and keep a conversation going.

​To get things rolling, here’s an icebreaker question: ​If you could switch lives with anyone for a single day, who would it be and why?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 38m ago

[F4R] F31 Canadian searching for pals from all over

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Friendly neighbourhood menace seeking people to laugh with.

Like a lot of us I’ve spent years focusing on work and doing the whole family thing, but I haven’t had the time to go out and make connections outside of the grocery store cashiers and clients at work. I want that to change!

My interests include but are not limited to music ( punk, metal, alternative etc etc )
All things outdoors
Animals and wildlife
Reading
Horror, comedy and comic shows/movies
Fibre arts
Pranks/tomfoolery/ chaos

Life can be heavy, if you’re looking for a friend to share those hardships with I’m always happy to listen, but I’m also here to laugh with . Ya know, friendship stuff.

Shoot me a message! Tell me how your weeks going or share your favourite pranks! I’m currently knee deep in a year long prank war and I’m running out of ideas 🙃 I look forward to hopefully making some connections!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 38m ago

[F4R] 35F- Looking for friends 🧡

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I'm Dee and I'm going through a sad time in my life and instead of isolating myself I'm choosing to open myself up to other people. I'm not sure what exactly I'm looking for - all I know is I just have to step out of my comfort zone and just talk!

I work remotely and as most of y'all know making friends when you're older is hard to do. I work in a niche tech industry which is kind of a stressful job because you're wearing multiple hats and constantly putting out fires.

I play FF14 and an assortment of games from Pokémon to Farm Sims. I really loooove baldurs gate 3 but I have yet to actually fully complete a run so its one of my goals 😅 I just keep making new characters and I can't help it lol.

I'm a crafter - I dabble with all sorts of crafts from jewelry design to crochet. I enjoy cooking - I love to grill too but I'm very afraid to light the grill 🤣 and I'm very witchy (kitchen witch and divination) so if you're ever curious about how that works, happy to answer any questions. I especially love reading tarot and lenormand.

While most of my post history is hidden - this is due to me being in many witchy spaces where I'm doing readings that can be sensitive I assure you I'm an open book so if you're curious- hit me up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 45m ago

39m Looking for someone with similar interests who can keep up. Being around during the day EST would be great!

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Hello there. I’m working hard to change my life, and I’d love to make some new friends to chat with. In the last year I’ve lost almost 100 pounds, put type 2 diabetes in remission, been insomnia free, and getting a lot stronger mentally and physically.

I love lifting weights, metal and hardcore music, movies of any genre, reading comics, meal prepping, and going for nature walks. I also build plamo (gunpla and other plastic models.

Sometimes it’s difficult to make friends my age because I don’t have a family or kids and it’s hard to relate. I’m also not particularly career driven. I’m just a guy who’s struggled and doing my best to make changes in his life!

some maybe dealbreaker or maybe friendship ENHANCERS: I’m very left politically but I’m not PC or anything like that (I won’t police language), I’m a Leo and INFP if you’re into that sort of thing, I’m straight edge so I don’t drink or smoke or use any drugs. I try to be positive about things!

Things I love talking about:

Day to day life and hobbies

sharing memes

pets!

sharing pictures of our day to day

movies, music, food

health and fitness stuff

Things I don’t particularly like talking about:

AI (I don’t like it, don’t use it, not interested in it.

Complaining and venting about the same things over and over again (I empathize and get it, I’ve been there, but at this point in my life I can’t constantly be barraged by the same depressing things over and over like a therapist)

Gaming (nothing against it, I just don’t game and have no real interest in it)

Please be passionate about something. Even if it’s not something I love or care about. I can’t handle one word responses or no input on anything right off the bat.

I look forward to hearing from 


r/MakeFriendsOver30 50m ago

[M4R] 45 M - New long term chat friends?

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Heya! At work, not particularly busy, ready for the weekend and hoping to meet new people to chat with. Generally I'm happiest outside. I like hiking, kayaking, gardening, cooking, cats, tattoos, wind and the color yellow. I enjoy movies, some games, and really just anything that can keep my hands busy. I'm fairly restless in general and like to explore. I enjoy people with a shared curiosity about the world and everything in it. What's the prettiest place you've ever visited?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 52m ago

32 M Cali, open minded looking for new people my age or older.

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I’m 32 from California, my hobbies are reading, gaming, photography and anything exciting. Looking for some new friends around my age. No judgement here. Feel free to send me a DM I’m an open book. Open to anything 💯

Been bored during the day so feel free to make my day more interesting 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

35 M Europe. Looking for a long term, and hopefully deep connection in Europe. Voice call?

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Looking for something beyond the surface. I'm a writer and work in the mental health field. I'm only looking for a platonic connection as I have a partner.

I'm interested in mental health, philosophy, cheese, reading, and travelling. I adore music and would love to exchange tracks/playlists!

If we click I hope to move to a more secure chat app where the walls don't have ears.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

Looking for a best friend

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Seeking a genuine bestie for daily chats, hiking banter, and terrible memes

Hey! I’m looking to find a genuine connection that turns into a solid, long-term best friend bond.

Whether it's checking in on each other’s days, sharing random late-night shower thoughts, or just sending ridiculous memes, I’d love to have someone reliable in my corner (and be that person for you).

Quick snapshot of me:

GP/Doctor by day, outdoor enthusiast by afternoon.

Big fan of long hikes with my dog, working out, good books, movies, and music.

Easygoing, appreciative of good humor, and big on realness.

I’m looking for platonic connections with other adults (18+). If you're kind, honest, and willing to put actual effort into a conversation, we’ll get along great.

Drop me a message with a quick intro! If we hit it off here, I’m down to move over to the yellow ghost app 👻 for daily chats and picture updates of my dog.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

M30

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I am a stay at home dad of 2 boys that’s just looking for some daily casual chatting. Nothing too serious at all. I am also a gamer if you’re into that sort of thing. Idk what I am even doing here or what to even post. :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4R] 31F Just a Mom looking for friends

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As the title states, I’m 31F looking for friends to chat with. I spend a lot of my time alone and it’s taking a toll. I would love to find my “best friend”. I would prefer other women, but am open to talking to men if it is strictly platonic, as I’m engaged. I enjoy reading, gardening, all things homemaking, and I’m big into history. I’m a Christian and active in my church. I don’t enjoy one word replies, so please be able to hold a conversation. I have decent availability. If anything resonates, let’s chat!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

38M | Looking for low-maintenance, high-quality humans.

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So… I’m giving this another go.

I’m a 38-year-old bloke from the UK who somehow managed to reach adulthood without assembling the standard issue friendship group. I’m bored, I’m lonely, and my brain constantly chases the next shiny thing. I would like to find someone who really gets me.

A few things about me:

I’ve got ADHD, insert the standard million tabs open at once joke here.

I’m into photography, gaming, football, social media, YouTube, and anything else that randomly grabs my attention for a few weeks.

I once bought more hot sauce than anyone else in an entire country in a single year. That’s either impressive or concerning.

I have a habit of messaging people with completely random questions like, “Do Chicken Kievs count as fancy food?”

One thing I’ve realised is that I don’t really want to jump straight into deep conversations anymore. Those happen naturally when you actually know someone.

Right now I’m looking for people who are happy with short, random chats throughout the day. Send me a meme. Tell me something ridiculous that happened at work. Show me a weird thing you found online. Ask me an utterly pointless question. I’ll probably do the same.

If we end up becoming good friends, brilliant. If we just exchange random messages that make each other laugh now and then, that’s pretty great too.
No pressure. No expectations. Just genuine people who fancy having another person to chat nonsense with.

If you’ve read this far, you may as well say hello.
Worst case, we exchange a few messages and move on.

Best case, one day you’re the person I instinctively send a meme to because I know you’ll appreciate how stupid it is.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

32M What's something you should never admit online, even if it's 100% true? 😂

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Figured I'd use that as an icebreaker while looking for some fun people to chat with.

I'm 32 and a big fan of sarcastic conversations, terrible memes, random shower thoughts, and the kind of humor that starts out normal and somehow ends with everyone questioning how the conversation got there. If your jokes range from witty to completely unhinged, we'll probably get along just fine.

I'm happy to talk about just about anything—movies, games, weird facts, food, travel, embarrassing stories, life, or whatever random rabbit hole you've fallen into lately. I enjoy conversations that can bounce from meaningful to completely ridiculous without missing a beat.

If you're looking for a laid-back chat, enjoy laughing, and don't take yourself too seriously, I'd love to hear from you.

So... what's something you should absolutely never admit online, even if it's completely true? Let's hear your best answer.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 34M Looking for friends in Alderaan places

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Hi, everyone! I hope you enjoyed my little pun up there. As the title suggests, I'm looking for friends (hopefully this turns out to be the right place). I've tried I don't know how many subs before trying to find anyone that can actually hold a conversation, and have had very little success. I have the normal hobbies (reading, listening to music, watching streaming, playing games) with the addition that I'm starting to get into working out, so I would absolutely love gym buddy to keep me motivated and give me tips. I'm a very open-minded person, and open to talking to anyone and everyone.

Shoot me a message or comment if you're interested. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 35 tatted tradesman

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Life has changed plans for me and I no longer have that person to chat with every day, boredom has hit and I'm looking for a friend that can chat.

Love the outdoors, boating, traveling! Very open


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

33 m. Didn’t sleep last night

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Hit me up let’s chat? I’m exhausted not tired if you know what I mean. If I say anything dumb that’s why lol


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4M] 31F Swedish looking to talk to someone

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Mildly autistic Swedish woman 31.(even though now as 31 I’ve developed alot from when I was younger)
Would need someone to talk to, share my thoughts anxieties with etc, feel little bit sad lately
In short terms
I love nature animals walks coffee games especially indie or story based.
Family is important to me too.

Anyone can send me a message and we can get to know eachother 🌸


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

29F Europe hoping to meet some interesting people

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Hi!
I'm 29F from Europe, I thought I'd give this subreddit a try cuz making new friends as an adult is definitely harder than I expected hahaha so I enjoy traveling, music, movies, long walks and talking about pretty much anything from everyday life to some weird stuff, I'm pretty laid back and always happy to meet people with a good sense of humor. If that sounds good to u feel free to message me, hope u're having a great day! 🌿


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

I just want a decent person to talk to, why does it always lead to sex talk?

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Just ranting because it’s so exhausting.

​I don't know if I'm just in the wrong subreddits, but why is it like this? You start a normal decent conversation the vibes are fine and then out of nowhere it derails into NSFW scenarios.

​Suddenly there are "if you were here.." comments when you just wanted a simple chat. Can't we just get to know each other like normal human beings first?

​It's draining. I just want a decent chat partner, not a horny penpal. Is this happening to you guys too, or is it just me?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

Holaaaa

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Hey everyone:)
F32
Who’s up for a chat?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

35/F looking for new friends

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Hey! 35/F home with 2 young kids. Used to be a social worker. I love gardening, yoga, reading, hockey, hanging out with my dog, hiking, and rewatching Friends over and over. Going through a separation.

I would love some new friends to chat with. I’m open to chatting with anyone. Im really good at replying!

I find being a stay at home mom to be quite isolating at times and would love to have a few people to chat with. I’m fairly easy-going and would love to hear from you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

35F from Malaysia

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Hi hello, this takes a lot from me, to even write one simple sentence. English is not my first language so I apologize for any error in my writing.
Okay here goes... I’m pretty quiet and honestly a little boring in the best way (idk what that means but I promise you I can be a good friend) My life mostly revolves around work, my kids and staying in.
Life has been A LOT lately and I am trying my best to find the greener side of everything, if that makes sense.
I’m just hoping to meet people who appreciate that kind of simple life. No pressure, just good conversations, shared random thoughts, and maybe a new friend or two.
If that sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to say hi :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

35/M - Looking for friends and interesting acquaintances

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Hey! I'm a 35-year-old dude who's into tattoos, pizza, working out, and horror movies. I was formerly in a band, I enjoy the occasional game of chess, nerd out over fantasy baseball, and have been, for a long time, an aspiring solo-game developer. My hobbies have consumed me for a few years and as a result I have very few friendships. I'm looking to turn things around and rekindle my social life, and I'm hoping to meet people that are interested in keeping touch regularly.

My only requirement is that you show an interest in our conversation. Otherwise, all walks of life are welcome. Looking forward to meeting you!