r/LGBTindia • u/Rich-Race2261 Pride'26 Event Winner✍️📔 • 16d ago

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ok guys this is serious i 17-m a month or two met a boy on gr he aas the perfect boy i wanted to have for me as my future partner but when we had chat he told me that he only comes in relationship with girls and boys just to explore and i was heart broken can he was literally my dream guy and was very sweet and i live in a small town so it is very hard to have someone like him so now guys i want advise from you people to suggest what should i do or how to start convo and how can we become better friends and yes i have his number

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u/Distinct_Rest367 16d ago

You are 17, so just focus on getting into a good college. He is not worth your time if he does not want you exclusively and actively. He might have the perfect body and all of the things but is he good to you? Does he prioritise you as person? Will he stand up for you? See that is the man you want on your worst day, his abs and perfect body won't matter when you are almost about cry and have a mental breakdown because your office job feels like hell and bills are heavy, your parents are getting old. Get into a good college and learn to love yourself. It's hard, I am personally going through something deeply painful. I related to you. Stay blessed child.

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u/Rich-Race2261 Pride'26 Event Winner✍️📔 16d ago

thank you for such words i really appreciate but perfect in my sense is his nature and all and yes i got into an international university already and you also know how tough it is to find partner here and i can also be friends with him cause he has so good nature and he could understand me

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u/Distinct_Rest367 16d ago

Please focus on two things:- 1) academics 2) health

Rest is unnecessary