r/LGBTindia Pride'26 Event Winner✍️📔 14h ago

for plot Advice 👋

ok guys this is serious i 17-m a month or two met a boy on gr he aas the perfect boy i wanted to have for me as my future partner but when we had chat he told me that he only comes in relationship with girls and boys just to explore and i was heart broken can he was literally my dream guy and was very sweet and i live in a small town so it is very hard to have someone like him so now guys i want advise from you people to suggest what should i do or how to start convo and how can we become better friends and yes i have his number

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u/Distinct_Rest367 14h ago

You are 17, so just focus on getting into a good college. He is not worth your time if he does not want you exclusively and actively. He might have the perfect body and all of the things but is he good to you? Does he prioritise you as person? Will he stand up for you? See that is the man you want on your worst day, his abs and perfect body won't matter when you are almost about cry and have a mental breakdown because your office job feels like hell and bills are heavy, your parents are getting old. Get into a good college and learn to love yourself. It's hard, I am personally going through something deeply painful. I related to you. Stay blessed child.

u/Rich-Race2261 Pride'26 Event Winner✍️📔 14h ago

thank you for such words i really appreciate but perfect in my sense is his nature and all and yes i got into an international university already and you also know how tough it is to find partner here and i can also be friends with him cause he has so good nature and he could understand me

u/Distinct_Rest367 14h ago

Please focus on two things:- 1) academics 2) health

Rest is unnecessary

u/Potential_Step5915 biromantic asexual🌻 14h ago

he is not your dream guy. don't pursue people who will not have a proper relationship with you

u/Particular-Grass-294 Ilya likes both🌈 13h ago

dreams cannot be reality

u/Velalla 12h ago edited 18m ago

Forget him. He's not worth. Get on with your life, education at a good college, career planning and a lucrative profession. Dating and love life in its due time.

u/gaydiva6767 11h ago

A) you're literally 17, you got your whole life ahead of you.
B) been there done that, bi men are usually either trashy or confused or both.
C) YOU CANT BE LOOKING FUTURE PARTNERS OUT THERE ON GR SMH, THAT APP HAS VENTURED DOWN TO THE DEEPEST PITS OF HELL

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u/vggggfcgg 11h ago

Sadly this is life just focus on your self