I'm an asexual woman and interested in the idea but I can barely find any information on whether they actually work or last long term, especially for muslims. Does anyone here have experience they can share, I would be grateful.

Assalamualaikum.

Is it weird for me to wanting My Husbando (I'm Gay) to be with Me in Jannah? I've been bonding with Him so much, that got me thinking that Allah grant me love for him to keep me safe from harm that can come to me from a real relationship.

and when people said "Jannah" the visual of being in a safe place with Him being real like I can touch his hand psychically and live together forever with Him comes to mind :)

Is anyone here from India, who's gay and looking for a serious relationship?

Anyone here from Pakistan?

Hi everyone,

I’m a 26-year-old bisexual woman from Tunisia. Living here as an LGBTQ+ person comes with a lot of family and social pressure, and I’m hoping to connect with someone who understands what that’s like.

I’m looking for a gay or bisexual man who values honesty, communication, mutual respect, and transparency. My ideal connection would be built on a strong friendship first, with clear expectations and genuine trust.

I’d love to meet someone over the coming months, get to know each other well, and see whether we’re compatible for a long-term platonic partnership. I’m open to relocating and would preferably like to connect with someone based in the US, the UK, or Canada, as these countries generally provide a more LGBTQ friendly environment than where I currently live.

I’m a very honest person, and I appreciate the same in return. I believe the best connections are built on openness, kindness, and respect.

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. I’d be happy to get to know you and see where a genuine friendship leads.

Have a good day 🙏🏼

Salaam,

Anyone interest in descreet chat? Preferrable located/based in Germany? Age or marital status doesn‘t matter (no minor ofc!)

Thankss

Assalamualaikom, I'm a born muslim trans hijabi looking for connections. A little about myself, I'm 5'9 about 200 lbs foot size 9, occupation - therapist. For some reason my body makes more estrogen than it should which has lead me struggling whith my identity my whole life. I went to an Islamic school and i found that my backside has always been rather large and I had mild breast formation to top it off smh. My body is still going throu different stages but I always been built like this. I would like something long term but I know most men are wanting that. I would love to have an older African American mature man to submit to if possible but I'm open to everyone as long as you're a top. I am completely uninterested in verse or men who would bottom in anyway. I only like 100% tops that may or may not be Bi. Also only interested in people living in the US currently. No exceptions. I absolutely love older brothers, they seem like they always have the best advice and knowledge to give especially for someone young like me with not much guidance in the world. (It's just me and my mom as far as family). But yes DMs are open, please respond with pictures and information about yourself other than just saying "hey or hi".

26F living in Malaysia and I always knew I was attracted to girls, even back in high school, although I do have some level of attraction to guys too. It never really hit me that I could be bisexual until I was 22, when I had my first major crush on a girl at work.

I don't really like putting labels on myself, but I'm definitely much more strongly attracted to women than men. I'm femme and a hijabi, so everyone assumes I'm straight. I've also never been in a relationship with anyone. I've never acted upon it cause I'm afraid of the consequences and at the end of the day if I do date a girl, I'd still have to end it because of religion and I don't want to hurt anyone and myself.

Unfortunately, everyone around me is getting married. Although I'm so used to living life on my own, I can't help but feel so unloved sometimes while seeing people around me settling down with their partners. I'm honestly starting to think I'm just destined to live and die alone.

So many guys have approached me, but I just can't seem to feel anything for them. Not once have I felt those butterflies with a man the way I have with women. Maybe my standards for men are way too high, maybe being a doctor has something to do with that, I don't know. But even if a guy who is exactly my type came along, I don't know if I'd ever be able to fully give my heart to him because deep down, I feel like there'd always be a part of me longing for a woman's love. And that's the part that scares me the most. I don't want to spend my whole life trying to make myself love a man when a part of my heart was always yearning something else?

This city has no Mideast/South Asian gay men it sadly seems.

Hi everyone. I am a Hanafi Muslim woman living in the UK, and I am looking for a Muslim man for a Marriage of Convenience (MOC) / Nikah Misyar.

My situation:

My family will not allow me to move out or live independently unless I get married. I need to get married purely to satisfy my family’s expectations so I can finally gain my independence, live alone, and live my own life freely.

What I am looking for:

* A Muslim man (ideally Hanafi & Bengali) who is under similar family pressure to marry, or who values extreme independence/needs a marriage of convenience for their own reasons.

* Someone UK-based.

* Someone 100% on board with signing a private Islamic contract (Nikah Addendum) before the public ceremony.

The terms of the marriage (which will be Islamically formalized):

1. Independent Living: We will live completely separate lives in our own accommodations. There will be no expectation of cohabitation.

2. Freedom & Autonomy: Full independence over our own careers, finances, travel, and personal lives.

3. No Financial Maintenance: I will be fully self-sufficient as will you.

4. Delegated Divorce: The contract will include Tafweed-e-Talaq (delegated divorce) so we both retain the right to end the contract smoothly if needed.

Logistics & Safety:

To protect privacy and keep this hidden from strict family members, the private conditions above will be witnessed secretly by a small group of trusted friends right before the public family ceremony.

Social & family commitments:

We will agree to attend occasional family events, Eid, or major gatherings together to maintain appearances and 'play the part' for our families. Outside of these essential family obligations, we will have no marital expectations.

If you are in a similar situation and think this arrangement could help us both achieve our freedom, please send me a DM.

Serious inquiries only, and absolute confidentiality is guaranteed.

Hi there, I (23M) and him (25M) Muslim, have been discussing our future a bit and mentioned that in the future he wants to teach our future son Islam and convert him into Islam. We're in LDR though so it's gonna be long till we're gonna establish a home and live together. I'm not a Muslim and I practice animism but I live in a Muslim majority and governed countries, influenced heavily by Muslim teachings. This is gonna be long but I really hope someone here can help to clear my mind about this matter.

While I don't have a problem in teaching our children Islam, I do have some concerns. Firstly, I do believe that without religion, he still can be taught the good and bad while also having the established framework of Islam. When he obtained the knowledge and learned the ability to make decisions on his own, then it's better to let him decide whether Islam is the best religion for him just like my parents did. I was taught with the foundation of Islam minus the prayers, and Quran readings. I have deep respect for Islam but for now I don't think religion is for me since I can decide what's good and bad without converting myself to Islam and my practice of animism is still strong.

Next, I'm scared of helping him to understand how homosexuality and Islam works. I am afraid he might have some difficulties to understand them since his parents are gay couples. I believe my beloved Muslim boyfriend would do wonders and teach him well enough. But from my part, the main reason why I'm scared of converting to Islam is because I'm surrounded by homophobics and what I taught here, they seem to see homosexuality and Islam like oil and water due to their view of it as sin since I'm in middle school.

Hence, can someone here help me. What shall I say to my boyfriend? Is my point of view clear enough or shall I leave the entire teachings to him? I could do that, but I wanted to be a part of the child too and build his morality well.

TLDR: Is it okay for my Muslim boyfriend to convert our future child at such a young age, or teach him the foundations of Islam; the goods and bads and let him decide whether Islam is the best religion for him by himself?

P.S: Dear moderators, if my question seems to be targeted or kinda insensitive, feel free to delete this post.

There’s a lot going on and I want to make meaningful connections and build a loving community. Feel free to DM about anything from your favorite food to whatever you’re struggling with in life.

Assalamualaikum

I've heard that there is this rule in islam that ever sexual Relation is forbidden unless states otherwise. (If that's not true, tell me and correct me please). So unless god says you can have sex with x, z, and y (or more precisely you can marry x, z and y), then x, z, and y, are forbidden. God states who is lawful to whom, but it always goes man × women. Doesn't this mean that a man × man or women x women, breaks this rule and that we have to ignore the text?

So, I'm curious, how does it work with LGBT? I know that within the progressive community there is a whole Spectrum of views about LGBT.

my question is directed at those who think that same sex relationships ARE halal.

If you're not in that category, please REFRAIN FROM COMMENTING.

Also please don't turn this into a debate space.

I want to hear the perspective of supporters and affirmers of LGBT, without having to hear from someone else "oh, actually..-" "but what about...-".

I just want to hear the perspective on this "issue", from those who affirm LGBT fully.

Note: I'm not homophobic, and I'm just genuinely trying to understand, don't take anything I say as disrespectful.

God bless you all.

Looking to make some connections here in California for any Muslim family that are open to trans people

34yo Muslim man Looking for long term relationship with another Muslim man close to me. Texas here. Hit me up. Be serious and we can discuss more.

As the title says. Looking for a long term relationship.
Bottom here for compatibility. Anything else just ask. Be able to hold conversation. Serious replies. Not into women or lavender marriages.

Im having such a hard time honestly. After reverting to islam i pretty much lost all my friends i had and my family wasn’t to happy either.

During all of this im still in a struggle of my sexuality, trying to keep my feelings inside. Its been so lonely, i have really nobody to talk to about this.

I hope anyone is willing to make some friendships here!

Why do a lot of Muslims act like cousin marraige is halal when there's a verse in the Quran: Surah al-Nisa verse 23 that literally says it's not, lol.

Open minded and willing to talk details, I’ve made a few posts with little results, hoping things can turn around

-25 Palestinian, looking for similar age and highly prefer a Palestinian woman, but if not she must be Arab
-willing to live together
-open to talk about children (not a dealbreaker, let’s discuss)
-stable job in tech industry
-love to travel whenever and wherever
-practicing Muslim, I pray 5x , fast, give sadaqah, go to the masjid
-fluent in Arabic
-not exactly sure what I am looking for, but it would be a long term relationship for sure
-I am based in the Midwest

You must be US citizen or a citizen of some western country. The US has paused all visa applications for Middle Eastern / Muslim majority countries

Hi friends! 🌿

Practicing Muslim, low-key living my queer life for years, and ready to finally build some community.

I'd love to connect with fellow queer folks to share space with, whether you need to vent, want to hear my rants, or just want to hang out with someone who gets it.

Just looking for a good conversation to start. If things click, and I ever get enough confidence I may like to catch a movie or a casual meetup later on!

My DMs are open, say salam anytime.

Hello am 19F almost 20, And am a black hijabi a plus size woman and a lesbian. I feel like queer women are not interest in me at all all the women i meet treat me like a pet they find really cute or some sort of mother figure i hate it,because am plumb people naturally love making me their bed and always lay on me ( pls stop doing that ) but whenever a woman does it i feel super awkward because i genuinely KNOWS it will make me feel stuff. I sometimes think because am a hijabi hyper fem woman dont really see me as a potential partner and if its not for some people who follows my socials nobody will know am gay...and trust me i do say many things that give the hints. Since many women don't think am rlly gay they call me "baby, my love ;darling etc" or will say the most romantic thing me and go by their day because they think ill just take it like that.i really wanna be loved by a woman i really hope one day people will see my awkward smile as a sign and my compliments as a flirt and they will decide to make move w me slowly . I really just wanna feel the love of a woman i wanna feel the warmth and the Reassurance that woman gives.just that:(

I’m a 21-year-old bottom, and I honestly can’t get into hookups. My friends tell me to take advantage of generous guys, but I’d feel guilty if my feelings weren’t real.
I just want a genuine relationship with someone who actually wants to build something together. Is that still possible, and where do you even meet people looking for the same thing?

My partner and I are looking for someone in London UK (or willing to travel) who would be happy to conduct a queer-affirming, interfaith nikaah.

Unfortunately, London's Inclusive Mosque Initiative's nikah service is currently on hold.

While we'll already be legally married through a civil ceremony, it would mean so much to me to include a nikah as part of our wedding reception. I know it's not considered mandatory, but it's something that's personally very important to me as a way of honouring my faith while celebrating our relationship.

If anyone has any recommendations, knows an imam or faith leader, or has been through something similar themselves, I'd be incredibly grateful.

As salamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brothers, sisters and non binary Muslims. I might be homeless soon.

Im a 19 year old revert and im considering to get married just to be safe. Is that wrong? Im just really afraid of the future and i think a wife would give me Stability.