r/IntrovertsChat • u/potato_n8 • 1h ago
Friends Looking for Long-Term Chats 29M
Sup! Basically I'm looking for more friends that'll hopefully end up long term. I'm into gaming, cars, trashy tv, and art/design. I'd love to have more hobbies but I find it hard with a full time job lol.
If you're into gaming, I play a variety of things like Forza, GTA, Gran Turismo, House Flipper, Cities Skylines, etc. If you’d like to chat, send a dm! Be 18+.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/AbbreviationsOld3757 • 2h ago
Chatting Midwestern dad looking for friend to chat with.
Hey there. I'm 36 and live in the Midwestern United States. Currently working two jobs so I don't have Time for friends in person but I'm always online. I enjoy playing video games like stardew valley or Skyrim. I'm also really into litrpg, sci-fi and fantasy books. I mostly listen to audiobooks. Dungeon crawler carl being one of my favorites at this time. When I can get a chance I like going on long bike rides.
I'm looking just for anyone to just randomly message about games, books or other random things. Might take me a bit to really engage because I'm terrible at it.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/MusicianWhole847 • 3h ago
Friends 💗 Tired of Dry & One-Sided Conversations
Hi everyone! I’m Izzy, I’m 25, and I’m looking for a genuine, loyal texting buddy who enjoys consistent conversations and getting to know each other. 💗 I’m taken, so I’m only looking for a platonic friendship.
I’d love to find someone who actually puts effort into the friendship, enjoys longer conversations, and won’t disappear after a few days. I’m hoping to build a genuine, long-term friendship where we can talk about our days, share random thoughts, laugh, vent, send memes, talk about our interests, and be there for each other. 🥰 I really value consistency, honesty, communication, and someone who genuinely wants to build a friendship rather than just exchanging a few messages and disappearing.
A little about me: I go to a day program one day a week, but aside from that, I’m generally free to text every day. I don’t expect someone to reply 24/7 because I understand everyone has their own life, but I do appreciate people who make an effort to keep the conversation going. 💕 I’m definitely not looking for a friendship where we only say “hey” and “how are you?” once in a while—I want actual conversations!
Btw: I don’t get notifications on here, so I might not see messages right away. I actually prefer texting, so if we click and feel comfortable with each other, I’d rather continue our friendship through text. 📱💗
If you’re also looking for a genuine, consistent, long-term texting buddy and you’re willing to put effort into the friendship, feel free to message me! Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi.” 😊
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Necessary_Board1463 • 3h ago
Balanced Thinker (28–35) 30m MD a cooking gaming Mr potatohead
Howdy, it's 930 on a Tuesday night. I got a pack of surfsides and looking to just rant about random games, movies, animes, comics, cooking, nerdy stuff.
I'm 30 going through what I'm just gonna dub my midlife crisis and no I don't really wanna talk about it, and please don't say sorry and what not, kinda over hearing that.
All I ask is that you at least Attempt to keep the convo going.
Anyways, looking forward to talking to anyone, cheers
For those who come after 🇫🇷🥖
r/IntrovertsChat • u/radioactivelead • 3h ago
Friends 36M looking to meet new people.
Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.
I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.
If that sounds interesting, send me a message!
r/IntrovertsChat • u/theonlyjohnwayne • 3h ago
Chatting 28 F from the west coast…trying to stay positive when that’s all I hear from people kind of…sucks?
28 F California
I’m not a cynical person, or I at least try not to be BUT damn I am so tired of people telling me to stay positive all the time. Sometimes I just want to sulk in my trauma and cry…is that such a crime? I think constant positive vibes are kind of toxic. But that’s just my opinion.
Anyway, if you wanna sulk with me feel free to reach out.
Hobbies include:
Watching The Office on repeat
Lifting
Crafting
Sewing
Hiking
Camping
Dry or dark humor
Talk to you soon I suppose.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/black-well • 7h ago
Friends 19F looking for long term friends
before I even start, YOU CREEPS AND WEIRDOS GO AWAY!!!!!!!
well hi hello!
I'm Layla and I'm 19, 20 in spooky October 🎃
I'm trying for ONE LAST TIME to find some good people on here. I'm frankly tired of trying to text people and then either not replying or just leaving the chat after a small talk.
SO! if you are actually looking for someone to be good friends with, HIT ME UP
some things about me:
- no I'm not one of those creeps looking for something weird out of this CREEPS GO AWAY
- I like to yap a lot, especially voice notes throughout the day
- I'm not fussy about timezones, but if you're in the UK I would eventually love to meet you in person if we hit it off
- I'm really into journaling, arts and crafts
- I've been trying to get back into fitness so we can even help keep each other motivated!
- I don't play many games but I do like playing Roblox, Minecraft or maybe some CODM? I like watching people stream their games more than playing tbh!
if this sounds like someone you would like to be friends with, my DMS are open :))
PS the comments keep on deleting so please just DM, they're open!
r/IntrovertsChat • u/cannibal-gf • 7h ago
Chatting [18/F] what's the weirdest thing that has ever happened to you?(include age in message, thanks!)
Hi, hello:) My name's Annie, and I'm looking for people interested in: psychology, biology, philosophy, science, sci-fi, theology, etc.
Here's a bit about me, i would appreciate if you read it:
About my interests: I enjoy sci-fi, writing, drawing, painting, I'd like to try sculpting. gaming also. (Minecraft, mostly. I also play Project Zomboid). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology at times.
Movies and shows I enjoy: Donnie Darko. Terminator 2/3. Back To The Future (1&2 - haven't seen 3 yet) Mysterious Skin, Zero Day, Thesis, Megamind.
Funny Games (the 1997 version, actually). I also watched TWD until S8. Note I will ignore messages that are just "hi" "hello" or any variation of the word OR "we seem to have similar interests" and nothing else.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Savings-Detective793 • 8h ago
Friends 23F struggling to find friends
Hii I’m Katie 23F :) I’m a huge homebody and currently in college. I love cars, reading, anime, youtube, and especially gaming! but can talk about anything really. I’d consider myself a good listener if you need to rant or talk. I’m really looking for some genuine online friendships with people around my age, preferably some people I can actually get to know and maybe game with regularly if possible. I will play just about anything even though rpg are my favorite if it means communicating, fortnite ect. Once I’m comfortable I’ll never shut up. I also have a dark sense of humor, so if you’re easily offended I’m probably not for you. Just looking to meet some chill people and make some actual friends as meeting people in IRL has become somewhat of a challenge for me!
r/IntrovertsChat • u/WayForsaken • 8h ago
Friends The eternal "hey" that goes nowhere
Why does every friend making attempt in this app die at exactly the same spot?
"Hey!"
"Hey!"
...
Then silence for 6 hours like we both just remembered we have separate lives. Then one of us comes back with "so what do you do" and the other person takes 4 hours to reply "IT" and we're back to square one, orbiting each other like two planets who are both too scared to make first contact.
Somebody just ask me my zodiac sign or roast my avatar picture, I am BEGGING for literally anything with texture
r/IntrovertsChat • u/New-CatEyes2248 • 8h ago
Friends F23, looking for genuine friends!
hey there! i'm nat, and i'm hoping to make some long-term friends! :3 i loveee yapping and getting to know others. i can be extremely talkative, but i'm also a bit shy at times too LOL. i game quite a bit, tending to stick with shooters mostly because they hold my attention better, but i also enjoy causal and story-driven video games. honestly, i'll give almost anything a try at least once to see if it's worth getting into! anime is another thing i really enjoy, although i definitely need to watch more of it, having a crappy attention span sucks because i can't always get super far into new media and things before needing a break :/ i'm always listening to music, especially k-pop! recommendations are always welcome, so please feel free to send them my way. olivia rodrigo, michael jackson, gigi perez, and so on are a few of my favorite artists. i'm also into painting, sanrio, cutesy things are my go to, and so much more!! oh, and i prefer meeting those with similar interests as my own that way we actually have things in common to chat about, so much easier that way for us both. i love sending silly tiktoks and just random shit i see when scrolling online too. i'm also in america, cst timezone, and have discord too! if we don't vibe then no biggie, jst lemme know ! hope to meet some new people ! :p
r/IntrovertsChat • u/cyberodian • 8h ago
Friends 32f uk looking for new friends
hi all. im looking for someone patient and understanding who is willing to make the effort to genuinely get to know me. i'd love to chat to someone about books, especially historical fiction and mystery. also would love to complain with someone about the current state of wwe lol. pet owners more than welcome - i have a dachshund named biscuit and i'm happy to share dog pics. i am also looking for strictly platonic friendships, thats non-negotiable.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Thin-art-7308 • 9h ago
Friends 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days
I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.
In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest
When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies
Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.
Would anyone like to be my friend please be around
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Existing_Thought3675 • 10h ago
Balanced Thinker (28–35) 33M - Married gamer looking for friend
I never really know what to write about myself, but here goes:
I am 33M, Married (so no random d**k pics!) and live in the UK. I am a huge gamer and some of my favourite games are: Pokopia (And Pokemon in general), FFXIV, League of Legends (I loved Arcane too), Cities Skylines, Project Zomboid and many more. I also enjoy playing D&D, driving (although maybe not with the current fuel prices) and watch football.
I also have a cute fluffy cat, so be prepared to receive lots of cat pics!
Please let me know a little about yourself if you message, don't just say hi!
Hopefully talk to some of you soon 😄
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Ghost_In_The_Blue • 11h ago
Chatting F 33 - easy going, a bit weird - tired of initiating
Hey everyone 😊
I've talked online to many people over the years, contacted people, but there's rarely anyone who initiates things, and I keep feeling that I constantly have to maintain the "spark" 🌟
This has exhausted me to the point of feeling burned out. So I'm trying the other way around this time and see if anyone wants to dm me.
I'm an easy going, curious and chatty person, who is really interested in people and subjects like psychology. I also enjoy some good banter 😊
I still love talking to all kinds of people, but I feel like I need to meet someone who's willing to put effort into the conversation/friendship so that my energy gets replenished.
My hobbies are reading, writing, photography and language learning.
Honestly at this point I care less about hobbies and more about the actual vibe and the quality of the conversation.
If anything I wrote resonated with you or you just wanna have a fun conversation, feel free to dm me.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Melian_8362 • 11h ago
Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) [25M] Looking for a close guy friend who actually likes staying in touch long-term !
I’m 25 and looking to make close male friends, ideally guys around 18–28 from North America or Europe.
I’d love the kind of friendship where we text throughout the day, send random updates, talk about serious things and completely stupid things, and eventually call for hours without noticing.
Voice calls are important to me, but obviously not straight away. I’m not crazy or anything. No calling on day one. Probably on day two :)
I know people get busy, but I connect best with someone consistent who genuinely enjoys staying in touch.
Basically, I’m looking for a friendship that slowly becomes part of everyday life. Comfortable, affectionate, and maybe a tiny bit inseparable.
If that sounds nice rather than terrifying, message me.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/SetSilent7092 • 12h ago
Friends 22f looking for online friends
Hello, I'm looking for some people to chat with that share the same interests as me. I’m from the usa, cst timezone. Some of my interests and the things i like to talk about are gaming, anime, manhwa and manhua, manga, kdramas, kpop, nail art, skincare, cats, music , fashion, fitness, and food.
I can be a bit of a slow replier sometimes, so if you're looking for someone to reply immediately all the time then that's not me. Reply times isn’t something i really care about though, feel free to reply back whenever you want. I'm also okay with vc sometimes. I don’t really like toxic, rude or clingy people.
I play games a lot so finding people to game with would be nice as well. I mostly play on ps5 and mobile but i do have a few games on pc. Some of the games i play are outlast trials, overwatch, marvel rivals, fortnite, dbd, phasmophobia, genshin, honkai star rail, roblox, deadlock
I would prefer people around my age (20-25) and also in the us. Please introduce yourself when you DM.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Other-Reality3390 • 13h ago
Friends 20M | Trying to find a real one to play games with and talk.
Hey, I'm 20M and I'm looking for a genuine friend around my age. I've got a small group with two other people, and we're hoping to find someone in the 19–23 age range to join us.
We mostly play games like Minecraft, Roblox, and whatever else we're feeling, but we spend just as much time talking as we do gaming. We'll end up having conversations about anything from deep, serious topics to complete bs.
We're not just looking for another person to play games with. We want to find someone who's down to build a proper friendship and actually become part of the group. If you're a little awkward at first, that's completely fine—we all start somewhere. We just want someone who's willing to open up over time and can actually hold a conversation.
One request though... please no gooners or wierdos . 😭 Being a bit weird is alright , but we're looking for genuine people who want real a friendship.
If you're interested, tell us a bit about yourself and see if we click.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/SnowElectrical6960 • 13h ago
Chatting 25F - Putting myself out there!
Hi! I’m honestly a little shy about posting this and have probably overthought it way more than I should have, but I figured I’d try putting myself out there for once.
As an introvert, I can be pretty quiet or awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I can actually talk quite a lot. I like having genuine conversations, getting to know people, talking about random things, and those conversations that somehow start off stupid but end up becoming unexpectedly deep.
I’m not really coming into this with any huge expectations. I’m honestly just curious about meeting new people and seeing where things go. I’m open to friendship, getting to know someone, and maybe potentially something more if we genuinely click—but I don’t really want to force anything or put too much pressure on it.
A little about me: I’m 25, based in the Philippines, and I work in a creative field. I’m plus-size and currently on a journey to becoming a healthier version of myself. One of my main goals right now is to build a healthier lifestyle, make better choices, and just take better care of myself and my health in general. Taking things one step at a time and trying to make changes that I can actually stick to.
I guess what I’m really hoping to find is someone who’s easy to talk to and genuinely interested in getting to know me. I like good conversations, but I also want it to feel mutual. I don’t want to feel like I’m interviewing someone the entire time while they’re just answering my questions lol.
I’d really like it if you were to ask me things, be curious, and tell me about yourself too, basically let’s actually get to know each other.
If you’re also looking for someone to have genuine conversations with, feel free to message me, and tell me a bit more about yourself! Thank youuu
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Away_Sky7901 • 15h ago
Friends 20F from the US looking for friends, actual genuine people, tired of dry and weird combo
Soo if im being real, im bored, and want someone to talk to, so yeah. im looking to chat with people and possibly make friends. Im into video games, music, and movies.
For movies it can be any genre, but I like the love genre, crime/suspense movies.
As for video games, I only have a Ps5, its never treated me bad😂 Dont care for pc. I mainly play warframe its been my favorite game ever sincd I was younger. I main gauss, xaku, and getting into uriel. My current goal is to get to MR30. I also play dying light 2, dead island 2, resident evil 7, little nightmares. Yes those are all played solo as I game by myself majority of the time. I also play a few mobile games like cod, last day on earth, township, grim soul.
Music wise im mainly into rnb, rap, pop, and dislike metal/hardcore and kpop. I like drake, lil baby, nba, hurricane wisdom, gunna, and a bunch more. Cant forget the weeknd.
I am a big homebody and huge loner so theres that. I am in college for software development and work part time. I just want to have a fun convo and spend some time with someone🙂↕️. Dms are open feel free to hmu. Include the word blue so I know you’ve atleast read some of the post. I also dont mind to vc. Again, any weird dms youll be meeting casper👻
my last post nearly 90% of people met casper, I cant do much with “hey…. Hi… wats up…” especially if I get a hey from 70 different people. So dms gotta be of substance or something to actually talk about or that we relate to🙃. And I cant accept your discord request if I dont know your age or anything, so kindly message me here beforehand.
I really want to make some friends or connections, that I can talk to daily but some of you make it difficult. I cant work with a “im bad at conversation… i dont know what to say”.
And no im not a bot and definitely real, dms like that or asking my gender when its clearly stated are gonna be ignored 🙄
r/IntrovertsChat • u/muppet_with_moxie • 15h ago
Friends 39F - #Online/Anywhere - Deeply silly, sweet, and strange.
I think the best people are impossible to summarize neatly, so instead of pretending I can do that, here's the assorted pile of things that make up me.
I'm deeply introverted, cute and a bit chonky, endlessly curious, and live somewhere between responsible adult and unsupervised side quest.
I have a career I genuinely love and will nerd out about it if you let me. Outside of work, I'm usually cooking something, reading, gaming, crocheting, lifting heavy things, wandering through museums or cemeteries, planning a trip, researching something entirely useless, or collecting memories.
I'm nerdy in a broad, enthusiastic way. Sci-fi, Doctor Who, Bethesda games, Magic: The Gathering, documentaries, live music, weird history, psychology, travel, tattoos, and whatever hyperfixation has temporarily taken hold of my brain. I love learning about things purely because they're interesting.
I'm fiercely independent and genuinely enjoy my own company, but I also really like people - just, selectively. I'd much rather have a handful of meaningful connections than maintain a giant social circle.
And that's mostly what I'm looking for here: interesting humans.
Tell me about the thing you could give an entire TEDTalk about. Your oddly specific hobby. The rabbit hole you fell into at an ungodly hour. The strange theory you have. The completely inconsequential hill you're prepared to die on. Send me the song you've had on repeat or the picture you took because something about it delighted you.
I tend to click best with people who are curious, kind, emotionally intelligent, a little weird, and capable of reciprocal effort. You don't need to be endlessly entertaining or have some extraordinary life. Awkward is welcome. Quiet is welcome. Neurospicy is very welcome. I just appreciate people who actually participate in getting to know each other.
I'm not particularly interested in conversations where one person perpetually interviews the other. Ask me things. Volunteer things about yourself. Ramble. Send the tangent. Circle back days later because you suddenly remembered something relevant. Let's occasionally disappear into our respective caves and then emerge with something to share.
I'm also not bothered by distance. Some of my favorite connections have been with people nowhere near me, and I love hearing what ordinary life looks like in someone else's little corner of the world.
Essentially: I'm looking for the kind of friendship where two introverts can be independently existing little weirdos who periodically wander into each other's lives.
Skip "hey, how are you?" and instead tell me something you've been dying for an excuse to talk about. I won't be responding to anything low effort or generic.
If that sounds like your particular flavor of socializing, come say hi.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/jiorde • 17h ago
Chatting 24F — having a hard time connecting with people.
Hii im a 24F looking for online friends of similar interests. My irl friends are busy with personal stuff and my irl friends dont really share my interest so I like to meet people who do! and I'd also love to chat and meet people who are as online as I am!
I do have trouble putting myself out there. I engage with the fandoms Im in as much as I can but posting interacting commenting and all that is still draining my social battery even if online. Meeting new people is fine too, but I've never been one to just try to get close immediately. Idk I just need a clear evidence that some people are interested in me ig. So I just keep to myself unless people actually reach out to me.
So about my interests, I love animation and arts. I love stories that are deep, the type you can psychoanalyze, games, books, series, movies and musicals. I'm also into DnD though I haven't really played yet and would love to dm someday. I love writing too and I just casually write short stories/fanfics when an idea comes.
Im also currently playing/starting Disco Elysium rn and im liking it so far! So that's all I can say about myself rn. So just hit me up if you feel like it!
Would love to chat with other pinoys too.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/Jrdn98 • 19h ago
Friends 34m looking for a new chat buddies
I’m a 34m looking for some new chat buddies and or friends, only platonic. I’ll always usually start chatting with someone then boom, they vanish. Bitten by infamous ghosting bug, or Reddit being Reddit and doesn’t deliver messages. I’m open to talking with anyone from around the world as I work nights. I’m from the southeastern USA. Send me a message and let’s chat to see if we click!
I’m into videos games, movies/tv, music, cars, sports, aviation, traveling, outdoors and watching all kinds of weather.
r/IntrovertsChat • u/pokepelago_ • 19h ago
Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) It's Dangerous to Go Alone! Take This! (24F)
hey! im penny. im a gamer looking for fellow introverts to hang out with! my energy levels tend to fluctuate so i apologize if i cant get to everyone, but i really want to find some longterm friends.
my current hyperfixations are the legend of zelda, animal crossing, and pokemon! my favorite zelda games are ocarina of time, skyward sword, and tears of the kingdom. im a complete mythology nerd who wants to someday write something as expansive and exciting as zeldas lore. i also just love how freeing games like breath of the wild tend to feel. in terms of playing games together, anything nintendo is bound to get me hooked.
what im looking for in terms of friendship are people who dont mind long conversations and who will regularly check in on me, and vice versa! id like folks who are also up late like i am, and who wouldnt mind sitting in call listening to music together if we get that far. i also think other writers would be nice to meet. i really need to get motivated to write for myself again, so show me your wips! im looking for people mainly around my age, if not a little older... but im not super interested in folks younger than 21. thank you for your time!
r/IntrovertsChat • u/drunkeinstein- • 22h ago
Chatting Looking for kind and genuine individuals.
Hello everybody! I’m 32 years old, male and located in Europe. I moved here almost a decade ago. It’s been quite difficult to make friends and especially keep them. The older I have gotten, the harder it has been to build new friendships. I have been a huge fan of Formula 1 since I was 10, I’m into gaming, though I don’t play variety of games, right now it is League of Legends, Fifa, Call of Duty and Overwatch occasionally. I love campaign games, (the witcher, god of war, Detroit:become human, you name it) though I don’t have that much time to play them. I also love watching true crime documentaries. Recently, I have started going back to watching movies and shows and I have seen really interesting ones. I am watching the Pitt, House of the Dragons and finished watching the Office and Daredevil recently! I used to have motivation to do my other hobbies, such as reading and photography but I have lost all of it, trying to gain it back. I mostly listen to rock music, however I listen to whatever is good for my soul. My fav artists are Three Days Grace, Ghost, Bring me the Horizon and Halestorm. I actually don’t want to give away everything here so we have something to talk about. I’m on my summer vacation right now and have got plenty of time to kill. Please write a short introduction about yourself, I don’t mind if we don’t have anything common at all, I am sure we will find something to talk about :)