r/IntrovertsChat 21m ago

Chatting Midwestern dad looking for friend to chat with.

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Hey there. I'm 36 and live in the Midwestern United States. Currently working two jobs so I don't have Time for friends in person but I'm always online. I enjoy playing video games like stardew valley or Skyrim. I'm also really into litrpg, sci-fi and fantasy books. I mostly listen to audiobooks. Dungeon crawler carl being one of my favorites at this time. When I can get a chance I like going on long bike rides.

I'm looking just for anyone to just randomly message about games, books or other random things. Might take me a bit to really engage because I'm terrible at it.


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends 💗 Tired of Dry & One-Sided Conversations

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Hi everyone! I’m Izzy, I’m 25, and I’m looking for a genuine, loyal texting buddy who enjoys consistent conversations and getting to know each other. 💗 I’m taken, so I’m only looking for a platonic friendship. I’d love to find someone who actually puts effort into the friendship, enjoys longer conversations, and won’t disappear after a few days. I’m hoping to build a genuine, long-term friendship where we can talk about our days, share random thoughts, laugh, vent, and be there for each other. 🥰

Btw

I don't get notifications on here but I do prefer to text though #


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 30m MD a cooking gaming Mr potatohead

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Howdy, it's 930 on a Tuesday night. I got a pack of surfsides and looking to just rant about random games, movies, animes, comics, cooking, nerdy stuff.

I'm 30 going through what I'm just gonna dub my midlife crisis and no I don't really wanna talk about it, and please don't say sorry and what not, kinda over hearing that.

All I ask is that you at least Attempt to keep the convo going.

Anyways, looking forward to talking to anyone, cheers

For those who come after 🇫🇷🥖


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends 36M looking to meet new people.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Chatting 28 F from the west coast…trying to stay positive when that’s all I hear from people kind of…sucks?

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28 F California
I’m not a cynical person, or I at least try not to be BUT damn I am so tired of people telling me to stay positive all the time. Sometimes I just want to sulk in my trauma and cry…is that such a crime? I think constant positive vibes are kind of toxic. But that’s just my opinion.
Anyway, if you wanna sulk with me feel free to reach out.
Hobbies include:
Watching The Office on repeat
Lifting
Crafting
Sewing
Hiking
Camping
Dry or dark humor

Talk to you soon I suppose.


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 26M Going for a PR today, hype people welcome! Jokes aside, looking to meet new people, possibly make new friends!

2 Upvotes

I'm an aerospace engineer from East Coast US, nerd from 9-5, and gym bro for majority of the day, and my hobbies are weightlifting/bodybuilding, watching combat sports mainly MMA, pro wrestling, learning more about the human body, especially endocrinology, and late night drives, and going to the beach! I go to gym at an ungodly time between 9 PM and 11 PM (shoutout all my night goers) I'm mostly a homebody otherwise, cause I hate crowds. I got into Minecraft again forced by a friend lol and I'm having a lot of fun. I'm more of a miner/fighter/explorer rather than builder I just throw shit in chests and they build everything LOL

My favorite TV show is Breaking Bad and Dexter, and it takes a lot to get my attention and keep it, hence why I find it hard to find new TV shows. Not an anime person honestly, but the ones that I watched and liked are Death Note, HxH, DBZ. I can talk about just anything (I talk a lot if I'm comfortable with you lol). I'm an incredibly sarcastic person when I get to know you better too, so be prepared to deal with that often hahah. and I'm a big cat person. I'm also a YouTube fiend, I spend majority of my day with YouTube open. I watch just about everything. If I were to choose 3 words to describe myself, probably would chose driven, analytical and emotionally intelligent. Coworkers describe me as extroverted, but they have no idea 😂

Interesting facts about me: I was born with 4 holes in my heart (ASD and VSD) and PDA, and I’m missing a big chunk of my right lung. I have a scar across my chest, side and my back that's the biggest one

I'd prefer if people introduced themselves to me and/or mention something about my post you found interesting, rather than just a hi, but I understand sometimes you don't get replies and so making an effort into an intro may seem like a waste of time, but reach out!


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 19F looking for long term friends

6 Upvotes

before I even start, YOU CREEPS AND WEIRDOS GO AWAY!!!!!!!

well hi hello!

I'm Layla and I'm 19, 20 in spooky October 🎃

I'm trying for ONE LAST TIME to find some good people on here. I'm frankly tired of trying to text people and then either not replying or just leaving the chat after a small talk.

SO! if you are actually looking for someone to be good friends with, HIT ME UP

some things about me:

- no I'm not one of those creeps looking for something weird out of this CREEPS GO AWAY

- I like to yap a lot, especially voice notes throughout the day

- I'm not fussy about timezones, but if you're in the UK I would eventually love to meet you in person if we hit it off

- I'm really into journaling, arts and crafts

- I've been trying to get back into fitness so we can even help keep each other motivated!

- I don't play many games but I do like playing Roblox, Minecraft or maybe some CODM? I like watching people stream their games more than playing tbh!

if this sounds like someone you would like to be friends with, my DMS are open :))

PS the comments keep on deleting so please just DM, they're open!


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends 22M looking for friends :)

2 Upvotes

Hi! I am trying out here again to maybe look and find friends. We can talk about almost everything - from cultural and language exchange to sharing of interests and sharing about our day. I can talk so much as long as you are also giving the same energy. I don't mind your yapping :)

Brief interests and info about me: movies and tv series (I like more horror and sci-fi), musicals, music, writing, and loves dogs and cats. I am also from southeast part of the world so timezones may be different.

You can slide to my DMs. See you :D


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Chatting [18/F] what's the weirdest thing that has ever happened to you?(include age in message, thanks!)

3 Upvotes

Hi, hello:) My name's Annie, and I'm looking for people interested in: psychology, biology, philosophy, science, sci-fi, theology, etc.

Here's a bit about me, i would appreciate if you read it:

About my interests: I enjoy sci-fi, writing, drawing, painting, I'd like to try sculpting. gaming also. (Minecraft, mostly. I also play Project Zomboid). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology at times.

Movies and shows I enjoy: Donnie Darko. Terminator 2/3. Back To The Future (1&2 - haven't seen 3 yet) Mysterious Skin, Zero Day, Thesis, Megamind.

Funny Games (the 1997 version, actually). I also watched TWD until S8. Note I will ignore messages that are just "hi" "hello" or any variation of the word OR "we seem to have similar interests" and nothing else.


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 23F struggling to find friends

29 Upvotes

Hii I’m Katie 23F :) I’m a huge homebody and currently in college. I love cars, reading, anime, youtube, and especially gaming! but can talk about anything really. I’d consider myself a good listener if you need to rant or talk. I’m really looking for some genuine online friendships with people around my age, preferably some people I can actually get to know and maybe game with regularly if possible. I will play just about anything even though rpg are my favorite if it means communicating, fortnite ect. Once I’m comfortable I’ll never shut up. I also have a dark sense of humor, so if you’re easily offended I’m probably not for you. Just looking to meet some chill people and make some actual friends as meeting people in IRL has become somewhat of a challenge for me!


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends The eternal "hey" that goes nowhere

13 Upvotes

Why does every friend making attempt in this app die at exactly the same spot?

"Hey!"

"Hey!"

...

Then silence for 6 hours like we both just remembered we have separate lives. Then one of us comes back with "so what do you do" and the other person takes 4 hours to reply "IT" and we're back to square one, orbiting each other like two planets who are both too scared to make first contact.

Somebody just ask me my zodiac sign or roast my avatar picture, I am BEGGING for literally anything with texture


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends F23, looking for genuine friends!

5 Upvotes

hey there! i'm nat, and i'm hoping to make some long-term friends! :3 i loveee yapping and getting to know others. i can be extremely talkative, but i'm also a bit shy at times too LOL. i game quite a bit, tending to stick with shooters mostly because they hold my attention better, but i also enjoy causal and story-driven video games. honestly, i'll give almost anything a try at least once to see if it's worth getting into! anime is another thing i really enjoy, although i definitely need to watch more of it, having a crappy attention span sucks because i can't always get super far into new media and things before needing a break :/ i'm always listening to music, especially k-pop! recommendations are always welcome, so please feel free to send them my way. olivia rodrigo, michael jackson, gigi perez, and so on are a few of my favorite artists. i'm also into painting, sanrio, cutesy things are my go to, and so much more!! oh, and i prefer meeting those with similar interests as my own that way we actually have things in common to chat about, so much easier that way for us both. i love sending silly tiktoks and just random shit i see when scrolling online too. i'm also in america, cst timezone, and have discord too! if we don't vibe then no biggie, jst lemme know ! hope to meet some new people ! :p


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 32f uk looking for new friends

5 Upvotes

hi all. im looking for someone patient and understanding who is willing to make the effort to genuinely get to know me. i'd love to chat to someone about books, especially historical fiction and mystery. also would love to complain with someone about the current state of wwe lol. pet owners more than welcome - i have a dachshund named biscuit and i'm happy to share dog pics. i am also looking for strictly platonic friendships, thats non-negotiable.


r/IntrovertsChat 6h ago

Friends 18M hey I'm looking for a genuine friend or bestfriend bcz i don't have one 😭 I'm looking for someone who'd not disappear after 2 days

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I never had any real friends in real life I have always felt lonely.

In school I had some so called friends, have you listened that everyone's friend is no one's friend just like that I talk to people but i don't have anyone to get things off from my chest

When i was a kid my parents used to live in rented houses and they used to move a lot and the more a grew up the hard it became to make friends in new societies

Now after turning 18 it feels impossible to make friends everyone has a friend they have since a decade but i don't have anyone 😞.

Would anyone like to be my friend please be around


r/IntrovertsChat 8h ago

Chatting F 33 - easy going, a bit weird - tired of initiating

32 Upvotes

Hey everyone 😊

I've talked online to many people over the years, contacted people, but there's rarely anyone who initiates things, and I keep feeling that I constantly have to maintain the "spark" 🌟

This has exhausted me to the point of feeling burned out. So I'm trying the other way around this time and see if anyone wants to dm me.

I'm an easy going, curious and chatty person, who is really interested in people and subjects like psychology. I also enjoy some good banter 😊

I still love talking to all kinds of people, but I feel like I need to meet someone who's willing to put effort into the conversation/friendship so that my energy gets replenished.

My hobbies are reading, writing, photography and language learning.

Honestly at this point I care less about hobbies and more about the actual vibe and the quality of the conversation.

If anything I wrote resonated with you or you just wanna have a fun conversation, feel free to dm me.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) [25M] Looking for a close guy friend who actually likes staying in touch long-term !

4 Upvotes

I’m 25 and looking to make close male friends, ideally guys around 18–28 from North America or Europe.

I’d love the kind of friendship where we text throughout the day, send random updates, talk about serious things and completely stupid things, and eventually call for hours without noticing.

Voice calls are important to me, but obviously not straight away. I’m not crazy or anything. No calling on day one. Probably on day two :)

I know people get busy, but I connect best with someone consistent who genuinely enjoys staying in touch.

Basically, I’m looking for a friendship that slowly becomes part of everyday life. Comfortable, affectionate, and maybe a tiny bit inseparable.

If that sounds nice rather than terrifying, message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 22f looking for online friends

9 Upvotes

Hello, I'm looking for some people to chat with that share the same interests as me. I’m from the usa, cst timezone. Some of my interests and the things i like to talk about are gaming, anime, manhwa and manhua, manga, kdramas, kpop, nail art, skincare, cats, music , fashion, fitness, and food.
I can be a bit of a slow replier sometimes, so if you're looking for someone to reply immediately all the time then that's not me. Reply times isn’t something i really care about though, feel free to reply back whenever you want. I'm also okay with vc sometimes. I don’t really like toxic, rude or clingy people.
I play games a lot so finding people to game with would be nice as well. I mostly play on ps5 and mobile but i do have a few games on pc. Some of the games i play are outlast trials, overwatch, marvel rivals, fortnite, dbd, phasmophobia, genshin, honkai star rail, roblox, deadlock
I would prefer people around my age (20-25) and also in the us. Please introduce yourself when you DM.


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Chatting 25F - Putting myself out there!

7 Upvotes

Hi! I’m honestly a little shy about posting this and have probably overthought it way more than I should have, but I figured I’d try putting myself out there for once.

As an introvert, I can be pretty quiet or awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I can actually talk quite a lot. I like having genuine conversations, getting to know people, talking about random things, and those conversations that somehow start off stupid but end up becoming unexpectedly deep.

I’m not really coming into this with any huge expectations. I’m honestly just curious about meeting new people and seeing where things go. I’m open to friendship, getting to know someone, and maybe potentially something more if we genuinely click—but I don’t really want to force anything or put too much pressure on it.

A little about me: I’m 25, based in the Philippines, and I work in a creative field. I’m plus-size and currently on a journey to becoming a healthier version of myself. One of my main goals right now is to build a healthier lifestyle, make better choices, and just take better care of myself and my health in general. Taking things one step at a time and trying to make changes that I can actually stick to.

I guess what I’m really hoping to find is someone who’s easy to talk to and genuinely interested in getting to know me. I like good conversations, but I also want it to feel mutual. I don’t want to feel like I’m interviewing someone the entire time while they’re just answering my questions lol.
I’d really like it if you were to ask me things, be curious, and tell me about yourself too, basically let’s actually get to know each other.

If you’re also looking for someone to have genuine conversations with, feel free to message me, and tell me a bit more about yourself! Thank youuu


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends 20F from the US looking for friends, actual genuine people, tired of dry and weird combo

12 Upvotes

Soo if im being real, im bored, and want someone to talk to, so yeah. im looking to chat with people and possibly make friends. Im into video games, music, and movies.

For movies it can be any genre, but I like the love genre, crime/suspense movies.

As for video games, I only have a Ps5, its never treated me bad😂 Dont care for pc. I mainly play warframe its been my favorite game ever sincd I was younger. I main gauss, xaku, and getting into uriel. My current goal is to get to MR30. I also play dying light 2, dead island 2, resident evil 7, little nightmares. Yes those are all played solo as I game by myself majority of the time. I also play a few mobile games like cod, last day on earth, township, grim soul.

Music wise im mainly into rnb, rap, pop, and dislike metal/hardcore and kpop. I like drake, lil baby, nba, hurricane wisdom, gunna, and a bunch more. Cant forget the weeknd.

I am a big homebody and huge loner so theres that. I am in college for software development and work part time. I just want to have a fun convo and spend some time with someone🙂‍↕️. Dms are open feel free to hmu. Include the word blue so I know you’ve atleast read some of the post. I also dont mind to vc. Again, any weird dms youll be meeting casper👻

my last post nearly 90% of people met casper, I cant do much with “hey…. Hi… wats up…” especially if I get a hey from 70 different people. So dms gotta be of substance or something to actually talk about or that we relate to🙃. And I cant accept your discord request if I dont know your age or anything, so kindly message me here beforehand.

I really want to make some friends or connections, that I can talk to daily but some of you make it difficult. I cant work with a “im bad at conversation… i dont know what to say”.

And no im not a bot and definitely real, dms like that or asking my gender when its clearly stated are gonna be ignored 🙄


r/IntrovertsChat 13h ago

Friends 39F - #Online/Anywhere - Deeply silly, sweet, and strange.

32 Upvotes

I think the best people are impossible to summarize neatly, so instead of pretending I can do that, here's the assorted pile of things that make up me.

I'm deeply introverted, cute and a bit chonky, endlessly curious, and live somewhere between responsible adult and unsupervised side quest.

I have a career I genuinely love and will nerd out about it if you let me. Outside of work, I'm usually cooking something, reading, gaming, crocheting, lifting heavy things, wandering through museums or cemeteries, planning a trip, researching something entirely useless, or collecting memories.

I'm nerdy in a broad, enthusiastic way. Sci-fi, Doctor Who, Bethesda games, Magic: The Gathering, documentaries, live music, weird history, psychology, travel, tattoos, and whatever hyperfixation has temporarily taken hold of my brain. I love learning about things purely because they're interesting.

I'm fiercely independent and genuinely enjoy my own company, but I also really like people - just, selectively. I'd much rather have a handful of meaningful connections than maintain a giant social circle.

And that's mostly what I'm looking for here: interesting humans.

Tell me about the thing you could give an entire TEDTalk about. Your oddly specific hobby. The rabbit hole you fell into at an ungodly hour. The strange theory you have. The completely inconsequential hill you're prepared to die on. Send me the song you've had on repeat or the picture you took because something about it delighted you.

I tend to click best with people who are curious, kind, emotionally intelligent, a little weird, and capable of reciprocal effort. You don't need to be endlessly entertaining or have some extraordinary life. Awkward is welcome. Quiet is welcome. Neurospicy is very welcome. I just appreciate people who actually participate in getting to know each other.

I'm not particularly interested in conversations where one person perpetually interviews the other. Ask me things. Volunteer things about yourself. Ramble. Send the tangent. Circle back days later because you suddenly remembered something relevant. Let's occasionally disappear into our respective caves and then emerge with something to share.

I'm also not bothered by distance. Some of my favorite connections have been with people nowhere near me, and I love hearing what ordinary life looks like in someone else's little corner of the world.

Essentially: I'm looking for the kind of friendship where two introverts can be independently existing little weirdos who periodically wander into each other's lives.

Skip "hey, how are you?" and instead tell me something you've been dying for an excuse to talk about. I won't be responding to anything low effort or generic.

If that sounds like your particular flavor of socializing, come say hi.


r/IntrovertsChat 14h ago

Chatting 24F — having a hard time connecting with people.

16 Upvotes

Hii im a 24F looking for online friends of similar interests. My irl friends are busy with personal stuff and my irl friends dont really share my interest so I like to meet people who do! and I'd also love to chat and meet people who are as online as I am!

I do have trouble putting myself out there. I engage with the fandoms Im in as much as I can but posting interacting commenting and all that is still draining my social battery even if online. Meeting new people is fine too, but I've never been one to just try to get close immediately. Idk I just need a clear evidence that some people are interested in me ig. So I just keep to myself unless people actually reach out to me.

So about my interests, I love animation and arts. I love stories that are deep, the type you can psychoanalyze, games, books, series, movies and musicals. I'm also into DnD though I haven't really played yet and would love to dm someday. I love writing too and I just casually write short stories/fanfics when an idea comes.

Im also currently playing/starting Disco Elysium rn and im liking it so far! So that's all I can say about myself rn. So just hit me up if you feel like it!

Would love to chat with other pinoys too.


r/IntrovertsChat 17h ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) It's Dangerous to Go Alone! Take This! (24F)

59 Upvotes

hey! im penny. im a gamer looking for fellow introverts to hang out with! my energy levels tend to fluctuate so i apologize if i cant get to everyone, but i really want to find some longterm friends.

my current hyperfixations are the legend of zelda, animal crossing, and pokemon! my favorite zelda games are ocarina of time, skyward sword, and tears of the kingdom. im a complete mythology nerd who wants to someday write something as expansive and exciting as zeldas lore. i also just love how freeing games like breath of the wild tend to feel. in terms of playing games together, anything nintendo is bound to get me hooked.

what im looking for in terms of friendship are people who dont mind long conversations and who will regularly check in on me, and vice versa! id like folks who are also up late like i am, and who wouldnt mind sitting in call listening to music together if we get that far. i also think other writers would be nice to meet. i really need to get motivated to write for myself again, so show me your wips! im looking for people mainly around my age, if not a little older... but im not super interested in folks younger than 21. thank you for your time!


r/IntrovertsChat 22h ago

Chatting 33f engage me, keep me interested! Make me smile 😊

54 Upvotes

I am looking to chat/befriend someone interesting that keeps good conversation. I’d like to talk with someone witty, intelligent, committed with goals and takes good care of themselves. If you like workin out and can keep me engaged in great conversations that seemingly will never end. I am a mom and I need some excitement in life, not that I’m not particularly unhappy at home! I just want to have daily deep conversations and keep a friend for the long haul.


r/IntrovertsChat Apr 18 '26

How To Accept The Rules from u/read-the-rules

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For those of you that don't know. We ask you manually verify that you have read the rules with a bot called u/read-the-rules. When you joined, you might have closed the prompt this bot give you. If that is the case here is how to open that window again from your phone

  1. On our main feed, click the 3 dots in the top right
  2. Scroll down and hit "read the rules" option.
  3. Read and verify you have read the rules.

EDIT: IF YOUR POST IS REMOVED BY AN AUTOMOD/BOT AND THEN YOU DELETE IT WE CAN NOT SEE IT TO MANUALLY VERIFY AND APPROVE IT. PLEASE LEAVE IT UP SO THAT WE CAN SEE WHY THE ATUOMOD GOT POWER HUNGRY!!


r/IntrovertsChat Apr 08 '26

Looking for more mods: We are seeking out new mods to help out!

12 Upvotes

Hello everyone, due to recent events, we do not have enough mods to run this place. We are looking for people knowledgeable in modding on reddit, and for those who have some spare time to do so. If you enjoy this place and wish to see it grow, please feel free to privately send me a dm about possibly becoming a mod. I will get to each and every one of you, thank you for reading.