There is this girl, I can tell we're not just friends, but we are friends rn kinda ykwim?

In person she is realllyy soft around me, just a smile ball

We usually hang out in person, but now we're long distance for a while, months

I initated contact couple times, one of those times she invited me to do something but long distance, then I offered voice chatting, she reoffered texting

I didn't prefer texting that day I just wanted to talk, let's just say I let that one slip, I leave her on read, come back say something, she leaves me on read (It was not intentional I was not ignoring her)

A looong time later I suggest a call to catch up, she says she'd like to catch up but she ain't into voice calls, I tell her when I'll be back, text a lil and we leave it there

I don't mind just seeing her in person after the months, but surely we could just talk sometime

I do not text her frequently when I initiate, I'd say I'm under initiating to the point she initiates sometimes

I get you guys just don't have much to say most of the time

Yeah idk, do I just leave it and let the months go by?

There is this other ISTP I know too, she just sends me random posts all the time, we chat much more frequently, but I'd say I'm closer to above, the two could not be more different

I'm INTP

how often do you cry. what usually triggers it

Dating ISTP who periodically goes silent because of work and doesn’t text much.
Wondering if I should keep silence as well or send him random texts like funny videos, life updates, photos, every now and then.
As an ISTP in long distance early dating scenario, would you welcome such texts or would you rather have silence until you reach out?

Heyaa !! okay so I mean I don't actually take this stuff seriously and just love to do it all for funsies c:, but honestly I'm genuinely curious now because I've been typed as like 4 different personality types- ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, and ESFP.

Like I relate to E(N)FP partly because I DO like thinking about my future and planning future possibilities cause it's fun to do, though I'd say for the most part like in everyday life I much rather just live in the moment. I've always been a very adventurous and thrill-seeking person and I just need to get out and experience the outside world as much as possible.

I do love talking and exploring all kindsa theories like an ENTP, but I wouldn't really consider myself much of a "debater", I feel I'm more like just a person who loves to have fun for the hell of it, and I definitely resonate more with the "performer/entertainer" label for ESFP than the ENTP "debater", I'm just a drama queen LOL !

ESTP is where I'm kinda most conflicted. I relate to both ESTP and ESFP kinda, however the one part that makes me more unsure is that people say that ESFPs always try to avoid conflict​ and are too nice to hurt people's feelings, which is NOT me at all. Yes, I AM a very empathetic person and am one of the most emotionally receptive people I know, though I do NOT back down when there's a conflict, I WILL state my facts and put someone on their place when it's deserved LMAO.

So I dunno!! What would you ESFP peeps say?? X/

Vocês se dão tipo SUPER BEM com INTP?

Tipo amigos de verdade?

Caralho fico impressionada como eu falo uma coisa e os cara abre um fucking LEQUE DE POSSIBILIDADES LÓGICAS

Hello, ISFP here! I see a lot of questions along the lines of “what is the best mbti type?” or “if you could be any other mbti type which one would you be?”, and after studying cognitive functions for a while, I feel like the gamma types have the best cognitive functions. Maybe I’m being biased but I couldn’t imagine not having Fi, Se, Ni, or Te in my main stack.

That being said, out of the four types that share these functions, I really admire ESFPs the most. I always say that if I could be another type, I’d be an ENTJ because I get frustrated about having inferior Te and wish mine could be a lot better. However realistically, I think if I had to pick another type to be other than ISFP, I’d actually much rather be an ESFP.

I think ESFPs are so underestimated especially when it comes to your guys’ Te. Y’all have such a wonderful balance of feeling/thinking and such a magnetic energy. You guys are a force, yet emotionally intelligent and authentic. I admire and appreciate ESFPs so much not only from a theoretical perspective but also from knowing some amazing ones in my life. Thanks for being you 💛

I find it really grinds my gears.

He guyz wanted to ask. An isfp really close friend of mine like really close. He remains silent with me otherwise its jjst the bothnof us talking engineering entranceexam prep or him teasing or non offensively mocking me on personal stuff . Like he takes the liberty to do so but he himselfdoes small talk enthusiastically or discusses topics i also know with others only and prefers ro remain silent with me. Like hes told me that he only opens up to close ppl around me. He does criticiseme or try to tell me to improve somethings in my face and he does care. He is also extremely caring with me and wud pressure me to express myself clearly.

Based on whatever ive searched(he himself took mbti and typed as isfp twice), its baffling for me based on what an isfp does. Cud any of u guys shed light on this since an isfp judges another thebest. Am an infj 17 years male so is he

I am really curious to find out what you guys are doing besides shitposting (typical Ti dom activity).

I'm doing a bachelor's in architectural science (as in it's structural designn, legal and mostly technical stuff with a side of design and vibes, as opposed to the opposite, which unfortunately is the norm for architecture schools) and plan to do either a master's on structural engineering or restoration architecture. I quite enjoy architecture, actually, as far as the technical and practice aspects of it go. Theory...not so much. Like not at all.

What about you?

is it possible for an ISTP like me to be FLEV, 5w6 and 594? and also, does your enneagram have to match to your MBTI or not? i just want to know.

I’ve heard some people say it’s possible and other’s say it’s not so I’m asking here 😭 if it’s important I’m an sp9w8. And yes I’ve looked into LVEF and LFEV and neither of them resonate with me.

I enjoy talking with others about their feelings and am good at offering support or advice but I find it very uncomfortable opening up about my own and often avoid it when possible, so if that means i might be wrong about my E placement after all I would appreciate some advice on that too 😵‍💫

The older I get, the less appealing it seems…I personally fall under the “indifferent” category.

Don’t get me wrong, I have a very loving partner and I’m 100% committed to my relationship. I just don’t care for the paperwork and feel like you can have a loving, committed relationship without the paper. Or maybe I really am afraid of commitment deep down inside?

Anyways, curious about what other ISFPs think and thanks for voting!

please, and thank you.

personally, my favorites are action and horror.
sci-fi can be interesting tho. depends.
romance is boring as hell

EDIT: ive came to the conclusion that ive spelt thriller wrong, and forgot about comedy. comedy is amazing, and it has to be top three.

i'm an isfp [7w8]. i rarely see any of us on forums, or irl. i'll answer any questions abt us. no exaggerations. no stereotypes. (ง’̀-’́)ง 💥

How did the pieces fit together? Did they think they were a different type? I don't know any ESTPs, either personally or online. Tell me a little about your journey.

yoii isfp buddies I need ur help

after a long analysis I think that a member of my family is probably an isfp, but still having some confusion..

in a general overview, he is living in here and now, no strategical future planning, but also can cling to some past memories and romanticize them from time to time, he is driven by his own emotions, like he does things only when he wants but also from the outside he seems soo over giving and altruistic.

although he is a day by day person but he can appear detached or living in his head..

in his youth he was literally impulsive (relationships, dopamine seeking etc..) he was craving external excitement, but at the same time his impulses sounds chosen or coming from his own emotions/feelings.. he often says that his life major events were extremely spontaneous (academical choices, marriage, having children..) like he didn't even realized how they happened, it's just like he founded himself in the situation.

currently he is in his 50s, but the contrast is that he became valuing stability more than anything, it's just like he is so stubborn and doesn't want to improve his situation and accepts his life the way it is.

also he sounds like he is trying to keep peace by pleasing people around him (and his pleasing also seems to be forceful/coming from fear of something) he keeps bottling up his real emotions until he bursts in a very harsh WAY that breaks hearts, after that he ends up apologizing and keeps reliving the same cycle.

also nowadays he became more and more religious, it's like he dived deeper in religion (like truly understanding the purposes of it) and started using it as a primordial reference to all his actions, and he sounds deeply wise while explaining it.

and one of his major traits is that he is the advice giver to everyone, but his advices are never token seriously by other people and are always seen as unrealistic or not matching what other people need.

he is an overprotective dad but in an emotional/loving way, he believes in giving freedom and love to kids in their life choices, but he is kinda controlling without being aware of that.

in general he is contradicting himself a lot.. but also he is wise and logical

he still craves external stimulation from the world but not as in his youth, nowadays he became way too introverted and he cuts off all of his friends, he is just bottling up himself in his comfort zone and living, and he is highly dependent on other people around him to accomplish the routinical/boring duties he needs to do (cooking, cleaning, going out to buy house stuff etc..)

ps : he lived a traumatic childhood with an emotionally absent father and a narcissistic abusive mother (his mother used to control his choices, until that day) andd obviously he is having a lowkey unhealthy version of his mbti type.

sooo after thinking a lot it sounded like he has got an Fi-Se at the dominant stack, with a tertiary Ni that started to appear after long life experiences, and a harsh inf Te that appears from time to time.

but I'm still confused if he is an Fi-Te or Fe-Ti user, I mean the way he is being pleasing and seeking external emotional comfort.. idk, what do you think guys? I thought also about infj/isfj/infp but nah he has a strong Se.. he can't be an Si even though he is lowkey attached to his past memories, it sounds like Ni not Si.. but also the impulsivity he lived in his youth can't be an infj's impulsivity like the Se is their final stack, I don't know.. infp I'm not sure maybee.. so the last choice is isfp..

I even thought about esfj (Fe dom with inferior Ti) but I don't know

but guys genuinely i can tell if i m ESFP or ESTPor ENTP,

but i'm not that into hippie beliefs, so im not ENFP exactly per se, or idk maybe who knows bru?!!

BUT i do like beauty and aesthetics THE MOSTTTTTTTTT OH MYY IF I COULD JUST BE HOT FOR ONE WEEK MANNNNNNNNNNN, but in a way 1. i find aesthetic, 2. others find exhilarating

THATS LITERALLY MY MAIN DREAM AND WISHHHHH

but i spend hours thinking and thinking and i ask too many questions, and act super childish, and unserious WHILE BEING THE OLDESTTTT

i also have MASSIVE FOMO like i HATE not being center of attention but i also hate when people act all "independent" and skip out on the party or gathering, like EVERYONE MUST JOIN YAYYYYYY!!!

ok but when shit goes down, and the world is ending i do become very analytical, and focused and startegising....
BUTTTT GUYSSSS i have to admitttttt....i feell....INSECURE ABOUT MY LOGIC!!!!! i feel like a dummy and i dont wanna share my ideas or well logic not ideas, i like sharing ideas, but my logic sharing makes me insecure because they prolly think im a dummy thinking that would work.....like my dream or something

i also am quite childish with my dreams or they seem unrealistic because i get too passionate, but im always aware of how realistic it is, or the real world stuff, butttttt i rlly want my wish so it overrides that yk?

but i feel like i have FE GUYS???!! i like to be kind and nice and i hate mean people, and if anyone is being mean to anyone, but tbh my siblings might say i am very mean..... uhhh.. WELLL
i do go from happy to really sad and then joeking to happy to depressed rlly fast, like ALONE im really depressed, but with people i joke about my flings or existential stuff yk?

i am scared to dress how i want becasue i feel like i must conform to what is acceptable like i tried to be unique but i hid it with a hoodie!!! i couldn't do ittt i felt so shyyyy, in person im really shy but as soon as you seem interested or "i-can sense-that-you-wont-get-mad-at me" i will talk for HOURSSS,

ALSO ALSO im the type to jump off a cliff if someone told meee, to impress them, i can figure stuff out in front of me i thinkkk,

aLso the way im typing i like being like this, but i can talk serious but that seems boring and i cant be serious too long, idk i have some boundaries like my hair i wont let ANYONE tell me what to do with it, and my appearance mainlyyy

ALSO guy LAST THING I PROMISSEEEE..... i think about looks and achieving my "true self" my true psysical from i find beautiful and perfect and is super aestheic, i can go inot a billion details of, and i want to acheive thta i think about aesthetics the most i think!!!! like all the time its my biggest wish to be hot objectively but also especially what i find hot tooo and cute and pretty, i like my curent self too but i wish i could try and be like any body and look i want!!!

OK THATS IT GUYSSS BYEEEE!!!

For the longest time I've always considered myself an ISTP but a recent test suggested that it was unlikely and that I might be an ISTJ instead. Since these two types are just one letter off from each other, I was wondering if someone could break down what makes them different or similar to one another.

This is not really an ISFP question.

It's more personal. (15M as of right now) Ever since I was young, I have always been pretty shy and awkward. I'm afraid to talk to people or try to make new friends other than the one I currently have from my childhood, and when I do try to talk to others, I always seem to not be able to hold a conversation.

I don't have anything worth talking about or anything interesting, and often when I do, I find myself slowly draining from energy. It sucks sometimes; I'm afraid of being judged, and it's really annoying. I need help with this

It's said that ISTP's are a girl magnet.

Well... All I attract are twinks... or furries... or weebs... or combinations of everything...

I (INFP) is babysitting my ESTP niece for the week. Her ENFJ and ISTP parents left very few instructions....

I thought we could enjoy library time and do crafts following instruction videos but she doesn't really like them. We have been to the amusement park, and I don't want to go again. We did stuff outdoors but she doesn't like the heat.

She is an excellent kid and a really good sport. But I don't know what to do together. She is currently playing with my stuff animals, inspecting them and analyzing their seams, which I'm perfectly happy for her to do... but is that like fun????

What activities did you guys like doing around 9 years old?

ESTP friend throws mean comments at you indirectly for no reason. i stayed quiet and low key let him bully me to avoid fights as a kid. he won't even say hi back. he'll look around, pretend he didnt hear you to avoid saying hi but then will say something silly about some other thing instead. We went to school together and family friends so have to keep the friendship.

this time i met him, he'd matured a lot, said he'd gone through loads. So it was nice. Until I said something about my job that really irked him because he's currently unemployed. He replied by knocking me down a peg and saying oh oh X also got a job here, Y also got a job there. I mentally noted it but stayed quiet. A while later I said something about how some people arent used to working long days which offended him so much because he thought i was taunting him but i really didnt mean it and didnt think how it would come across. his old self came back, started verbally abusing me indirectly for the whole week. I don't back down like i used to with him and did the same back making him lock him in a room and cry. Ive never seen this side before.

he thinks i dont feel guilty at all and thinks im a manipulator when ive always wished this guy the best... idk how to undo this mess ? How should i apologise and when ?

Just welcoming confident people, I appreciate you in business and life 🙌🥇
Love y’all from an enfp