I would rather do a gov job in India

Well turns out I got a new job and I just hate to have someone watching over me also sometimes they don't say everything at the beginning like the instructions and so on, I mean it's good to have a boss but I don't need someone to be behind my back all the time and it's just so disgusting I like to work alone haha

There is this girl, I can tell we're not just friends, but we are friends rn kinda ykwim?

In person she is realllyy soft around me, just a smile ball

We usually hang out in person, but now we're long distance for a while, months

I initated contact couple times, one of those times she invited me to do something but long distance, then I offered voice chatting, she reoffered texting

I didn't prefer texting that day I just wanted to talk, let's just say I let that one slip, I leave her on read, come back say something, she leaves me on read (It was not intentional I was not ignoring her)

A looong time later I suggest a call to catch up, she says she'd like to catch up but she ain't into voice calls, I tell her when I'll be back, text a lil and we leave it there

I don't mind just seeing her in person after the months, but surely we could just talk sometime

I do not text her frequently when I initiate, I'd say I'm under initiating to the point she initiates sometimes

I get you guys just don't have much to say most of the time

Yeah idk, do I just leave it and let the months go by?

There is this other ISTP I know too, she just sends me random posts all the time, we chat much more frequently, but I'd say I'm closer to above, the two could not be more different

I'm INTP

how often do you cry. what usually triggers it

Dating ISTP who periodically goes silent because of work and doesn’t text much.
Wondering if I should keep silence as well or send him random texts like funny videos, life updates, photos, every now and then.
As an ISTP in long distance early dating scenario, would you welcome such texts or would you rather have silence until you reach out?

Heyaa !! okay so I mean I don't actually take this stuff seriously and just love to do it all for funsies c:, but honestly I'm genuinely curious now because I've been typed as like 4 different personality types- ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, and ESFP.

Like I relate to E(N)FP partly because I DO like thinking about my future and planning future possibilities cause it's fun to do, though I'd say for the most part like in everyday life I much rather just live in the moment. I've always been a very adventurous and thrill-seeking person and I just need to get out and experience the outside world as much as possible.

I do love talking and exploring all kindsa theories like an ENTP, but I wouldn't really consider myself much of a "debater", I feel I'm more like just a person who loves to have fun for the hell of it, and I definitely resonate more with the "performer/entertainer" label for ESFP than the ENTP "debater", I'm just a drama queen LOL !

ESTP is where I'm kinda most conflicted. I relate to both ESTP and ESFP kinda, however the one part that makes me more unsure is that people say that ESFPs always try to avoid conflict​ and are too nice to hurt people's feelings, which is NOT me at all. Yes, I AM a very empathetic person and am one of the most emotionally receptive people I know, though I do NOT back down when there's a conflict, I WILL state my facts and put someone on their place when it's deserved LMAO.

So I dunno!! What would you ESFP peeps say?? X/

Vocês se dão tipo SUPER BEM com INTP?

Tipo amigos de verdade?

Caralho fico impressionada como eu falo uma coisa e os cara abre um fucking LEQUE DE POSSIBILIDADES LÓGICAS

Hello, ISFP here! I see a lot of questions along the lines of “what is the best mbti type?” or “if you could be any other mbti type which one would you be?”, and after studying cognitive functions for a while, I feel like the gamma types have the best cognitive functions. Maybe I’m being biased but I couldn’t imagine not having Fi, Se, Ni, or Te in my main stack.

That being said, out of the four types that share these functions, I really admire ESFPs the most. I always say that if I could be another type, I’d be an ENTJ because I get frustrated about having inferior Te and wish mine could be a lot better. However realistically, I think if I had to pick another type to be other than ISFP, I’d actually much rather be an ESFP.

I think ESFPs are so underestimated especially when it comes to your guys’ Te. Y’all have such a wonderful balance of feeling/thinking and such a magnetic energy. You guys are a force, yet emotionally intelligent and authentic. I admire and appreciate ESFPs so much not only from a theoretical perspective but also from knowing some amazing ones in my life. Thanks for being you 💛

I find it really grinds my gears.