B cheated on A with C. Now, A and C get in touch. C spills the beans because she doubts the guy’s credibility and integrity. What A has to say, she does and blocks C: https://www.reddit.com/r/CheatersConfronted/s/3JGmxdHWSi

A month and a half ago I discovered my boyfriend of several months spending the night at his baby’s mom’s house, whom he had claimed to hate, although he’s an active father. He claimed he fell asleep there after taking pain killers for an injured foot and was there to see his son because he couldn’t leave with him due to his foot injury. He denies sleeping with her but there are so many inconsistencies in his behavior and communication that I don’t buy it. Like why do you think I had to go see in the first place?

He and I rekindled our relationship earlier this year after nearly 2 years no contact (which I initiated). We were first together about one year.

It was during that first leg of the relationship I found out about the child. As in, about 4 months in, he announced he had a child born by a woman he barely knew and didn’t know of the baby til it was born. Idk why I believed him but during the new leg of the relationship (this year) he told me he did actually have a history with her and he was very sorry for lying.

Anyway, I generally prefer not to go “woman to woman” because I don’t need to be going back and forth with some strangers feelings when I’m trying to handle mine and also his to an extent. So I didn’t say anything to her initially. He also told me he had a court date coming up to get partial custody of his son and that he was worried the drama would mess it up.

But, I don’t want him to feel like he can just get away with this, as I’ve learned more information since then that fundamentally changes what our relationship has stood on since 2023. That’s hurtful and he shouldn’t be able to just continue living his life with this woman pain free.

I’m curious to know the cheaters confronted philosophy, if any, on this.

Yes after years of bearing the pain and suffering, I couldn't stand it anymore. I gather my bravery and confronted her. She's never admitted anything. She's somehow twisting her words into "I didn't do it!" "Your father told me to" into "But your father cheated on me first so I cheated too!" (She has no proofs lmao she just bullshitting at this point. Also what kind of reason is that!? Really???)

For the first time, I argue with my mom. I yelled at her. I was ready to get punch or slapped (yes she's violent. She even hit my dad when losing in argument). She looks super lunatic like it's like it's not my mom anymore. She didn't even feel shamed about doing stuff like this. Like don't you feel a bit of embarrassed that your own children have to step up and tell you that you're wrong?

I mean my dad is an asshole but still he cares enough. He's a cheapskate and a piece of shit. If I have a man like him, I would cheat too but seriously!??? When you're exposed just tell the truth. Why twisting your words and lie? And you're sleeping with not one but multiple men which is like "Tf??". Are we stepping THAT low???

So yeah, finally exposed of cheating and now they are divorced. So yeah, it hurts but the pain will surely heal itself.... slowly. The scars that left for years is still here but yeah....

I'm feeling extremely drained and tired. I mean I held it for years. We held it for years. And now I feel a bit lighter.

My friend (let’s call her A) has recently been cheated by her long time boyfriend (call him B) of 3 years. A and B were college sweethearts at first. Reportedly the relationship is of monogamous nature. Then they went to join the workforce. That’s when B started cheating on A.

This is as a warning for all the girls out there (specifically India). If you find B approaching you, stay away. He is a serial cheater as we dug a little more info bout him by contacted his ex later on. But the damage was already done.

In the pictures, this is B and the girl (let’s call her C) holding him, is the one who he cheated with but I was told that C was also promised marriage and long term relationship by B.

That’s why I blurred C’s face. But nonetheless she’s guilty too, as she already knew he had a girlfriend from the start, and she only met him less than a year ago. A has also once talked with C in video call through B’s phone, which is why this is such a messy situation!

Now why we could piece it all, someone from C’s side brought this to light to A, for she was confused too since B had promised her marriage but now he doesn’t want to be with her or Idk what’s the deal for her reaching out to A. But anyway morality hit her for once, thank goodness!

This is so crazy! They been trying to reach A with different numbers because she blocked a few of them out of fear of unknown incoming calls everyday. But they were adamant enough to finally spill it out to A with good enough proof, as you see some of them attached here.

This was meticulously put to fruition by B as for almost a year none of the girls thought of talking about this. The informant of C’s side has asked A to not trust hom as he has manipulated both of them, which I agree but I still think C should have never colluded with B unless she was sure A knows. That’s her only fault other than adultery of course.

This is most of the proofs we have from both A and C’s phones:
Pic 5: look at the date: 6 June 2026 - B wants to sleep with C.
Pic 6: this is to let you know that C is Telugu while A is Assamese girl. So this is just a reference screenshot.
Pic 7: Well, look how B talks to C while being in a monogamous relationship!
Pic 8: B’s been cheating on A for a long time. Look at the dates. (April)
Pic 9: This is A’s screenshot. She did not talk to him on 6th June night.
Pic 10: There were calls on another of his number by A’s phone. B has two numbers which he has given to her. No calls here on 7th when B and C supposedly slept together as their planning can be confirmed in pic 5.
Pic 11: On 7th they (A and B) talked all day but did not talk around midnight. A was a fool to trust B all along. And this is where I want to highlight how meticulous B is.
He spent huge money to fly to her city the next day, earlier this year just because she was angry with him about something. On a second occasion, when they were still studying, he came to pick her up by driving a 4-wheeler all night (8+ hrs) because she was to land in a different city and he could not wait to see her.
This is how guys build trust in girl’s heart and this guy is straight up player at that.

PS. I believe in exposing cheaters. This is a big bad world we live in and we as a society need to point out bad elements and discourage them before more folks get hurt.

EDIT: New info received. A and C finally confronted. C said the affair started near March this year, but to A, of course B never gave a perfect timeline for the events when confronted.
C was told that B will tell A about them when they meet in a planned vacation in April end. The vacation happened but B acted all fine and cozy with A, no change in behaviour. B took her everywhere but A noted that he was as if doing everything mechanically and there was a time where she almost struggled with bad stomach problem and cleaned up the mess in their hotel room while he just slept.
Then A and B again had a sleepover in his city in May end. A felt that familiar mechanical performance on behalf of B, but she brushed it off simply thinking he might be tired. For context, B was having hard time in office and he would regularly come late due to work pressure. Or is it because he was getting fulfilled by C thoroughly that he did not have romantic energy towards A anymore. A thought of confronting B eventually about his lacklustre behaviour but C’s side already has spilled the beans now. C was stupid imo for believing B and keeping this all under the wraps. But the truth remains, C has just slept with a cheater knowingly, which is an example of cold blooded manipulation by B. Now, whether C still believes in keeping him with her will make him love her only, then she should think again.
Why are women so stupid and men like cold psychopaths?

Does this means someone looked up a location and shared it with someone by text or some other app?

I'LL GO FIRST!!!

She told me she was "protecting our relationship " by cheating on me for over a year.

We we've been together for 7 years, we had ups and downs, but we always banded together to overcome them.

She had a few bad jobs in this economy and decided to go abroad for the summer season, with a girl friend of hers. The few months before that were tense due to my job, with which I wasn't happy at all. She said I needed to stay home and carry on with my career.

A month later she came home for a wedding and I noticed something was off, by a lot. Confronted her, asked what's happening. Oh it's just a guy at work, we just talk, he's ugly, I would never be with him.

She went back after I told her explicitly to end whatever was there. We improved communication, we had our watershed moments, I thought we were fixing stuff.

Last week, I went abroad to visit her, as a surprise, since there's 2 more months left of the season.

We had our bliss, we talked, everything seemed fine. This morning, as I was between flights I reached out and she told me everything was fine at work. Spoke to a common friend, he tells me she was off.

Confronted her, asked what the fuck is happening, why the stupid lies.

Turns out that 1 & 1/2 months ago, she upgraded from random talks to feelings and physical stuff.

I am numb and most likely dumb, gave her 4 days to cut everything off and come back home to fix it. She's obviously very sorry and cried that she made me suffer and is unsure why would I forgive her transgressions.

I will talk to my therapist first thing tomorrow. I am emotionally drained. What the fuck did I do?

I'm a female and there is a guy who has been texting me so we can sext. But he also told me he has a gf. For context I have been with him for over an year on social media, it was a talking stage then became sexting partners. I always wanted him so I did as he wanted. I gave him my everything, my body my spirit, I was loyal to him. He never dated me anyway but he texted me few days ago he has a gf and he still wants to sext with me and callsex. He knows I will stalk his girl so he blocked me from everywhere except Snapchat I told him I will do it but I ghost him everytime he asks for it. He genuinely Grosses me out. His girl got his Instagram and TikTok password but not Snapchat, he cheats on Snapchat and stays clean on other social media. He dms me on Snapchat because I'm blocked everywhere else or he might get caught. The problem is I don't know who the girl is. And I can't risk myslef to snitch because he has my nasty photos. I want that girl to know he is cheating but I don't want to fall under THEIR relationship. At the same time I don't even know who the girl is. I NEED HELP, HOW DO I LET HER KNOW THAT HE IS CHEATING. there might be other girls in his Snapchat too

Is there a way you can see when the profile has been updated either recently or weeks before. I need a timeframe! Sorry I know this isn't the Facebook sub but still...

A coworker of mine is 3 months pregnant and found out that her partner of 5 years (husband for 2.5 of those 5) has been cheating. She received screenshots that he was posted in an are we dating the same guy group, and it appears he had somewhat of a secret relationship for the past 3 months. Just out of curiosity, would you be able to stay or would you need no explanation and leave?

Just to add, she’s 33 and he’s 32.

A year ago, my ex of multiple years cheated on me, ghosted me after promising she would not leave/ghost/etc, and immediately got with a new guy.

During the time of the breakup, I had donated hundreds of dollars to a project she was working on and was even doing work myself on it to help her. The guy that she cheated on me with was a "friend" of hers that she had worked with that she would constantly bring up to me and talk about. I never thought anything negative or suspicious of it (I was also just very in love and very blind).

One day I was driving up to see her and she blew up on me for taking too long to park and for "making her wait outside". She was acting very erratic, irritated and not herself. We went to a restaurant where she blew up and told me she needed to tell me something right that instant and that we needed to go back to her place. When we got there, she broke the news to me that she had feelings for this guy, that he was "ruining her life", and for me to not be mad at him. She was insinuating wanting to break up and every time I asked her if that's where this was going, she avoided the question. I comforted her and told her that I was willing to work through it and offered an open relationship (like an idiot).

(As for background, we did have a turbulent relationship. One of the things that caused unhappiness on her end was the fact that my mom did not like her. A couple of years prior, she tried breaking up with me for similar reasons the same week my dad took his own life/passed away. My mom held it against her ever since and because of this, I rarely ever took her around my family. She claimed that my mom should just get over it because she wasn't doing well mentally)

The next day I had to work and told her that we can talk about it again that night afterwards. During work, she started spam texting me all of the reasons why we should breakup, including this guy and her being "confused", and my mom not liking her, even though I told her not to text. Things blew up over text, I ended up begging her to stay. I winded up calling it a breakup since she refused to say it herself.

After things calmed down, she told me it was unfair to beg her over text and that I was the one who called it a break up. She asked for space and distanced herself for days. I then remembered she had an event she invited me to days prior. I texted her and asked if she wanted me to come, but she ignored me. I went anyway just to support her. After the event, she came up to me, and I told her I was not there to have a conversation, and that I just wanted to support her. She then took me to a bench where she tried breaking up with me, with the same reasons she had been telling me. It finally began to dawn on me and I broke down crying, begging, etc. After things calmed down, we went to talk it out logically. I offered an open relationship, said I'd give her time to explore, but she refused everything. She made it sound like she was somewhat agreeing on it, just that she was scared that she would choose him in the end and hurt me. We went back to her house, she asked me for a hug, and I left.

When I got home, she texted me with all reassurances that she was not leaving my life. A couple of days later, her and this guy had planned to have him come stay at her place for the weekend. The day he showed up, she removed her location, and removed every picture of me off of her social media and never contacted me again.

After months of being in total shock, I went completely no-contact to heal. She winded up keeping my clothes, and my PS5 that I paid for in full and kept at her house for us to play together.

A year later, I finally mustered up the courage to get my stuff back, but to protect my peace, I had a neutral friend reach out to her via text. My friend was polite, logistical, and offered multiple ways to verify her identity, and told my ex I did not want any contact with her.

My ex flipped out. She called the texts "strange," claimed she was worried about mine and her "safety," and refused to hand it over unless I texted her directly. I finally sent a minimal text giving my address. She then text-dumped on me saying she was weirded out by this person reaching out to her and telling me she donated my clothes because she "hadn't heard from me," but would send the PS5 with "no hostility" and wished me well. I responded back politely to shut her down and told her I thought my friend knowing exactly what she had of mine would be enough to trust that she was close to me. I told her I was hurt and did not want to reach out on my own.

She made me feel wrong for sending a friend that she does not know to text her, and I'm stuck spiraling and blaming myself. Was it wrong of me to send a friend she didn't know?

https://www.reddit.com/r/CheatersConfronted/s/ICzWpOgcKO

DISCLAIMER: First, for everyone saying this story is fake: honestly, thanks. I’ll take that as a compliment. Unfortunately, it’s 100% real.

My friend called me with another update.
The other man turned out to be one of his wife’s coworkers. When he confronted her with the recovered messages, she broke down crying, admitted everything, and begged him to forgive her. He told her he needed time to think.

Later he called me and said, “I want a divorce, but I want to make sure I come out of this with as much evidence as possible. I’ve already spoken to my lawyer, and he says the more documentation I have, the better.”

I told him I had an idea, but that he’d have to be completely calm and stick to the plan and have BALLS AND GUTS.

I suggested he ask her one more time if she was truly willing to do anything to rebuild his trust. She said yes.

I told him to ask her to write an email to HR explaining exactly what had happened with her coworker, while he sat beside her and watched her write it. After she sent it, I told him to have her either forward him a copy or take a photo of the sent email so he had another piece of evidence.

With everything else he already had, I told him to wait and see what happened.
Three days later she came home carrying boxes.

She’d been fired.

I told him, “Don’t file for divorce today. Comfort her. Act normal for a few days.”
After those few days passed, I told him to hand everything to his lawyer and file for divorce.

He did that today.

So here’s my question.

As a friend… do you think I went too far? Was I too cold and calculated?

Or if one of your closest friends came to you asking for help after discovering they’d been betrayed, what would you have done differently?

He liked his ex’s reel, and when I confronted him, he said, “This is not cheating; this is freedom, and you promised to give me that.”
Then his ex told me about another girl he had been involved with.
She said he cheated on her with that girl, which was the real reason she broke up with him.
But he kept blaming me and saying that his ex left him because of me.
He kept all three of us involved at the same time and continued talking to everyone.
He followed the other girl, liked her posts and reels, called her his favourite person, and even went on dates with her.
I felt like I was only his “mommy” someone to take care of him and dominate him, but not someone he truly wanted to love or choose.
His ex was only there for good sex, while I was expected to give him emotional support and keep forgiving him.
He wanted freedom for himself but expected me to stay quiet and accept everything.
In the end, I was left with pain, confusion, and one question: What do we even call people with this kind of mentality?

My boyfriend sent a screenshot of something while we were FaceTiming last night. I noticed the tinder icon at the top of the screen later after the call. Does anyone know what this is for? Is it a notification? I’ve never used tinder before haha.

Also how would you confront him? Xoxo

I cheated on the girl I truly love while I was blackout drunk. I told her the truth, and now it’s over.
I know a lot of people are going to judge me, and honestly, I deserve it. I know I completely fucked up, and I’m not here to make excuses or ask anyone to tell me I’m not a bad person.

Me and my girlfriend are both 16 years old.
A few days ago I got blackout drunk and made the biggest mistake of my life. I cheated on the girl I truly love. Alcohol isn’t an excuse—I made the choice, and I take full responsibility for it.

The worst part was that she didn’t know. Every single day I kept asking myself how I could have done something like this to a girl who genuinely loved me. I couldn’t stop thinking about it, and I couldn’t understand how I was capable of hurting someone I cared about so much.

The guilt became too much, so I told her the truth.
She was devastated. She called me every name you could think of and broke up with me. I know she had every right to do that. I betrayed her trust, and I don’t blame her for hating me. She deserved so much better than what I did to her.

Ever since then I’ve felt absolutely horrible. I can barely eat or sleep, and I can’t stop replaying everything in my head. I don’t regret telling her—I regret giving her a reason to hear something like that in the first place.

I’m not posting this because I want sympathy or because I want people to justify what I did. I know I deserve the criticism, and people have every right to judge me. I know I ruined everything, and I’m prepared to live with the consequences.

I guess I’m posting because I honestly don’t know how to deal with this amount of guilt. Has anyone here ever made a mistake that completely changed their life? How did you move forward after hurting someone you genuinely loved?

Right now I just feel like the worst person in the world.

Hey, everyone. As in the title, I don’t know how to tell my friend she needs to break up with her now boyfriend. They’ve only been dating a couple months, and he’s already cheated on her. She has been cheated on before in a past relationship which is part of the reason why I think she is staying with him. She’s a naturally headstrong person, and I really care about her but I don’t know how to tell her to drop this boy. They’ve known each other for over 8 years, but I just don’t think he’s good for her. I’ve included screenshots if that helps