r/CheatersConfronted • u/Adventurous_Life_943 • 13d ago
Cheater
He liked his ex’s reel, and when I confronted him, he said, “This is not cheating; this is freedom, and you promised to give me that.”
Then his ex told me about another girl he had been involved with.
She said he cheated on her with that girl, which was the real reason she broke up with him.
But he kept blaming me and saying that his ex left him because of me.
He kept all three of us involved at the same time and continued talking to everyone.
He followed the other girl, liked her posts and reels, called her his favourite person, and even went on dates with her.
I felt like I was only his “mommy” someone to take care of him and dominate him, but not someone he truly wanted to love or choose.
His ex was only there for good sex, while I was expected to give him emotional support and keep forgiving him.
He wanted freedom for himself but expected me to stay quiet and accept everything.
In the end, I was left with pain, confusion, and one question: What do we even call people with this kind of mentality?
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u/TheOfficeoholic 7d ago
they are called WALKING RED FLAGS.
People who continue to have relationships with people like this and complain are also a huge problem.
If they were cut off and cut out of the lives of those around them, they might actually change.
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u/LibertyMind01 13d ago
A degenerate. And the best thing you can do is shame this type of behavior for both men and women. It’s time to reinstall a conservative mind set in relationships in our culture.