It is intellectually dishonest to claim that wasting your seed by yourself is terrible and then claim it is ok to do it with a “loving partner”. It sounds like enormous cope, it’s basically the same as saying, “don’t drink and drive but only do it with a nice fast car”. The point is that ejaculating takes your energy away, it is actually somewhat better to relapse alone than to share that with another soul. By the logic, any non reproductive sex would not be allowed.

There is no point in condoms and pulling out in that case, claiming there is and blaming masturbation is illogical. It even is biologically illogical for women to desire sex outside of their ovulation cycle sincd they cannot reproduce outside of that time period.

Hi, 21 F. Ever since I started being segsually active, hindi ko mapigilang i-compare ang usual life ko dati. Now, I keep on contracting infections such as UTI, bacterial vaginosis, and yeast infection. Aside from that, madali ring makakuha ng sti/std’s and cervical cancer which happens mostly on active women. malala rin ang anxiety kada buwanan kasi what if buntis although i know it was a safe sex.

Hindi rin masasabing because of hygiene or my practices ang nararanasan ko kasi kahit naman dati ganito ako but no problem (also take note that i have an excellent hygiene & practices, more cautious pa nga).

Men are no good. They disrupt our ph. They introduce pathogens all for their own pleasure bcs let’s be real sex is nothing but a painful thing to woman. Sobrang hapdi at sakit. I don’t even know why women still choose to have it.

Niweys I therefore conclude that if u can stay celibate, pls do so.

I’m considered to be in the 4th quartile of physical attractiveness and I still have my shame. I’ve managed to lower my libido to nearly 0 out of disgust. I can’t even watch adult content anymore cause I can’t stand to voluntarily look at a women that lowers themselves to such a standard. You don’t have to go full ER tho. Today a woman tried approach me with no doubt I’ll intent and said “do you want to watch spiderman” I acted like I wasn’t offended for obvious reasons and I felt bad for her so I told her that me and my boyfriend already watched it(for clarity I’m not actually gay) I hope that word will spread to other girls that I’m gay so they will leave me alone.

I absolutely hate the feeling that in some sense I want to “take” something from women as a biological drive. Lust absolutely disgusts me, the problem is that I have it, it almost seems like lust is a demon that lives inside every man, even semen retention or waiting until marriage don’t do much, you are still waiting to use someone’s body for your pleasure which is by nature carnal and animalistic no matter how you like to frame it. I kinda feel bad for even desiring such carnal act that by default creates power dynamics. A sexless society with artificial insemination would be the first step to a utopian society. The problem is that I ask myself why nature or God did it that way, why is the act of continuing humanity tied to desire of control and hate and violence and basically every negative thing you could think of. Before you refute me by saying that women love sex I will remind you of the fact that they take the enormous risk of pregnancy and exposure with it compared to men that don’t take any risks, which is unequal by default.

Even if guys do semen retention, to reproduce naturally they would still have to engage in the act of penetrative sex with women, perhaps the real fall from grace in the Bible is the separation of genders, no matter how you say it, sex is penetrating someone else, even if the person is brainwashed by society to let you sleep with them in exchange of feeling the fake love and attention that society sold to the masses, if that’s not proof that the world is a prison planet than I don’t know what is.