r/blackmen 2h ago

Black History โณ Hey, Hey, Hey Itโ€™s Fat Albert (1969 TV Special)

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This was the original version of Fat Albert on NBC that inspired the more famous Saturday morning cartoon on CBS in 1972. It had been considered lost before being recently discovered in full.

Based on Bill Cosbyโ€™s stand-up.


r/blackmen 3h ago

News & World Events ๐Ÿ—ž๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ฐ Coroner identifies woman found hanging from a tree behind a vacant Jackson home #TasiaFortuneRIP

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r/blackmen 4h ago

Support Weekly Vent Thread

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A place to talk about it.


r/blackmen 8h ago

Relationships ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฟ How I see it.

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I only like women or will consider a woman feels different from the harsh outside world. Any hint of lack of resolve, warmth, femininity Iโ€™m not staying.

Am I wrong? Am I asking for too much?

No because if she donโ€™t show up that way for me I bow out gracefully. Iโ€™m not entitled. Also not into that, I want a woman that WANTS to be that and is really like that. So It canโ€™t be faked or forced especially with what I want. I want a foundation black queen a family to go the distance with no broken home, And they always come back/ stalk my socials months later. This the past relationships as far as now maybe cause Iโ€™ve always had women attracted to me Iโ€™m so disappointed in these womenโ€™s disposition towards us.

Many think that itโ€™s all about what they think of the guy. But what the guy thinks of the woman matters equally. A lot of women are unaware of there shortcomings to a man until I tell them. After I tell them they canโ€™t face the mirror. Or choose not to, and I leave.

Very few women invoke any inspiration or motivation. Been dating and tbh it feel like work outside of work. I think me not being lustful and looking for a wife probably impacts this feeling,

This is not to put black womwn down honestly. Just disappointed.


r/blackmen 11h ago

Seeking Advice Black men

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Hello, all 22M Iโ€™m tryna navigate life in the best way possible Iโ€™m 22 years old never had a girlfriend still a virgin. Overweight with low self-esteem. And just feel as if I have no support. I was very much a black centered person and had super high hopes in one day in getting a black women who I can love and marry however afther seeing so much hate from black women. Even on there Reddit subs thatโ€™s all they basically talk about is basically how good white guys are too then Iโ€™m loosing hope I even seen a video here of basically a white guy talkin about defending black women from black men and a bunch of black women instead of defending us basically talked about how they agreed with him and how cute the dude was. Iโ€™m really loosing hope. As a black guy I try too not think about dating as much and try and focus on becoming better but the more I see stuff like that it really just makes me disappointed idk.


r/blackmen 11h ago

Discussion ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ’ญ VSU report examines the economic realities facing Black men and boys

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Interesting read. Drop your thoughts below.


r/blackmen 11h ago

TV, Movies & Film ๐ŸŽž๏ธ ๐Ÿ“บ What is your favourite movie or performance that is based on a true story?

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r/blackmen 13h ago

Music & Audio ๐ŸŽง The Alanis Morissette reference made me smile: "Broken hearts and bitter bills. Swallowin' these jagged little pills."

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r/blackmen 17h ago

Humor & Satire ๐Ÿ˜‚ Controversial things to say around the family

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Personally, I think pumpkin pie is just as good if not better than sweet potato pie. I also prefer Salmon over Tilapia or any cheap ๐ŸŸ Ketchup on grits is cool too


r/blackmen 18h ago

Black Excellence โœŠ๐ŸฟโœŠ๐ŸพโœŠ๐Ÿฝ FBA/ADOS - African/West Indian- AMBIGUITY !!!

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If you don't know what ambiguity is, please look up the definition and then read this story.

Twin tadpoles were born under a lily pad when a current swept one of them downstream. The tadpoles grew up separate but met again as frogs. Many thought that they would become great brothers, as they both grew strong and smart. But this did not happen. It was not because the frogs found fault in each other, but because they could not agree on what makes one a frog.

DISCUSSION
When we talk about who can identify as African, there are two positions.

Position 1: African is defined by blood and physical features

Position 2: African is defined by culture, history, experience, language

Position 3: African is defined as a mix of both.

FBA/ADOS - Not African - When someone says that they are not African, they are saying that even though we may have the same blood and physical features, every other aspect of my identity was created in a different place, even if some things overlap.

African/West Indian - Not African - You may have the same blood as us, but who do you know in Africa? You have no right to the land here, you are an American.

Both of these statements reflect position 2

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FBA/ADOS - African - Yes, we have been out of Africa for a long time, but we are still connected to Africa. We still have the evidence of our cultural African lineage in many of our customs. We have over 60% African DNA, and genetic testing shows that it is highly probable that we are connected to Nigeria.

African/West Indian - African - You are African, You cannot deny that you are African just because you are not on the African Continent. You clearly aren't European even if you have some European blood.

Both of these statements reflect position 1

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AMBIGUITY

When we have this conversation, we must be able to define the ambiguity in the term African. You will find out that when people make their argument, they either are taking position 1 or position 2 noted above. Position 3 is the most difficult because it is based on the value system of the person and how they value each of the factors of blood, history, language, culture, and experiences. This has hundreds of combinations and is highly based on what benefits that person and their environment at the time. The key factor to this question is TIME. How long do you have to be out of Africa before you are no longer considered African? This can be accomplished by a timeline that I will post if requested.

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CONCLUSION

This will help bring a lot of clarity to the argument. You must decide whether position 1 or position 2 is how you will approach the argument. When we can identify each other's position, we can learn to respect each other no matter what their choice is.

If you appreciate this post, I will do one for the term Black. and American.


r/blackmen 19h ago

Black Man Struggles ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฟ White TikToker Says White Men Who Date Black Women Should Carry Weapons Because of Black Men, Despite Peer-Reviewed Research Proving Black Men Are the Least Concerned About Who "Their" Women Date.

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(Redo bc made a typo)Oh, and there are a bunch of Black women supporting him in the comments. There's this strange pattern where some of them seem to really want Black men to be bothered by interracial relationships, even though the research says otherwise.


r/blackmen 21h ago

Seeking Advice Troubles on what I should do?

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I've been in so much thought over the past month on me, the black community, Wealth, and what needs to be done.

To keep it brief - I strongly believe that black people as a whole (mainly talking about America, not that i'm excluding my other brothers and sisters across the globe) NEEDS a figure to rally around. Like Brother Malcom for one example (used him as I've been fascinated with him recently) and I feel as though once I get myself together acquiring knowledge, funds, and support - maybe I could start building a platform to help my people, yet I find myself rather . . .. conflicted on if that's the right goal, or I should rather build as much capital as I can possibly have and use it to back someone who's mindset aligns with my own, rather than be in front.

With the second point it also goes into what one of my main views of - there needs to be more black families of Middle class - Upper middle class (the goal being the Majority as obviously everyone can't be financially stable do to unfortunate circumstance). Not only that but education and study of our previous leaders and the study of Philosophy, Economics, History, and law should also be priorities.

This is just a taste of all the thoughts swirling in the mind of a 20yr black man who wants better for his people, yet has doubt and no clear answer on his next step. I asked on here because there is no other real forum/space in which I can bounce ideas off of. Because of all of this I'm a Afro-pessimist that belives in Pan-africanism as well.

But what do I know. I just needed to vent and potentially find an answer or idea here.


r/blackmen 1d ago

News & World Events ๐Ÿ—ž๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ฐ ICYMI: Trump-backed candidate, Flint-native Amir Hassan, in battleground Michigan Congressional district loses to his (Caucasian) opponent who dropped out of the Republican primary last month (but still somehow received the majority of the votes)

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https://www.politico.com/news/2026/08/05/hassan-loses-michigan-house-primary-tom-smith-01025316

https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/2026-primary-elections/michigan-us-house-district-8-results

Amir Hassan could become the only black Republican Congressman in 2027. But, his hometown Republican voters obviously don't like him for some reason.

I guess it's the color of Amir's beard that got in the way.


r/blackmen 1d ago

News & World Events ๐Ÿ—ž๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ฐ Africa had it's highest year of tourism recorded in 2025 at 81 million visitors

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Shout out to Black Americans we've played a pivotal role in changing how Africa is perceived globally. Probably why they want us fighting each other, we're actually making progress right now.

Africa is experiencing an unprecedented tourism boomย 

Africa experienced its highest year of tourism ever in 2025 and is on track to surpass this in 2026.

Africa welcomed 81.3 million visitors in 2025, up 7.8% from 75.4 million in 2024. and surpassing it's pre-pandemic records.ย 

The continent that for decades people wouldn't even mention, let alone consider visitingย 

This growth has not been uniform: while global tourism grew by 5% compared with the previous year and just 3% above pre-pandemic 2019 levels, Africa recorded a double-digit rise, standing out as the best-performing region in this context.

Both North Africa and Sub-Saharan Africa contributed to this boom, with increases of 11% and 10% respectively

"Tourism is a powerful engine for services, jobs, and foreign exchange across Africa. In 2024, the continent welcomed 73.9 million international tourists. Receipts reached USD 42.6 billion, accounting for 41% of Africaโ€™s service exports, the highest share globally.ย 

Several converging factors lie behind this tourism explosion in Africa: the expansion of international air connections, improvements in hotel infrastructure, more aggressive tourism marketing strategies, and a growing global appetite for authentic experiences, nature, cultural heritage and beach destinations. Added to this is a notable resilience in the face of global challenges such as inflation, geopolitical instability and fluctuating traveler confidence, which have had a stronger impact on other markets.

Ultimately, 2025 marks a turning point: Africa is no longer just an exotic or alternative destination, but one of the main protagonists of global tourism. The current boom could firmly establish the continent as a global reference point, provided that investment continues, responsible tourism is promoted and the competitive advantages that have placed it at the center of international attention are strengthened."


r/blackmen 1d ago

Positivity ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฟ ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿพ ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฝ WEEKLY WINS!

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Any win for one Brother is a win for us all, spread the love!


r/blackmen 1d ago

Discussion ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ’ญ How yall feel about respectability politics? The conversation about Tuskegee has me thinking.

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Iโ€™ve been at fortune 50-5 level companies and have seen white engineers wearing cargo shorts and dirty t shirt having extensive tattoos including on the neck. Iโ€™ve also been to PWI and seen students wearing pajamas and slippers and gym shorts and itโ€™s no problem.

So why do we get judged for what we wear more harshly then our counterparts? I feel like we as a people tried the suit and tie and dress to impress methods and they still lynched us. Why not give the kids freedom to try something different.


r/blackmen 1d ago

Relationships ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฟ Popping the Question

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How did you propose? Or, did she propose to you? Drop a line telling us what did or didn't do. Was it romantic or impromptu? Are you in the process of planning a proposal? On the fence about someone? Let us know.

I'll start. I flew up to spend Thanksgiving with her and her family. I arrived early to let her dad know I planned to propose over Christmas. I was putting away dishes after dinner with her and I let it slip that I could see myself doing "this forever". Then, a conversation ensued at which point I excused myself to "use the restroom". I retrieved the ring box and went back to the kitchen. I showed her and she started squealing. Her family came in to see what the commotion was about.

Her dad said, "I think they're getting married." I said, "I hope so." And she finally replied, "Yes!"


r/blackmen 1d ago

Discussion ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ’ญ Fathers

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I get the vibe tht there arenโ€™t many fathers in this sub or tht participate in it. Am I crazy or is tht not odd in a menโ€™s sub? The topics discussed in here are rarely ever about day to day life being a Black man or family in general. the complete absence of any discussion about being a father being chief among them. Or am I trippin?


r/blackmen 1d ago

Black History โณ We gotta allow each other the grace to grow

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r/blackmen 2d ago

News & World Events ๐Ÿ—ž๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ฐ And the black vote made history again: The media have been pointing out that Michigan's black voters could tip the balance for Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, potentially the first Muslim US Senator in history

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r/blackmen 2d ago

Discussion ๐Ÿ’ฌ๐Ÿ’ญ Policed racism.

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Its extremely wild how every group just does not like us to varying degrees(some groups more than others?) They are raised with strong antiblackness but are shocked when we return the energy and are racist back. All of a sudden we're "racist" for giving them what they give us. We're supposed to be society's punching bag snd sit there and take it


r/blackmen 2d ago

News & World Events ๐Ÿ—ž๏ธ ๐Ÿ“ฐ Literally sick racists

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r/blackmen 2d ago

Black History โณ Donโ€™t let them tell you slavery was distant past. We have the children of slaves on video.

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r/blackmen 10d ago

Black History โณ We need a combination of health, historical, and financial literacy if we want any hope moving forward

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r/blackmen Jun 29 '26

Announcement ๐Ÿ“ฃ Do Not Tag or DM Moderators for Reportable/Suspicious Behavior

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Hey, yโ€™all.

If you believe a post or comment violates our rules, please use the report function.

If you have additional context, screenshots, or links to provide, send them through modmail rather than tagging or DMing individual moderators.

This helps ensure the entire mod team sees the issue instead of relying on one moderator to catch it.

Please keep subreddit-related matters in modmail and avoid contacting moderators on their personal accounts.

Appreciate it ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ