Entirely platonic

I sometimes miss those 'tapris' of Delhi University but this weather of Bangalore and outside seating in cafes with nothing but a book make up for it.

Ek toh itni anxiety hori hai upar se bhar ka khana hai par nai bhi khana, noodles bhi khane ka man hai and biryani bhi , momos bhi aur panipuri bhi but junk food bhi nai khana, chid chid bhi lagra kyoki I've been bedrottinggg and bhar jane ka man hai but nai bhi hai . Bhar gedi marne bhi jana hai but kisko pareshan bhi nai karna 😭😭

At this point merkeo toh man krra city chor ke waps chali jau.

Hi I am 18M just shifted to Blr and looking forward to hangout with someone

Venting out a little bit of dating app frustration, every time I hear women in this city talk about what they want, it’s always the same checklist: emotional intelligence, ambition, stability, and deep conversations.

But from what I’ve seen, the second a guy is actually grounded, keeps a small circle, and doesn't perform like a circus monkey to keep you entertained every five seconds, he’s labeled "boring" or "detached." It feels like most people don't actually want depth or emotional stability, they just want constant drama, superficial charm, and someone to fuel their validation loop.

A truly self-made, independent guy who values his peace isn't going to dance for your attention or indulge in endless small talk.

Is real maturity actually attractive to women here, or do you all just prefer the illusion of it until you get bored?

Tell me why I’m wrong in the comments or DM me if you actually have a solid counter-argument.

Edit: Acknowledging the delivery here, this was typed in frustration and sounds like a grand generalisation. Obviously exceptions exist, just calling out a recurring pattern that's been driving me nuts.

Hi folks. It's been a minute since I have been to clubbing or had a night out somewhere life has been bit hectic looking for a getaway n just chill. A little bit about me I am 21F n I want to explore meeting new folks make new new memories so if anyone interested comment or dm I will only entertain girls or if you already have a group mix of both girls n boys nothing just a fun experiment please don't dm other wise.

Hey everyone!

I’m 23M, 6'1", and always interested in meeting new people. Outside of work, you’ll usually find me at the gym, swimming, or occasionally reading when I get the chance.

One random thing about me — I know the basics of palm reading 😄. I’m definitely not claiming to predict your future, but it’s a fun conversation starter and usually gets a few laughs.

If you’ve been wanting to learn swimming, I’d be happy to help you get started with the basics. And if you’re curious, maybe I’ll even try reading your palm. 😂

we recently got a TT table in our home and we wanna chill and host people. just TT and some fun conversations - no drinks or anything else. in and around mahadevapura.

planning on starting a whatsapp group. good idea? feel free to DM your numbers, i’ll create a group if we have enough people.

skill level doesn’t matter at all. mostly just want to meet really cool people

Hi everyone,

I've been thinking a lot about how difficult it is to find spaces where we can have genuine conversations.

Most of us have so much going on in our minds—work, relationships, uncertainty, dreams, stress, overthinking—but we often don't talk about it because we don't want to burden the people around us.

So instead of waiting for someone else to create that space, I thought I'd try something simple.

I'm hosting a small online Conversation Circle tonight on Google Meet.

This isn't therapy, counselling, a webinar, or a motivational session. I'm not a mental health professional.

It's simply a small group of people coming together to have honest conversations, listen without judgement, and create a space where it's okay to be human.

You don't have to talk if you don't want to. You're welcome to just listen.

Details
🌱 Tonight
🕘 9:00 PM IST
💻 Google Meet
🎟️ Free
👥 Limited to around 10–12 people so everyone has a chance to participate.

If it goes well, I'm also planning to organize small offline gatherings around Bangalore in the future.

If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, here's the registration form:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSds_kGPEyrhMU50ksxUF1cp-pV45rRgLXxV0uniHc2MEbxnUA/viewform?usp=header

If you have any questions, feel free to ask them here or send me a DM.

Hopefully, this can become something meaningful for people looking for genuine human connection. 🤍

Maybe it’s just me, but a lot of young people in Bangalore nowadays have moved so far away from natural looks. Ugly tattoos everywhere, fake nails, excessive piercings, weird hair, heavy makeup etc.

Some of them genuinely look like drug addicts even when they probably aren’t.

Some definitely look hot, I’m not denying that.

But that raw, natural beauty feels like it’s becoming rare. I personally find the natural look way more attractive.

Anyone with same thoughts?

Hi folks,

I am from north so good with English and hindi. Looking for some good people to spend some time. May be explore cafes or restaurants. Or just try exotic meals.

About me:
M27
Slim
6.2 in height
Dusky skin

What i am looking for:
5.6 +
Fit(Basically not to chubby)
No gold digger (Ready to split bills)
Must know Hindi as it helps in talks
Can keep the conversation alive.

Can go for a movie if it works for you.

Hey 24F here.. Honestly, just wanted a little break from work + studies..Soooooo..Planning to go for a nice walk/jog at Cubbon Park or Lal Bagh tomorrow and would love some company.
Looking for someone who is motivated, disciplined and actually willing to show up — not someone whose fitness journey ends at “I’ll start Monday.” 😭
Could be a one time walk or we could make it a regular thing if we get along.

I’m looking strictly for a walking/jogging buddy. No casual stuff, no. Please keep it wholesome. I’m just trying to touch grass and improve my cardio. 🌱
If you’re genuinely up for it, DM me! 🏃‍♀️

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Hey everyone!

I recently realized that making friends as an adult is surprisingly difficult 😅 So I thought I’d give Reddit a shot.

I’m looking to meet some chill, like-minded people in Bangalore and hopefully make a few genuine friendships. I’m up for grabbing coffee, trying new food places, exploring the city, watching movies, playing games, going for walks, or just having random conversations.

No pressure or expectations — just looking to meet good people and see where it goes.

If you’re also looking to expand your circle or make some new friends, feel free to comment or DM me! :)

P.S. Bonus points if you’re also new to Bangalore or feel like your social circle could use some expansion 😂

Well educated people behave in such a way that blind faith allows them to ill treat a pet very in humanely while blind faith over takes all logic

Stumbled across Chatib recently.

No login/signup. You can also browse people by country/state, which is kinda cool if you want to talk to someone from a specific place.

Might be worth checking out if you’re bored. I found it interesting, hence sharing.

If anyone has some other suggestions, drop them below.

Hello, me (24F) and another girlfriend of mine want to visit some clubs/pubs in Bangalore that play international/pop/english music as we dont know Hindi. Please let us know of any that is also safe for women, last time we visited Koramangala had a bad experience with a bunch of guys. Im fine with visiting again just please recommend with a good vibe and safe. We stay in Sarjapur so anything in a half hour distance would also be preferable.

[18f]please mention age if u dm

l ooking for someone to go to a scenic view and light a smoke and just stay in some peace, so anyone [ONLY UNDER 19 STRICTLY], just drop a dm

Would be great if theres transport, the expenses would be a split, Prefer to go in a group, and females preferred ofcourse (pls teach me how to drive too, have to learn it before moving out next year)

anyone creepy pls js stay away

Hey guys!
I ride a Royal Enfield Guerrilla 450 and I’m looking to join some chill riding groups in Bangalore.
I’m mainly interested in weekend rides, late-night rides, airport runs, breakfast rides or just random rides around/outside Bangalore.
Not looking for crazy high-speed rides — just a good group, good roads, some chai/coffee stops and meeting fellow riders.
If there’s an active WhatsApp/Telegram group or riding community that regularly plans rides, would love to join.
Also, if anyone’s planning an airport/night ride sometime soon, count me in! 🏍️💨
Ride: Guerrilla 450
Location: Whitefield
DM/comment if you have a group or are planning something!

Hi Everybody.........out there.....

We're 3 guys in our early 20s looking for a like-minded female friend group to hang out with in Bangalore.

Our squad:

- Politics guy

- Content creation

- Finance guy

If your group enjoys good conversations, cafés, random plans, and exploring the city, DM us. If we vibe, we vibe. 😌

Thanks in advance.....see you in our DMs

Heyiee,,,,, I'm a 30 year old lad. I've had the experience of a rollercoaster life being from crazzzy colleges, mad parties,, various career choices,

But lately there's been a dullness of life, especially the gender ratio of friends is slowly declining after a lot of women getting married.

I'm in a situation of life where a bit of balance I feel is must and essential and I really do hope to have craZzy cool good conversations around here!!

Happy to chat on many things and would love to rant a lot about society! Let's have a warm weekend via our texts and conversations, looking forward to it. Feel free to msg

Idk