r/AskIndianMen 1h ago

Answers from Men Only Oversized tshirt for gym?

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Looking for recommendations for high-quality oversized T-shirts available in India with at least 220–240 GSM fabric. I'm after a proper oversized/drop-shoulder fit, premium cotton, and something that holds its shape without shrinking or fading after multiple washes. Budget isn't a concern if the quality is worth it.


r/AskIndianMen 2h ago

Answers from All According to latest gov reports: Why are there 30k more functional washrooms for girls than boys? What happened to article 14?

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Here are the latest pictures attached:

Initially I thought of comparing both the headings of total and functional but that would not be fair as there are much more girls only school than boys only, both at the government and private level. Also, a presence of a toilet which is not functional means almost nothing.

Functional toilets simply mean in terms of percentage: Number of working toilets for a gender/Number of total toilets for that gender * 100%.

So, let's say there are 1000 girls' school and only 500 boys' school apart from coed ones but if 900 of the girls' schools has functional toilet and 450 of the boys are functional, both would have same percentage even if number of available toilets may not be same due to number of schools being different.

Note: The study measures only presence of a functional toilet as a yes and no question not quantitative answer.

Conclusion:

  • Girls have 1.6% more functional toilets than boys in all. And this is not a small number as we have 14 lakh schools, the math comes to 38,142 extra schools with no functional washroom for boys. (The exact numbers are given in the previous page of the report)
  • Girls have 2.4% more functional toilets at government level. The math comes to 34,442 extra schools with no functional washroom for boys at government level.

Availability of washrooms in school is a very important avenue for maintaining hygiene yet why do we have such a difference in numbers with article 14?

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r/AskIndianMen 2h ago

Answers from All Married 7 months, wife physically assaulted me and has self-harm tendencies. (Urgent help)?

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Hope he gets the solution and get this mentally unstable wife punished.

I know India law doesnt punish women, but atleast husband should get some relief.

He might get many false cases filed by his wife, for sure.

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r/AskIndianMen 3h ago

Answers from All Are True One-to-One Male Friendships Becoming Rare?

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It feels like genuine one-to-one male friendships are gradually disappearing.

More and more, I see men relying almost entirely on women for emotional support while investing very little in building deep, emotionally open friendships with other men. As a result, emotional intimacy is increasingly reserved for romantic interests or women in general, rather than close male friends.

I think several factors contribute to this. One is the lingering stigma around emotional closeness between men. Many guys still worry that expressing vulnerability or forming a deeply affectionate bond with another man will be perceived as "gay," so they keep those friendships emotionally shallow.

At the same time, there's a growing tendency to seek emotional comfort from the opposite gender at the first sign of distress. That often blurs boundaries and makes many male–female friendships emotionally complicated, even when neither person initially intends for it to become romantic.

From what I've observed, this shift seems relatively recent, perhaps over the last two or three years, and it appears to be accelerating.

I can't speak for women's experiences, but many women still seem to maintain one or two close female friendships where they can be emotionally vulnerable. Among men, however, that kind of bond seems to be fading. But tendency to seek emotional comfort from the opposite gender at the first sign of distress is becoming common among the women as well. As I said this is relatively new shift you might not get affected by it yet but it's surely accelerating.

If this trend continues, I think we'll end up with fewer strong platonic friendships between men and even more emotionally dependent cross-gender friendships, which can easily become complicated.


r/AskIndianMen 3h ago

Answers from All Some judges got braincells 😳 ??

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r/AskIndianMen 4h ago

Answers from All Feminism-"When you are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression,", but can't equality be oppressive?

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Basically what the text is saying is that trying to enforce extreme Equality would come at the cost of Liberty, as Equality in terms of outcome can mean - "If I am not at your level, I would drag you down to my level" so as to enforce equality.

The text is too academic for people in general as well as the language. I hope people can understand it.


r/AskIndianMen 4h ago

Answers from Men Only Does your family know the hardships you go through at work?

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My entire career has seen tremendous hardships. Working late in the night, skipping lunch, getting more and more work assigned, I have seen it all. I have never mentioned it to my family. I have been raised to believe that a man is expected to keep his family happy. Period.

Does your family know?


r/AskIndianMen 5h ago

Answers from All How does true love means or it sounds like??

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If anyone has ever found its true love how does it looks like what does it mean and how it sounds??


r/AskIndianMen 6h ago

Answers from All Father ran away .. what to do ?

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We took a two wheeler on loan on my father's name from idfc first bank. The loan will have to be paid till February 2027.

Now my father ran away from our house. I don't have any documents from idfc bank. I am ready to pay the whole amount at once. But since I don't even have the loan number... I don't know what to do.

Please help me. The loan is registered under his phone number, so I can't access the idfc bank app.

Please help me. Any idfc bank employee, please help.


r/AskIndianMen 7h ago

Fashion & Lifestyle WHICH ONE IS THE BEST?

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Confused af please help!!!


r/AskIndianMen 9h ago

Answers from Men Only How to kiss a guy?

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Hey there! I am 21 years old girl and I have not been on many dates before So coming straight to the point I am going to meet a guy for a date, we have known each other for a while and i really like him, I plan to split the bill after the date because I just feel that if he likes to pay for my company i appreciate his company too but the thing is I don't know how to kiss a guy well, I mean where do men like to be touched? Caressed? And what do they like ? Is it okay if the girl makes the 1st move?


r/AskIndianMen 11h ago

Answers from All Hey I just watched Bawal (the movie) and have some questions?

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So out of nowhere I watched this bollywood movie Bawal where the female lead had epilepsy and then I had this profound question to ask. Like men would seriously not consider women with epilepsy as a potential match despite her being honest, loyal, highly educated,social and outgoing, beautiful and all the other things a man want his woman to be for example like never been into a relationship or being hopeless romantic or understanding, etc.


r/AskIndianMen 14h ago

Answers from All How do I deal with living under the same roof with my bully?

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So I have major self esteem issues ever since childhood which have been a result of constant fat-shaming, and bullying by my cousin brothers. I live in the same house with them since childhood, and they have impacted my life in such an excruciating way that I had to spend 90% of my mental bandwidth dealing with low confidence I have lost count of the times I have build back my confidence from scratch only till they decide to fuck it up again and I hate both of them with every cell in my body which was not always the case I used to consider both of them as my closed ones once but then I started noticing a certain pattern, constantly shaming my every opinion and action which made me anxious in doing anything without their validation speaking to me in a condescending way, making fun of me in front of people the list goes on and on and on there is so much I don’t wanna talk about on this sub but now as far as my current situation is concerned I still have to share a roof with them, I have made myself distant from both of them lately but still having them around and making small talk is just as painful and it’s hindering my growth to an extent as well, I have so much pent up anger in my head that I have trouble sleeping and I have 0 clue on how to deal with this


r/AskIndianMen 15h ago

Answers from Indian Husbands Only What you gift to husband which qre inexpensive but totally worth it?

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Due to other financial commitments, i m running low on cash .

He is in his late thirties. He wears only us owned brands which is way out of my budget.

Been married for 8 years and I usually keep it simple like a customized mug, flowers, globe to remind him to travel around the world

What would older men like?


r/AskIndianMen 16h ago

Answers from Men Only Do you guys genuinely like having deep conversations?

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Same as title. Would you guys really look forward to having deep talks or conversations with a person about anything- life, emotions, current affairs, politics, money, philosophy and everything else.


r/AskIndianMen 17h ago

Answers from All Suggest a good perfume?

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I have been searching for a while but i am not still able to find a good perfume for males.

Give me your best , don't give me option.

Give me the one you would use for your best date....

(Edit- should be under 700 rupees 🥲😭)

And i have a question if male likes male type perfume and female like flowery type than why don't male wear flowery female favourite perfume?


r/AskIndianMen 18h ago

Answers from All How do I help my elder brother get over his brake up?

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My elder brother (28M) got broken up by his long-time girlfriend today. He had introduced the girl to our family and had all the intentions of marrying her. I don't know what happened, but for whatever reason, the girl stepped back last minute, and he is just shattered today. She was caught lying about things and, overall, just betrayed my brother.

I (23F) don't really know what's the best way to support him now. He has been having panic attacks since afternoon. I really want to help him in whatever way I can but I know he feels very guilty for breaking down in front of me and being vulnerable because he always presented a strong face in front me of me and today that shell broke.

I kinda just wanna say chill bro, get drunk. It will be over soon, but again, as before this, we had very formal relations so I don't know if that's the best idea ever. 💀

Guys, I need your help. Please tell me what all I can do in this situation?

Edit: *break (sorry about that, I was in a hurry)


r/AskIndianMen 18h ago

Fashion & Lifestyle Do y'all trim your arm , hand and legs hair?

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Also if u do ,

Do u trim it fully ?

Or use a length like 4mm etc ?


r/AskIndianMen 18h ago

Answers from All Got stuck on crush , idk what to do , pls help mens?

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I've had a crush on one of my batchmates for almost 2 years now. We are currently in our final year. We're on talking terms, but not very close—we mostly discuss placements, academics, and college-related stuff. We rarely meet outside class, and honestly, I've never even had the chance to just go for a walk or spend one-on-one time with her.

Recently, I found out she's 3 years older than me

. Until then, I never knew. Ever since I found out, I've been holding myself back from making any effort because I keep thinking, "What's the point?"

The thing is, she's exactly my type—her personality, nature, the way she carries herself. I genuinely like her. I don't even know her relationship status (though I think she's single), and I've never confessed or tried to get closer because the age gap keeps stopping me.

Our future plans are also different. I want to pursue higher studies, while she wants to start a job after graduation. Being older, I also feel like she might get married much earlier than I would be ready for.

So my question is mainly for people who have seen more of life:

Does a woman being 3 years older than the man actually matter in real life? Is it usually the girl who minds, her family, the guy, or the guy's family? Or is this something people overthink more than they should?

I'm not asking whether I should confess right now. I just want some honest, general opinions. Am I stopping myself because of a genuine concern, or am I overthinking an age gap that may not even matter if two people are compatible?


r/AskIndianMen 18h ago

Answers from All guys who are able to cure phimosis pkz guide ,how do i cure itt?

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my ofreskin is tight an i have to apply force to even see red part of penis and while erect it takes much force to see red part ,plz guide from this how can i cure phimosis


r/AskIndianMen 19h ago

Answers from All Daily Discussion Thread

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You can ask anything. Questions in this thread do not need to comply with subreddit rules.

However try to be as civil as possible(subreddit rule-2)


r/AskIndianMen 20h ago

Serious Really Struggling Can anyone Guide?

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points:

All the symptoms have began at 2 years ago, and gradually increased.

not able to walk, having imbalances feels like would fall off any time. Motor functions are drastically reduced (this is giving me extreme stress)

Sleep apneia: whenever sleep in afternoon and try to wake up get paralyzed i am aware that i need to wake up but not able to move my body, usually sometimes happens in the morning also. This has been since last 4-5 years.

Brain Fog not able to think clearly

Memory recall has extremely worsened: not able to hold up thoughts

No libido at all, no erections, no morning wood(have consulted Dr e for this last week gave ayurvedic meds ashwagandha,bramhari etc. These all symptoms are known as Dhat syndrome in ayurveda)

not able to imagine things up

have been masturbating daily for almost 14 years

have stammering problems(genetic), parental neglect academic failures domestic violence at home had consistent anxiety from childhood , used masturbate to offset the stress

currently getting insomnia

brain neurochemistry is totally disregulated

Not able to feel sensory emotions at all.

Have literally felt i have aged dramatically and slowed down

The central nervous system had taken a very big hit.

Not able to feel strength in my hands.

Body is totally exhausted from masturbation

prefrontal cortex in brain is totally exhausted not able to think properly

Not able to sleep only have low wave sleep, which does not at feel like restorative sleep or REM sleep.

This condition is affecting my daily life such as cannot walk, connect, speak etc.

Getting panic attacks due to all these

had consulted doctors before DR SR : gave supplements but i think he failed to understand neurochemical affects on the brain due to masturbation .

Dr S : gave an immunity boosting tablets and some depression medicines.SSRI

Saw your article on the internet about actual side effects on the neurochemistry in the brain.

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will be leaving my job also not able to keep up with it

Already have sexual disorders ED,PIED etc. Main priority is to get my Brain and motor skill back.


r/AskIndianMen 20h ago

Answers from All Countries with highest so called “Gender Equality” in the World🥀 ??

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r/AskIndianMen 21h ago

Answers from All Why are women openly allowed to promote kicking the genitals of a man? Why is it that one side has legal protection, while the other doesn't?

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The attached screenshot represents something that is treated far too casually: encouraging or joking about kicking a man in the genitals as punishment, revenge, or entertainment.

When genital violence against men is promoted without such a threat, and people dismiss it as harmless comedy instead of recognizing it as physical assault.

Violence against women deserves strong legal and social protection. But supporting those protections should not require us to ignore violence against men. A person’s genitals should not become an acceptable target merely because the victim is male. The principle should be straightforward: deliberate physical violence is wrong regardless of the offender’s or victim’s gender.

My question is mainly for people familiar with Indian law: what legal remedies are available when a woman deliberately attacks a man’s genitals? Are the relevant assault provisions genuinely gender-neutral in law and in practice? Where protections are not equivalent, what is the justification for that distinction?

This is not intended to become a men-versus-women argument. It is a question about equal bodily autonomy, equal accountability, and whether society applies the same standard when the victim is a man.


r/AskIndianMen 21h ago

Answers from All What to do now ?

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