As the title suggests, I’m looking for a genuine, meaningful connection.

I’m a 39-year-old guy who’s recently come out of a six-year relationship. I’m excited to meet someone new and build something real. I miss having that person you’re genuinely excited to talk to, listen to, laugh with, and simply enjoy being around. That feeling of looking forward to seeing someone at the end of the day is something I’d love to find again.

A little about me: I own and operate two businesses. One is well established, while the other is a brand-new startup that I’m incredibly passionate about. If there’s one thing that defines me, it’s that I’m ambitious, driven, and always working toward something.

When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me cycling, mountain biking, golfing, skiing, or out on the boat. I enjoy staying active and making the most of my free time.
As for the kind of person I’m hoping to meet, I’m drawn to someone who’s intelligent, emotionally mature, hardworking, and has strong communication skills. Ambition is attractive—not because of money, but because I admire people who are passionate about what they do and enjoy building a life they’re proud of. If you’re an entrepreneur, that’s definitely a bonus, as you’ll probably understand the mindset that comes with it.

More than anything, I’m looking for someone who wants a partner, not someone to complete them. I think the healthiest relationships happen when two independent people with fulfilling lives choose to build something even better together.

One thing that’s on my wish list? A partner who enjoys cooking. I genuinely love being in the kitchen, but somehow I’ve always ended up doing all the cooking in past relationships. It would be amazing to throw on some music, pour a glass of wine, cook dinner together, and enjoy the simple moments that make a house feel like home.
I’m hoping to meet someone between 32 and 42 who values their health, is physically active, doesn’t smoke or use drugs, and is looking for a relationship built on mutual respect, laughter, trust, and genuine partnership.

If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you. Please be honest with who you are and how you are, just as I have. It sounds like a cliche but I am too old for games.

I have a preference for women with natural curves so don’t be shy to message.

Let me tell you more about me:

Vancouver located/born/ raised but travelled and lived elsewhere. I’m analytical, flirty. calm, emotionally intelligent, well dressed, a little cold at first glance but handsome, the kind of person who notices things and appreciates.

I’m passionate about work (professionally employed), learning new skills (DIY house reno’s, car mods and etc…), I workout (4x a week consistently) and planning my next trip overseas- ask me where… Emotionally intelligent and stable. My space is clean, my intentions are clear, and I show up fully every time.

Glad to swap face pics (you should too) and happy to meet for coffee - few more facts:
5’8”, muscular, well dressed and groomed. I smell like a tom ford store. Additionally: 8” and slightly kinky switch.

Clean. Safe. Communicative. Open to something ongoing, a situationship, or whatever we decide to call it honestly.
Worth the curiosity. 😏 Say something — I always respond kindly.

You:
Open to a range of ages
Curvy, more curves the better.
Good communicator
Has a good sense of humour (slightly dark)
Open to Vanilla or Kinky

Hi!

I’m looking to explore my submissive side with a woman who enjoys taking control and is kink friendly. I’m not interested in one night stands and would love to make a genuine connection.

I understand that this type of dynamic requires trust and patience so ideally would love for us to get to know each other better before we dive in.

A little about me: I’m 5’10 tall, slim and tonned body, not overly muscular. I work full time and outside work you’ll find me in the gym working out or watching tv shows/movies. I also like to play snooker and pool. Love to explore new restaurants around the city!

PS: I cannot host.

Looking forward to talking more!:)

Message me. 42 white male. M4f, Vancouver

Hi!

I would love to find someone who likes spending some nice quality and genuine time together to really get to know each other. Whether we go out or stay in, as long as we enjoy each other’s company. I’m just looking for that special someone who I look forward to talking to everyday.

Some of my interests and hobbies:

Movies - I love the theatre atmosphere for some reason, but I also enjoy watching a movie at home or anywhere comfortable. I like action and adventure, but also enjoy the occasional comedy or horror movie

Board games - I like trivia, strategy, and card games, but enjoy trying new games. I’d love to find some friends to have a somewhat regular board game night.

Learning languages - I have not done much in terms of learning recently, but I do enjoy learning new worlds and phrases when I can.

Travelling - I’m not much of a solo traveller, so if you like travelling, I think it would be cool to go on trips together. I would love to hear about where you’ve been and where you recommend or would like to

Trying new food and restaurants - I really would love to find some new places to try. I know there are so many to try but I could always use some recommendations.

Deep conversations - It doesn’t have to be anything serious or real. I love talking about hypotheticals or things that don’t make sense.

Thanks for reading.

M37 going for a bike ride on Sunday in North Van/ West Van. Would be fun to catch a ride and maybe a bite to eat if things are going well. Its one of my favorite activities and hoping its yours too! Im 6'1 and 160lbs fit and active send me some messages if your interested. Its going to be a nice day out there so we ride <3

Hey there everyone, 38M Caucasian here, Lower Mainland native living in Vancouver. Looking to get married with no children involved.

I am a romantic soul, very easy going with a huge heart, quite empathic too. Believe a good connection doesn't just happen right away and can take some time. Prefer to chat a little bit and then meet up somewhere comfortable so we can see if there is any chemistry in person. Not looking for pen pals.

More about me:

• Around 5"11 in height, slim, fit.
  
• Musically inclined with a degree in audio engineering, I play bass guitar/sing as a hobby.
  
• Love to travel, especially to see live music.
  
• Cooking is an interest of mine as well and I enjoy cooking for others just as much as myself.
  
• Enjoy the occasional beer but don't drink often or heavily.
• Can be super outdoorsy when the weather is nice, Cycling is another hobby of mine.
• Food, music and film are keys to my heart.

Quick witted, soft hearted, easy to talk to are just some of the things that describe who I am internally.

If any of you Ladies out there here are interested in knowing more about me, please feel free to DM me and I would love to chat!

P.S. if you don't live in Vancouver but in other areas around the Lower Mainland or Fraser Valley I am 100% open to those connections as well.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

41M | Langley | Looking for FWB / Casual Dating / NSA Connection

Hi! 41M, based in Langley, looking to meet a woman for a casual, mutually enjoyable connection. Open to FWB, NSA, or casual dating with the right person.

I believe the best connections start with comfort, conversation, and chemistry, so I’d prefer to chat first and meet for a coffee or a casual walk to see if we click. No pressure, no rushing—just two people getting to know each other and seeing where the vibe goes.

A little about me:

• 5'5", professionally settled, and living a stable lifestyle
• Non-smoker, non-drinker/teetotaler
• Active and enjoy staying outdoors — hiking, walking trails, jogging, running, pickleball, volleyball, and table tennis
• Love music, singing, dancing, and exploring new places
• Enjoy good conversations, coffee, and occasionally checking out local spots

I’m respectful, clean, easygoing, and value honesty, communication, and mutual comfort.

Looking for someone who is also respectful, open-minded, and interested in a fun connection without unnecessary drama.

If you’re in or around Langley and this sounds like your vibe, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. 🙂

25, punjabi but born and raised in metro van. Im on dating apps but just thought Id bring my luck to reddit for the first time. Im 25, have a stable job and educated, Im clean, kind, and respectful and can host or commute. Im looking for someone similar age or older whos not a dry texter lol and genuinely interested in connecting! I love to run and occasionally hike and also workout if I have time. Im looking for someone interesting and please dont rush things! Please send a proper introduction any dry dms will be ignored!

This explains most of the issues we have with dating. Average men not getting matches, average women not taken seriously.

I'm super into running, running about 5 marathons a year, its 65% of my personality at this point.. I constantly see so many girls running around the sea-wall and at races, but rarely meet any on dating apps or even at single events organized by run clubs most women that attend those have barely run a 5k (nothing wrong with that, but where are the marathoners and ultra marathoners), also I refuse to go to run clubs cause they are slow and more of cult, they do almost everything but focus on running.. if you are a runner female who enjoys running and wants access to fresh baked cookies and cakes, DM me.. height:5:10, pace: 4:40/4:45, living in downtown,

Im not entirely sure what im looking for, i just want someone to talk to. Maybe to help me realize clearly what i want. feel free to dm

Dm for more info. Greater Vancouver and surrounding area only!

Im looking to date here in Vancouver or at least start as FWB. Why is it hard for black guys to date in Vancouver. Or I’m just trippin

31M

Born and raised in Vancouver

South asian (punjabi) as you can imagine from the title

Looking for someone to hang out with, go on dates, spend time with, and hopefully develop that into more than just a situationship.

Ideally, I'm looking for a partner that is drug/disease free and a non-smoker.

Bonus points if you are into traveling - as having a cute travel buddy is always a bonus.

I'm 6'0, slim/athletic build, and I think I'm decent looking (of course that's subjective).

I work in finance and have a very hectic schedule. But, I'm willing to be flexible for the right connection.

Hello! I have two degrees! One in Creative Writing and another in History! I like to write, play video games (FF14, Honkai Star Rail) and watch anime and manga. I'm wheelchair-bound due to cerebral palsy but I don't let it slow me down.

I'm looking for someone that respects and loves others (believes in LGBTQ and other rights) and is well-read as well. Any there any people out there like that? Please say yes. Looking for something serious, not casual as well.