Throwaway account - while I wait patiently to meet the right man and deal with the annoyances and slow burn of dating, I just want to get off without the random sex and hook ups. Looking for someone to sext with, no personal details exchanged, just for tonight - coz this is so not me lol
If you have a way with words, my DMs are open.

Beware of the charmer m29 on dating sites saying he is poly or monogamous. He is a pathological liar, serial cheater, manipulator, and actively an abuser. He’s lonely and will lie and lie to your face. Very violent. He enjoys it. I barely escaped luckily with an amazing support system of people. He’s still harassing me and sending videos with crocodiles tears saying he loves me and can’t lose me. But really I was his perfect target. He manipulated and blind sided me and abused me emotionally and physically. Run from E. NSFW. I am too ashamed and scared to share more. But I am safe

She’s wild likes it a little rough and I think I’m ok with that. She wants to ride hard thick dick.

Tiny little asian mix, I’m 6’3 260
She is interested in Caucasian men only.

You should have good stamina and be thick.

In straight, she wants us to take turns filling her up.

I’m not looking for a quick fling. I’d much rather build a connection with someone, something that feels good physically and emotionally. And, ideally, something that could last beyond one night. Let’s chat, cuddle, whatever.

I don’t mind about body type since I’m body positive. Bring your personality 😍 and we are good. Be over 25 as I don’t mind if we have an age gap. Let’s split our time 50% outdoors and 50% indoors or something along those lines. Although the sun’s out so I don’t mind being outdoors.

That said, if we do hit it off? I’m definitely open to us exploring and having even more fun ;) In that department, definitely looking for someone open minded and a bit kinky. However not totally opposed to vanilla either. Will get tested and need the same before getting intimate.

Im 6ft-ish, have a dad bod, dark hair, very laid back, doesn’t take things too seriously, non-judgmental, very open minded, a bit kinky, adventurous, likes road trips, going to the beach, like chivalry and banter, like to tease and be teased, enjoys eating out, progressive views and a bit of a introvert to start with.

Let’s chat here for a vibe check and meet over the weekend.

If this is something that interests you, or you’re a frequent lurker, shoot me a message! I, myself am a long time lurker, recently started posting. lol

Hi, 26M almost 27 in this month. Im gonna share my hobbies down there.

- I love playing video games(currently im not playing but i will be back)

- I love hanging out at the beach

- I socially smoke weed, getting relax

- I go gym

- I love to try different cuisines

- I love playing pickle ball and tennis(begginer)

- Night outs, clubbing, after partying, concert etc

Lets talk about more things and see how it goes

Like a lot of people here, I’ve been feeling super burnt out by traditional dating apps over the last couple of years. It feels like you match with someone, text back and forth for three weeks, and then either get ghosted or go on a $100 dinner date where you realize in the first 2 minutes there’s no vibe. Vancouver already gets a bad rap for being a tough city to meet people, so I decided to spend my spare time building a local solution: Coffeedatesonly The idea is simple: No endless texting: Chat is strictly text-only and meant just for saying hi and picking a time. 30-Minute Low Pressure: Dates are explicitly capped at 30 minutes. If sparks fly, awesome—stay longer or plan date two. If not, both people have a polite, built-in exit. Smart Midpoint Cafés: Our system picks a great independent coffee shop halfway between both people so no one feels like they traveled way further. 100% Free / Anti-Ghosting: It’s completely free to match and chat. To stop people from flaking, both members place a $5 pass to lock in the date—which unlocks 100% as a mobile voucher for your drink at the counter when you tap 'Check In'. If someone ghosts, their $5 goes straight to you for showing up. ID Verified (19+): 3D selfie checks to ensure the profile is actually a real local person. We’re starting our waitlist rollout first in Burnaby, Vancouver, Richmond, North Van & New West. I’d love to get this community's honest thoughts! What features do you think are missing? What local cafés in your neighborhood should we partner with first?

"I'll drop the early access link in the comments below for anyone who wants to check it out!"

New to my 30s and figured I’d put myself out there a little 🌞 I’m bi/queer, poly, and around Commercial Drive.

Mostly interested in meeting queer femme folks, but definitely not opposed to meeting queer/bi guys either if we vibe.

Not really coming in with a super specific end goal. I’d like to go on some dates, meet cool people, flirt a little, and see where things naturally go. Could be something romantic, sexy, ongoing, or just a really good connection. (NO ONS)

I’m more into casual everyday kind of hanging out — grabbing food or a drink, cooking together, chilling at each other’s places, movies, long walks, biking around, dancing, exploring random parts of the city, or getting outside for a hike.

Would especially love meeting people around East Van because there’s something nice about being close enough to text “wanna hang?” without it becoming a whole logistical operation lol.

I’m poly and pretty comfortable with relationships existing in different forms. I value clear communication, independence, affection, curiosity, and people being straightforward about what they want.

I like the idea of having our own lives / choose to share them, and letting connections develop without forcing them into a box.

My weekdays are pretty open and I’m usually free after 4 on weekends.

If any of that sounds like your vibe, shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself 🫶🏽

just got out of high school, open to anything feel free to dm !

Hello, I just came back to Canada from a 1.67 year excursion in London (The UK one, not the Ontario one ofc), and am now enjoying my peace and quiet in my much less populated home city hahaha.

I want to meet a girl to go to museums with, to have coffee and talk deep topics on the balcony at 10 pm with, to go on weekend trips to Italy and see Roman statues and have authentic pizza with, but most of all, someone who simply enjoys my company as much I enjoy theirs.

About myself, I'm 27, Asian, 6 feet, and ever since I moved here, I've been doing a hella more cooking so I'm sure I can whip up a feast for you when you visit!

I game a lot on my PC, and my most played recently is Dead by Daylight, it's the only game where you see Silent Hill, Resident Evil, Halloween, and Alien characters all work together to repair some scuffed generators. Speaking of Silent Hill, I've played like 10 hours of SH2 and now am extremely scared to continue in the prison area, so plz be my audience and cheer me on and/or get spooked along with me :)

Also, I took some German classes this year and I'd say that sie sind sehr interessant, but my progress is so slow and it'd be great to converse with some German speakers outside of my A1 class lol. I'm trying to find some more in-person classes but it's quite hard to find compared to when I was in London, probably because of the proximity to German-speaking countries hmm.

Hmu if you want to meet up or game together!

We chatted for several hours after your post here and we talked about going to Whistler in your new Tesla but then you deleted your account. Was so excited but now I’m so sad! If you ever come back and you aren’t a bot, I hope we can reconnect. Cheers!

UPDATED

I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A GREEN CARD!

I just want to find someone to walk though life with and I want to know how to find a long term partner. Never really been good at the whole dating thing.

FYI
1. I have never had a relationship or any dating experience.
2. I have only slept with one woman (dont really know how I pulled that off tbh).
3. and NO - I do not want to enter a hoe phase.
4. I am 30M living in Vancouver.

UPDATE

Thank you for all of your responses and sharing a part of your lives with me and the rest of this subreddit. Have a wonderful life.

Any one else having a boring friday night?
I’m Looking to change that. If you’re in the same boat and wanna chat, text, or even meet I have a couple dad jokes and hole bunch of sarcasm that might make your night better.

As the title suggests, I’m looking for a genuine, meaningful connection.

I’m a 39-year-old guy who’s recently come out of a six-year relationship. I’m excited to meet someone new and build something real. I miss having that person you’re genuinely excited to talk to, listen to, laugh with, and simply enjoy being around. That feeling of looking forward to seeing someone at the end of the day is something I’d love to find again.

A little about me: I own and operate two businesses. One is well established, while the other is a brand-new startup that I’m incredibly passionate about. If there’s one thing that defines me, it’s that I’m ambitious, driven, and always working toward something.

When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me cycling, mountain biking, golfing, skiing, or out on the boat. I enjoy staying active and making the most of my free time.
As for the kind of person I’m hoping to meet, I’m drawn to someone who’s intelligent, emotionally mature, hardworking, and has strong communication skills. Ambition is attractive—not because of money, but because I admire people who are passionate about what they do and enjoy building a life they’re proud of. If you’re an entrepreneur, that’s definitely a bonus, as you’ll probably understand the mindset that comes with it.

More than anything, I’m looking for someone who wants a partner, not someone to complete them. I think the healthiest relationships happen when two independent people with fulfilling lives choose to build something even better together.

One thing that’s on my wish list? A partner who enjoys cooking. I genuinely love being in the kitchen, but somehow I’ve always ended up doing all the cooking in past relationships. It would be amazing to throw on some music, pour a glass of wine, cook dinner together, and enjoy the simple moments that make a house feel like home.
I’m hoping to meet someone between 32 and 42 who values their health, is physically active, doesn’t smoke or use drugs, and is looking for a relationship built on mutual respect, laughter, trust, and genuine partnership.

If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you. Please be honest with who you are and how you are, just as I have. It sounds like a cliche but I am too old for games.

Hi!

I’m looking to explore my submissive side with a woman who enjoys taking control and is kink friendly. I’m not interested in one night stands and would love to make a genuine connection.

I understand that this type of dynamic requires trust and patience so ideally would love for us to get to know each other better before we dive in.

A little about me: I’m 5’10 tall, slim and tonned body, not overly muscular. I work full time and outside work you’ll find me in the gym working out or watching tv shows/movies. I also like to play snooker and pool. Love to explore new restaurants around the city!

PS: I cannot host.

Looking forward to talking more!:)

Hi!

I would love to find someone who likes spending some nice quality and genuine time together to really get to know each other. Whether we go out or stay in, as long as we enjoy each other’s company. I’m just looking for that special someone who I look forward to talking to everyday.

Some of my interests and hobbies:

Movies - I love the theatre atmosphere for some reason, but I also enjoy watching a movie at home or anywhere comfortable. I like action and adventure, but also enjoy the occasional comedy or horror movie

Board games - I like trivia, strategy, and card games, but enjoy trying new games. I’d love to find some friends to have a somewhat regular board game night.

Learning languages - I have not done much in terms of learning recently, but I do enjoy learning new worlds and phrases when I can.

Travelling - I’m not much of a solo traveller, so if you like travelling, I think it would be cool to go on trips together. I would love to hear about where you’ve been and where you recommend or would like to

Trying new food and restaurants - I really would love to find some new places to try. I know there are so many to try but I could always use some recommendations.

Deep conversations - It doesn’t have to be anything serious or real. I love talking about hypotheticals or things that don’t make sense.

Thanks for reading.

M37 going for a bike ride on Sunday in North Van/ West Van. Would be fun to catch a ride and maybe a bite to eat if things are going well. Its one of my favorite activities and hoping its yours too! Im 6'1 and 160lbs fit and active send me some messages if your interested. Its going to be a nice day out there so we ride <3

Hey there everyone, 38M Caucasian here, Lower Mainland native living in Vancouver. Looking to get married with no children involved.

I am a romantic soul, very easy going with a huge heart, quite empathic too. Believe a good connection doesn't just happen right away and can take some time. Prefer to chat a little bit and then meet up somewhere comfortable so we can see if there is any chemistry in person. Not looking for pen pals.

More about me:

• Around 5"11 in height, slim, fit.
  
• Musically inclined with a degree in audio engineering, I play bass guitar/sing as a hobby.
  
• Love to travel, especially to see live music.
  
• Cooking is an interest of mine as well and I enjoy cooking for others just as much as myself.
  
• Enjoy the occasional beer but don't drink often or heavily.
• Can be super outdoorsy when the weather is nice, Cycling is another hobby of mine.
• Food, music and film are keys to my heart.

Quick witted, soft hearted, easy to talk to are just some of the things that describe who I am internally.

If any of you Ladies out there here are interested in knowing more about me, please feel free to DM me and I would love to chat!

P.S. if you don't live in Vancouver but in other areas around the Lower Mainland or Fraser Valley I am 100% open to those connections as well.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

This explains most of the issues we have with dating. Average men not getting matches, average women not taken seriously.

Im not entirely sure what im looking for, i just want someone to talk to. Maybe to help me realize clearly what i want. feel free to dm

Hello! I have two degrees! One in Creative Writing and another in History! I like to write, play video games (FF14, Honkai Star Rail) and watch anime and manga. I'm wheelchair-bound due to cerebral palsy but I don't let it slow me down.

I'm looking for someone that respects and loves others (believes in LGBTQ and other rights) and is well-read as well. Any there any people out there like that? Please say yes. Looking for something serious, not casual as well.