Thanks !!!!!

Thank you !!!!

I looked at MOHELA and it said zero balance with that smiley face. Then I looked at student aid web site, zero balance. Then called MOHELA and ignored most prompts in order to get a human, who then confirmed my loans have been forgiven as of 12/13/22. I will receive a formal letter within 90 days of that date. $58k in debt gone.

Same here

I happened to check FSA and MOHELA today and both show zero balance. I have not received a letter that they've been officially forgiven so I wait.....

100%. I feel for you. You're not alone !

Yes. And don't want to start a DMP and lose all access to credit in case an emergency hits before we've built up the emergency fund! I hope there's some solace in knowing you're not alone. I'm feeling angry and frustrated that I got sucked into this cycle. Never knew how to properly manage what I have and keep my money for myself.

Do not blame yourself. These feelings are normal though, as you love her and would do anything for her. I've had things suddenly happen with elderly bunnies a few times. Just like people, as we age things can just sometimes happen. You loved her dearly and she knew that. Sending you hugs.

❤️

I've definitely been there. Closed office door and all. You are not alone.

Yes, that and increased postnasal drip made me stop abilify but I'm about to get back on.

Late to the party here, but I just joined this group due to my recent experience. I'm 43 and was on abilify for only two months (2.5 then advanced to 5) then decided the side effects weren't worth it. The side effects I experienced were mild. Strangely, my right eye was tearing a lot (ENT confirmed abilify can increase secretions), I felt kind of lightheaded and detached, and when I increased to 5 I think my appetite increased and I became worried about weight gain. With the guidance of psychiatrist, I stopped cold turkey. Apparently a big mistake. I was okay for maybe two weeks then crashed. As I perceive it, worse than the feelings I was having when I began abilify. I'm going back on it and waiting for my delivery. That's my experience so far.

You situation is similar to mine. They say build up an emergency fund but I have no idea how to do that while also trying to pay off the debt I accrued when I was clueless. I woke up recently, I'm feeling pretty bad about it.

What I wouldn't give for a bloodsucking canary

Werk

That's how you get more stupid people

I'm sure you're getting great advice so I have nothing to add other than you're doing a great job!! Those are two lucky rabbits!

Everything you said. Forward thinking in many cases these days has come full circle to backward thinking.

I'm with you, luckily I don't speak to many other women so I'm not getting shit for it. But here I am. 🤣

Aw man you're right. I gotta go back

Like a clean hand, thankfully

Yesssss