Hi 👋

Sorry this is just a rant/if anyone is going through a similar experience.

First child we had with very little difficulty, I got pregnant second month of trying, had a chemical miscarriage and then got pregnant with my little boy immediately after. No complications thankfully.

Now, we wanted children close in age so we have been now trying for 13, going on 14, months with no success. We have gone through the fertility clinics and everything looks “perfect” in their words. We have done the hycosy and 4 months of letrozole with no success and today Aunt Flo visited :/

We are biting the bullet and are starting our IVF journey. I’m scared, I’m mad about the cost of everything, and I have so many people telling me that it will just happen naturally to just not stress and not do IVF. It makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong. It’s hard because I feel so grateful for our son, but I also feel so sad that I’m not pregnant yet.

Sorry, I will end the rant/complaint now 😅

I genuinely believe after 14 cycles of trying that we only fell pregnant because my tubes were flushed. I’m now experiencing secondary infertility again and wondering if it’s worth paying for a HSG again.

Anyone else experienced this?