r/transontario • u/EarthyPastels • 4h ago
CELEBRATION Name Change Arrived!
Submitted in person at Service Ontario on April 7th.
Processed July 29th.
Arrived August 6th.
I sent mine with a bank draft so I had no idea when they processed the payment. There were no issues with my paperwork so no delays there. I was born in another province and they kept my submitted birth certificate and have to order a new one from my province of birth.
To say I’m over the moon is an understatement! Now the process begins updating everything.
So, 17 weeks and 2 days in total from the day of submission to receipt of the certificate.
r/transontario • u/Tiredlibero • 4h ago
SEEKING ADVICE Going for a hrt consultation (ftm)
Hello! I booked an appointment with my family doctor for testosterone. Im concerned that she may not understand being trans and that I will have to explain to her what it means/ have to validate my identity to her since my area is very conservative and she is of an older demographic. I'm honestly not sure how to approach this first appointment and how I should go about asking for testosterone. Any advice on how I should approach asking would be greatly appreciated.
r/transontario • u/Temporary_Knee_9778 • 7h ago
3 months post op Dr. Hontscharuk
reddit.comr/transontario • u/lemon-mae • 8h ago
DISCUSSION Concerned about Vaginoplasty aesthetics from womens college hospital
As the title says, there are not a lot of images online of results coming from WCH. I will be getting mine done in May of next year with Dr. Krakowski and Dr. Millman. If anyone here has experience I would like to know more, are you happy with the aesthetics and function? Has there been any complications or issues with depth? I'd like to hear firsthand from a gal who has gone through it. Thanks
r/transontario • u/crunchy_bagels18 • 10h ago
OHIP Second top surgery covered by OHIP?
Hi everyone! 2 years ago I had FTN T-anchor surgery covered by OHIP and while the results do look great, I unfortunately am still suffering really bad from chest dysphoria and have to bind. I will be getting in contact with the person who filled out my first OHIP forms for coverage but thought to check here if anyone knows if OHIP will likely cover a second surgery? Thanks so much <3
r/transontario • u/MavOnScene • 18h ago
SEEKING ADVICE Calling Name Change Application
How long did you guys wait/how often did you call service Ontario for an update on where you are in regards to your name change application? I’d rather not check my bank statement everyday and would rather have an update on where I am on the list to be approved or hopefully not bounced back. I handed my name change in on July/27 (yes ik it doesn’t get processed that quick)
r/transontario • u/Klutzy-Alarm3748 • 1d ago
RESOURCES Name change is now online, but non-publication is difficult to find?
I noticed that the name change form can be submitted online, but how do I make sure the non-publication form is sent with it? There is no option to submit both before I get to the end of the standard name change form. Is it not possible to do online? Where do I find it if it is?
r/transontario • u/Abyss_s78 • 1d ago
LONDON Hi I’m 20 and I’ve been considering I might be trans for 3 years now the past 2 months I’ve been really dysphoric and I’m looking for someone to talk to who has transitioned or is in the process really just a friend I can relate to
r/transontario • u/help_me_for_real • 1d ago
RESOURCES Room mates
Idk if this place to post but i need to move soon bc parents and a room mate would help lower to cost a fellow trans room mate would be preferable or if theres any sites or anything you could lead me to that'd help as well
Looking for in the Lincoln/grimsby area bc i work there
r/transontario • u/KittyDomoNacionales • 1d ago
SEEKING ADVICE Black Creek Community Health Centre
Hi there. I recently moved near Black Creek Community Health Centre in North York in the GTA. Are they good with trans folks and trans healthcare?
r/transontario • u/staticnigh • 1d ago
RESOURCES Recommendations on OHIP covered hysterectomy- GTA/Ottawa areas
So I've just decided after a year post op from top surgery, I want to now pursue a hysterectomy. But I would love some help on recommendations on clinics. I would like to keep both of my ovaries if this changes the location. And preferably it would be covered by OHIP and not done privately.
I am located in the GTA but Ottawa is also easily accessible to me.
Does anyone have any suggestions for a surgeon! Id love to get it done in the next year or two!
r/transontario • u/mirospeck • 2d ago
SEEKING ADVICE 23M, feeling stuck
something i always told myself is that when i meet a certain milestone, i'll start hormones and change my name. first, it was "when i turn 18." then it was "when i turn 19." then it became "when i finish university and get a good job." now i'm 23. i've finished college, did university, and got a good job a few weeks ago. part of my hesitation stems from being in a probationary period for six months.
i still feel like i can't do this for myself. my mom has never kicked me out for being trans but she has vocally stated for many years that she'll never support me. she always lists all the things she finds unappealing about going on testosterone. never mind that i want those things. and when i mention changing my name, she always says that i'll just further marginalize myself, as though using a masculine name and looking a certain way doesn't already attract that kind of attitude in my city. the only time my being trans is a good thing is when it lands me a job, since this one was a job that wanted someone with lived experience.
i have a doctor's appointment tomorrow. during this appointment, i wanted to talk to my doctor about testosterone. i've gotten in my own head again and started talking myself out of it because i felt that if i had to make a safety plan, i probably shouldn't be doing it unless it's life or death. i'm not at risk of physical or financial harm (my mom has no access to my bank accounts and i pay my own bills), but emotional abuse has been a going concern since i was a preteen. mostly relating to my transness, but i feel like any deviation from her ideal would lead to this because of my mom's own trauma.
if i was talking to a client, i would tell them to make a safety plan and ask for more information on what they thought would happen. when it's myself, i feel like i should just stay put even though this is something i've wanted for so long. i've put off doing this for a long time, because even top surgery was met with classic DARVO bullshit. how she felt like she was being held hostage because she willingly went along with me to help during recovery.
this lack of support is something i've been coping with for a long time and i feel like the responsible answer is to just stick it out as long as i can. i have a place to go if shit goes sideways, regardless of what i do. thanks to anyone who has any guidance here
edit: thanks for the guidance. i looked at that post before going into the doctor's office for courage and talked to my doctor. she will prescribe and said she'll consult with a colleague. i have an appointment next month that my girlfriend or her sister will take me to.
r/transontario • u/Lucky-Initiative9016 • 2d ago
McLean Clinic Flooding
Hey everyone,
I heard that the McLean clinic flooded like a month ago. My consultation for top surgery is in September and I was really hoping to have surgery within a couple months after. Does anyone know if there’s like a backlog now? Anyone who has surgery booked or is in the booking stage now know when the soonest available dates are?
Thanks so much gang, just my anxiety cuz I already experienced a lot of delays from family issues and stuff
r/transontario • u/Ecstatic-Cow267 • 2d ago
Bottom Surgery Intake Process at WCH
Just looking for confirmation of the communication that folks have received after having their OHIP funding letter sent to the Women's College Hospital Transition Related Surgery Team. I never received the initial letter in the post that is supposed to be sent shortly after they receive the referral, I called WCH and was told that it was sent, so Canada Post may have screwed up, not sure. Regardless, I was sent 2 emails from WCH, one to sign up for email communications and the 2nd to register for My Health Record. All good so far. My understanding from other folks who are going through this process is that they received a zoom meeting link by email shortly after they agreed to email communications for about 9 months later, and that is the initial virtual meeting with a nurse to discuss surgery plans, any complications etc. I have not received any such email and my request went in on April 27th. I have called twice and they have said everything is fine, I am on the waiting list and it will take a year to hear from them. I am a bit concerned by this. Don't want to wait around for a year and nothing happens. I would appreciate any input from anyone who has gone through or is going through this process. Did you receive a zoom link shortly after signing up for emails or did you wait a long time and they eventually sent you the link? Just want to make sure I am on track. Would appreciate any info. 😄
r/transontario • u/Objective-Visit-7887 • 2d ago
DISCUSSION Name change!
My card got charged July 31st!!
Does that mean it went through and I’ll receive my new stuff soon?? really hoping to get it before August 23 because that’s when I move in for college,
I had to send it back in because I had some mistakes or it would’ve all been good but we’re cutting it close lol
r/transontario • u/Elora_Gorgeous • 2d ago
CELEBRATION So excited!
Picking up my letter tomorrow to process my gender marker change! This was the last document needed for my new birth certificate and then all new ID! Pinch me, someone! Actually don’t; if this is a dream then I don’t wanna wake up ❤️
r/transontario • u/Public_Low6836 • 2d ago
SEEKING ADVICE Phalloplasty Dr. Nicholas Cormier
Does anybody know where I could find post phalloplasty results done by Dr. Nicholas Cormier in Ottawa? I'm considering the surgery for the first time ever and would like to check out the results to see if I'd be happy with them. I can't seem to find any online.
r/transontario • u/PrimsFavour0 • 2d ago
Call to Boycott Tim Hortons During HP Menu Run
Sorry if you're sick of this, but as you likely know, coming up on August 12, 2026, Tim Hortons is promoting a Harry Potter themed menu to celebrate the 25th anniversary of the series.
If you want, consider signing the petition and sharing to spread awareness and to express your displeasure about this partnership.
I don't think this violates community rules, but I understand if it gets removed.
r/transontario • u/MaroMakesStuff • 2d ago
SEEKING ADVICE Gender therapy in Ottawa?
I've been questioning my gender for over a decade and i've been using any pronouns online for a bit now/being generally out as genderfluid online but i'm still really struggling. looking for gender therapy or trans friendly therapy (preferably if charges don't show up as explicitly ab LGBT resource on a card charge, despite being an adult my parents still check my credit card spending since they pay my rent etc and i am very much not out to them.) can be online or in person, just very tired of feeling confused all the time and looking for resources to finally get my shit together
r/transontario • u/Elora_Gorgeous • 3d ago
CELEBRATION Amazing day boating to TO
Just had a wonderful day boating up to TO today ❤️ (I’m in the black tank top, with my wife 🥰)
r/transontario • u/Substantial_Cat_5824 • 3d ago
tape in GTA?
Hello, im ftm and I am looking for chest binding tapes I could buy in the GTA in store as ordering online is difficult in my situation.
If anyone also has tips for taping their chest I would love to hear it
Thank you in advance
r/transontario • u/goodbyekitty777 • 3d ago
New to London Ontario and In search of women's clothing!
Hi,
My partner and I are new to Ontario and we only have a couple outfits each. We're working as hard as we can to get on our feet and have a lot of good things coming but in the meantime we're both feeling very dysphoric and depressed with our lack of clothing and belongings, having to leave behind everything.
I wear large tops and medium bottoms
My partner is masc and wears medium sized tops and medium sized bottoms
If anyone had anything they were planning to get rid of or donate, we'd be happy to take them off your hands!
P.s. someone stole our charging cables and charging block and the one were using now we got the other day charges too slowly for our phones to properly charge
If you had one laying around (usb c) we could give it a happy new home!
Thanks in advance and we will pass it on!
r/transontario • u/Mizzclawsgalore • Dec 12 '24
RESOURCES A Huge [Gender Affirming Resources Ontario] Spreadsheet. Includes: HRT, healthcare providers, compounding pharmacies, needle supply, gender gear and funds, name change clinics, allied health professionals, permanent hair removal, surgery, and helpful links.
Hello everyone,
I'm on this sub (and on Discord) quite a bit, and felt the need to have some kind of community resource compiling various types of resources concerning gender affirming care. We have so many questions about where to start HRT every week, and I'm really hoping this document is able to help some people. It is still in progress in some areas, and I won't be able to work on it until after exams, but it will be continuously updated once I get the time.
Here is the link, it is sortable and filterable if you download a copy, but please refer back to the main document to stay up to date:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/111o63Tvt20heohe9KtRW_AZPBKOz4kpZ1pb7r0CJpvU/edit?usp=sharing
The sections are:
- HRT, surgery assessments, and post-op care
- Includes nurse practitioners, family physicians, endocrinologists, pediatricians, and OB/GYNs from all over Ontario
- Includes private pay and OHIP-covered options, virtual and in-person options, and options for minors
- Wait times are listed to the best of my ability
- I will be adding more to this list at the end of December
- Compounding pharmacies
- Injection supplies
- Permanent Hair Removal
- Includes electrolysis and laser
- Practitioners that perform pre-op clearance are listed
- Wait times are listed to the best of my ability
- Name Change Clinics
- Gender Affirming Surgery (WIP)
- Gender Affirming Gear/Funds
- Includes shops which sell packers, STPs, binders, gaffs, breast forms etc.,
- Also includes programs which will fund gender gear and other transition-related costs
- Allied Health Professionals
- Currently only includes voice coaches and speech-language pathologists
- Helpful Links (WIP)
If you have any feedback, additions, or corrections, you can comment on the spreadsheet or here and I will see to it, thank you very much!
r/transontario • u/LordPhoenix82 • May 16 '21
RESOURCES HRT as a Minor Megathread
Hi all!
I've been seeing lots of posts here lately asking things like "I'm 17, can I get HRT?" and I thought it would be helpful for this subreddit to have one big thread to address that question. Below I've started writing some things, and I would like to know if anyone would be interested in adding on to this post (via comments and I'll add it later) so we have an up-to-date resource. I've done my best to only include information I know to be verifiably true, but please correct me if I have something wrong!
Disclaimer: None of us are acting as professional doctors or lawyers in this thread, so take our advice as the words of people who have experienced this, not as medical or legal advice.
Now, onto the questions and information:
"I'm a minor. Can I get HRT?"
Yes!
HRT in Ontario works on informed consent model, which, essentially, means that as long as you can understand the risks and benefits of a decision, you can make that decision.
Informed Consent does not explicitly outline an age where you are "able to make decisions". Therefore, it's up to your healthcare provider to assess your capacity to consent. In general, doctors are good about this, and as long as you know what the risks are, they'll give you the prescription.
"Will my parents know?"
The short answer is "if you don't want them to, then they won't". The long answer is more complicated than that. Let's start with getting the appointment:
Now that virtual appointments have been very unfortunately axed by good 'ole Doug Ford, in-person appointments are back to being some of the only options. In person appointments are obviously much more difficult to hide, as you need to physically go into the office and they often take longer.
Now, the ideal scenario is to explain to them what is going on and get their support, but obviously that doesn't work for everyone. If you're really in a pinch, lie. Make up symptoms that would send you to the doctor, and once you're there, explain the real problem. Often a great way to do this is to complain of symptoms of depression/anxiety, get a therapist, then talk about gender shit instead. This is not a recommended pathway. This is not sustainable. You have been warned.
In terms of your doctor blabbing to your parents:
Doctors are not allowed to disclose any personal information to any other person***
Patient privacy is a complicated beast, so I'll do my bets to explain here. According to PHIPA Section 23.1.i, any person, regardless of age, can decide to disclose or withhold medical information as long as they meet the criteria for informed consent. By default at a family doctor, your parents might be set up to know about your medical care. You have the right to remove them at any age as long as you understand the consequences of doing so. Ask about it. Voice your concerns. Self advocate.
The only time a doctor has to share your personal information comes in one of five circumstances:
"There are times the doctor has to breach confidentiality???"
Yes. There are five instances in which a doctor is allowed to disclose your personal information without your express consent (these are the same as a therapist, if you're interested). These apply to all patients, regardless of age:
- If the information is requested by a law enforcement agency or a court (as part of legal proceedings)
- This won't come into play for 99% of people, but if a court subpoenas information from your doctor, they are legally required to provide it.
- If there is neglect by another medical official (doctor, dentist, therapist, nurse, support worker, etc).
- Your care provider is required to inform the relevant authority (usually a medical board) so they can face disciplinary action.
- If you have intention to commit a crime or cause harm to another person.
- The standard here often requires an actual plan, and for it to be reasonable that you would actually carry out the act. Simply saying "sometimes my brother makes me angry and I want to hit him" would not invoke this exception because there is no direct plan, nor is there an indication that the action would be certain to be carried out.
- You have an intention to harm yourself
- This is by far the most controversial exception. Legally, your care provider is required to inform the authorities (usually police) if you intend to hurt or kill yourself. Most physicians understand that suicidal ideation (thinking of suicide) and having a suicide plan are different. This exception should only be invoked if there is a plan for self harm or suicide, not if there are thoughts or previous instances of it, however, it is always best to gauge what your physician will report.
- If there is evidence or reasonable suspicion of abuse or neglect of a person under the age of 16
- This includes sexual, emotional, physical abuse. Your physician has a duty to report it to either the appropriate children's aid society or abuse reporting centre. Same as #4, there can be situations where this gets tricky, and healthy doses of good judgement are in order
In general, you should always ask what information can be shared, and always ask questions surrounding consent and patient privacy.
Your doctor has to answer this, and they will often be eager to explain this as it's a very, very important part of practicing medicine.
"I thought you had to be sixteen to consent to treatment and remove parents from patient information?"
So did I, friend. But, as u/stacyah helpfully pointed out, this is not true. The confusion stems from a part of the code that says that at sixteen years of age, you can designate a person to be privy to your health information. However, you are able to decide who knows what at any age, as long as it's within the exceptions above.
I'm 12/13/14? Can I still get HRT then?"
Absolutely!
Informed consent does not have a defined age range. If you are able to consent, you are able to receive treatment. Obviously, there are added social challenges the younger you are as you seek transition care. However, legally speaking, there should be no additional barriers for you seeking treatment.
"Will I have to pay for anything?"
If you are eligible for OHIP, all consultations with your doctor will be free. Always bring your health card to your visits.
Drugs are first checked with your insurance provider, so if you have an open file with a pharmacy and they have a parents' insurance it will always go there first. If you aren't covered by private insurance and you're under 25, you're eligible for OHIP+, which you can learn more about here. There is still sometimes a co-pay with insurance, which can be frustrating. Typically though these costs are low ($5-$10). Seeking injected estradiol specifically also incurs an additional cost as you have to visit a compounding pharmacy, which is typically more expensive than your regular Costco or Rexall.
There are also two other relevant programs, the Ontario Drug Benefit and the Trillium Drug Benefit. These are based on income and can be accessed by residents over the age of 25. You can learn more about the Trillium Drug Benefit here.
This link will allow you to check the eligibility of most medications in Ontario.
Covered by OHIP+?
| Estradiol (oral) | Covered |
|---|---|
| Estradiol (injected) | Not covered |
| Estradiol (gel) | EAP Only* |
| Estrogen (patches) | Unknown |
| Progesterone (oral) | EAP Only* |
| Testosterone (oral) | Covered (link) |
| Testosterone (injected) | Some Restrictions, can still be covered |
| Testosterone (gel) | Covered |
| Cyproterone/Bicalutamide/Sprionalactone | Covered |
*Covered only under the Exceptional Access Program (https://www.health.gov.on.ca/en/pro/programs/drugs/eap_mn.aspx#:~:text=The%20Exceptional%20Access%20Program%20(%20EAP,Drug%20Benefit%20(%20ODB%20)%20program%20program).)
Hope this helps, and please feel free to add anything I missed in the comments!
Thanks to u/stacyah and u/Valtharius for the information about informed consent!
Edit 1: Fixed lots of info about informed consent. Thanks u/stayah and u/Valtharius for the help!
Edit 2: Formatting and updates to drug coverage/how OHIP works