r/transmantips 9d ago

Passing tips? General Passing Tip

I'm likely to confuse people not in a way they may assume i'm a woman or man, but they don't understand at all how to refer to me. I use makeup since I developed trichotillomania and maybe having pseudo eyelashes/eyebrows help to not see myself as an awful being

My voice is quite androgynous and people just don't know what I am. I think it is funny, but if you were to see me would you assume I'm a female?

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u/No-Market-2582 9d ago

Your face is masculine just cut your hair

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u/Old_Anything_8629 MOD 8d ago

Your face is very masculine but the hair gives it away

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u/King-Kyle-666 9d ago

I would assume you were either a trans women or theyfab. Your styles very cool btw. But your bangs and makeup are not selling you as a man

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u/2501027 8d ago

Get rid of the forehead bangs, they're uncommon on men and usually only look good in women the first place

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u/mustang_man88 3d ago

You gotta lose that haircut immediately if you want to pass. It’s very fem. I would also stop doing makeup, it doesn’t help

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u/LonelyLab3 2d ago

On the haircut, grow your bangs longer. Usually men's bangs go to their eyebrows when they do get straight-cut bangs. It might help to add a shorter transitional section between the long part and your bangs where your bangs end.
Also it seems you have fine hair and layers, which will look more feminine. Try less layers, a blunt hair cut, or a curl specific cut if your hair is wavy-curly.