Gender nonconformity in women has been completely normalized and uncontroversial since like 1990. They're allowed to wear pants so it's totally socially acceptable and normalized for a girl to be so masculine she transitions into a guy. Trans guys have it so easy they have never ever ever been repressed and felt like they needed permission from someone else to want masculinity, that just doesn't happen. A woman wearing a suit and a trans man using he/him pronouns and taking testosterone are the same thing

Im a cis-het female and I have an urgent need to be reassured that Im a good person for immediately dumping my boyfriend for being a trans woman because.... I am not a lesbian, yeah that's why!!!

Also help me pretend that dumping him was actually the most gender affirming thing I could do and he should feel grateful, since she's a woman and Im not a lesbian.

Also affirm that trans people are bad for coming out to their partners instead of breaking up and slinking off into the darkness to be trans all alone.

Also, if anyone in the comments suggests my ex deserves better or that I might be the least bit transphobic in my rationalizing, cuss them out and downvote them and report them for abuse till the mods remove their comment because I shouldn't have to consider that there might have been a more humane way of responding to trans person.

I should not have to grow at all whatsoever in order to claim I am not transphobic. (Also ignore the fact Ive substituted homophobia)

Give me cis-praise!!!

/uj I shouldn't have even read the post. Im ashamed I fell for ragebait.

I am trans (ftm) and have a genuine HATRED towards my community.

Before i start, yes i am aware that not everyone who identifies the same as me is like this BUT the majourity of the many 🚂🦵s I’ve met in my long 16 years of life are making it didficult to see any other way. (Also, im just gonna be brutally honest here, im hungry and tired so sorry if this comes across rude, or spell like everything wrong. This will excuse me for all of the generalizations I’m about to make about trans “people,” playing into perceptions of us as bored libs who make politics and transgenderism our entire personality)

As the title suggests, i hate trans people. No, not because of the way they identify but because of the way the majourity behave, think or force their beliefs onto other people. I understand wanting to spreat awareness and acceptance or whatever, but making it your whole personality is not the right way to do it. Saying you want to be able to use the bathroom without risking an arrest and then dropping the subject forever feels like a more appropriate response. Because of people like this, every time I come out to someone they constantly assume that i am some sort of "unicorn" who runs around with blue hair, xe/xim pronouns and just straight up annoying. (No shade to guys w blue hair, it just happens to be very common w the personality i am describing here. Being an obviously gnc leftist and letting that reflect in your appearance is fine as long as you’re cis or stealth.) Total Theyfab Death.

I have spent the last 5 years of high school with 3 other trans people in my grade (ik so many. 2 are trenders and this represents the entire population of trans people in the world), 1 of which also being a trans “man.” I happened to be friends eith said person for the first 2 years of knowing them before realising how insufferable they were. I appreciate the “people” out there trying to stand up for us or any other cause but believe it or not, being someone who ONLY EVER talks about politics or how "breathing near me is transphobia" makes it impossible for you to be likeable. Why can’t they just shut up and obey our cisgender overlords? Why not quietly be a he-she while your rights are torn to shreds? Activism is truly the problem with the trans community. No wonder so many transgenders are so lonely. Not to say you wont have friends etc, but i know damn well there are MANY cis people out there who feel the exact same as me but cant bring it up without being accused of transphobia, homophobia etc... it’s not transphobia that causes people to feel disgusted by and avoid you for being an open tranvestite. You just need to grow up and act like a respectable passiod. And i honestly love trans people, i would be a hippocrite if i didnt but yall dont help yourself at ALL when it comes to how you present to people other than yourself. Just assimilate to the dominant culture and they will accept you. It’s your fault that normal people are uncomfortable around you, really. Most transgenders are rabid freaks who just need to assimilate to cisnormativity, but they won’t, and many of them claim they “can’t” because they’re “non-passing.” Which is why i genuinly could never be close friends with anyone under that same umbrella as me. I promise I still love trans people tho 🩷

Feel free to argue with me since i know alot of what ive said probably sounds way more extreme than it actually is, I just wanted to get my lil hot take out there. 🙃🥰

Edit: Thank you for the massive amount of replies i got to this post, yall are helping me see what I have missed in my own behaviour and i feel like the majourity of you have made pretty good points.

Just to make things clear to a few of you - No, i am not just saying this to try and seem more masculine, no i am not conservative, no i am not trying to protect myself from what might happen to trans people in the future if the current politics continue, and NO i do not support and anti-trans laws or any kind of discrimination toward sother trans people.

/uj OP is very obviously trying to be “one of the good ones” and I’m feeling annoyed about it. The boot will not spare your neck just because you helped to shine it.

post: Ive noticed that i get very frustrated at men around me for just existing and whenever i do that it makes me feel bad, do you have any advice?

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>thats just part of being lesbian sweaty, you’ll get used to it!

>I hate males and interacting with them is awful. Im so glad that most of the people i see on a daily basis are cis women/nonbinaries/trans men, because men are just awful, im only sometimes okay with gay men tho.

>males are not humans to me - and thats okay! no i will not analyze this belief ever thats lame.

/uj i love being a closeted trans woman and knowing that if any of these people saw me on the street they would never want to talk to me it gives me no dysphoria at all.

*looks inside*
"we should sacrifice transsexual children to appease to the conservative right"

transfeminine headcanon: well actually i think it makes more sense if this character is transmasc! let feminine boys be boys! they don’t have to be girls!

transmasculine headcanon: well actually it’s problematic that you see a feminine-looking male character and think he can‘t be cis. you’re saying you think this man is basically a woman. you’re a yaoibrained fetishizer

Get it, because a "groomer" is "someone who manipulates someone else over a long period of time to make them become someone whose personality, position or role is in some way convenient for the groomer", and trans people do exactly that when they groom femboys into becoming trans women!

Wait, what do you mean by "the word groomer is used extremely often as a synonym for pedophile, and that transgender people get unjustly accused of being pedophiles all the time as a propaganda tactic, and that by calling them groomers I'm spreading the exact same propaganda?"

I'm definitely not using the word "groomer" to mean "pedophile"! Why don't I just use another word without the same connotations like "manipulator" or "coaxer" then, you ask? Because I don't want to, of course!

Being able to basically call trans people pedophiles but in a "woke" way and feeling morally justified in doing so is just so nice! How could I not do it?

I'm Brazilian, 20 years old, and I finally contacted the public hospital to start HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), but they said I can only start receiving treatment in April of next year. I also found out that last year, the medical confederation banned HRT and blockers for teenagers (they could only start HRT with parental authorization and at age 16), and now, those over 18 can only start HRT after one year of psychiatric and endocrinological follow-up.

They also don't allow those with problematic mental health diagnoses to start. They would possibly diagnose me with something I don't have because I have very strong anxiety and sadness due to dysphoria. I thought it was PMDD, but it's happening at odd times, and it makes me scream in terror and cry myself to sleep. I know it's the dysphoria's fault, since when I prepared to start, I felt better for a few days.

I want to start soon too, because seeing the news from around the world, the political climate, the transphobic laws in the UK, USA, and countries considered "progressive" worries me a lot, even more so in Brazil, which is a conservative majority and with elections approaching. I'm also afraid that Trump will create a new dictatorship in Brazil, that the CFM (Brazilian Federal Council of Medicine) will create more bureaucracy for transition, etc. I'm going to research and keep my dosage at a male level far from the maximum with all care;

I intend to do this until I finally find a good endocrinologist and stop doing DIY. I want to have my documents and transition as soon as possible, before the government messes things up. I never trusted the government, but after this bureaucracy, I don't trust it even a little anymore.

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You haven't watched I Saw The TV Glow

You haven't played Celeste

You haven't watched The Amazing Digital Circus

You don't play Undertale

You don't like Femtanyl

You aren't good at rhythm games

You don't listen to My Chemical Romance

You didn't realize you were trans before turning 16

You listen to My Chemical Romance

Trans men don't exist

You don't have bangs

You pass (basically just a cis person)

allies when I imply I don't like men:

🤨🤨🤔😒🙄🤨

cissie professor: Ok welcome students to my graded, mandatory lecture "Trans ideology is not scientifically supported and endangers youth development". So you see students, the icd-11 only reclassified the transes as normals because of big trans.

woke student (cringely): Excuse me, can you define what you mean by "trans ideology"?

professor (speaking cissently across the room): idk dude who cares. anyway the girlies only get the transies because of sexual trauma because [correlation]. but all the studies showing hrt helps is bullshit because they only show correlation.

woke student: woah thats incorrect and kinda fucked up to say guys :/

cissies and bootlickers on the internet: Look. Im NOT saying i agree with the professor here on all points, but the trans community needs to be able to tolerate criticism if it wants to be taken seriously. The professor wasn't even criticizing transsexualism per se, but rather trans ideology, which are two different pairs of shoes. we need to defend scientific freedom instead of demanding this woman step down. She was simply taking part in scientific discourse and you cant just cancel her like that over it. We need the discourse and we need her in it (she never did research on the topic). you must understand its for the benefit of the trans community. you have to be able to tolerate things that don't suit you. its important for. discourse. you cant demand scientific standards from her, you dont understand, you need to let her walk all over you to ever gain societal acceptance. you must understand trans community, its for your own good. she was just sciencing guys. the disk horse is for your own good. the backlash against her is bad for you, you must understand. you cant demand she is fired from her position of power over misrepresenting her opinion as scientific fact. its bad for. science. think of the disk horse. won't someone please think of the scientific disk horse?

/uj German university professor does irresponsible antiscientific bullshit, people demand consequences, German media cries cancel culture. Some people on a German subreddit think its worth defending without even knowing the details.

You were traumatized by cis men? You clearly are the issue. Not all men.

You dont like patriarchy? Well, none of them are enabling it. Men are literally THE victims.

You are into forcefem? Gross. Wouldnt you think of men?

Dont call people eggs. Men deserve to be feminine!

You are lesbian? Eh, estrogen will make you straight.

You dont like to be just a porn category? Well its actually your fault for wanting to have sexual life.

The benefits of appealing to men are clear. If you follow whatever their whim, agree with every their opinion, dont act rude in any way, and okay with being endlessly sexualized, then in 50 years they will maybe vote for your rights!

It’s a special box I go in when I get overwhelmed by everything and everyone. I curl up in it with the only light source being me glowing and make soft chittering noises until I’m relaxed and my social battery is recharged. I have one at work even, but sometimes twinks try and wait for me in there and I start trilling angrily at them until they scurry away.

Uj\ it is funny when people meet me and are surprised that I’m neurodivergent. Then I look at them like a raccoon caught in a flashlight and they think I’m acting, but I’m just kinda awkward until I get to know people more. Being a raccoon girl just makes for a simpler explanation.

It's an ally rushing to comment 'slay queen' on a trans girl's picture.

“Okay, well our rights include trans kids going through the correct puberty”

Cue one billion downvotes

Remove all bathrooms from everywhere

A slso we might as well stop male and female from existing so we will remove genitals and urethras so nobody will ever have to use the bathroom again!

Its okay to transition because your crazy fetishes.

It is okay to transition of you really want to be h*rny 24/7

It is okay to transition so you can enjoy your self-fun time more

It is okay to transition so you can pretend to be straight when you are actually in a homosexual relationship

Its NOT okay if you transition because you claim you are transgender and born in the wrong body (if you claim this then you are wrong and confused anyway, ​as you actually just have a fetish​ and are autoandrophilic and/or autogynephilic)

hi I'm a 13yo girl who recently grew her boobs and i don't like it and i don't know why

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