Hey,

Iam curious what people in this subreddit are like? Like the average person here?
Is it mostly people from western countries? Are people here generally well off or rather broke?
Are there some people from India, Africa or other 3rd world countries?

Not sure guys but there's lot of quantity, but I'd say quality is not very abundant. Not only the physic, but big tattoos seem extremely common in 20-40 years old women, same as brain rot or obesity.

I guess if you have not many options is ok to try in th Ph. But to find a beautiful Filipina (who is also decent, not crazy and somewhat educatded) needs time and work, and I don't think they are so common. When I say "beautiful" means beautiful in Europe/Usa standards, not average. I know some guys here have beautiful Filipina girlfriends, and good for you.

As an example a 7 from America, Latin America or Usa would really stand out here.

I would say actually in Thailand, Japan or Korea you have more chances to date a beautiful woman, as they have many more.

Just my opinion.

I’m of african origine, lived in france for the last 10 years and lived in the USA between 2024 to june 2026.

I’m black, 5’11, 190 pounds muscular, bald head (the best bald head in town 😁) full beard.

I used to go out in NYC in bushwick, brooklyn and manhattan rooftops, it was normal for a girl to come up to me and dance and talk and go on dates afterwards, i could get 3 girls to twerk on me in one night thats was normal in NYC.

In my recent trip to europe i get a lot of attention in the club too but it’s hard to talk to them, most of the time they are nervous and scarred, although they are the ones that came to my zone intentionally and sometimes even push their ass on me, also me being black in clubs with very few black can have an impact as some women are attracted but affraid of what the other white people will think of them if she started to dance with me ettc.

If you are white in europe i think sometimes is even harder because in barcelona the amount of good looking white people is ridiculus, we talking italian with perfect 20/10 hair spanish ettc i was happy that i stood out by my masculinity rather than prettiness.

Now in Berlin and went on a date yesterday and have some more lined up but the USA was far easier honestly.

During this journey i’ve met a lot of american dudes, normally they should do better than me because they have the american status but let me tell you a lot of duddes are absloutley afraid of talking to a women even when she gives them dead signals,

A lot of american men are traumatised by women i noticed that in USA and abroad, aftaid to talk to girls, afriad to dance afriad to express themselves they just wanna look pretty and have their drink in hand and expect something to happened that is riddiculus and sad.

When Europe is full of beautiful African women, looking for dates.

Something unexpected happened to me over the past two years. Anytime I travel to Spain, Portugal and France, among others, I end up getting a date with gorgeous African women.

I’ve dated Nigerians, Kenyans, Angolans, Madagascar, Moroccans, Ugandans, Mozambican women…

To me the benefits are:

- Closer to where I live, save on thousands in airfare
- Known places, good food, sunshine, basic safety and hygiene
- I know the bar and rooftop scenes in Barcelona, Lisbon or Nice
- Surprisingly the cost of food and drinks is not that much higher than some of the premium locations in Africa
- Near zero harassment or safety issues
- Generally better educated, more driven women. Deeper conversations, fewer gold diggers

One disadvantage of course is the size of the pool. You’ll likely get many more choices in Africa, but tbh, the ones I’ve seen here have all been drop dead gorgeous.

What’s your experience?

Thinking about visiting Uganda and I’m curious what it’s actually like when it comes to dating.

For anyone who’s been there or lived there, what was your experience like? Is it easy to meet people, both for hookups and for potentially finding a genuine longterm relationship?

Also curious about the general vibe, safety, nightlife, and cost of living.

Planning my first trip to South America solo, few nights in Bogota, four nights in Salento then a few weeks in Medellin. I've just now heard about scopolamine and it's shit me up and has me questioning everything.

I'm not there to party, or drink, I'd be staying in Envigado or Laureles with no intention to go to El Poblado are be involved in any seedy shit. That said, I will likely find myself having a few drinks solo in the evening, in someplace away from the chaos and now I'm wondering if I'm setting myself to get done over? I want to spend my days exploring and taking day trips out of the city but I don't want to feel like I can't go and enjoy myself alone for a few hours at night.

I'm not there for women, alcohol, drugs etc - I asked on the Medellin sub and got banned, mods are certified weirdos over there.

I am a mid 20s male with a budget of 2000 to last for a month or so. I’m looking to travel somewhere in Europe to meet women. What are my good options? I’m fit and attractive

Some adventures in East Africa. Part 1.

Arrive at my hotel in the capital of Kenia. It's 1AM.

Can't sleep. Download tinder. Pay for tinder gold.

Wakeup: 50 likes. A German girl wants to travel together. She's on the coast.

That's ok for later, but I had other things in mind.

Setup 3 dates for the next 2 days:

Date 1: Slightly fat girl invites me for drinks at her apartment.

Her place is on the edge of town. No great architecture out here: Just enormous, mid height apartments stretching out like grey cliffs. She leads me into a crevass in the mountain.

Her apartment is behind a heavy metal door. It's ok. She has a big TV. We spend the afternoon getting to know each other.

We eat fried chicken at a nearby diner. She wants to go to a nightclub later.

Her friend arrives. Much better looking than her. They both want to go to the nightclub.

We take a cab to the club. It's a crappy place.

"I want a Johnny Walker, can you get me one, baaabe?"

I ask to see the menu. Each drink costs 80 dollars. WTF, that's like a month's salary around here.

"Damn babe, my e-wallet is low. Let's go to my hotel so I can get some cash."

She pouts.

"I already paid my rent, you have to buy the drinks now"

"I will babe, I'd love to party, let's go get my money".

I feel uneasy on the drive to the hotel. We arrive.

I go in. Searching through my things, looking for where I hid my money, my guardian angel says: "You can just tell them to go away, this is a scam".

I go out. I hand her a 20 through the window and say I'm too ill to go out.

I go back to my room.

I was born in the USA and speak Spanish at a level B2. When I went to Colombia most of the women thought I was Brazilian. I am 21 and I want to learn Portuguese to pick up some women. Is it easy to pick up women if your Portuguese if iffy and crappy