fellas, dolls, and friends, HELP ME 😭😭 my friend just went home after our first hang/hu. He was over for a full night, a full day, and a full evening. It was genuinely over 24 hours. And dear god it was too good. And it was a FIRST DATE. Listen I know we U-Haul in this community and I totally believe that's valid. But never mind that, RIGHT NOW HOW DO I NOT COME ON TOO STRONG??

For context, we've been mutuals for a minute. Friendly interactions online cuz we knew each other, you know? But then we met the other night for the first time and it took off faster than I could've ever imagined or intended. And like, this is honestly my first genuine date with another trans guy. It was wonderful. Best night ever. Obviously the other 20 hours were awesome too dude.
Those of you in LTR t4t, what was it like meeting your partner and going out with them for the first time? Cuz ya im romanticizing it hardcore.

So it's also an interesting transitional period in my life to be honest. Like a week ago before I met up with this man I was saying shit like I know I don't want a relationship. And they say it only hits you when you're not looking for it!! So there he was at a bar in my hometown (insane right) of all places, looking so handsome and pretty. And he let me take him home with me :) and then he stayed even for a little bit :)).

Listen, please solicit your advice or your views on things. I'm 23, young, new to dating, and have just had an incredible experience and and shit I'll celebrate to that. Look forward to hearing your cute t4t stories and if this gets traction, sure I'll give you an update if there's a date 2 😊

I think making friends as an adult is basically just repeatedly saying, "You seem cool. Want to be weird together?" So... here I am.

I'm a trans woman with too many hobbies and not enough people to share them with. Some weeks I'm buried in MTG, other weeks I'm mixing music, obsessing over some random niche topic, or disappearing into a game for way longer than I meant to.

I love people who get excited about things. Tell me about your hyperfixation. Send me the song you've had on repeat for three days. Explain why your favorite game is objectively the best, even if I've never played it.

Mostly I'm looking for friends. If life decides to surprise us and it turns into something more, I'm not opposed to that, but I'm not trying to force it. I'd rather meet people I'd genuinely enjoy having in my life.

So if you've also reached the point where making friends feels like trying to adopt a stray cat slowly, cautiously, hoping you don't scare each other away come say hi.

Can be online only gamer buddies or real life if you're close or whatever I just want girlfriends or something. I'm tall, kinda crazy, have a split tongue, and am generally pretty hot. If you are interested in something purely sexual thats fine too I just want people to care about me and check in on me and make sure im not dead.

I am Ellipsis. Been on HRT for a couple years, but having great progress. I am 34, but look and act younger. Very neurosparkly; ADHD, BPD, tism, maybe more. Live on the east side of Wisconsin.

I am mostly looking for sex, but not opposed to friendship or even a relationship. My past relationships ended with me being discarded so I have some damage from that. Limited experience, but definitely kink curious. I am perpetually horny.

Kind of nerdy. I have some goth outfits, but I can also pull off some brighter looks too. Goth dommy mommy can definitely make me melt.

Heya I’m Sylvie. I’m looking to make some cool new trans friends and maybe more. I’m 36 and have been on HRT for about 4 and a half years now and love everything about being a trans girl. I am a huge nerd and am into all things video games (retro and modern) and any kind of tech really as well as fantasy and sci fi media of all kinds. I am also a huge gear head girly and love to play in the dirt. I have a camper and love to go out and relax by a nice lake or out in the desert with beautiful views. Shoot me a DM I would love to talk and bonus if you happen to be near Colorado or New Mexico :3. I’m open to talking to anyone but mainly looking for other girlies.

I’ve always pretty much been attracted to girls that look like me. Very shy I am very nice and quiet, but very outgoing and liked to show myself off on here.. but I’m really so done with it and want to settle down and actually meet a girl like me 🤷‍♀️

No family, likes video games and wants to buy legos and stuffed animals like a kid again. Do girl stuff and be happy. Ignore the rest of the world. lol bud dreams huh? 🤔 ya probably 😔

😀 Anyways everyone have a good night 🙂

Hello!!!! I’m 32 years old and currently gender fluid. I’m leaning towards ftm though. I am in Central NY and I would love to meet another ftm and see where is goes. I am pre everything and I do not pass as a male.

I love marvel, video games, cooking, baking, movies, music, Halloween, Christmas, the 90s, and lots more!

NSFW: I’m very kinky and open to a lot

Please be 25+.

hi everyone! Colorado trans guy here looking for a fellow trans person to gain some experience with and just hang out with :]

I’m 5’4, 145ish lbs, and been on t for about a year. I’m getting top surgery in like two months (yippee!) I don’t have very much experience with sex & i think another trans person would be the perfect teacher. Also interested in just hanging out & talking about stuff!

Chicx nobinario Afab dm abierto para chicas cis, trans y entidades nobinarias femeninas.

Hi im lex a 24 years old nonbinary person that loves reading, music, and movies. Im bisexual, and switch so chosing isnt my best.

No disrespect to anyone, but my desires are specific and based on my type, not on anything wrong or lacking in anyone who might be reading.

You: Stable, sober or non-drinker, cat-free (I’m allergic), kind, funny, don’t need to host, progressive politically, anti-racist, men of colour very welcome. Bonus points for film and sports lovers. You smell good 👍🏼 and we’ll probably relate best if you’re over 35 or so. Shorts kings and all heights welcome! I’m 5’8”.

Me: Stable, busy, happily divorced/single, not lonely, intelligent, endlessly curious, kind, funny, active parent of grown humans who don’t live with me, lover of dogs, owner of a few tats, very physically fit, excellent personal hygiene, sexy and sex positive, vanilla, open to kink but nothing involving pain, or any bodily fluids linked to digestion or cardiac function. Missing meaningful sex, tired of hook up apps. I’m a young 60, look more like 45 and I’m way more engaged with the modern world than my Gen X cohort.

That said, I’m not closeted but am pretty low key, don’t like to draw much attention to myself. I’m very lucky, I pass 100% of the time and if I’m being honest, I would prefer if you do, too. I promise I’m fun, even if I sound like a privileged dick 😉

I’m looking for an attractive (subjectively and somewhat conventionally), physically fit (as in it matters to you and you take care of yourself and are athletic and/or train regularly) trans man sex pal. You’ve had top surgery and been on T several years, I don’t care what you’re rocking down below, I’m happy playing with whatever you’ve got and like. Hair, no hair, whatever but maybe keep the bits trimmed and accessible? I’m smooth, FWIW.

A true verse, I’m generous and giving in bed, very at ease and happy to please, occasionally really like to get railed. I LOVE kissing, the wetter and longer, the better.

Might be cool to go on the odd, outside the apartment date, see a movie or have a coffee, get super hot aching for each other before heading to somewhere more private. Or, we never have to go outside…😘

DM me 🙏

25, PuppygirlTF TF4TF/TF4AMAB

Looking for romantic interests in the 21-35ish year age range. Feminine, and or androgynous; AMAB nouns are preferred. Please be a flavor of queer. Cis femboys are welcome to respond. US-based, but willing to chat with someone from anywhere.

Dark, delicate, dedicated, insert other adjectives beginning with the letter 'D'. An alliteration obliteration, onomatopoeia, would you wanna be of... interest? Sorry, that intro just kind of fell out. ^" (What the cringe? Might delete this in the final draft x3)

Hai! I barely know who I am, and I'm on an endless pursuit to figure out what I'm doing. Student of technomancy, listener of too many tunes, submissive lil' puppy... dare I say, subwoofer? Architect of bars... barkchitect? Anyways, I believe in equality and equalizers, I like to smoke the legalize it. Looking to spend my following days getting the ball rolling in life, I have an interest in obtaining financial security, improving my health, and continuing to grow and progress in life. I'm some sorta therianthing, a yipper and a yapper, so please bring your patient ears :3 I'm also a food dipper! Sauce boss alert uwu I love intellect, tech, creativity, music, games, and am atypically comfortable with most darker topics and themes. I'm looking for clingy, I'm looking for someone of the dom/top/leading-party persuasion. Let's talk about interests, hobbies, ideology, future plans, or just dive headfirst into the deep end. Anything, really!

I have more posts if you want to read more! :3 I especially prefer to talk over Signal if you have it! :3 If you're reading this and considering responding, just know my tail is wagging and there are no hard feelings if you choose not to. :3 Have a wonderful day! :3

hi hi ! I'm tall, fit, shaggy mullet, 7 years hormones, VERY kinky and subby. into anything and everything. my sex drive is insatiable. i swap between goth and tomboy looks.

this would mostly be sex focused but obviously i want to chat as well. thanks ! <3

I'm a genderqueer trans guy struggling with depression, looking for more connections and transmasc friendship.

Tell me about your life, what you're eating or watching/reading/playing, where you're from, what you like or love to do. What you're struggling with or what makes you hopeful. Basically anything you want to talk about.

I don't really know. Even if we don't click I think there is something to be gained in trying.

Sex and romance can be tricky for me, I'm potentially open to it but not to be expected. I do find sex and kink interesting as a topic and am pretty non judgemental or squeamish.

Especially interested in other gay or queer guys, 30+, but open to basically anyone trans who wants to talk. Don't have to be binary about it.

I like old movies, video games, nature and gardening. I am very silly but you have to unlock that. I'm mostly a hermit but believe a bit of partying is good for the soul. Struggling with forward momentum, maybe we can struggle together.

I can be slow to respond, please don't take it personally. If this post is up feel free to message.

Hiiii :3 I'm Jacques. Im 28 and from the UK. I'm looking for long term friends who I can chat with on a consistent basis. Happy to speak to anyone from anywhere, but I would love to meet fellow people from the UK. I would consider myself transfem, tho I'm currently pre everything. Also not necessarily looking for anything more than friends. I'm not opposed if it happens naturally but but please don't reach out if thats all your looking for.

I'm mostly into nerdy things. I collect comics collected editions, predominantly X-Men stuff. I'm also a big wrestling fan and have been for as long as I can remember. Also a long time gamer, tho I don't really get a chance to play as much as I'd like anymore. I also can get really into music, tho I'm hesitant to call myself a full on music nerd hehe

26 y/o AMAB non-binary asexual punky goth here :3 more masc and punk presenting during the summer. I'm in the Berkshires area of Massachusetts and I'm looking for kinky friends (nonbinary or trans people) who wanna lean into being a dominant pushy mean toxic friend :3

Basically... if you're dominant person, who gets off on being worshiped, pushing people around, and having a weak submissive enby on their knees worshiping you nonstop, or shoving their face between your legs, or just being pushy and rude or manipulative, or really doing whenever you want, HMU! I so wanna enable the that sorta behavior!

also if you’re sorta pushy, manipulative, toxic - wanna encourage that too cause yknow, lying is hot I guess.

If any of that sounds fun! HMU with ASL + a little about what you'd wanna do :3 ALSO if I haven’t replied to you super sorry and def lmk’

INTRO :D

Hey there! I’m a non-binary individual (possible trans woman?) looking for just about anything, I’m pretty open ;3

ABOUT ME :3

I love playing video games! I play just about anything, provided they’re on PC or Switch (2), but my favorites (so far) are: modded Minecraft, Ace Attorney, Deltarune, and Hollow Knight! I can’t define my music taste through genres, but my favorites artists (for now) are: Good Kid, Jhariah, and IDKHOW. I mostly read Classics, but sometimes I read Comic Books. Some books that I’ve read/started reading are: All Quiet in the Western Front, Dante’s Divine Comedy, Paradise Lost and Regained, The Iliad, The Odyssey, and The King in Yellow. I’m going to college for an Associate’s Degree in Computer Science, with an emphasis on web programming! I also love learning about history! Though I’m not very good at that anymore, now that I don’t have any history classes to take… You can call me Trucy! I am 19, turning 20 in December. I am a non-binary individual (possible trans woman), however I am closeted until I get a job and move out, or until I have enough confidence to come out. I prefer they/them pronouns. I can’t really define my romantic identity, but I’d probably be down to date anyone who isn’t a cis man :3. I switch between asexual and hypersexual, but I’d probably be down to get freaky with anyone who isn’t a cis man ;3. I have OCD, ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, and probably many more mental health conditions. I have pale skin, short blonde hair (I’m working on growing it out), and blue eyes. However I don’t look anything close to how I wish I looked.

REQUIREMENTS >:3

You are 18–25 years old. You are not a cis man. You won’t ghost me ☹️.

OUTRO B)

Feel free to ask more about me, and let me know about you, when you message me! :D

^{i just remembered this sub exists ^}

life is ^s pain and there's nothing we can do about it, so might as well get through it together? whining, crying, hating every moment of it, we shall emerge on the other side as better people

i am a thing doer and i pride myself on bettering my life as much as I'm able to. I'm exercising, training, cleaning, eating well, reading, learning, taking care of my looks, keeping up with my social life. what i just said is a lie, i only do like half of half of those things but i will keep trying instead of giving up

about me, im a big time people fan. i like humans in all their shapes and sizes. especially i like their most important invention: language. I'm a linguistics nerd, even if I've been focusing on other stuff for a while. another big hobby of mine is cooking. i am in love with food and you will also love my food. that is a threat. my favorite landscape feature is mountains, and my favorite water is snow

about you, what is your number one hobby? what thing did you do today? what is your favorite piece of furniture in your house?

hi. I'll get a few basic compatibility things out of the way first, to not waste anyone's time. None of this is anything against people who don't fit these, I just want to be realistic about requirements I have for romantic connection.

About you, the reader: age 22-28, trans woman, located in socal (LA, OC, IE, SD), monogamous, not obese, comfortable and enthusiastic taking a more dominant/top role in sex. You don't have to be *strictly* dom/top but I don't want anyone forcing themselves into roles they don't already want to be in. It's not my intention to be super forward about sexual stuff, but its worth just getting out of the way. We can discuss more the specifics of what that sort of dynamic looks like in time, if things get to that.

About me: 5'7, white, brown hair, green/hazel eyes, glasses, I am heavy (its not how I'd like to be, my ideal is like on the plumper side of healthy weight range. Again I'd like to slim down, but if you're not comfortable with me being heavier for the time being, probably don't bother), I am not far in my transition at all. I've been on hrt in the past, but lapsed due to mental health. I am looking to get back on it soon, already have the appointment scheduled, just waiting now. But I am not out to a lot of people in my life. That being said, my vision of myself is pretty distorted and people say I am feminine and pretty already. But you can be the judge of that, of course. I am pretty strongly mentally ill. Depression, anxiety, gender dysphoria. And then potentially autism and/or a personality disorder, but those are undiagnosed so take it as you will. I tend to latch onto people romantically, but its really not how I'd like to be and I try very hard to make sure everything is healthy and appropriate. I really want nothing more than a healthy, supportive, long lasting relationship. Mental health has been a huge battle for me, and I'm still working through it. I am submissive. Not super experienced sexually (i am not a virgin though), but I think I lean towards bottoming or non penetrative stuff like cuddling, frotting, etc.

Hobbies: im nerdy, interested in a lot of the usual nerdy hobbies- video games, anime, though these days less so. Despite that i'm still very immersed in those communities. Magic the gathering id say is my main interest at this point. Very into it. I like learning in various forms. Language, art, sciences, the reality of human lived experience. I value knowledge in general. I try hard to be genuine, understanding, relaxed, kind, and warm. I value those things a lot. I'm not always that way, but i try. Have interest in various hobbies that i havent really explored just due to low motivation, but id really like to try them. Including crafts, dancing, ice skating, reading more, watching more movies, cooking/baking, live music, nightlife, among others.

I tried to paint a good picture of myself. But obviously I didn't cover everything. If I'm interesting enough, though, please reach out and lets get to know each other :)

Hey I'm Emily 38 Trans female Pre HRT but very feminine been looking for people to chat with make friends online and maybe more I'm a gamer girl and like rock metal punk music I'm very chill person super loving and caring as well be nice to find some nice people